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Boss Falsely Accuses His Employee Of Theft, Losing His Only Chance At A Liver Transplant
The phrase “don’t bite the hand that feeds you” is a classic piece of advice for a reason. It’s a simple, unspoken contract: if someone is helping you, the least you can do is not actively try to ruin their life. It’s a pretty low bar for human decency…
But what happens when the person you’re about to save with a piece of your own liver doesn’t just bite the hand, but tries to sever it completely? One man was preparing for a selfless, life-saving surgery. But just days before the procedure, his ‘thank you’ came in the form of a police officer at his door.
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A man selflessly agreed to donate a piece of his liver to his partner’s ailing boss
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But just one week before the surgery, his partner was arrested on false theft charges filed by the boss’s family
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In response, the man immediately called the hospital and canceled the life-saving transplant
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Months later, after the charges were dropped, the boss died, having never found another donor
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It also came to light that it was the boss’s wife who had been stealing the money and tried to frame the donor’s girlfriend
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The man has been harassed and called slanderous names by the family of the deceased, but has also been consumed by guilt over his decision
This story starts with an act of incredible generosity. The OP was about to become a real-life hero by donating a piece of his liver to his partner’s ailing boss, a selfless act that was set to save the man’s life. The surgery was scheduled, everyone was thrilled, and it seemed like a beautiful story of community and kindness was about to unfold.
But just one week before the surgery, the ‘thank you’ came in the form of flashing blue lights. The police showed up to arrest his partner, based on a flimsy accusation of theft from the very man who was about to receive a piece of the OP’s liver. The evidence? Grainy CCTV footage of her doing her job. The police themselves were so unconvinced they basically told the couple it seemed like a scam.
Our hero’s response was immediate and absolute: he called the hospital and canceled the surgery. Six months later, the bogus case against his partner was unceremoniously thrown out of court. But just a week after that, the boss died, having never found another donor. Now, the narrator is said to have caused the man’s death by the boss’s friends and family, a relentless harassment campaign that has him guilt-ridden.
This is where the narrator is now trapped, consumed by a crushing guilt and wondering if he let pettines cause the boss’s death. But the story has a crucial, heartbreaking twist he didn’t consider at the time: it was the boss’s wife who was the real thief and had set his partner up. His “selfish” choice turned out to be the right one for him after all.
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The OP’s decision to become a living liver donor was an act of extraordinary generosity, a fact that is often understated. This isn’t a minor procedure; it’s a “major surgery” that, as Johns Hopkins Medicine explains, can last four to six hours and involves a multi-day hospital stay and a recovery period of “several weeks to months.”
He was offering a piece of his body and months of his life to save someone, a massive sacrifice considering that, according to the UK’s NHS, around 650 people are on the waiting list for a liver transplant at any given time.
Crucially, the decision to donate an organ is a gift, not a contract, and donors have the absolute right to change their minds at any point, for any reason. As the National Kidney Foundation explains in the context of living donation, the entire process is voluntary. Transplant programs have strict protocols and donor advocates in place to ensure that a potential donor is not being coerced.
They should feel 100% comfortable with their decision, right up to the moment of surgery. The narrator’s decision to withdraw his consent, especially under such extreme duress, is a right that is built into the ethical framework of organ donation.
Organ donation is built on a foundation of goodwill and trust. By falsely accusing the donor’s partner of a crime just days before the surgery, the recipient’s family obliterated that foundation. In fact, the immense psychological distress caused by the false arrest would have almost certainly led the hospital’s transplant team to postpone or cancel the surgery themselves to protect the donor’s welfare.
Do you agree that his choice wasn’t “pettiness” but rather a rational response to an act of profound betrayal? Let us know what you think in the comments section!
The internet unanimously agreed that he was not to blame, and the family only had themselves to blame
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Drop Bear from Hell 1 month ago
The only person to blame in all of this is the wife who committed a crime, tried to frame someone else then admitted nothing until it was too late. She's the s*****g in this case and solely to blame for her husband's death.
Zoe Vokes 1 month ago
It’s insane that she would accuse the wife or the donor a week before the operation was scheduled to happen if she didn’t want it to be cancelled.
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Ace 1 month ago
It's a terrible burden to put on someone that they are responsible for a death because they did not agree to be a donor. All else apart, any surgery carries risks, the OP was in no way obliged to take those risks. Clearly the boss and/or his wife bear sole responsibility for pissing off a potential life-saving doner in this fashion. I get it that the OP will feel bad about this, but in reality he is absolutely blameless,
Zoe Vokes 1 month ago
I doubt that everyone calling him a m******r has been tested for being an anonymous kidney donor themselves. If they haven’t been tested and are unwilling to go through an operation to save someone’s life themselves, then they can shut the hell up expecting it of others. A donation is an incredibly big ask for someone to go through. There are risks. The donor will be ill for a while. Nobody is entitled to an organ from someone. It’s a kindness, not a obligation to be a donor.
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Drop Bear from Hell 1 month ago
The only person to blame in all of this is the wife who committed a crime, tried to frame someone else then admitted nothing until it was too late. She's the s*****g in this case and solely to blame for her husband's death.
Zoe Vokes 1 month ago
It’s insane that she would accuse the wife or the donor a week before the operation was scheduled to happen if she didn’t want it to be cancelled.
Load More Replies... Ace 1 month ago
It's a terrible burden to put on someone that they are responsible for a death because they did not agree to be a donor. All else apart, any surgery carries risks, the OP was in no way obliged to take those risks. Clearly the boss and/or his wife bear sole responsibility for pissing off a potential life-saving doner in this fashion. I get it that the OP will feel bad about this, but in reality he is absolutely blameless,
Zoe Vokes 1 month ago
I doubt that everyone calling him a m******r has been tested for being an anonymous kidney donor themselves. If they haven’t been tested and are unwilling to go through an operation to save someone’s life themselves, then they can shut the hell up expecting it of others. A donation is an incredibly big ask for someone to go through. There are risks. The donor will be ill for a while. Nobody is entitled to an organ from someone. It’s a kindness, not a obligation to be a donor.
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