Someone Asks People To Share The Worst Marriage Advice They’ve Gotten, And They Deliver (30 Tweets)

Really wtf?

These terrible advices make people stay in abusive relationships and that's sad

Good sleep is really important!being tired means possible fighting so as long as it works for you don't hear anyone

As a kid with divorced parents i have to say this is the most horrible advice!! Kids always know and understand EVERYTHING!

In my country there is a saying that says "man is the head and woman is the neck that turns the head wherever she wants" I don't know if it exists in other languages...

I'm pretty sure there are schools somewhere teaching that, cause i know too many men that do that!

I prefer happy spouse happy house

Exactly! And there is no "helping" the wife with the housework! You don't "help", you share chores that you are both supposed to do!

So THIS is how marriage works. No wonder I am getting a divorce.

this breaks my heart on so many levels..

I'm so tired of the holy matrimony and sacred crap with marriage. Marriage is a legal issue. You want to involve the church? Good on you! My experience has been that the church has no place in marriage.

HAHAHA! I would like to see the reasoning for this corellation

In some cases i think it's true not always of course! Edit: I'm referring to misogynist cultures that don't respect human rights of course! i just didn't want to be more specific cause i didn't want anyone to be offended! But these cultures in a marriage are always a deal breaker!

Unfortunately, MANY adults act like Petulant Toddlers...

The correct is you shouldn't need anyone period. Once you are good with yourself then you can have a healthier relationship with someone else!

Oh my God. A man from church. Holy coward.

I think this is good advice.

There are no rules at that! Whatever works better for each couple!

I try not to go to bed angry... i usually say at least goodnight even if i mean f**k you!😅😅😅😅

BWHAHAHA! The irony here!

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I WISH my parents had split up.

Being a decent person will def get you sum more than being a bum.

Why isn't an option? Are we royals or something?and nowadays even royals get divorce!

Again. Bullshit. Cut out the toxic. Blood relation means nothing.

That was a stupid movie AND stupid advice.

D&D!!! :)

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No one is perfect. The secret is to love someone with their imperfections instead of despite their imperfections.

In my country we say the opposite! First year you are deep into honey and then you are deep into s**t😒😒😒 not very optimistic i know!

I grew up in Montana. I stayed with my best college friend on their 50,000 acre cattle ranch regularly. Every night my friend's mother would come downstairs just to say goodnight. She looked like she was attending an Oscar awards performance (the hair and makeup). I asked my friend, "Why does your mom put on makeup and do her hair before going to bed?" My friend said, "My mom just wants to look nice for my dad." They were married for 70 years and sold the ranch ranch for $24,000,000. They're happy.

I'm tired of this s**t! It's 2021 for f**k's sake

um... last time I checked women are more equiped to have multiple orgasms

"Hey honey let's fight!! We didn't have any fight last week"

Asexuals like... wuh?

Arguments that end with a discussion with equal input from both people = healthy relationship Arguments that end in fighting and screaming = unhealthy, possibly toxic relationship

What the actual...?

"Our marriage is best described by hellish screaming. But. Consider. What if... we added MORE screaming? And bills? And-"

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Yeah...for 34 years, my husband has been out of town from Monday toThursday or Friday for 48 weeks of the year. I would have seen more of him if he'd been in the military. We're happy as clams.

i've usually had more female friends than male friends and i have lost girlfriends over it. it's sad that people think non-romantic/sexual love is impossible in that way

Wrong, don't cut off the branch you're sitting on 😁

If you hang your toilet paper in different directions, you might not be a perfect match. :D

I feel like this type of 'Thinking' leads to cheating.

How odd he has been divorced with such sage advice... If my husband did this, we would not still be married. That is extremely disrespectful and childish.

That is psychotic! Clearly he did not have your best interest at heart.

Ah, that good old Gilead Republic's flavor.

Got to be one of the worst.

Very sad

People are not objects to be possessed, two people together should mutually respect each others boundaries regardless of marital status.

The sponsor asking what she did wrong when she was explaining how she had been abused is complete bullshit. Even if she is an alcoholic that doesn't give him the right to cheat on her and abuse her.

This is a good piece of advice nevertheless.

Aww, I know they are supposed to sound tacky but they actually sound kinda adorable.

Not all marriages are like that

The idea that someone has to lead is faulted anyway

Yes, we're all broken but we can be "scratch on the surface" broken or "head-on car crash" broken and if it's the latter, I'd be really hesitant about marrying such a person.

It's more like: If you don't have issues, you might consider having children.

Sex does tend to get better during the process of getting to know your partner better. However, that does not work for every couple.

The older generations had strict ideas of what was "adult" and what was "childish." When I was 45, my mom told me she'd never consider me to be an adult until I cut my waist-length hair short. Sorry, what? I own a house (which I bought by myself). I raised a child (also by myself after ex-hubby bailed). I'm pretty sure I'm an adult.

As if Sadness could have brought back Bing-Bong's rocket.

Blind lead the blind. This will just make you abusive or at least a worse person

The first phrase is not a bad advice though... it's better to decide our looks according to what WE like and feel comfortable with, not according someone else's preferences.

As this says, life is hard work, my marriage is the place I go to recover from it

I've been part of a playgroup for years. Some of us still meet even though our kids are past college age now. Our main group is three women and one man. It's varied and changed but the center has always had an at home dad. He's a great friend. When we can get all our spouses together and the kids we have a lot of fun. Our core is solid and I don't think any of our spouses are worried or ever worried. Other than wondering how we can talk for hours about anything and nothing and then call it a good time.

My husband and I were 31 when we got married. We met when we were 12, dated at 14, lost touch with each other until 29. Yes, we met young. No it wasn't get married right away. He'd thought that he'd married too young with his first wife. They divorced when they were 26.

Making your spouse happy does NOT mean sacrificing your own happiness.

I can be miserable on my own thanks. Doing it in a "relationship" is twice a bad and painful.