Person Shows Off How Unfair Media Is By Photoshopping 17 50-Something Men The Same Way Women Are
Interview With AuthorWe are so used to images all around us being Photoshopped that we usually don’t bat an eye at them. Sadly, usually, pictures of women suffer from way more editing than pictures of men. And again, we’re so used to this that we barely ever think about it. Well, until this Photoshop expert posted videos where she edited men’s images as much as women’s. And the difference made people on the internet realize what a terrible double standard there is out there.
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TikToker did a feminist service by showing what would happen if men were photoshopped as much as women are, and the videos went viral
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She took magazine covers and removed as many “unattractive” features, such as blemishes and wrinkles, as possible – giving the man’s face the same treatment women usually get
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Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
Image credits: caroline_in_thecity
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Recently, videos of men being photoshopped the same way women usually are in magazines and other kinds of photos have been circulating on TikTok. Currently, the more popular one has 1.5M views.
The videos showed how much “smoother” men would look if their faces in photos endured the same editing that women’s faces and bodies do. In fact, it could be said that these heavily edited photos have a little uncanny valley feel to them – these faces are way too polished to be real! The sad thing is that women are edited like this on a daily basis.
All these videos were posted by TikTok user @caroline_in_thecity (she also is on X and Instagram). Caroline is a Photoshop expert, most of whose videos on the platform are focused on all things related to photo editing. At the time of this article, she has over 115K followers.
Bored Panda reached out to Caroline and she shared some additional details with us.
She said that the thing that motivated her to embark on this project was realizing that most people don’t understand the amount of Photoshop applied in the media nowadays: “The illusion of flawless people created through Photoshop is so convincing that we perceive it as reality. I aimed to address this by creating TikToks that highlighted the peculiarity of this situation.”
She chose men because they are usually shown with wrinkles, pores, and expression lines, while women, especially those who are over 50 years old, receive extreme retouching to remove their age. And so, photoshopping men in the same manner shows a contrast in how the media portrays different genders.
After her videos went viral, Caroline noticed that men in the comments implied that this double standard is what is desired by women, and they’re not responsible for it. In her opinion, “North American societal beauty standards frequently align with the male gaze. Unrealistic beauty standards perpetuated by Photoshop affect and are perpetuated by people of all genders.”
Speaking of differentiating between real and retouched content, Caroline wishes that any type of media would require a disclaimer stating that the people in the media have been digitally altered.
Also, in her opinion, celebrities and influencers having photoshopped bodies can have a large influence on their content consumers. “I think celebrities and influencers need to recognize the impact that filters and digitally altered bodies can have on their audience. A celebrity boasting 10 million followers has significant influence, and retouching their body and face sends a powerful message to millions. Comparatively, when someone with 100 followers edits their wedding photos, the scale and influence are not equivalent.”
Watch the most popular video here
@caroline_in_thecity I definitely think about this everytime i see a cute little wrinkles on ‘silver foxes’ and smoothed doll skin on women the same age. #pedropascal#maybeitsphotoshop#photoshop♬ Makeba – Jain
Just as Caroline implied, ever since its first version’s release back in 1988, Photoshop has been steadily becoming an integral part of our lives. Especially in the entertainment industry. For example, Photoshopping people’s bodies and faces to fit a certain trend of that time.
That prompted Photoshop to be critiqued for promoting unhealthy body image, mostly in women. It does so by promoting an unrealistic body that is not possible to achieve naturally. At this point, we rarely get to see real bodies in advertisements, magazines, and other similar mediums.
Women feel pressured to look a certain way, to have that “perfect body”, which can only be achieved with unnecessary plastic surgery or developing an eating disorder. And when these ideals aren’t achieved, women develop anxiety and insecurities about the way they look.
You might wonder why various companies employ Photoshop in such a destructive manner. Well, one of the theories for that is that retouching in advertisements is done to create an aspirational beauty ideal, which inspires women to buy more products.
Or it could be understood the other way around. Showing the perfect image makes women feel bad about themselves, and so they buy more beauty products.
And so, when the videos of men getting as much Photoshop as women usually get went viral, people suddenly understood how they have been preconditioned to view men getting older as a thing that makes them more attractive. They see images of men getting older in advertisements or magazines, so the eye is used to that. At the same time, women getting older are usually not shown as much, since usually all signs of “imperfection” are deleted no matter what they age they are.
To avoid being fooled by photoshopped images, there are some tips you can take into account when doubting a picture’s authenticity. The most common are:
- Warped or distorted things around the edited object or person;
- Unnatural shadows or inconsistent lighting;
- Unrealistic reflections.
You can also look for more advanced aspects giving away that the image is edited, such as compression quality levels. Or simply use programs that detect Photoshop on the image. So, be safe out there and don’t trust any perfect images you see – they’re more than likely not realistic anyways.
“This is terrifying”: the videos worked as a wake-up call for people online as they understood why men seemed to be getting more attractive with age, while women didn’t
I never did quite get why anyone is okay with women being considered sexy the more they look like a child. It really does show how creepy that mindset is when you see it spun the other way around on men!
People, this is why all those official photos of women the same age or older than you cause you to look in the mirror and think, “It’s not fair, she can afford the money and time for all the special skin care from an early age, plus Botox and facelifts while I look like this!” Or, “What am I doing wrong? I’ve always taken care of my skin… SPF 3000 sun protection moisturizer, cleansing, exfoliating, microdermabrasion, hydration!” It’s also why we’re so jarred when we see an untouched picture of them without makeup. Basically, the entire industries of film/tv and beauty are lying to us about how they look, while normalizing the aging process for men. Generations of women (and other genders) have spent billions on products that don’t work as shown. Generations are so dysfunctional in their ability to accept how they really look they always use filters and tweak their images to fake how they look. Do you think this makes them feel good when they look in the mirror and see reality?
This doesn't even begin to represent the truth, because none of those retouched photos have had their body shape altered. The reality is that if men were as digitally altered as women, all of these pictures would show markedly larger arms at the very least.
I came here to say this. Although I get the point of the article, its not a fair representation of what they really do to women (how ironic!). They don't just remove women's pores; they change her into a completely different person from the angle of her nose and the shadow of her jaw to the shape of calves and the tone of her skin. 😑
Load More Replies...I want them to do that to me! I look like a California Raisin that's been sucking on a lemon.
And wouldn’t you know, they all look ridiculous. But if we look at women’s picture we thank that’s normal (and hence, all us normal people look like swamp witches) because we’ve been conditioned that way. Makes me so cranky!
I know things changed with the development of higher resolution television, but watching shows from the late 90’s to the early 2010’s it almost gives me a headache when they switch the camera from a man’s face to a woman’s face multiple times because it very obviously goes from clear filter to blurred filter and back again. God forbid she have a pore on her face, or even worse, a wrinkle!!!
And in Bones they always blurred below Dr Brennan's eyes! Big peeve of mine :(
Load More Replies...Like Sean Connery, he looks way better now that he is older.
Load More Replies...Ah yes, the "sexy" poreless Android look. We have this very odd obsession with not letting women age gracefully. We talk about male celebrities aging like fine wine, however, female celebrities are often told that they need to get cosmetic surgey and use inumerable products to maintain their beauty and youth. While I do understand that some magazines retouch photos of male celebrities, they don't seem to do it nearly to the level that they do for female celebrities.
She cleanly edited 20 to 30 years off of all of them. It's kind of crazy this is normalized for female celebrities!
You think those female celebrities would dare let them NOT retouch the photos? I bet much of this is female pushed
Load More Replies...I’ve never understood why skin isn’t allowed to look like skin. Why does anyone want to look like they’re plastic?
I never did quite get why anyone is okay with women being considered sexy the more they look like a child. It really does show how creepy that mindset is when you see it spun the other way around on men!
People, this is why all those official photos of women the same age or older than you cause you to look in the mirror and think, “It’s not fair, she can afford the money and time for all the special skin care from an early age, plus Botox and facelifts while I look like this!” Or, “What am I doing wrong? I’ve always taken care of my skin… SPF 3000 sun protection moisturizer, cleansing, exfoliating, microdermabrasion, hydration!” It’s also why we’re so jarred when we see an untouched picture of them without makeup. Basically, the entire industries of film/tv and beauty are lying to us about how they look, while normalizing the aging process for men. Generations of women (and other genders) have spent billions on products that don’t work as shown. Generations are so dysfunctional in their ability to accept how they really look they always use filters and tweak their images to fake how they look. Do you think this makes them feel good when they look in the mirror and see reality?
This doesn't even begin to represent the truth, because none of those retouched photos have had their body shape altered. The reality is that if men were as digitally altered as women, all of these pictures would show markedly larger arms at the very least.
I came here to say this. Although I get the point of the article, its not a fair representation of what they really do to women (how ironic!). They don't just remove women's pores; they change her into a completely different person from the angle of her nose and the shadow of her jaw to the shape of calves and the tone of her skin. 😑
Load More Replies...I want them to do that to me! I look like a California Raisin that's been sucking on a lemon.
And wouldn’t you know, they all look ridiculous. But if we look at women’s picture we thank that’s normal (and hence, all us normal people look like swamp witches) because we’ve been conditioned that way. Makes me so cranky!
I know things changed with the development of higher resolution television, but watching shows from the late 90’s to the early 2010’s it almost gives me a headache when they switch the camera from a man’s face to a woman’s face multiple times because it very obviously goes from clear filter to blurred filter and back again. God forbid she have a pore on her face, or even worse, a wrinkle!!!
And in Bones they always blurred below Dr Brennan's eyes! Big peeve of mine :(
Load More Replies...Like Sean Connery, he looks way better now that he is older.
Load More Replies...Ah yes, the "sexy" poreless Android look. We have this very odd obsession with not letting women age gracefully. We talk about male celebrities aging like fine wine, however, female celebrities are often told that they need to get cosmetic surgey and use inumerable products to maintain their beauty and youth. While I do understand that some magazines retouch photos of male celebrities, they don't seem to do it nearly to the level that they do for female celebrities.
She cleanly edited 20 to 30 years off of all of them. It's kind of crazy this is normalized for female celebrities!
You think those female celebrities would dare let them NOT retouch the photos? I bet much of this is female pushed
Load More Replies...I’ve never understood why skin isn’t allowed to look like skin. Why does anyone want to look like they’re plastic?





























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