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There's something special about sharing an inside joke that only you and a handful of other people actually understand. It's like having VIP passes to the backstage of a very elite comedy club. One short sentence and everyone starts laughing. Except, of course, for the poor soul who just stares blankly, wondering what the heck they just missed. As soon as someone starts explaining it to them, the humor is lost.

That's the vibe over at an online community where feigned intelligentsia, geek things, and offbeat laughter are the order of the day. The Delusions of Adequacy page is filled with "vague and mostly harmless posts" that only certain people will truly get. And as the mods warn: "If you need it explained, you won't understand." Bored Panda has put together a list of the page's best ones, for you to scroll through while you contemplate your own inadequacy.

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Like All Holidays, I Hate Halloween, But This I Like Xd

Like All Holidays, I Hate Halloween, But This I Like Xd

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    If Nationalists Go Global Then Who Are They Going To Start Wars Against, That's The One Thing Nationalists Know How To Do! Xd

    If Nationalists Go Global Then Who Are They Going To Start Wars Against, That's The One Thing Nationalists Know How To Do! Xd

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    #3

    And Also Why Isn't It Declining Faster?

    And Also Why Isn't It Declining Faster?

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    Wiktionary defines "delusion of adequacy" as the belief that one is doing a competent job when one is actually incompetent. The phrase was first coined by American writer and Broadway theater critic Walter Kerr in 1951.

    "Mr. Robinson is not up to the course he has set for himself. In the play, the character concludes by giving up his dreams of overnight stardom and deciding to learn his trade from the bottom up. All Mr. Robinson can honestly do now is to take his own advice. At the moment, he is suffering from delusions of adequacy," Kerr wrote in a New York Herald Tribune review of a Broadway play called Buy Me Blue Ribbons. He was referring to Jay Robinson, the play's producer and star.

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    A modification of "delusion of grandeur," the phrase has since stuck.

    #4

    Also, The United States Have Oil

    Also, The United States Have Oil

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    Do You Want Terminators, Because That's How You Get Terminators

    Do You Want Terminators, Because That's How You Get Terminators

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    Correcting People Is An Annoying And Fun Activity You Can Do From Home Xd

    Correcting People Is An Annoying And Fun Activity You Can Do From Home Xd

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    There's something called the Dunning-Kruger effect, and it's pretty much the same as delusions of adequacy.

    "The Dunning-Kruger effect is a cognitive blind spot where people with low ability overestimate their competence," explains Fast Company. "The theory has its critics, but three decades of qualitative data and observations in hundreds of organizations back this up: The worst bosses often believe they’re crushing it, while employees are silently unraveling."

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    #7

    Think About That!

    Think About That!

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    #8

    Which Is Why Everyone Hates Insurance Companies And Everyone Loves The Fire Department

    Which Is Why Everyone Hates Insurance Companies And Everyone Loves The Fire Department

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    #9

    Church Is Honestly The Worst Bookclub Ever, If It Wasn't For The Wine No One Would Go Xd

    Church Is Honestly The Worst Bookclub Ever, If It Wasn't For The Wine No One Would Go Xd

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    Fast Company goes on to explain that bosses with delusions of adequacy often aren't acting out of malice but rather a lack of self-awareness. That's because they're praised by the very people who are too afraid to say what’s really on their minds.

    "Instead, they tell their boss what they think will keep them in their good graces—or out of their crosshairs—which only reinforces the boss’s belief that they’re a rockstar leader," the site notes, adding that bad leadership isn’t always intentional—it’s often about blind spots and unchecked power.

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    #10

    Yeah, Yeah, The Bible [is bad], Where's My Free Ice Cream Already?

    Yeah, Yeah, The Bible [is bad], Where's My Free Ice Cream Already?

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    #11

    Are We Talking In One Sitting Or Can I Get A Doggy-Bag For The Leftovers?

    Are We Talking In One Sitting Or Can I Get A Doggy-Bag For The Leftovers?

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    #12

    The Holy Grail > Game Of Thrones, It Is Known!

    The Holy Grail > Game Of Thrones, It Is Known!

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    The experts over at The Decision Lab warn that when you "feel like you're excelling at something new or challenging, you might accidentally fall prey to the belief that you have stumbled upon one of your talents." In other words, you might suffer from delusions of adequacy. "In reality," they add, "you may just be a poor performer, finally approaching average levels."

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    They further note that being blind to our unique strengths can have a negative impact on our our well-being and mental health.

    #13

    Why Just Like? I Think We Should Agree To Let Him Be A Teenage Girl If That's What He Wants

    Why Just Like? I Think We Should Agree To Let Him Be A Teenage Girl If That's What He Wants

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    #14

    The Right Is Deliberately Undermining Public Services That People Love Inorder To Put More Money In The Pockets Of Those Who Already Have Too Much

    The Right Is Deliberately Undermining Public Services That People Love Inorder To Put More Money In The Pockets Of Those Who Already Have Too Much

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    #15

    Well, Obviously We Can't Have Graffiti That Might Incite Thinking About Our Leaders Priorites

    Well, Obviously We Can't Have Graffiti That Might Incite Thinking About Our Leaders Priorites

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    What the experts are referring to is something commonly known as imposter syndrome, or persistent feelings of being a fraud.

    "People suffering from imposter syndrome may feel undeserving of their own success or may worry constantly about what will happen when others realize the 'truth.' The effect can also cause you to become disappointed when your self-recognized 'talents' are not recognized by others," The Decision Lab site explains.

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    #16

    Snowflake Billionaires Afraid That Words Will Hurt Their Little Feelings Xd

    Snowflake Billionaires Afraid That Words Will Hurt Their Little Feelings Xd

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    #17

    Or To Put It Another Way, One Wants The Past To Be The Future, The Other Wants An Actual Future

    Or To Put It Another Way, One Wants The Past To Be The Future, The Other Wants An Actual Future

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    #18

    Capitalism Is Great!

    Capitalism Is Great!

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    "Thinking you are better than you are at something can cause you to miss out on opportunities to learn from truly knowledgeable and skilled people," they warn.

    So, if you believe that you are already doing an incredible job and excelling, you’re less likely to ask for feedback that might actually help you improve your actual performance.

    "On the flip side, thinking you are average at something when you really demonstrate great skill can cause you to miss out on opportunities for self-advancement or to guide and mentor others," the add.

    #19

    Laugh In The Face Of The Absurdity Of Existance Xd

    Laugh In The Face Of The Absurdity Of Existance Xd

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    #20

    Under The Thumb Of Capitalist Rule

    Under The Thumb Of Capitalist Rule

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    #21

    If You Allow Threaths To Work, You Will Be Threathened Anytime A Bully Wants Something

    If You Allow Threaths To Work, You Will Be Threathened Anytime A Bully Wants Something

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    According to The Decision Lab's experts, overconfident people, or those with delusions of adequacy, are extremely resistant to being taught because they firmly believe they know better. But on top of this, they are also guilty of sharing the most information.

    "When these individuals confidently announce their stance, we are more likely to believe them, regardless of whether or not the information is well-founded," warns the site, adding that, "On a global level, the Dunning-Kruger effect can have dangerous consequences, whether that be in education, healthcare, or politics."

    #22

    Hypocrisy At Peak

    Hypocrisy At Peak

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    #23

    It's Not A Wonderful Life After All

    It's Not A Wonderful Life After All

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    As A Middle Aged White Man, I Approve This Message For Our Culture Xd

    As A Middle Aged White Man, I Approve This Message For Our Culture Xd

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    To avoid falling victim to the Dunning-Kruger Effect, or delusions of adequacy, experts advise that you be open to feedback and don't always assume that you're great at something.

    "Remember that thinking that you’re bad at something likely puts you in the middle of the pack because it means you have enough insight to recognize your own incompetencies," explains The Decision Lab. "Being overconfident could also signify that you have some growing to do. It is important to take a step back and seek input from other sources." 

    #25

    The Nation State As A Concept Has Played Out It's Usefulness

    The Nation State As A Concept Has Played Out It's Usefulness

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    #26

    A Threat To Their Ability To Wage War On Their Neighbours, Which Is Russia's Only Talent

    A Threat To Their Ability To Wage War On Their Neighbours, Which Is Russia's Only Talent

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    #27

    Copying His Buddy's Homework But His Buddy Is Also A Sociopathic Dictator

    Copying His Buddy's Homework But His Buddy Is Also A Sociopathic Dictator

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    #28

    The Puns Of Your Hall Is Somewhat Lessened Of Late

    The Puns Of Your Hall Is Somewhat Lessened Of Late

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    #29

    I Think They Understand It Perfectly, Who Deserves To Be Crucified More Than The God Of Greed And Over-Consumption?

    I Think They Understand It Perfectly, Who Deserves To Be Crucified More Than The God Of Greed And Over-Consumption?

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    #30

    If You Think Things Got Worse On Your Watch, Guess Whose Fault It Is Xd

    If You Think Things Got Worse On Your Watch, Guess Whose Fault It Is Xd

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    #31

    I Mean She's Not Wrong, Maybe Poison Ivy Was The Hero We Needed All Along?

    I Mean She's Not Wrong, Maybe Poison Ivy Was The Hero We Needed All Along?

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    #32

    The Future Is Now!

    The Future Is Now!

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    #33

    All Worries Is My New Mantra! Xd

    All Worries Is My New Mantra! Xd

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    #34

    When A Leader Uses The Military To Control The People That's How You Know They're A Dictator

    When A Leader Uses The Military To Control The People That's How You Know They're A Dictator

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    #35

    Ask Yourself, Which Was There First?

    Ask Yourself, Which Was There First?

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    #36

    The Only True Evil Is Acting Evil When You Have The Sense To Understand It Is Evil

    The Only True Evil Is Acting Evil When You Have The Sense To Understand It Is Evil

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    #37

    Nihilism Was Created By Big Nihilism To Sell More Nihilism Xd

    Nihilism Was Created By Big Nihilism To Sell More Nihilism Xd

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    #38

    Psa: If Your Country Doesn't Give You This Right, There's Something Fundementally Wrrong With It, The More You Know

    Psa: If Your Country Doesn't Give You This Right, There's Something Fundementally Wrrong With It, The More You Know

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    #39

    Earth Needs To Be Cancelled Xd

    Earth Needs To Be Cancelled Xd

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    #40

    Now I Get Why The Aviators Xd

    Now I Get Why The Aviators Xd

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    #41

    This Is Mariah Carey's Reserves Spot In H**l I Bet Xd

    This Is Mariah Carey's Reserves Spot In H**l I Bet Xd

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    #42

    "Lawn-Care" Xd

    "Lawn-Care" Xd

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