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‘Wait… This Is Wholesome’: 50 Memes To Brighten Your Mood And Restore Your Faith In Humanity
Even the most optimistic person feels blue and overwhelmed at times—sadness and stress are natural parts of life. However, so is joy. And it helps to remember that the world can be a pretty magnificent and magical place if you ever find yourself going through extremely tough challenges, one after another.
And that’s where the popular ‘Wait… This Is Wholesome’ Facebook group comes in. Created just two years ago, the online community has grown by leaps and bounds thanks to the extremely heartwarming content its members post. We’ve collected their most wholesome memes to brighten up your day, Pandas. Scroll down, upvote your faves, and remember to spread the joy—someone in your social circle might need the mood boost today!
Bored Panda reached out to the founder of the ‘Wait… This Is Wholesome’ Facebook group, Hamza Saeed, and he was kind enough to share the inspiration behind it. We also wanted to learn about the effects that looking at wholesome memes has on our moods, so we reached out to Glenn Geher, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the State University of New York at New Paltz and a published author. You'll find both of Bored Panda's interviews below.
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"Uplifting, positive stimuli of any kind have the capacity to improve people’s moods," Dr. Geher told Bored Panda via email.
"The questions of (a) just how much and (b) for how long depend on several factors. For instance, some people tend to be dispositionally more prone than others are to negative moods. Such individuals are likely less likely to experience large and long-term benefits from positive, heartwarming stimuli," he explained.
"Others, who tend to score higher in traits such as emotional stability, emotional intelligence, and emotional regulation, are likely to more genuinely and deeply be positively touched by even simple uplifting stimuli such as cute or heartwarming memes that are found on the internet."
He added: "Personally, I cannot get enough of cute-kitten internet posts—which I regularly share with my daughter!" And we're in the same boat—if we come across a particularly adorable or witty animal meme, we make sure to send it to the people we care about.
Dr. Geher was also kind enough to tell us more about the negativity response bias. According to him, it's "a powerful and ubiquitous human emotional phenomenon."
"In short, we tend to pay attention more to negative than to positive stimuli and we tend to remember negatively valenced stimuli and experiences more so than is the case for more positive stimuli and experiences," the professor said.
Okay I am gonna need that recipe too. This guy waited until he was grown to be able to track it down.. it must be good!
"From an evolutionary perspective, this all makes sense as our ancestors who were emotionally vigilant (and biased toward negativity) were more likely to effectively deal with genuine threats in their environments," he told Bored Panda.
"The downside to this bias, of course, is the fact that people who should, on the surface, be authentically happy for a variety of reasons may often feel any number of negative emotions. Heartwarming, positive, uplifting stimuli may well have the capacity to offset this deeply entrenched bias—even if for brief spits of time."
Bored Panda was very curious to find out about the inspiration behind the ‘Wait… This Is Wholesome’ Facebook group. Hamza, the founder of this online community, was happy to shed some light on this.
"I made this group for people so that everyone can share their wholesome daily thoughts and incidents," Hamza told us via Facebook.
He explained that his goal was to create a place where "people can get motivation" in order to "stay positive" in their day-to-day lives. Hamza believes that people can stay optimistic by looking at the memes shared on ‘Wait… This Is Wholesome.'
This isn't the only social media group that Hamza has founded. He's also the creator of 'Female Club,' a Facebook group with 1.2 million members.
Research shows that memes can have a positive impact on our moods. Penn State University found that viewing memes on the internet can increase positive emotions and, as a result, improve our confidence.
At the time of writing, the ‘Wait… This Is Wholesome’ collective was nearly 407k members strong. The popularity of the group is a testament to the efforts of its founders and the quality of its memes.
After all, the group was established just over two years ago, back in June 2021, and it has gained a massive following this quickly. Last week alone, over 6k new members joined the community. And in just the last month, folks have shared nearly 900 memes in the feed.
Though a wholesome and witty meme might not automatically solve all of your problems in life, it can serve as a fun little distraction for a while.
Not only that, heartwarming and funny memes can give us a fresh new perspective on life and can act as reminders that not everything is all doom and gloom—there’s plenty of happiness and nuance to be found in life if only we know where to look for it… and remember to focus on all aspects of life, not just negative ones.
Absolutely me. I am not even remotely kidding when I say that I'd rather burn to death in a fire while saving my cats, than abandon them. So far we've had evacuation warnings that have given us time to get out when we've had fire issues here (I'm in California... our seasons are earthquake, fire, flood, and drought lol) I'm a "hope for the best but plan for the worst" person, so my cats know that if scary stuff happens they run to their carriers, especially if I yell "go time!" (can you tell we've done this before?) BUT if there ever comes a day where I have to choose between saving them and saving myself... it's 100% them. My life is sorta sh!t anyway, and I know that my family will gladly care of them. So yeah. I'd go down in a fire to save them...without a moment of hesitation.
As we’ve covered on Bored Panda before, negativity bias plays an important role in people’s lives. Human beings, generally, tend to be hard-wired to focus more on negative rather than positive information.
Negativity bias might, for instance, take the form of obsessing over someone’s constructive feedback or criticism that we got, while (almost) completely ignoring all the compliments we might have gotten. Or it might look like us thinking about all the negative things we heard and read in the news far more than the positive fluff stories. In short, people tend to think about all the bad stuff that’s going on and focus on flaws.
However, Oxford University's Reuters Institute recently found that more and more people are switching off negative news: only 48% of people are interested in the news, globally, down from 63% in 2017.
Taking the time to slow down and notice all the good things around us can work as an antidote to all the negativity we’re exposed to in our daily lives.
Practice gratitude, keep a journal, and constantly remind yourself that there are genuine things to be thankful for, even when you’re exhausted and down. These small reminders can give you the energy and motivation to get through tough times at work, school, and home.
Even something as simple as recognizing that you have a roof over your head and food on your table is important. However, gratitude alone won’t solve all of your issues either. If you do have genuine problems in life, it helps to be thankful for what you do have, but at the same time, you have to take decisive action to improve your situation. Whether it’s focusing on your finances, health, social life, or something else entirely.
Previously, Bored Panda spoke to writer Ariane Sherine, the author of ‘How to Live to 100’ about living a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life.
“Close, fulfilling relationships with others are one of the most important things when it comes to happiness, whether romantic or platonic. Studies show that the more close friendships and relationships you have, the longer you live,” she explained to us during an earlier interview.
This! Teachers, first responders, researchers, etc, all need to have salaries swapped with sports. $150m for one person to hit a ball, when someone else was just wrist deep in someone’s chest to keep them alive after a car crash… We need a bit of perspective.
Also, surgeons should be paid more than health insurance executives who try to deny claims to make more money.
Athletes are entertainers. They use their body to entertain us. For a relatively short period of time. I think a better way to say this is, pay them more than movie stars, Kardashians, etc.
I truly and honestly don't understand why anyone gives the Kardashians money or attention.
Load More Replies...Kicking a ball around for " 90 " minutes is not worth paying someone the entire debt of Greece a week in wages, when you have heroes like them resorting to using food banks, that's total bulls*** and wrong....
I'm grateful to the 2 surgeons and the nurses who saved my sister from a brain tumour 9 1/2 hours of carefully extracting all the tendrils of the tumour from her brain. We got her back, same person as before. Lots can happen in the brain. Could have had a stroke, gone blind, lost her memory, ability to speak. But we got her back. So very very grateful everyday her family andI have her still with us...18 years later this month.
Athletes should not be paid. If muscles are all you have to offer, go graze in a field.
I see pics like this and firstly I am grateful for their commitment and dedication but lately I have begun to wonder why they can't have other surgeons take over after a few hours rather than do this (see pic above) to the surgeons and the obvious risk of someone being super tired operating. But maybe it's just me..
It's a nice sentiment but I can't see a day when surgery is performed in front of 50k paying spectators can you?
Yes. 50 thousand spectators playing in a tax payer funded facility.
Load More Replies...Absolutely! OR pay athletes a very generous but sensible amount and pay the rest that would have gone to them into a scholarship or medical fund in their name.
Well yeah. But. Fans pay athletes salaries. Perhaps surgeons could start doing endorsements? Scalpels, surgical gowns, universities they attended?
Well, yeah. But. Fans pay athletes salaries .... Maybe surgeons could start doing endorsements? Scalpels, surgical gowns, the universities they attended?
I think surgeons definitely train to work such long hours! One of my nephews is training to be an orthopaedic surgeon and he's worked for over 24 hours a few times. Which really is a bit too long, but it's obviously paid off in this case where they saved someone's life!
Capitalism makes it possible. Tax rockstars and athletes at 90%. If they don't like that, who cares? Neither profession is a societal necessity.
Ive never understood why medical scientists, researches, doctors and nurses are paid so shabily compared to someone who runs around on the grass with a ball. I'm pretty sure I know who I would call for if I broke my leg yet humanity still plays the idiotic game of pretend nothing is happening
Sadly, pro athletes get endorsement deals etc. But for doctors, teachers it up to the employer and the government.
I 100% agree and have always held the opinion that pro athletes get paid too much and other highly skilled professionals such as surgeons do not get paid nearly enough.... but pro athletes get paid based on how well the sport is received by the masses.. If the organisation of any particular sport doesn't make their ad revenue, live fees, pay per view and sponsored funding, they couldn't afford to pay the athletes.. whereas surgeons are typically employed by the hospital that is funded either via private fees or tax dollars
In America? You know where all that cost would go? Straight to the patient. "Your catheter was $8.7 million Mr Jones. You can pay now, or in 3 installments."
If that happens, not one single average American would be able to get healthcare ever without going into bankruptcy. Fix the system, don't just throw money at the doctors...they are doing just fine
Well, Americans already are going bankrupt with healthcare
Load More Replies...no OR personnel would EVER have naked feet in sandals during a sterile surgical procedure.
“Volunteering and helping others are also likely to make you happy,” she said, adding that other factors that contribute to our happiness are having a fulfilling career, being physically fit, and focusing on things other than just material possessions (no matter how shiny and cool they might be!).
“There are other things that contribute to happiness and well-being including taking regular exercise, eating healthily, having enough money to feel comfortable, having job security, and enjoying experiences rather than possessions,” the author of ‘How to Live to 100’ said.
“Self-care and taking time for yourself are also very important. But I'd say close relationships are probably the most essential things to happiness.” She pointed out that it’s also vital to get plenty of proper rest. “If you're feeling really lethargic and low, the best thing is probably to sleep, or at least rest.”
Helping others out even when we’re down in the dumps can work wonders not just for our own mood but also for the community. Altruism works on both selfish and selfless levels.
“It's worth remembering that being kind to others can also lift you up too. In fact, the easiest way to take your mind off your own problems is to help someone else with theirs,” Ariane told Bored Panda before.
Happiness, according to the writer comes from “doing what you can to make your own situation better, and then accepting that you can't control everything. You can never control everything, and trying will make you even more anxious. But you can control certain things to reduce your risk.”
Which of these memes made you smile the most? Were there any that restored (a bit of) your faith in humanity? Which memes would you send your friends if you thought they needed more wholesomeness in their lives? Swing by the comment section at the bottom of the article and share your thoughts!
For some more adorably wholesome memes, take a peek at Bored Panda's list right here.
My mom came home once to find that her border collie had herded fifty ducks into the house through the doggie door. We warned her they invent jobs to do!
I'd like to make a note that for the last 30ish years "Steve" has always been the name my friends and I call anyone that we can't remember their name.... or we just don't know. Doesn't matter their gender... they're Steve. Referring to a random person talks to you. Steve. Person that recognizes you from high school but you have no idea who they are, Steve. Any odd object you need to refer to, Steve. I call my roomba Steve. (Technically it's Stephen Sweeperman but that's a side note here lol) my point is this... everyone is Steve until they are not Steve.
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This! We need more of this! I even looked at the Facebook page to see more Wholesome and I normally look at Facebook approximately once a year.
Or they'd slap the word 'core' on every name like shortvegetariancore
This helped with my depressive episode. Really. So did the Dan Reynolds videos I watched.
I can feel my face turned up into a smile. It'll be there a long time remembering these lovely stories.
I am seriously struggling to drink my coffee because of the lump in throat... Just proves the world isn't such a shhocking place...
This! We need more of this! I even looked at the Facebook page to see more Wholesome and I normally look at Facebook approximately once a year.
Or they'd slap the word 'core' on every name like shortvegetariancore
This helped with my depressive episode. Really. So did the Dan Reynolds videos I watched.
I can feel my face turned up into a smile. It'll be there a long time remembering these lovely stories.
I am seriously struggling to drink my coffee because of the lump in throat... Just proves the world isn't such a shhocking place...