“High school is the best time of your life” is one of those beliefs that marks a person as having a pretty sad existence. In other words, live in such a way that the highlight of your life wasn’t random cliques, school spirit and, say, SAT scores. Unfortunately, there are enough folks out there who just don’t see it this way.
Someone asked “What screams “I peaked in high school "?" and netizens shared the most petty and embarrassing examples. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to add your own thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
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When I was in high school, the cool kids partied hard. They'd get black out drunk and used whatever illegal substances they can get.
I was looking through the profiles of some of those classmates and a few of them are still doing the same s**t. Talking gangsta s**t despite growing up in a middle class suburb, talking about how they miss their kids who are in CPS custody because they went to jail for using, going on rants about narcs, etcetera. They're about 27 or 28. What made you cool in high school makes you a loser as a grown a*s adult, especially when you're a parent.
The mean girl clique in my school 43 years ago is now the mean women clique today.
"if you're under 18, you won't be doin any time. Hey, come out and play". My mantra. I'm 18, I'm clean as a whistle.
BTW. I'm wasy beyond 18. It's just when fafo stopped.
Load More Replies...Odd. Some of them did well in business, science, politics and even minor Hollywood. Others didn't. Had more to do with why they got into partying hard. Was it depression and a feeling that's all that the best that life offered? Or was it to have fun and blow off steam?
Hm, my friend group from different high schools were partying hard back in time (middle '90- to early 2000s). It wasn't outstanding a 2-3 or even 4 days of a party at somebody's wineyard house. I'm safe to say, except of 2 persoin ( one guy, one girl), nobody has these kind of issues 25 years later. True, it wasn't the USA, "'just"' an eastern-european country. And before someone get started about wineyard house part (= rich kids): NOPE. It is very common in the town I was living through my high school-early '20s years for average income families.
At my junior college art school, some of my classmates were partying and doing dr#gs. They generally cut back in university. One of them told me she visited her old neighbourhood and felt very different from the folks who stayed and still partied hard.
Load More Replies...I always felt those people were the real losers in high school. I had my kid young and went to a school for young parents. I thought I would meet some friends through commonality. Nope. There was still the same cliques, except the "cool" girls were the ones who pawned their kids to their parents to go out clubbing every weekend. A group of them took issue with me because I never went out. I told them I have better things to spend my money on. Hoo boy they got offended. One of them stormed into the baby changing area I was in, ranted in my ear how they can spend their money however they want, yadda yadda yadda. I never said they couldn't. All I said was that I have better thing to spend MY money on. Last I heard most of those girls had their kids apprehended.
My high school best friend is pushing 50 and still acts “gangster”. She has one kid in prison and I blame it on how she raised him. When they were little she forced them to stay in their room all day and night so she could smoke and I’m sure by the time they were in high school she was smoking with them. She seems to be a better parent to the youngest one but she’s still out there acting like she did in high school
At my ten year reunion, the prom queen came wearing a tiara with a custom "Queen '03" sash over her shoulder. I had to go outside I was laughing so hard.
But I'll be damned if she didn't rock that outfit the while time, so, respect.
Still sad though.
I just wear my tiara around the house, would never wear it to my high school reunion. Also I don't go to my high school reunion.
In my experience the only people who do go were either "popular" and reliving the good old days (and are usually overweight and/or losing their hair), "nerds" or "losers" who did great or people who lost a ton of weight. Not that I was any of those. 😜
Load More Replies...Ok that girl in the pic Is absolutely stunning omg. I'm so jelly rn. ❤️❤️😊
People who say "high school is the best time of your life".
I would absolutely never ever say HS is the best time of your life - HS was horrible... but man, my knees felt pretty good back then. And that is, without a doubt, what I miss about high school.
The only thing I miss about high school is not feeling pain in the morning if I sleep wrong or sneezed too hard or do anything really.
Nah, I remember those debilitating growing spasms in my knees out of the blue on the way home from school. And the painful stomachaches in the morning that made me late for school.
Load More Replies...I wouldn't called it the best time of my life but I enjoyed HS. There are some things even 30 years later I still kinda miss. I can understand though that for some people it was absolutely the worst time. Depending on the person it could have been a great, horrible, or meh time of their life.
Same. I especially do not miss getting up at 05:45am for Zero Period and then having to stay through 8th Period, while having marching band practice until 7pm every Tuesday AND having track or volleyball practice the other days. Those were some long hours for just being in high school.
Load More Replies...It was most definitely NOT the best time, nor was college. TBH, the best times so far have been as a wife, mother, grandmother ... not saying it has all been perfect or wonderful or magical with rainbows and unicorns, far from, and some of my worst depressive bouts have been as an adult, but I wouldn't trade the smiles of my kids, the giggles of my grand, or the sound of my hubby saying he loves me for anything.
Don't let the Harrison Buetker haters hear you say that
Load More Replies...I had fun at HS, I had fun in my 20s, 30s, through to my 50s, and still having fun.
One time of your life has to have been the best. Doesn't mean it was particularly good.
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Still bullying the "nerds" at your 10 year reunion.
Good point, I did not go to mine (i am geek) this explains a lot!
Load More Replies...I suspect most of the bullied "nerds" have already exacted their revenges, if it was still important to them.
I considered riding the motorcycle cross country and showing up in the standard leather jacket, jeans & engineer boots for the HS reunion. Didn't. The next one I'd have had to fly in from Europe. Didn't. But it could have been amusing.
Load More Replies...I didn't go to my Junior High 20 year reunion for this reason. I found on Facebook some meanies were still talking smack about me on pictures I wasn't in.
I confronted my bully 30 years after high school. He started in on me in 5th grade and then all the way through high school. This was in the 70's--80's before anyone cared. He said he didn't remember do anything he did to me. Classic Narcissist!!
I didn't even know about my 30th reunion, because it was organized and publicized only on Facebook. I didn't really miss anything, though one of my classmates is a minor celebrity.
I wouldn't be caught dead at mine. Ever see Carrie? Or Welcome to the Dollhouse?
Loud mufflers and revving your engines on residential streets.
My former Harley neighbor is not missed. You have a $30,000 bike with no muffler that is so cold blooded it needs to idle for 20 minutes at 5 sm then lion roar accelerate out of the neighborhood at 5:20am. You're 40, right? Happy puberty.
Load More Replies...This incredibly annoying and stupid, but, not really sure how this is relevant to peaking in High School?
In my old neighbourhood, there was 2 vehicles who obnoxiously did this up and down the street, every day, into the evening and late night, from the final thaw of spring until the first snowfall. There was clearly no real place they were going. Just cruising up and down the street to p**s off people.
And do burnouts. When I was young I thought how cool, neat that was. Now that I am a senior citizen, I think it is stupid and no need for that type of action. When people do that, all that is showing me is your stupidity .
This says nothing about peaking in highschool, this is just an a*****e.
I knew a department head that did this with his Dodge Challenger in the office parking lot. He was in his 60's. People just laughed and shook their heads, but he thought he was so cool.
I work in HR and once had a resume that mentioned the applicant had been the captain of the local high school football team. He was in his fifties at the time he submitted this application.
In fairness, American obsession with school/college sports does make it seem like the kids in question are demi-gods.
You're right. 🤦🏾♀️ There's definitely a possibility that a fellow meathead will look at that resume and have a new employee and best friend.
Load More Replies...But sports build character! (The proper reply is "Really? Then what happened to you?")
Anything more than 10 years ago is usually irrelevant. I'm so glad I don't have to include certain things anymore.
That shows leadership skills as a young man. Doesn't mean he's not an asshat or good/ kind person just he can motivate other asshats and he's plenty of experience
It meant he was popular. Captains of sports in high school are chosen by the other team members, they don't have to pass dome leadership test to be picked. And even if they did, it would mean he could motivate teenagers, 40 years ago. Which has nothing to do with working with adults in the present.
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Never advancing your life past the moment when you graduate. I have a cousin who still lives with his parents, has had the same job he had since junior year, and has done f**k-all with his life.
Alternatively, I have a cousin the same age still living with his mom but he's going to college and taking care of his grandmother. I think he wants to make it as a concept artist but he's working on a fallback degree before he makes the big leap.
Huge difference.
Yeap, your future plans and goals make the difference, not your actual circumstances.
And? Some people are happy that way. Maybe f*ck off and leave them alone?
This. Screw being ambitious and having to keep aiming for more. For who?
Load More Replies...So? Imagine trying to live your life based on someone else' expectations for you. Doesn't end well.
OK if the cousins are the same age then it is hard to say cousin 1 has "done f@ckall with his life". America decries the decline of the family while also castigating anyone over 18 still living with their parents which, TBH, is why the American family unit used to be so strong - multi-generational family homes. You cannot say one is a loser and the other is not based solely on their education choices. Jobwise - way too many people view college as the be all and end all of life when for many, way too many, college is nothing but a way to incur debt that will stifle them for the next 40 years. Not everyone needs or wants a college degree in order to have a successful life. One of my cousins started at a fast food outlet in high school, skipped college all together and retired at 55 owning 4 franchises of that fast food outlet. The only "huge difference" between your two cousins is your judgment of what they *in your opinion* should be doing with their lives.
I have a good one for this.
My cousin once dragged me out to a local bar that I don't particularly care for due to its reputation. But I was going through a separation and figured I could use a night out. A guy comes up to me, clearly already drunk, and belligerently declares "I've never seen you in here before."
I replied "that's because I've never been in here before."
Him: "Well I'm just saying I've never seen you here before."
Me: "Ok"
Him: "I'm John. I used to play football at the school up the road. You know the school just up the road? Up on the hill?"
Me: "Yes, I know the school. I went to the same school."
Him: "Yeah, I played football there."
Me: "Good for you?"
Him: "I don't remember you from school."
Me: "I don't imagine you do."
Him: "Well, I'm just saying, I played football there and I dont remember you."
Me: "Ok."
Finally he walked away. More like stumbled away. This was back in around 2013. I graduated in '04, he was 1 or 2 years ahead of me. So it had been over a decade since he graduated, and he was using his *high school football* to hit on chicks at the bar. He moved on to hit on my cousin so I pretended to be her lesbian lover to chase him off lol. She thanked me for it, guy is a total tool and always was.
*Edit: I seem to be catching a little flak from a few people for being "rude" myself. I left a portion of the conversation out to avoid being too long winded. I did ask him if he remembered a secretary at the school, and he started trash talking her. I told him she was my mother, he paused (at least he stopped trash talking mom) and then cycled back to not remembering me belligerently. To add a bit more context, I remembered him from school from a different belligerent encounter. He randomly said to me one day "you're like some kind of pothead, right?" I said no and asked why he thought that. He explained that I hung out with a few known potheads (I did) and that must mean I was a pothead, too. So I explained that they were just my friends and just because they smoked didn't mean I had to do it too, and that I didn't. Which was the truth. He repeated the notion that I must be because of who I hung out with, so I explained again that I didn't. He finally dropped the subject. This dude has always been belligerent, douchy, repetitive, and incapable of carrying a conversation. Hope this info and context clarifies things.*.
"I played football there and I don't remember you." Sounds like a concussion to me.
yeah, did he play a lot of football with his helmet off?
Load More Replies...OP didn't need to clarify. She wasn't being rude. That is problematic of some people that she felt she needed to clarify.
"You played football? I went to every game for 4 years and I don't remember you at all."
My husband's ex went to the same high school as I. Couple years behind me. We never knew each other then . Two years difference. Me, burnout nerd, her jock space cadet. I met her, weirdly, at my Dr s office 30 years later. Her kids were talking about this tall chick dad's dating . She was checking me in and ...the rest is blended family history
She was checking you in, so working, and her kids were there?
Load More Replies...You go a bar to relax and then complain if a drunk tries to talk to you.
Don’t understand how you could get “flak” from this about you being “rude.” Jeez people are sensitive.
I find it sad not only were you catching flack for your recounting of the exchange but it was so bad you had to add further comments. I really don't like society right now.
A guy who graduated from my high school back in 2003 was arrested a few years ago for his 2nd DUI. He was wearing his Letterman jacket in his mugshot.
Where I live, those made of felt and leather are very expensive. They are proper, well made jackets. Most have a random huge letter on the front, but people don't care beyond preferably the first letter of your name. They buy them because they are warm and the combination of felt body and leather arms looks nice. So people of all ages wear them.
And? If it still fits and the jacket is still in good condition why can´t he wear it without being judged like that?
My mom, a 42 year old, has a giant stack of numbers that boys gave her in high school. She brings them out to brag every now and then. It’s embarrassing.
What sort of numbers? Telephone numbers? Boys usually ask for the girl's phone number rather than giving their own.
That is what Ii am thinking. Telephone numbers. Usually boys did have girls telephone numbers. Maybe she was quite popular with the boys.
Load More Replies...Sounds like your mum is prouder of these numbers than her other achievements (eg you). Very unfortunate.
Getting the score of the football game you won against the school's rival tattooed on your shoulder.
I've heard of worse tattoos. Some people are proud of their achievements growing up.
How is this different from getting any other life event memorialized via tattoo?
Actually not surprising. I've seen others, as I said above, I lived in Arkansas and Razorback football is BIG!!
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A high school teacher who berates a student (me) for deciding not to go to prom. "You're going to regret it for the rest of your life!"
I see why you became a high school psychology teacher.
I went, and shocked all of them with being super glamorous. Met the love of my life at the after party
Load More Replies...Why would a teacher "berate" you for that? I didn't go to prom and literally no one cared. Which is a different kind of problem...
I went to my Junior High graduation party ( we don't really have proms in Manitoba, like in the USA.). It was just like a final reminder who alienated I was. I couldn't leave, either. Even if my mom picked me up. It was always this weird policy the school had. The graduation ceremonies was good enough. In High School, some students would hold their own parties at their homes. The teachers would be invited, and ask everyone if they were going. I noped right out of those. They were held in the sketchiest neighbourhoods by the sketchiest students.
Went to my Senior prom with a group of people on the track team. No dates, just all of hanging out at the dance & drive-in after party. Glad I did, girl I was friends with needed a ride home after her date got to aggressive.
Didn't go to my prom or graduation. Almost 30 years later, still don't regret it.
Darn it! I loved my dances (pretty much because I loved to dance).
Want to earn money from home and set your own hours?
E: thank y’all for the hella love. And sorry you all have had that ‘bestie’ (read: distant acquaintance) reach out to you with a desperate sales pitch.
I did have an old best friend reach out to me just to join her MLM. She got pretty annoyed when I didn't show interest.
Yeah they never spoke to you in HS but wanna be friends all the sudden when they’re selling some MLM garbage
Sharing EVERY memory from Facebook talking about the “good ol days” and “wish we could go back” when it’s only been a few years since graduation.
Anyone who graduated a "few years" ago is not allowed to play this game.
Hanging out with kids in high school after high school.
"I get older, they keep staying the same age." - Dazed and Confused
I've seen some of my old Junior High classmates still good friends with each other. Good on them. OOOhhh, they mean people who've graduated still hanging out with people still in High School. Okay. Well, if they're like a year or 2 older than those they're friends with, okay. Or if they have friends who are graduating late, okay. But, yeah, if you're in your 20s stick with people in their 20s.
Late teens or early 20’s you can sort of get away with that. In a way, your early 20’s is like an extension of your teenage years, the brain isn’t fully developed yet. After that, it just feels awkward and creepy if you’re older than 25 and you’re still hanging out with them.
The class that graduated before me had their ten year reunion last year and apparently a big fight broke out over something that happened when they were all still in high school. I guess that is one way to tell if someone peaked in high school. Pretty embarrassing.
Sounds more like a low point in high school that they haven't gotten past.
It depends. I can imagine some situations people would still be sore/upset after ten years without being cringy. There are things you don't forget even after many years - the fact that you were a teenager doesn't change it
I can see not forgetting, but for it to still be so central to your life that you would start a fight at age 28? That's pretty sad.
Load More Replies...Depends what it’s was. Some things you deserve to get your a*s kicked for, even ten years later 🤷🏼♀️
I don't know, it depends on what it was. Though fighting itself is cringe AF.
When I was in high school, this guy a year before me had a fearsome reputation. At house parties, people would fear him just by name alone. He would show up to parties with his cronies and start fights. He came from a decent enough family. Everybody wanted to be on his good side.
Anyway, he graduates high school, and most of us were still in 12th grade.
I remember he used to come around lunctime to smoke with the people out front, shoot the breeze and talk about how much fun it is to just sleep in and do nothing and have all this freedom.
A couple of months of "Ohhh cool!" To, "Why are you still here?" as we awkwardly shuffled back to class.
First I thought he brought a gun to school, looked it up to be sure (in my head all the school shootings), shoot the breeze is an American expression. Never heard of it before.
Yes, or “shoot the s**t” means to casually talk
Load More Replies...The year after graduating high school I went back a couple of times to visit my guidance counselor just to say hello. But that was the only times I went back to my high school.
We had a guy who was a professional student. He managed to make high school last 7 years - the last two he already had enough credits to graduate. I think he kept coming back and enrolling for more courses and they just let him. It was pathetic.
Maybe he wasn't passing all this mandatory courses. I don't know about in the USA, in Canada, you can attend High School until you're 21. After that, you have to go to an Adult Education Centre. Some people like learning and school.
Load More Replies...Doesn´t sound that bad. Sounds like it was just shortly after his graduation and was still kinda on that "high" of finally being done. How was he a couple years later?
He sounds lonely to me. Coming back and hanging with the high school kids means he hasn't been able to move on.
Load More Replies...That sounds like Jerry O’Connel’s character in “can’t hardly wait”
I often wonder how people handle graduating from the institutions. What now? No real logical pathway to a fulfilling life. I dropped out after a few months of hs tried another hs and it was worse so I started my career building America. Never forget that first time driving by the hs at 15, van full of wood and tools smoking as many cigarettes as I wanted and money in my pocket
I did some work at a guys house when I was about 20 when I was on summer break from college. I was doing some landscaping and such. This guy was a cop, about 35, and was married with a pretty nice house. I would work there and he would pop over to the house once or twice a day for lunch or whatever and would check on how the work was going.
But one day he tells me to come to the garage with him. He is searching around the garage for something but won’t tell me what. Finally he finds a box with his old homecoming crown from high school when he was named homecoming king. He started talking about how high school was such great memories and all that. He was trying to show off and thought I’d be really impressed. But I was really embarrassed for him to be honest.
Doing it once is not a problem. Nothing wrong with reliving a happy memory now and then.
If it was tucked away and he had to dig it out he hadn't got it out in a very long time I see no problem, but let's say if he took OP into his house and pulled it off a shelf in a prominent place, then I would say that is a problem.
Load More Replies...There is nothing wrong with reminiscing once in a while. Finding the crown probably opened memory floodgates. He wanted to share those remembered feelings.
People in their 20s (me in my 20s 20 years ago) have mostly zero tolerance for anyone 30 or older and also believed that 30 is old 😆. In my 20s I thought it took forever for me to grow up would also make the rest of my life progressing at a very slow pace. It doesn't and 10 years ago to some people is more like 5 minutes ago and i also wonder about the full context of the convo. That topic just doesn't randomly come up.
Still bragging about high school basketball games from 10 years ago.
Not going to downvote. Sincere question. Sexist question because I don't even want to go there with women. Question. Do men, where you are from, not talkabout that glory moment when they were 15yo. Where they saved the game, made the point, stopped the bully, etc. with wistfulness. I've known my husband for 12 years. I know more about his highschool life than I remember about my highschool life. It's annoyingly charming but the 30 years of accomplishment after highschool are pretty cool too. He just never got to play right field after highschool.
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Billy Joel feels compelled to write a ballad about how you and your ex were the king and the queen of the prom, how the two of you married right after high school, and how it all went to hell from there. Bonus points if your names happen to be Brenda and Eddie.
I can remember all the words to that song, but not why I walked into any given room.
My husband told me something stupid the other day and that pushed the last bit of geometry out of my brain 😅
Load More Replies...“Scenes From an Italian Restaurant” is the name of that song. That is one of Billy Joel’s underrated songs from his 1977 album “The Stranger”.
The song is about what happens many years later after they found out they couldn't go back to the greasers and the best they could do was pick the pieces. I guess it's one of those things where you just have to live it. In other words, IYKYK.
I dated a guy with his high school mascot tattooed on his arm. It was such a turnoff.
Why the downvotes? For anyone non US, it's a perfectly legit question.
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I went to school with a girl whose parents graduated from our high school 20 years prior. All 4 members of their family got the school’s logo tattooed. Her boyfriend still goes to the football games and reposts his game highlights on Instagram. We’re all 21-22.
I’m from New Mexico and live in the largest city in the state. We’ve never had a good hs football team and the bf usually goes to pick up underage girls and brags to everyone about how he was the star football player. If someone from another team makes a really good play he’ll make some kind of remark about how he could’ve done it better or he’ll go into a detail about his JV football experience.
Nothing to do with the topic, but why don't you just say you live in Albuquerque, instead of "the largest city" in New Mexico?
Why is the bf picking up other girls while I would assume, he’s at the game with his gf?0
I grew up in a small town on the Gulf Coast of Texas and have lived in SF, DC, Austin, Phoenix, and Denver. BUT Albuquerque absolutely fascinates me. I have no idea why . . . .
Making any mention of SAT or ACT scores. Bonus points for that IQ test you took when you were a kid online.
Just a guess, but most people with SAT scores worth bragging about probably did *not* peak in high school.
In my experience it is true. People who brag about the scores put so much emphasis on the test itself and not what it may afford them in life. That inability to see past that stalls their career. Edit: The successful ones do not brag because getting top scores was never a doubt or an accomplishment in their mind. The test was just a temporary obstacle. For instance, one guy I know did not brag until he won an award for being like the best MD in the area or something like that. He was just competing at a different level.
Load More Replies...There weren't any online IQ tests when I was a kid. There wasn't any online.
Sheesh, I'd completely forgotten what my SAT scores were by the time I left college. I just remember I did well on the test despite having little sleep the night before. Frankly, I mostly remember my SAT test BECAUSE of the night before. It was Halloween & I was running my high school's booth at the local charity haunted house. A couple of guys came through around 10pm and set off a couple of military grade smoke grenades (smokes AND flames) in the middle of the house. That started a nice fire. What with helping evacuate the house, talking to the police & firemen, having to wait around before I could get my purse and clothes out of the dressing area and the rain starting, it was a miserable night. To make matters worse, our resident Dracula had had heart surgery 4 months before and the fire started in the booth next to his so we had to take him to the hospital to get checked out. I think I finally got to bed after 3 or so and I had to be up at 6 to get ready for the test.
I remember my SAT, ACT, and ASVAB scores because I have a really good memory for trivia. The only time I mention them is when someone starts bragging about how well they did and how it shows their intelligence. I point out it really means they are good at taking the test. If they start saying that I must be jealous because I scored poorly, I brag a little.
I remember my ASVAB score because it literally couldn't have been higher AND I was the least likely person to join the armed forces. (Always physically out of shape and not great at following orders). Because of the score I got recruitment letters from all the service academies. For the record I have the highest respect for those who serve. I just knew I couldn't do it.
Load More Replies...Stuttering John from the Howard Stern show does that all the time
Although I don't talk about my IQ, 10th grade IQ test (oral, because written tops at 135) was 153. I am now a professor with two masters and a Ph.D. So early indicator of what was yet to come.
I don't even know what the SAT tests are. Never heard of ACT. All I know is SAT is some sort of entrance exam for Ivy League schools, and you have to be very, very smart.
Google it. Most colleges use those scores, not just those of the Ivy League.
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Filming yourself running drills and throwing footballs off camera in front of your van/mobile home.
Wanna make bet I can throw a football over them mountains.
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Going to highschool parties when you are out of highschool over a year. A year is okay as you may still have friends there but after they it's just sad.
Forcing your kids to be good at sports.
Or be good at whatever you were. My stepdad was forcing me 2-3 years in my middle-school years on math, because he is a math-nerd. I freaking hated it and the math classes more, than I would naturally by myself. I'm a creative person with imagination and good writing skills (not english is my first language). We were two different worlds.
Parents need to find out what their kids interest is and encourage them in that field instead of trying to force them into what they want them to be. They would have a much better chance at having a good relationship with them.
Load More Replies...I come from a family where everybody but me loves sports. They put me to sleep.
Wearing your high school ring after graduation.
While I actually haven't worn it in forever and have no idea if it would even fit a finger, I wouldn't begrudge anyone wearing their's. My dad bought me my HS graduation ring, and he died when I was 20. I wouldn't be ashamed to wear it, if just to be near to him.
Ahhm, the ring in this photo is from North Texas University, definitely not a high school. That said, I haven't worn my HS ring since, well...starting college the fall after graduating HS.
And again: Why not? I doubt they got it for free, so why shouldn´t they wearing it?
My class ring was one of the ones that doesn't really look like a traditional one. My family lived on a budget but bought me the one I wanted. It was my first peice of real jewelry. The idea of only wearing it until graduation is crazy to me, but if you come from means then I get it I guess
At my high school, we bought our class rings as sophomores.
Load More Replies...I lost mine shortly after I got mine. I doubt if I would wear it, but I still wish I had it. I still have my graduation gown and cap. Never knew what to do with it. That is almost 50 years ago.
The framed artwork made up of all the "kid's" mortarboards in the Cullen's home in "Twilight."
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Huge social media presence, full of interactions with people from high school that you are ‘friends’ with (but never spend any time with in person).
i don't necessarily agree with this one. my friends and i had a great time in high school and many of us are still friends who see each other on occasion. however, a lot of us moved out of the state (or the country, in my case), so we keep up with each others' life achievements thru SM, things like marriage, birth of children/grandchildren, death of parents/other close family, etc. and since most of us try to come home for christmas, we do indeed spend time together in person.
I had some who reached out to me on Facebook. I friended them for a bit then unfriended everyone when I realized they weren't interested in chatting.
A friend is someone who you would recognise if you met them on the street and would stop and chat.
Wouldn't this just be similar to having a "family group chat" that you follow?
So basically "people who were popular in high school, who now publicly remind me, specifically, of their popularity in high school" Some of us have jobs that keep us busy, some run their own businesses, some moved across the country, or out of the country and don't have the time to bow out for a week or two, or the money to spend $5k+ just to meet the standards of what YOU qualify to be a "real" friendship.
Not letting go of old memories where you were QB on the football team, doing senior pranks, s******g on the freshmen, on and on and on and just never shutting up about it.
I am starting to wonder if this is about people who peaked in high school or people who were complete losers in high school and are still sore about it.
I guess we know who peaked in high school . . . .
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“I was in the nhs so I know a little bit about leadership” anytime after high school.
I had to look it up, too: National Honor Society. "The National Honor Society (NHS) is one of the oldest, largest, and most widely recognized cocurricular student organizations _in American high schools_, with 1.4 million members." - Wikipedia.
Load More Replies...Sideways vote here. When I read a 22-yr old's resume' this is a meaningful item. On the resume' of a 28-yr old? She shouldn't have room for it on the page.
When I was in high school, none of the top academic 10% belonged to the NHS. It was considered to be something to put on your college application only if you were desperately afraid of getting not into your college of choice.
This guy who graduated 2 years before us peaked in high school. When it was my year to graduate we had a teachers vs students basketball match and because the PE teacher knew they were gonna lose he invited this guy to play for them. Since he had nothing better to do and wanted to relive his glory days he came and played.
Interesting. My school had an annual teachers vs students hockey game and the teachers always blew them away.
Selling pot to teenagers and then trying to get them to stay and smoke with you.
Or 20something year olds cruising by the junior high and picking up 15yr old girls to take to the park and smoke weed.... Smfh ... I was one of the stupid 15yr olds.
1) Still wearing your letterman jacket and class ring in your 30’s
2) Talking about high school sports games from a different decade as if they meant something.
3) Still living in your hometown and looking forward to that night at the bar just before thanksgiving when everyone who left comes home....so you can talk about high school stuff to people who have grown up and have real lives now.
Lord, so much stupid sh*t in this list. I already talked about the jacket and ring in other posts here. But now "still living in your hometown"? What´s so bad about that?
Nothing wrong with living in your hometown. Read the part of the sentence after the word "and", that's the pathetic part.
Load More Replies...I was still wearing my high school letter jacket after college because I had no job and couldn't afford a new jacket. OK, mf OP?
It specifically says in your 30s. How long were you in college? 🤨
Load More Replies...1) Who gives a s**t? I have zero interest in sports, in any capacity....but that doesn't mean that other people should be shamed for looking fondly on things they enjoyed and/or are proud of. 2) Again, they don't mean anything to YOU....just like i'm sure other peoples eyes glaze over when you talk about Magic: The gathering, Anime or whatever other "interest" you carried over from your youth. 3) 30% of Americans never leave the town they were born in, and reminiscing about the things you look back fondly on, with the people those memories involved is....kinda normal. But it sure seems like a whole bunch of people in this thread didn't have any fond memories, friends or ya know....social lives to speak of, and simply resent those that do.
This thread does seem to have a "looking down your nose at" quality to it. But we have a long tradition (especially recently) where the have nots worship those who at least SEEM to have.
Load More Replies...Chill. OP wasn't referring to "after college" as in one year later, he specifically said "in your 30's." Like ten years later. If you can't afford a new jacket after 10 years you've got some other problem, which is clear from your totally defensive and rude response. OK?
I'm 63 and never qualified for a jacket. But I own several of them (from eBay and thrift stores) and wear them ironically.
I went to a reunion and the queen bee's of the school had their own table. They had a sign that read "horny table". Yeah, no one sat with them..
When at an interview and asked what your biggest achievement was and responding with: well when I was high school ...
One of my high school students saved the life of someone dying on a wilderness mountain side when he was 17. That was peak enough.
As someone who recently graduated, the students who returned to the school every time they came home from school just so people would pay attention to them. Also not sure how to explain it but the people who now posts blank screens and just text on their snapchat stories that just say things like "always crazy to see who you can really trust when xyz happens" or "surprising to see who really cares about you when you need friends the most" Like I said I dont know how to explain it but there's definitely a correlation.
Your only friends are from high school
You tell your college grad older brother "Yes you got a math heavy degree, but in high school I took algebra 2 and you took geometry like everyone else looking for the easy path."
Says to older brother "Everyone looked down on you in high school."
Gets pissed when older brother says "You are 38, you graduated 20 years ago... Please tell me you have something to be proud of from the past 2 decades.".
Screaming ‘I haven’t even begun to peak’.
Working at Scoops Ahoy.
This is a Stranger Things joke. Not meant to put down service employees.
Why? I dunno what that is, but every place needs workers? So why do the employees in that place deserve this ridicule?
Still drinking in the same pub you drank in as a student. Because that’s now full of students. So you’re that guy or girl who never left home and drinks with school kids much younger than you.
That´s stupid. If you like the atmosphere, the food, the drinks, the servers, why should graduation stop you from visiting that place?
I think it's maybe more about wanting to still hang out with students when you're their parents' age than about enjoying the same bar.
Load More Replies..."You know what I like about them freshman girls? I get older but they keep staying the same age."
If this is in the US how many high schoolers are old enough to be in a drinking establishment? I can see still going to the Pizza Hut that was a Friday night HS hangout as an adult, though.
Alumni at a college reunion drinking at the college hangout. Otherwise, no.
Having 3+ kids by the time you're 25.
Edit: I just got home and saw all these replies. For all you folks getting triggered and "well actually" ing me: Save it. I never said there was anything wrong with having a lot of kids at a young age. Just that it indicates you might have "peaked in high school," whatever the f**k you take that to mean. No one is judging your life choices and Reddit is not "s******g on" anyone.
Yeah, that OP can stuff it. If they are happy with it, who are you to judge them as "peaked in high school"? Maybe having a big family is the peak for these people?
My dad had a very successful career at work and serving the community. But his peak was being a father.
Load More Replies...I might be wrong but I think this is getting off the rails. All of the people that everyone supposedly agrees actually peaked in high school may not be the case in their own eyes. So by that standard, we are judging someone’s peak by society at large’s standards. If being a parent is your personal peak, great. However, that usually is not considered a societal peak. Therefore, just maybe… society still views you as someone who peaked in high school.
Obviously the poster is a snob who believes that women should be doing something other than having children, that being a parent is not a worthy endeavor, and that raising children is not a waste of time when you could be dedicating yourself to becoming "successful".
No, it's about the order in which you do these things. Hence the reference to "by the age of.
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A Slipknot tattoo, an older model Honda Civic, and an assistant manager job at Pizza Hut.
I'll upvote for one out of three. Any model Honda Civic still reliably running under its own power is a positive.
So much elitism in this thread... Maybe they are happy like that? Who are you to decide that they have "Peaked in high school"?
True. And providing pizza to your fellow human beings does more good in the world than most clergy contribute.
Load More Replies...What about a slipknot tattooed pizza hut manager rocking a civic tells me is someone has their poop in a group and knows what they want. People =s**t blasting on those dubs while eating pizza doesn't sound horrible too me
Short Soccer Mom haircut in their 20's.
Lets be real, you got cocky, accidentally got a kid who you regret and tell everyone "they are the GREATEST thing ever!" while every weekend they get drunk and act like they really wish they had in their late teens and early twenties. It seemed to last from their mid 20s to late 50's. The only thing that changes is their wrinkles.
OP doesn't have issues, OP has a lifetime subscription.
Tell me you are an angry, bitter, kid hating, Subaru driving Karen without telling me
Maintaining an adolescent style of clothing a decade after graduating. Teen clothing is meant to send a message and even define the wearer. A mature wardrobe shows that you’re socially well-adjusted. I graduated in 2012 when white tank tops, basketball shorts, sandals, and long socks pulled up to the knees were the trend. I see 25-year-olds walking around at stores like this, their belly pushing through the wife beater more than ever before, and it makes me think that they never got over their popularity in 12th grade. And yes, there’s a difference between this and just dressing comfy. This is a specific style.
This whole thread is a trip, actually. Back when I was a believer, I did a two-year mission for my church, and after finishing, I referred back to that experience *nearly every day* for *4 years*. I still do sometimes. I peaked during the mission, and this thread is describing my every behavior. I wonder if these high school peakers are actually just disillusioned with life and using nostalgia as a coping mechanism.
This is a myth. There’s no young person or old person style. There’s just generational shifts. You’ll find that old people wore their “old people” clothes when they were still young people. The fact that they are older is the only thing that makes their style old.
My friends used to get together to play Halo: the old 4 person split screen multiplayer and they'd destroy me every time. Now, we've all moved away and we play shooters together online occasionally. I win almost every time now that they can't see my screen. Those f*****s screen peaked in high school.
Having your parents spend over $1k on a custom designed prom dress, but not even having a date.
Also having your rich parents throw you a music festival for your birthday that is named after you. (Person's-Name-Chella)
I'm very interested to see what the next decade outside of high school is like for this individual.
It will be similar because this has nothing to do with high school and everything with her family's financial position.
Sounds more like the parents are the problem here What type of life skills are they teaching their children?
Dying before graduation.
Some of my students did die before graduation. I remember every one of them, and they are just as alive to me than the ones who lived. All terrible losses.
Did somebody really think this was witty? Somebody at BP obviously did. So two tone-deaf people on the loose. Do better, BP.
BP scrapes and posts (whole branches) from Reddit and other sources. Their only editing is censoring innocent words using AI (Authentic Ignorance) lists.
Load More Replies...so much stupid sh*t in this list. Lot´s of elitism, looking down on people who haven´t "advanced" as much after school then others... 🤦♂️
Yeah, I agree. It was very off-putting. Made the OP actually sound like the one who didn't peak since High School.
Load More Replies...So judgmental. I'm happy with my choice of "Comfort in Familiarity." Obviously the obnoxious ones are distressing, but getting married and having kids has always led to senses of happiness.
Spending the rest of your life bragging about how you scored four touchdowns in one football game at Polk High School.
It could be worse. It got you a Dodge, a house, a stay at home wife, a ditsy daughter, a randy son, and a dog. And great neighbors.
Load More Replies...Very judgemental list. I grew up in a tiny town of about 500 where most of my friend's parents and grandparents also grew up there. I ended up moving away for years then eventually made my way back to the region but I'm still a couple hours away. The vast majority of my family and friends still live in that same town and they are some of the happiest people I know. They have so much support and love for eachother and they make my social life look pretty pathetic compared to their weekly partying and shenanigans. I would love to move back but the job market there is obviously not the greatest and I've gotten used to making more money than I can there, one day I plan to make the move though.
If the guy who signed on as the author to this article created this, he really needs to get off his elitist high horse. He obviously grew up with wealthy parents and probably went to an Ivy League college and was a member of a fraternity 🤮
I didn't go to high school, does that mean I peaked in middle school? XD
I think the real "losers" are the ones who are so obsessed with pointing out what they consider someone else's failures
I'm not sure exactly at what point do people become so judgmental that it just comes off as bitter, but it's somewhere in this post. Just do your thing and don't worry if a person is or isn't wearing a f*****g JACKET OR RING. Maybe they've had an incredibly difficult life and being good at sports was their only respite. More often than not, the complaints here show how much the OPs themselves haven't moved on.
Most (all?) of this is about the US high school. In Europe not only the various countries' school systems have a totally different structure, but also school habits differ. School sports is no public thing, not even in the own village. Homecoming, Prom Queen and King do not exist. Big school festivals, attracting more public than the families of the students rarely exist, usually it is a summer fair in which the school presents itself with some experiments in the labs and such.
so much stupid sh*t in this list. Lot´s of elitism, looking down on people who haven´t "advanced" as much after school then others... 🤦♂️
Yeah, I agree. It was very off-putting. Made the OP actually sound like the one who didn't peak since High School.
Load More Replies...So judgmental. I'm happy with my choice of "Comfort in Familiarity." Obviously the obnoxious ones are distressing, but getting married and having kids has always led to senses of happiness.
Spending the rest of your life bragging about how you scored four touchdowns in one football game at Polk High School.
It could be worse. It got you a Dodge, a house, a stay at home wife, a ditsy daughter, a randy son, and a dog. And great neighbors.
Load More Replies...Very judgemental list. I grew up in a tiny town of about 500 where most of my friend's parents and grandparents also grew up there. I ended up moving away for years then eventually made my way back to the region but I'm still a couple hours away. The vast majority of my family and friends still live in that same town and they are some of the happiest people I know. They have so much support and love for eachother and they make my social life look pretty pathetic compared to their weekly partying and shenanigans. I would love to move back but the job market there is obviously not the greatest and I've gotten used to making more money than I can there, one day I plan to make the move though.
If the guy who signed on as the author to this article created this, he really needs to get off his elitist high horse. He obviously grew up with wealthy parents and probably went to an Ivy League college and was a member of a fraternity 🤮
I didn't go to high school, does that mean I peaked in middle school? XD
I think the real "losers" are the ones who are so obsessed with pointing out what they consider someone else's failures
I'm not sure exactly at what point do people become so judgmental that it just comes off as bitter, but it's somewhere in this post. Just do your thing and don't worry if a person is or isn't wearing a f*****g JACKET OR RING. Maybe they've had an incredibly difficult life and being good at sports was their only respite. More often than not, the complaints here show how much the OPs themselves haven't moved on.
Most (all?) of this is about the US high school. In Europe not only the various countries' school systems have a totally different structure, but also school habits differ. School sports is no public thing, not even in the own village. Homecoming, Prom Queen and King do not exist. Big school festivals, attracting more public than the families of the students rarely exist, usually it is a summer fair in which the school presents itself with some experiments in the labs and such.
