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Women Are Sharing The Responses They Got After Asking Out Their Crush On A Date, And It’s Too Entertaining
You might not be scared of lions, tigers, and bears, but the thought of asking your crush out on a first date probably sends a shiver of dread up your spine. A British relationship blogger named Oloni recently pushed her followers to face their fears and ask men of their dreams out - and, of course, share their responses after completing this viral Internet challenge. The results of this experiment will have you rolling on the floor laughing, deepen your expertise on how to ask a guy out, and may even give you a boost of confidence.
The brave women from this list didn't need any help in deciding how to ask someone out; they just plunged forward with the riskiest of texts received some good news and bad news. By that, we mean that some of the guys were more than happy to take the ladies up on their offers, and others... Well, let's just say they made a hard left on 'Nope' street. Just cringe from your seat and be glad it wasn't you learning the hard lesson on how to talk to your crush.
Scroll down to see how #DateChallenge played out in the funny comments below, and share the most interesting response you've received to asking out a crush in the comments.
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#1
The Favorite Part
Alica Mungomery 7 years ago
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#2
It's Finally Happening
KELSEY GOODEN 5 years ago
what is the world you in fifth grade and talking about this . I telling your mom
David Ross 8 years ago
No such thing as what you think is a silly question. It may not be to someone else. The worst thing they can say is no, and then you know for sure and can move on.
#3
Three Times Yes
#4
Too Little Too Late
Ellis 8 years ago
If it’s Lagos, Nigeria, odds are he kept it a secret from many people
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#5
The Full Course
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Natasha Hubbard 8 years ago
Why does everybody think this is cute? It's a tad creepy...although the person clearly doesn't mind, LOL
#6
Ready To Spoil You
CelSlade 8 years ago
Yay! I'm vicariously elated for complete strangers and I don't care! Vote up!!! :D
Melody Lanzatella 8 years ago
RIGHT?!?! I feel like someone just said yes to ME!!! LOL
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#7
Straight To The Point
Chris Stea 8 years ago
Rather crude. Leaves nothing to the thrill of dating. Just sex. You can buy that.
#8
Happy Ending
Maureen Zappellini 8 years ago
I'm guessing this isn't a guy but another gal ( judging by the screen wallpaper) and the crush hasn't come out yet?
Adriana E. Henricy 8 years ago
one of the girls in the background pic is Kehlani, a singer
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Eri Yoshida 8 years ago
This just reeks of social anxiety and I know the feeling exactly. I give props to the person being asked for being up-front about the issue and to the asker for being so understanding about it!
Natasha Hubbard 8 years ago
I think it's more likely that this is a gay person who hasn't come out yet and, in turn, doesn't go out in public on dates b/c of the fear of being outed. It's quite sad.
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Short And Simple
#10
Blocked
Sivi 8 years ago
Now now. We dont know this person or the person who sent the text, maybe he/she had issue with the person in the past.
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#11
Wourld Lorve To
#12
A Wholesome Man
Stille20 8 years ago
Ha ha... I love his "oh, right... I don't want sex... just making sure you didn't" line.
lee cook 5 years ago
I know you weren't with me I'm coming to cut mine off is only 6 inches
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#13
Just To Be Clear
Anasirch (Takogami) 8 years ago
This kind of response is also prevalent with the women ;D
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Allana Rose 8 years ago
WTH?? After a response like that, I would have changed my mind about asking him/her out!
#14
No Tengo Dinero
JustLooking46 8 years ago
That's like saying "I will allow to take me on a date." or "YOU WILL DATE ME NOW!"
moonsong23 8 years ago
For some reason I thought of Blueberry Sans when I read that XD
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#15
Don't Mind If I Do
Susan Forbes 8 years ago
And what's with the "I don't mind"? Glad you're so enthusiastic- not!
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#16
Can't Stress That Enough
Arthur IV Macogay 8 years ago
when you realized that person you turned down before was actually a cool and great guy lols .. regrets really do come late :v
#17
The Fun Part
#18
Thanks But No Thanks
India Perkins 8 years ago
He dident put a space between the thank-you. Its suposed to be No thank you... XD grammar police
#19
Yeah Nah
Qwerty12345 8 years ago
F*****g hell, i got a friend/possible guy i am interested in who I JUST F*****G KNOW would say that
#20
Right To The Point
Maiden Fury 8 years ago
Haha...I was thinking that too..about several of them!
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Working For It
Rebeca Suttle 8 years ago
still didn't say yes or no, sounds like i don't wanna but don't want to hurt your feelings......
Christian Sanz 8 years ago
He wanted to be sure if she was serious or just one night out.
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But Why??
sunnyrei82 8 years ago
A) either he's a jerk B) Maybe they never talk, and suddenly this girl just asks him out and he wonders "is this a joke, a bet or something?"
Cerys Dunbar 8 years ago
i was thinking it was a self deprecating thing like he was like why are you asking ME on a date?
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Walkus-Andrew Andrea 8 years ago
They're probably already a couple and been together for awhile. My husband would probably laugh at me if I asked him out on a date
Michelle Dodson 8 years ago
Because she was apparently confused into thinking you might be a decent human being instead of a complete douchebag.
#23
Can't Wait!
Chelle Jones 8 years ago
Now he really was hoping she would ask him out. Likes her to much to wait.. So sweet.
#24
New Phone
RespectThePaiva 8 years ago
"Who dis" is a bit of a meme. It could be an hilarious take between two people who know each other well. For all we know, the next two lines of interaction could be "No, seriously. Will you go on a date with me?" and "Sure."
Load More Replies... Maureen Zappellini 8 years ago
From Seth Meyers /Amy Pohler bit on the Emmys 2014 " New phone, who dis?" Has become a classic
Rebekah 8 years ago
Will someone please explain to me what the texters who shorten words do with all their newly found time? "Who dis" > "Who is this?"... we are talking at least 2 seconds of free time made here. WHAT DO THEY DO WITH IT ALL????
איילת שביט 8 years ago
I always thought it was fake accent... "Me speak no English, who dis?"
Load More Replies... Allana Rose 8 years ago
Who dis??!!! LMAO....they have no clue so obv. you didn't make much of an impression on them!
#25
That's Most Likely A No
CelSlade 8 years ago
I'm running out of disdainful epithets, I'll have to consult the Random Insult Generator: What an Atomic A*s Spasm!
Lady Lazarus 8 years ago
wow I am going to use this excuse to get out of any situation I want to
moonsong23 8 years ago
To all the people saying this is rude/this person has no manners, please understand that this person may not have intended to come across as rude, it's just that some people are socially awkward and don't know how to politely reject someone.
#26
I'd Rather Die
Patrick Lopez 8 years ago
Without knowing the history between the two individuals, isn't it a bit presumptuous to say he's being a jerk? Maybe this IS him being polite, after thwarting many unwanted advances by the person who sent the text.
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Iris Omri-Engler 8 years ago
At least you know that guy isn't worth to invest time at him any longer
#27
Yes Please!
Lydia Andrews 8 years ago
She just asked him if he wants a BJ ("the neck"). Just another slang term for it, like head.
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#28
Sounds Fun
#29
Date Challenge Response
Stijn Kraft 8 years ago
Interesting how his name is spelled differently in her phone and in her text.
#30
Do Sharks Walk?
Chris Stea 8 years ago
We call these guys rude in every situation like this. But maybe these women are real headcases!
Shauday Smith 8 years ago
Ya'll getting made at these albeit, abrasive responses... but come on. You know women respond like this in kind to creeper dudes.. Ya'll don't know if these girls are mad creepers and need a good shooting down on these date responses. lol!
Miranda Helmich 6 years ago
As someone wanting to study sharks, I both love and HATE this rejection. I would get a chuckle but I think it'll hurt more in the end.
Miranda Helmich 6 years ago
Oof! Sharks are my thing and this is a classy way to turn me down but would definitely hurt.
#31
Up For Interpretation
Chocolate Quente e Biscoitos 8 years ago
I hope that reaction was that of a non expected but very happy surprise..
#32
A Movie, Maybe?
#33
Awkward Chat
Kim Lorton 8 years ago
I really dislike the fact that people have forgotten how to speak English, and how to spell. Language is beautiful! It's how we communicate, or should do so. It can make or break a first impression, form a story in a poem, elicit emotions, and then, you have those loose crappy, unfinished, badly spelled , unformed wordy stuff, that doesn't even come close to language! How about this, young ladies... hi, I really like you, and I'd like to take you on a date, and find out if we have any common interests. I'll pay, as I'm asking you, and if you don't want to, that's fine also. But I'd like to give it a try. And if we don't have a connection, then hey, we just made a new friend! So, would you like to go out with me Friday night?
#34
Doesn't Look Too Good
CelSlade 8 years ago
Just had a sudden flash premonition of the next two months of her life - they go on a date. It goes well, they go on another, they get it on. He disappears in the morning and never calls her, doesn't respond to her txts - generally does his best Casper impression. She eats her feelings for a month or two, until she realizes she'd dogged a bullet and resolves to never again ignore such obvious red flags as a lame-a*s, disrespectful, 'K' response when she asks a guy out.
Chocolate Quente e Biscoitos 8 years ago
He goes like "Alright, I'll give you the pleasure of my company" xD
#35
Never Ever
Alberto 8 years ago
you have no idea about the history, yet you still thing your general opinion matters
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Bounce Away Now
Vera Deme 8 years ago
He said it nice, I would prefer it this way than a straight NO.
Load More Replies... Chelle Jones 8 years ago
Why do these rejected females send back a LOL message to these a******s? Just so he can say, " And look the b***h even laughed about me telling he no cause she a skank " Please women have some self respect. Reply back with some fight or don't reply.
#37
Ew No
Jess Harvie 8 years ago
This could seriously hurt that girl. Fine if you want to say no, but say it nicely
Felipe Almeida 8 years ago
Girls should take note on that too... Dudes have feelings as well.
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Patrick Lopez 8 years ago
There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.
Isabel Tamayo 8 years ago
You can say no and reject an invitation in a nice way... Just as nice as how she tried to invite you.
Ian Mello Rosa 8 years ago
only person here thinking that these girl might've actually done something to deserve this kind of treatment?
#38
Date Challenge Response
Smoofy 8 years ago
wow all these people are being jerks, I mean some are nicely rejecting but...
Lucy Bell 8 years ago
Your comment has more upvotes than the post itself. 😂
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Kim Lorton 8 years ago
That little boy s**t, is the most nastiest sick d**k! He needs a penectomy! I will be glad to oblige...💩💩💩💩
Shila Islam 2 years ago
If I actually got the chance I’d love to slap that guy’s face what a jerk
Baked Panda 8 years ago
Wow... Karma is a b***h gentleman and she will come for you... not your friend lol
#39
That Requires An Explanation
Handsome Otter 8 years ago
Means yes its I think slang from London, least the area I know of.
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#40
Why Not
Maureen Zappellini 8 years ago
Ha! From an insult generator I'm assuming? Funny
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What do you think ?
Patrick Lopez 8 years ago
There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.
Taryn Wallace 8 years ago
I was thinking the same thing. For all we know these people could be really good friends, they could have had a terrible falling out, they could be married to each other for all we know. I know if I asked my bf on a date he'd probably say something like "ewww hell no not with you" and we have been together for 8 1/2 years so I don't think there's a need for all these pissy comments. Some people are s****y but you never know.
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christina murray 8 years ago
lol some of these were harsh as hell but f**k it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.
Gigi 8 years ago
Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.
Kara Witham 8 years ago
I love the yes ones that seem like they were hoping to be asked but too shy do make the first move.
Leoninus Fate 8 years ago
lot of people are a******s here how many of them women do you think will actually go out with the person, like 3 of them said they had no one else to ask plus why is it so bad for a male to turn down a female but the other way its ok? I'm a gay male, I got a lot of girls that "crush on me" if one asked me on a date I would say no, and a lot of them are just friends some have had me go on dates with them and have tried to "make me straight" by forcing them selfs at me does that mean IM the bad guy for the next time That person wants to ask me on a date? I had this one girl she was my best friend, BEFORE I came out, she hung off me, but she was always trying to get me to touch her, it ended up with a restraing order, and I stil got random texts from her, WAS I THE BAD GUY to be rude and block her like so many people said was "wrong " for guys on here? how many of those girls with a crush, might have msg the person a ton of times before this post was the last straw and blocked them?
Jas Faulkner 8 years ago
That's such a shame. I've asked male friends out for coffee, lunch, etc. It's not always about romance. I've had more than few conversations that go this way: Me: Let's go get some coffee and talk. Him: I'm Gay. Me: I know. I just want to dish about show/movie/singer/whatever we've talked about before that we both like.
Load More Replies... Allana Rose 8 years ago
I think it's good that these girls took the risk like guys are always expected to do. Give you a little taste of scary it can be and maybe next time you turn a guy down, you will go easy on him instead of acting like a b***h. Some girls can be so cruel to a poor guy just cause he isnt her "taste" or whatever.
Celeste Spaniel 8 years ago
I originally got rejected by the man who has now my been my fiancé for eight years! :P
BREAK YOUr perceptions 8 years ago
the hell man. some of these dudes have no chill/ no manners. i feel like we should give props to the guys who let them down easy. but really that should be the standard not the superlative.
Alusair Alustriel 8 years ago
I feel sorry for all those who were into jerks and had courage to ask those jerks out. Many of the answers are just rude and at least now those who asked know.
Patrick Lopez 8 years ago
There are a lot of people making assumption about these guys being jerks in their answers, without knowing any of the history of the people involved. We have no idea if the person who sent the message is a creepy stalker type, a crazy ex, etc. Maybe the person who received the message REEEEEAAAALLY hates the sender, and has made it obvious in the past. Maybe the person receiving the message is actually homosexual, and out and open about it. There's just not enough context.
Taryn Wallace 8 years ago
I was thinking the same thing. For all we know these people could be really good friends, they could have had a terrible falling out, they could be married to each other for all we know. I know if I asked my bf on a date he'd probably say something like "ewww hell no not with you" and we have been together for 8 1/2 years so I don't think there's a need for all these pissy comments. Some people are s****y but you never know.
Load More Replies... christina murray 8 years ago
lol some of these were harsh as hell but f**k it, i've curved people just as hard. can't have a double standard.
Gigi 8 years ago
Ouch. I asked a guy out once and he laughed at me. Hard. I never asked another guy.
Kara Witham 8 years ago
I love the yes ones that seem like they were hoping to be asked but too shy do make the first move.
Leoninus Fate 8 years ago
lot of people are a******s here how many of them women do you think will actually go out with the person, like 3 of them said they had no one else to ask plus why is it so bad for a male to turn down a female but the other way its ok? I'm a gay male, I got a lot of girls that "crush on me" if one asked me on a date I would say no, and a lot of them are just friends some have had me go on dates with them and have tried to "make me straight" by forcing them selfs at me does that mean IM the bad guy for the next time That person wants to ask me on a date? I had this one girl she was my best friend, BEFORE I came out, she hung off me, but she was always trying to get me to touch her, it ended up with a restraing order, and I stil got random texts from her, WAS I THE BAD GUY to be rude and block her like so many people said was "wrong " for guys on here? how many of those girls with a crush, might have msg the person a ton of times before this post was the last straw and blocked them?
Jas Faulkner 8 years ago
That's such a shame. I've asked male friends out for coffee, lunch, etc. It's not always about romance. I've had more than few conversations that go this way: Me: Let's go get some coffee and talk. Him: I'm Gay. Me: I know. I just want to dish about show/movie/singer/whatever we've talked about before that we both like.
Load More Replies... Allana Rose 8 years ago
I think it's good that these girls took the risk like guys are always expected to do. Give you a little taste of scary it can be and maybe next time you turn a guy down, you will go easy on him instead of acting like a b***h. Some girls can be so cruel to a poor guy just cause he isnt her "taste" or whatever.
Celeste Spaniel 8 years ago
I originally got rejected by the man who has now my been my fiancé for eight years! :P
BREAK YOUr perceptions 8 years ago
the hell man. some of these dudes have no chill/ no manners. i feel like we should give props to the guys who let them down easy. but really that should be the standard not the superlative.
Alusair Alustriel 8 years ago
I feel sorry for all those who were into jerks and had courage to ask those jerks out. Many of the answers are just rude and at least now those who asked know.
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