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“Dog-Friendly, Child-Free” Pub That’s Been Banning Kids For 11 Years Sparks Heated Debate
“Dog-Friendly, Child-Free” Pub That’s Been Banning Kids For 11 Years Sparks Heated Debate
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“Dog-Friendly, Child-Free” Pub That’s Been Banning Kids For 11 Years Sparks Heated Debate

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With only four words, a British pub made millions of enemies, attracted new customers, and started a conversation on (un)acceptable family outings.

On April 14, X user @ItsThatEm posed next to a sign that caught his eye while walking in Fishpool Street, St Albans, Hertfordshire, East of England.

Located outside of Lower Red Lion pub, the chalkboard read “Dog-friendly—Child-free.”

Highlights
  • A British pub's "Dog-friendly—Child-free" policy ignites online debate, seen by 75M people.
  • The Lower Red Lion in St Albans distinguishes itself by welcoming dogs but not children, unlike nearly all other local pubs.
  • The controversial stance sparked outrage and support, underlining societal divisions on public spaces.

“Found my new local,” @ItsThatEm wrote in approval of the pub’s child-free policy.

In the following hours, the post reached millions of users’ screens. As of today (April 22), the picture of the controversial sign was seen by 75 million people.

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    Image credits: Lower Red Lion/Google Maps

    “I was surprised it went quite as far as it did,” admitted landlord David Worcester, who runs the Lower Red Lion pub.

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    “I have no objection to children in any other pub, ever; I just don’t want them in mine.

    “I enjoy a game of pool but I don’t want a pool table in here, either.”

    As he told presenter Jonathan Vernon-Smith, the pub’s policy has existed for “about 11 years,” as per the BBC

    Worcester decided to place that sign outside following complaints from parents who stated they were only informed about the rule after entering the establishment with their little ones.

    For Worcester, the presence of children disrupts the stress-free atmosphere he wants to create for customers in the pub.

    “I just want to create an environment where my customers can sit and relax; it only takes one child to kick off, and that spoils it for absolutely everybody.

    “We’ve got upwards of 40 pubs in St Albans, all of which are child friendly, and most are dog friendly. I believe I’m the only one in the area that isn’t.”

    The sign reminded customers that their furry friends were more than welcome inside, but children would have to wait a few years before they could enter the pub

    Image credits: ItsThatEM

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    Despite this, the sign sparked outrage among many social media users, who argued that no bar should enforce child-free policies.

    As some people pointed out, parents don’t want to give up the activities they enjoyed before having children, and sometimes, they cannot hire a babysitter or nanny.

    “It’s getting harder and harder to go on a holiday these days as more accommodation places are banning kids. I don’t think it should be allowed, but at the end of the day, if they don’t want or need our business, then that’s fine. I will spend my money where it’s appreciated,” a critic penned.

    “Dog people are making me hate dogs,” somebody else wrote, while another sarcastically added, “But dogs barking and sniffing all up on people and peeing in the middle of a place with food is perfectly acceptable.”

    “I have no objection to children in any other pub, ever; I just don’t want them in mine,” said pub landlord David Worcester

    Image credits: LowerRed

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    On the other hand, some showed full support for the pub’s policy, citing children’s unpredictable and sometimes uncontrollable behavior as justifications for barring them from entering the establishment.

    “I’m all for this! Nothing worse than trying to have a quiet drink or a meal even at a restaurant with friends and some child/children kicking off, running around, etc, and the parents doing nothing about it,” a separate person said.

    Another parent expressed their approval of the idea, writing, “I have kids and I get it…. People deserve to go out without kids screaming their heads off.”

    Others maintained that pubs aren’t suitable environments for children, therefore making the ban necessary. “As someone who spent way too many hours in pubs when I was a child watching drunken brawls, people cheating with other patrons’ wives, this is only a good thing…” an X user shared.

    As a picture of the sign went viral, people quickly jumped to the comments to voice their opinions regarding the pub’s child-free policy

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    Meanwhile, many drew parallels between this case and other child-free private spaces, such as adults-only hotels. 

    “It’s a choice. There are child-free hotels, too. If the landlord can make a living this way, he should be able to make this an option for his business. Seems there are a lot of other pubs nearby as child-friendly alternatives, which is an important point.”

    This isn’t the first time that a restaurant or pub has tried to avoid meltdowns from their youngest customers. In March, a restaurant in New York took a different approach by rewarding parents of “well-behaved” kids with a discount.

    Additionally, some cruise lines, like Virgin Voyages, offer adults-only experiences for those who don’t wish to sail the seven seas with children.

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    “I’m looking for a child-friendly, dog-people-free place,” a social media user wrote

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    Nizumi
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief - walk a block - there'll be another pub. Go to that one instead if a child-free space feels offensive.

    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, don't get the hate this has garnered at all. Not every place has to cater to every single person (at least within legal means). Heck in many cases it's better to not cater to "everyone" since you can then give a more focused service.

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    Allison Slagle (Randomosity)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another case of entitled parents who think the world should revolve around them and their screaming brats. Just go to another pub and move on with your life. Problem solved.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? There are plenty of places you can take your kids/pets.

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    Phoenix Burn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely behind this. I mean it's not for me, I have children and a wife allergic to dogs, but sounds like a lovely spot for those customers. Good on them, I say.

    WonderWoman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I daresay too many parents today do not parent their children. If you allow your children to run amok, to fiddle with things that are not theirs, to scream and shout while in public YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. You want to raise free range children - that is fine, just keep them on your own range.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf is going through that man's mind- 'I don't say this often but I genuinely hope they go out of business.' And then the tweet below- 'Pro extinction culture is wild.' Wow, these people are literally insane.

    Elio
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans are stupid and see 8 billion people and all the global warming and think we're underpopulated. This pub had the no kids rule for 11 years and no one gave a f*ck, but since some weirdos on the internet blew it out of proportion, it is now the #1 most serious issue that one pub doesn't allow kids and is the same as wanting all of humanity to go extinct.

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    Lunar Rat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in St Albans, where this pub is, it may be my new favourite pub. I've never even been in it before.

    Karl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pubs are where adults go to get drunk and behave like children. No problem with this policy as I don’t want to go out drinking where I have to moderate my language or topics of conversation. To put it another way, a pub is a place where adults go to take a highly dangerous and intoxicating d**g. It is not a place for kids - especially in the evening.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on whether you're talking about the bar or the restaurant attached to the pub. Most pubs (here at least) have restaurants that are family friendly. Kids aren't welcome in the "adult only areas" though - at the bar or at the poker (slot) machines.

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    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a child, I like child free places, my partner has dogs, we like dog friendly places. If you think a child free, dog friendly place is a problem then there’s a really simple answer, don’t go there.

    Manny
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And for those parents that are griping about this and say they can't afford a babysitter than maybe you shouldn't go out.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40 pubs in that town and people are kicking off? Its not the people with children who are under represented there

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is having ONE space that dogs can be but kids cant that much of an issue??

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially since if the opposite happened nobody would bat an eye

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    Deery Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh my goodness the internet needs to call its tits! no one hates children, lol i think everyone deserves a child-free place where they dont have to worry about tripping over a screaming creature covered in snot and sticky goo.

    Just_for_this
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a parent, i love child free spaces.

    Id row
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would actually pay extra to be in a child-free atmosphere. I'm not really a dog person, but love seeing a good boy out and about as long as they're friendly. I don't mind them in a business at all. They're much better behaved and quieter than children for sure.

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Former food server here. I would go to this place in a heartbeat! With so many places that tolerate bad behavior in children & their entitled parents, give me a dog any day. Bravo 👏👏👏

    C P
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You chose to have children. I did not. I will never understand the inflated sense of self importance people with children have.

    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you take your children into a bar, anyway? They're bored, they're whining, they're fidgeting. Even the parents can't relax around that.

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It. Is. A. Pub. There is alcohol. Adults want a place to go where there are no kids and have adult conversations. Unfortunately, breeders demand the "right" to ruin everyone else's evening out. Take your kids to Rotten Ron's (McD's) if you want to go somewhere with your kids.

    basicraven
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I want to eat a roast without having to listen to parents loudly negotiate with their little specimen about eating broccoli before ice cream.

    John Dilligaf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so the locals have no issue with it and nobody raised an eyebrow about this for 11 yrs. The some dude posts about it on social media and everyone looses their minds. People are idiots

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The Lower Red Lion in St Albans distinguishes itself by welcoming dogs but not children, unlike nearly all other local pubs." So, you know, go to any of the "all other local pubs."

    FatKidShakeDown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, man, maybe don't bring your small child to the bar. Why is everyone fighting that?

    JuJu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't tell them discos, casinos, strip clubs and cigar lounge are also 'child-free' You don't habe to take your minion to every bloody place. Last time I checked my kid was not stitched to my leg.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought by definition that pubs would be child free? The name alone implies that I'm going to an adult oriented place and do not expect children. To the people going waaaaah, there's literally hundreds of businesses that allow kids, some of us want to go out somewhere and not deal with loud kids, we do deserve that option.

    Lori
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why in the world would you bring your child to a pub? You want them be around a bunch of drinking adults, having conversations that their little ears shouldn't be hearing? To me, it sounds like this pub owner has more concern for your children than you do

    Tazzinem
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Places like this will become more and more popular, not less... why parents feel the need to think that their little crotch goblins should be allowed anywhere and everywhere, regardless of who they disturb, is disgusting. The last thing people want to listen to while out having a drink or meal is some little brat screaming the place down... more brat-free establishments please!

    Terry Tobias
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are also signs for "No shirt, no shoes, no service" in businesses. They're allowed to set the rules in their own establishments. Do the commenters really want to go into a place and see people without clothes? I don't!

    Jenny Barnes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of restaurants that are tailored towards kids, Chucky Cheeze etc.. and there are MANY where kids are allowed. Why can’t there be ones tailored specifically for adults?

    ZuriLovesYou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you take a child to a pub anyway?

    Rebecca Ferguson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There has to be some venues available for people who don't want children around, where you can behave like adults and not worry about little ones.

    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How wonderful to know there is one place to go where you won't be annoyed by other people's kids.

    Barbara
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there was a pub just for people with kids where I wasn't allowed to go, I'd be completely fine with it and I'd look for the next pub. I've always found those parents who are offended by "child free" things questionable. I sense underlying resentment.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I hate children, not all children but spoilt brats raised buy Jordi geordie shore parents charlied up and 2pm while offspring they have spawned run around the pub and screaming, getting in the way hogging the pool table. We have to many where I live.

    Lorri Anderson Photography
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Kid free, Im in 😝❤️🙌🏻

    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shows you how many lazy scum bag "not my job to raise my kids but I'll ruin your night out" parents are out there.

    Deery Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh my goodness, just tie your children up to the front of the pub so you can enjoy your self for and a good strong drink for an hour.

    Jan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not my business so it's none of my business how the owner chooses to run it. You have a choice to spend your money there or to not do so. I'm sure there will be enough customers grateful for a child free environment to support this business so just go somewhere else if you don't like it. If someone gives you a boundary that you find unacceptable then turn around and go the other way. You are not entitled to trespass over the boundaries that others have set for themselves in their rightfully owned spaces. Many entertainment venues have age limits. Amusement parks have height requirements for some of their rides. Movies have age limits according to rating. It is not a big deal. Before anyone adds that there are discriminatory practices that would be illegal know that I am aware but I also know this is not one of them.

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parents like that annoy me. It is one single pub out of hundreds that's not for you. OMG get over it and go somewhere else. When I was younger it was completely normal that you do not bring small children to a pub. They do not need to be there and miss out on nothing. And the parents can either go somewhere else or get a sitter if it has this one special pub.

    Elio
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seem like no one cared for 11 years since this pub has had this policy for this long and still survived Covid. It's just internet keyboard warriors being dramatic and entitled parents piling on. I would 100% support this place because I do not like entitled people. The pub isn't doing bs like being racist or sexist. They are acknowledging that not every place is for children and that there are apparently many other pubs in the area that allow kids. Places that don't allow kids are in the minority.

    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a pub in Sydney, Australia, that a sign outside: 'Children welcome. We have a large cellar with a sturdy door and a solid lock'.

    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How long has this place been open? Why has a single internet picture suddenly gotten everyone's knickers in a twist? Hilarious doctor guy said he's looking for the exact opposite? You mean literally everywhere else? Not that hard to find, my dude.

    TotallyNOTAFox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think one of the most important messages in the current day is: Not everything has to be for everyone and therefor does need to cater to everybody. So many different topics this applies to

    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to live in New Orleans. The city is about 85% Catholic. I went to many bar/restaurants where their ‘be fruitful and multiply pro-creations’ run amok. One time a kid somehow crawled and got stuck inside the ‘claw machine’ (it’s a coin operated machine filled with toys where you move this claw like thing to scoop up a toy usually to no avail). Fire department came, the parents were too busy to watch them. I personally don’t think small children need to be in bars

    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been to a number of pubs in The UK recently and most were both kids and dogs friendly... The children were definitely more noticeable than the dogs which were all well behaved and sitting/lying near their owners. To be honest the kids were also no bother...

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, I'm from Canada, where kids aren't allowed in bars. It kinda blows my mind that they're still allowed to watch adults get wasted in other countries

    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A pub is a place that serves food... If it hasn't got a restaurant (and is a drinking-only establishment), children are generally not allowed or only allowed during certain hours.

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hol' up, hol' up! It's a pub, isn't it? AKA booze and adult socialization joint? Now correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that the LAST place you would be taking a child? Don't know about you, but where I come from, the youngest you could get in a pub was 18. Now I can't say I've seen too many dogs in pubs where I come from either, but sure as heck no children anywhere in sight. These noisy parents need to get a grip, or at least a babysitter. Otherwise, drink at home...

    Dingooo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jesus, if you don't like it go somewhere else. Not like there is a shortage of pubs. Too many people just dying for something to b**ch about.

    ️ ️~ lefty libra️ ~
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a literal child- yes. i 100% agree. i hate sticky children and i am a kid, its so understandable. if you want your children to be there, go down to the Denny's across the street.

    meow point1
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with it, but not because kids are loud/annoying, but because pubs are no place for kids.

    Adrian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! It has been a while since I lived in the UK but how about you get a babysitter if you want to go to a pub or go to one with a garden so your crotch goblins have something to do!

    Thatkamloopsguy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the real problem is the kids. The problem is more about the a*s hole parents that are raising them.

    DippityDooDerp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a parent I'm for this! Children shouldn't be in bars or pubs anyway!

    Corvus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If private businesses are free to do whatever they want with regard to gay wedding cakes, then the same should apply to dogs and kids as well. It's fair that way.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people are deranged. Why has it become socially acceptable to hate children? Because I haven't come across any that have been taught manners.

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If people hate kids it's because of s****y parenting. When I'm at a restaurant or cafe or whatever, it's adult time. I don't want my experience ruined by overtired, unsupervised, screaming kids, and sadly that's the kind I see most often, since parents are too busy scrolling social media to watch their kids in public places. When you have a kid, accept that there will be places you can't go and events you will miss. The world doesn't revolve around your kids.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worry whenever I'm in a pub with my dog and kids are there. Too many parents don't teach their kids how to act around dogs, and then don't prevent them from coming over. Would love if more pubs chose one or the other.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a bar in Texas where ties are prohibited and if you wear one they come cut it off you and nail it to the wall. Why get upset about a bar gimmick/practice as long as it's legal? Don't give them business if you disagree, they'll either go under or you won't have to deal with people who agree with them. Seems like a win.

    suuper_savvy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's a pub, for drinking. some laws allow children in if food is being served, cool. But there is no reason at all for a child to be running around a bunch of drunk/drinking adults.

    MJisME
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a boy-mom of 3 and I can say when my husband/I have our rare Date Night we don't want to be seated by children. It's for the simple fact we have kids and if we wanted them there it wouldn't be a Date Night. No stress, no mom mom mom, interruptions we just focus on each other for a change. When we do take our sons out we have them make sure they respect others space and don't argue or bicker or be loud interrupting other peoples good time. People don't pay money to have their dinner, movie, etc ruined. We don't helicopter parent but we also don't free range parent letting them run amuk. We know not everyone wants to say/wave Hi a million times to our children. Let people enjoy their time and I agree there's places that could be child free. We don't mind it is what it is.

    Suck it Trebek
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alot of us relish a night out without the kids only to have it ruined by you people.

    Becca not Becky
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom here. I am so confused. I haven't been to a lot of bars, but I've never seen kids of any age at any of the ones I've been to. I can't imagine kids being louder than the music or the drunk adults (I can barely hear myself talk in those places), but I also can't imagine bringing kids there. It's just not a kid environment. A bar and grill (like Chili's) makes sense, but a regular bar/pub? I guess this is just a debate I never expected to see.

    mysterious(all pronouns)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While child free places are perfectly fine, dogs in an indoor eating establishment seems like a bad idea. They're a tripping hazard, potential health hazard, and there are plenty of people with allergies.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    At the end it's all about manners and consideration. I have kids myself, wouldn't let them run wild and don't want other people's kids raising hell in a public place. But neither do I want strange dogs shove their noses into my crotch or come over to "play".

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one is saying you have to have a dog to go there, or even that it is encouraged, just that they are allowed. They aren't allowed to meander about or misbehave. Unlike the children who infest most pubs these days, who become everyone's problem as the parents basically give up all responsibility. My mate has a kid. I hate going to a child friendly pub so I don't bother going with him. Adult only pubs for me. I want to relax.

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    Nizumi
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good grief - walk a block - there'll be another pub. Go to that one instead if a child-free space feels offensive.

    BlackestDawn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, don't get the hate this has garnered at all. Not every place has to cater to every single person (at least within legal means). Heck in many cases it's better to not cater to "everyone" since you can then give a more focused service.

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    Allison Slagle (Randomosity)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another case of entitled parents who think the world should revolve around them and their screaming brats. Just go to another pub and move on with your life. Problem solved.

    Kraneia The Dancing Dryad
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Right? There are plenty of places you can take your kids/pets.

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    Phoenix Burn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely behind this. I mean it's not for me, I have children and a wife allergic to dogs, but sounds like a lovely spot for those customers. Good on them, I say.

    WonderWoman
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I daresay too many parents today do not parent their children. If you allow your children to run amok, to fiddle with things that are not theirs, to scream and shout while in public YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. You want to raise free range children - that is fine, just keep them on your own range.

    Lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wtf is going through that man's mind- 'I don't say this often but I genuinely hope they go out of business.' And then the tweet below- 'Pro extinction culture is wild.' Wow, these people are literally insane.

    Elio
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Humans are stupid and see 8 billion people and all the global warming and think we're underpopulated. This pub had the no kids rule for 11 years and no one gave a f*ck, but since some weirdos on the internet blew it out of proportion, it is now the #1 most serious issue that one pub doesn't allow kids and is the same as wanting all of humanity to go extinct.

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    Lunar Rat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in St Albans, where this pub is, it may be my new favourite pub. I've never even been in it before.

    Karl
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pubs are where adults go to get drunk and behave like children. No problem with this policy as I don’t want to go out drinking where I have to moderate my language or topics of conversation. To put it another way, a pub is a place where adults go to take a highly dangerous and intoxicating d**g. It is not a place for kids - especially in the evening.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on whether you're talking about the bar or the restaurant attached to the pub. Most pubs (here at least) have restaurants that are family friendly. Kids aren't welcome in the "adult only areas" though - at the bar or at the poker (slot) machines.

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    Gavin Johnson
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a child, I like child free places, my partner has dogs, we like dog friendly places. If you think a child free, dog friendly place is a problem then there’s a really simple answer, don’t go there.

    Manny
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And for those parents that are griping about this and say they can't afford a babysitter than maybe you shouldn't go out.

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    40 pubs in that town and people are kicking off? Its not the people with children who are under represented there

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is having ONE space that dogs can be but kids cant that much of an issue??

    Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially since if the opposite happened nobody would bat an eye

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    Deery Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh my goodness the internet needs to call its tits! no one hates children, lol i think everyone deserves a child-free place where they dont have to worry about tripping over a screaming creature covered in snot and sticky goo.

    Just_for_this
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a parent, i love child free spaces.

    Id row
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would actually pay extra to be in a child-free atmosphere. I'm not really a dog person, but love seeing a good boy out and about as long as they're friendly. I don't mind them in a business at all. They're much better behaved and quieter than children for sure.

    Carole G.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Former food server here. I would go to this place in a heartbeat! With so many places that tolerate bad behavior in children & their entitled parents, give me a dog any day. Bravo 👏👏👏

    C P
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You chose to have children. I did not. I will never understand the inflated sense of self importance people with children have.

    Sunny Day
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you take your children into a bar, anyway? They're bored, they're whining, they're fidgeting. Even the parents can't relax around that.

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It. Is. A. Pub. There is alcohol. Adults want a place to go where there are no kids and have adult conversations. Unfortunately, breeders demand the "right" to ruin everyone else's evening out. Take your kids to Rotten Ron's (McD's) if you want to go somewhere with your kids.

    basicraven
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I want to eat a roast without having to listen to parents loudly negotiate with their little specimen about eating broccoli before ice cream.

    John Dilligaf
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    so the locals have no issue with it and nobody raised an eyebrow about this for 11 yrs. The some dude posts about it on social media and everyone looses their minds. People are idiots

    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "The Lower Red Lion in St Albans distinguishes itself by welcoming dogs but not children, unlike nearly all other local pubs." So, you know, go to any of the "all other local pubs."

    FatKidShakeDown
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, man, maybe don't bring your small child to the bar. Why is everyone fighting that?

    JuJu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't tell them discos, casinos, strip clubs and cigar lounge are also 'child-free' You don't habe to take your minion to every bloody place. Last time I checked my kid was not stitched to my leg.

    LynzCatastrophe
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought by definition that pubs would be child free? The name alone implies that I'm going to an adult oriented place and do not expect children. To the people going waaaaah, there's literally hundreds of businesses that allow kids, some of us want to go out somewhere and not deal with loud kids, we do deserve that option.

    Lori
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why in the world would you bring your child to a pub? You want them be around a bunch of drinking adults, having conversations that their little ears shouldn't be hearing? To me, it sounds like this pub owner has more concern for your children than you do

    Tazzinem
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Places like this will become more and more popular, not less... why parents feel the need to think that their little crotch goblins should be allowed anywhere and everywhere, regardless of who they disturb, is disgusting. The last thing people want to listen to while out having a drink or meal is some little brat screaming the place down... more brat-free establishments please!

    Terry Tobias
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are also signs for "No shirt, no shoes, no service" in businesses. They're allowed to set the rules in their own establishments. Do the commenters really want to go into a place and see people without clothes? I don't!

    Jenny Barnes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are plenty of restaurants that are tailored towards kids, Chucky Cheeze etc.. and there are MANY where kids are allowed. Why can’t there be ones tailored specifically for adults?

    ZuriLovesYou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you take a child to a pub anyway?

    Rebecca Ferguson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There has to be some venues available for people who don't want children around, where you can behave like adults and not worry about little ones.

    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How wonderful to know there is one place to go where you won't be annoyed by other people's kids.

    Barbara
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there was a pub just for people with kids where I wasn't allowed to go, I'd be completely fine with it and I'd look for the next pub. I've always found those parents who are offended by "child free" things questionable. I sense underlying resentment.

    Donna Peluda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I hate children, not all children but spoilt brats raised buy Jordi geordie shore parents charlied up and 2pm while offspring they have spawned run around the pub and screaming, getting in the way hogging the pool table. We have to many where I live.

    Lorri Anderson Photography
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes! Kid free, Im in 😝❤️🙌🏻

    ADZ
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shows you how many lazy scum bag "not my job to raise my kids but I'll ruin your night out" parents are out there.

    Deery Lou
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    oh my goodness, just tie your children up to the front of the pub so you can enjoy your self for and a good strong drink for an hour.

    Jan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not my business so it's none of my business how the owner chooses to run it. You have a choice to spend your money there or to not do so. I'm sure there will be enough customers grateful for a child free environment to support this business so just go somewhere else if you don't like it. If someone gives you a boundary that you find unacceptable then turn around and go the other way. You are not entitled to trespass over the boundaries that others have set for themselves in their rightfully owned spaces. Many entertainment venues have age limits. Amusement parks have height requirements for some of their rides. Movies have age limits according to rating. It is not a big deal. Before anyone adds that there are discriminatory practices that would be illegal know that I am aware but I also know this is not one of them.

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Parents like that annoy me. It is one single pub out of hundreds that's not for you. OMG get over it and go somewhere else. When I was younger it was completely normal that you do not bring small children to a pub. They do not need to be there and miss out on nothing. And the parents can either go somewhere else or get a sitter if it has this one special pub.

    Elio
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seem like no one cared for 11 years since this pub has had this policy for this long and still survived Covid. It's just internet keyboard warriors being dramatic and entitled parents piling on. I would 100% support this place because I do not like entitled people. The pub isn't doing bs like being racist or sexist. They are acknowledging that not every place is for children and that there are apparently many other pubs in the area that allow kids. Places that don't allow kids are in the minority.

    Gustav Gallifrey
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There was a pub in Sydney, Australia, that a sign outside: 'Children welcome. We have a large cellar with a sturdy door and a solid lock'.

    JuniorCJ82
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How long has this place been open? Why has a single internet picture suddenly gotten everyone's knickers in a twist? Hilarious doctor guy said he's looking for the exact opposite? You mean literally everywhere else? Not that hard to find, my dude.

    TotallyNOTAFox
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think one of the most important messages in the current day is: Not everything has to be for everyone and therefor does need to cater to everybody. So many different topics this applies to

    Maisey Myles
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to live in New Orleans. The city is about 85% Catholic. I went to many bar/restaurants where their ‘be fruitful and multiply pro-creations’ run amok. One time a kid somehow crawled and got stuck inside the ‘claw machine’ (it’s a coin operated machine filled with toys where you move this claw like thing to scoop up a toy usually to no avail). Fire department came, the parents were too busy to watch them. I personally don’t think small children need to be in bars

    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been to a number of pubs in The UK recently and most were both kids and dogs friendly... The children were definitely more noticeable than the dogs which were all well behaved and sitting/lying near their owners. To be honest the kids were also no bother...

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean, I'm from Canada, where kids aren't allowed in bars. It kinda blows my mind that they're still allowed to watch adults get wasted in other countries

    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A pub is a place that serves food... If it hasn't got a restaurant (and is a drinking-only establishment), children are generally not allowed or only allowed during certain hours.

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hol' up, hol' up! It's a pub, isn't it? AKA booze and adult socialization joint? Now correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that the LAST place you would be taking a child? Don't know about you, but where I come from, the youngest you could get in a pub was 18. Now I can't say I've seen too many dogs in pubs where I come from either, but sure as heck no children anywhere in sight. These noisy parents need to get a grip, or at least a babysitter. Otherwise, drink at home...

    Dingooo
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jesus, if you don't like it go somewhere else. Not like there is a shortage of pubs. Too many people just dying for something to b**ch about.

    ️ ️~ lefty libra️ ~
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a literal child- yes. i 100% agree. i hate sticky children and i am a kid, its so understandable. if you want your children to be there, go down to the Denny's across the street.

    meow point1
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with it, but not because kids are loud/annoying, but because pubs are no place for kids.

    Adrian
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! It has been a while since I lived in the UK but how about you get a babysitter if you want to go to a pub or go to one with a garden so your crotch goblins have something to do!

    Thatkamloopsguy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think the real problem is the kids. The problem is more about the a*s hole parents that are raising them.

    DippityDooDerp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a parent I'm for this! Children shouldn't be in bars or pubs anyway!

    Corvus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If private businesses are free to do whatever they want with regard to gay wedding cakes, then the same should apply to dogs and kids as well. It's fair that way.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some people are deranged. Why has it become socially acceptable to hate children? Because I haven't come across any that have been taught manners.

    Hodge Elmwood
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If people hate kids it's because of s****y parenting. When I'm at a restaurant or cafe or whatever, it's adult time. I don't want my experience ruined by overtired, unsupervised, screaming kids, and sadly that's the kind I see most often, since parents are too busy scrolling social media to watch their kids in public places. When you have a kid, accept that there will be places you can't go and events you will miss. The world doesn't revolve around your kids.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worry whenever I'm in a pub with my dog and kids are there. Too many parents don't teach their kids how to act around dogs, and then don't prevent them from coming over. Would love if more pubs chose one or the other.

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a bar in Texas where ties are prohibited and if you wear one they come cut it off you and nail it to the wall. Why get upset about a bar gimmick/practice as long as it's legal? Don't give them business if you disagree, they'll either go under or you won't have to deal with people who agree with them. Seems like a win.

    suuper_savvy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's a pub, for drinking. some laws allow children in if food is being served, cool. But there is no reason at all for a child to be running around a bunch of drunk/drinking adults.

    MJisME
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a boy-mom of 3 and I can say when my husband/I have our rare Date Night we don't want to be seated by children. It's for the simple fact we have kids and if we wanted them there it wouldn't be a Date Night. No stress, no mom mom mom, interruptions we just focus on each other for a change. When we do take our sons out we have them make sure they respect others space and don't argue or bicker or be loud interrupting other peoples good time. People don't pay money to have their dinner, movie, etc ruined. We don't helicopter parent but we also don't free range parent letting them run amuk. We know not everyone wants to say/wave Hi a million times to our children. Let people enjoy their time and I agree there's places that could be child free. We don't mind it is what it is.

    Suck it Trebek
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Alot of us relish a night out without the kids only to have it ruined by you people.

    Becca not Becky
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mom here. I am so confused. I haven't been to a lot of bars, but I've never seen kids of any age at any of the ones I've been to. I can't imagine kids being louder than the music or the drunk adults (I can barely hear myself talk in those places), but I also can't imagine bringing kids there. It's just not a kid environment. A bar and grill (like Chili's) makes sense, but a regular bar/pub? I guess this is just a debate I never expected to see.

    mysterious(all pronouns)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    While child free places are perfectly fine, dogs in an indoor eating establishment seems like a bad idea. They're a tripping hazard, potential health hazard, and there are plenty of people with allergies.

    Trillian
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    1 year ago

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    At the end it's all about manners and consideration. I have kids myself, wouldn't let them run wild and don't want other people's kids raising hell in a public place. But neither do I want strange dogs shove their noses into my crotch or come over to "play".

    G A
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No one is saying you have to have a dog to go there, or even that it is encouraged, just that they are allowed. They aren't allowed to meander about or misbehave. Unlike the children who infest most pubs these days, who become everyone's problem as the parents basically give up all responsibility. My mate has a kid. I hate going to a child friendly pub so I don't bother going with him. Adult only pubs for me. I want to relax.

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