People Share 35 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Hear Them

More people should learn this. Just because you have the freedom (of speech) doesn't mean you won't receive backlash and will have to deal with the consequences. Treasure your freedom of speech because it's precious, look what's happening in Hong Kong !

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! (probably dealing with a bratty kid)

And gives you NO right to jump the queue, receive extra attention or whatever.

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And very much real that cannot just magically be cured by being "strong" or a placebo.

as a person with heavy mental health problems I agree. but like to add, saying you are sorry is often not enough, and people doesn't have to forgive you...sometimes you have to live with the consequences all the same

Respect should be earned. Treat people kindly and with dignity.

Love Freddie! R.I.P.

Please read this then read it again and then read it AGAIN if it still doesn't sink in.

Say it louder! And bisexual women do NOT want to have a threesome with their girlfriend and you!!! 🤬🤬🤬

Yes! This should be higher. Religions are an organized set of rules supposedly written by a otherworldly, incorporeal divinity. Stop and think about that for a second. Completely bonkers. It's a club, you go, you follow the rules, you pay the monthly fee, you mingle. If you break the rules you're either shunned away or you can pay an extra and all your sins are forgiven. Really. Bonkers.

Yah I want to be Superman but it doesn't happen

Karma is a sh!tty concept. It leads to thinking if something bad happens to person, they somehow deserved it.

It's no cute either! People need to b careful of their pets nutrition and excersice.

Yep. And it takes a long while to understand that.

Yeah! But doing your best and not succeeding is a lot better than not trying your best and regretting later on.

This is so important. Family members are often bullies you're conditioned to love and respect. If someone makes you feel bad they aren't doing so out of love, so why keep them around? Blood may be thicker than water and so much harder to clean up, but it isn't impossible and, I say it from experience, once you get some distance, they'll go on full surprised Pikachu mode and be twice as vicious about you. Maybe just my relatives.

If someone is not into you as much as yourself, it is okay. Just learn to let go for the sake of your own happiness.

It is important to be kind.

Period.

Karen?

I don't have kids, but it seems to me that a lot of parents act the same as a teenager in love - finding every flaw endearing and thinking that their kid is the most amazing person in the world. I blame hormones.

I'm wrong so often that I've learned to embrace it :D

I'd read that book.

It's our insecurity that makes us do that.

This needs to be higher! So many people think that they can control others or that others can control them. How many times have we said things like "that person made me feel..."? No one can make someone else feel or think anything. We need to learn to take responsibility for our own reactions and responses to others, and to realize that although we may influence others, we can't control them either.

Sometimes? ^^"

Including "being nice".

Whoever says that "things happen for a reason" hasn't a clue about life or doesn't want to know about life. Saying this to a grieving person is pure evil.

I’m afraid this is the Wrong website for that particular hard pill

Sadly. Since my fiance of 14 years died in November 18, I feel like I'm standing still and the world is spinning too fast. Only our close friends and family cares, but it seems to you like the world should stand still for your immense, unbearable pain. And it is unbearable

Some people on BP should also think about this!

Yeah, and it's not the answer.

Unless the situation just maimed you, in which case you working harder won't fix it.

Reminded me of a saying..."if nothing works, do nothing."

And moving on doesn't always mean "forgetting about". Sometimes it just means accepting that it happened and refusing to let it guide your choices.

Wearing a mask *correctly* is. It amazes me, the amount of people who think they wear them just to keep their chin warm. Not like germs could maybe possibly get through those holes in your face you call your mouth and nostrils.

People confuse the subject of the joke with the target of the joke, and they're very rarely the same. - Ricky Gervais

Yeah, it’s probably a good indication of intelligence too though

That "karma" has to deal instant result is a western attitude. If you actually read through what Hinduism (where the word originates) suggests, karma always catches up. Be it this life, next life or 10 lifes after that you will always get what you sowed. Every thought+action (karma) eventually has consequences. Doesn't necessarily have to be on our perceived schedule.

Yes. I've left many. I'm not anyone's personal barbie doll. Leaving can be VERY freeing

I agree!! A good advice from a friend, in order to build this, if your are unsure of yourself, just act the way you want it to be between the two of you. Like practice instead of thinking and planning and wondering and waiting.

And as you grow older, the list becomes smaller and smaller and smaller...

Yep, and that's OK. Do you like everyone?

Really!? I’ve NEVER seen that before…someone. wrong. On internet. I don’t believe it.

And being in love is not always love.

*Stamps foot*

This is starting to learn to "lift yourself by the bootstraps"

But!

The only difference between a cult and a religion is time, why else do you think it takes so long for them to be considered a religion?

We all have. Men suppress "weak" emotions like sadness, and woman suppress "loud" emotions like anger. Both is wrong and unhealthy.

That's why I envy them ♡

#lifesucks

Then why did you post this ??? :D

I know, for some reason I'm not the firefighting rockstar I wanted to be...

Society is a cage that the world willingly puts itself in in order to have some structure

So stop hanging onto that toxic friend from grade school. It is okay to let friends go. REALLY, it is.

Soul mates don't exist but there is compatibility, and you're not always compatible with people you're attracted to. Think carefully if the work needed to make it work is actually worth it.

But you should read to them from birth every single day and they will turn out ahead of the pack if you instill curiosity and a love for knowledge. And that's the job of YOU, the parent, not the teachers.

But I swear the cloud looks like giant cotton candy

However life is too seldomly a meritocracy

I am, shut up!

Sadly if you're realistic this is true. But some people would rather be happy than be just rich. Because, sometimes doing what you've always wanted to do with your life will mean more than millions of bucks ever could.

That the universe is indifferent and that any individual deserves better than what's happened to them are not mutually exclusive. Horrible atrocities occur every day; the people suffering them absolutely deserve better. Unfortunately 'deserve' has nothing to do with it.

And people change