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Homeowner Doesn’t Belong To HOA, But Is Getting Letters About Not Conforming To Their Rules
Homeowner Doesn’t Belong To HOA, But Is Getting Letters About Not Conforming To Their Rules
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Homeowner Doesn’t Belong To HOA, But Is Getting Letters About Not Conforming To Their Rules

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Private property is an inalienable right of every US citizen, and this right is enshrined in the Constitution. Indeed, no one can encroach, for example, on your house, no one has the right to tell you what to do on your land plot, how to run a household, how to do (or not to do) repairs in the house – unless, of course, this violates the rights of other people.

But it’s with this that three completely magical letters are connected, hiding behind which, some people quite legally dictate to homeowners what they should actually do and how. What are these three letters? FBI? No. CIA? Absolutely not. HOA? That’s it, bingo!

Here’s more proof of just how entitled and cheeky HOA can be these days with this post by u/nexttohoa on the AITA Reddit community, with nearly 18.1K upvotes and around 2.5K different comments in a year. The story of a dramatic confrontation between one person and a soulless bureaucratic machine… However, let’s talk about everything just in order.

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    The author of the post inherited a house with a vegetable garden from their late grandpa

    Image credits: Thank You (23 Millions+) views (not the actual photo)

    So, the author of the original post inherited the house from their late grandfather a few years ago. According to their own words, the OP had just graduated and the house was very close to the area where they wanted to work. In other words, not just a house, but a real dream. There was also a vegetable garden near the house, which the old gentleman had been cultivating with such love for many, many years.

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    Several years ago, a development company build a semi-gated community close to the author’s house

    So several years passed, and then a development company began to buy out neighboring houses, planning to build a semi-gated community in their place. The OP recalls that the company representatives also made an offer for their house, but the homeowner flatly refused. In the end, the fence of the new community ended up about a few yards from their property, but it wasn’t closed all the way.

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    Image credits: nexttohoa

    The HOA board started bombarding the author of the post with letters on fees, their lawn and the house paint

    And so, after a while, the OP began to receive regular letters from the local HOA about fees, their lawn, and their house paint. The thing is, says the author of the post, that the house was painted brown, and all the buildings in the new community are designed in a gray-blue color scheme. As a result, HOA management required the OP to repaint the house, arguing that they were automatically a member and therefore must obey their rules.

    Image credits: nexttohoa

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    Of course, this was not true, the OP recalls, because they had official documents, certified by county, about where the boundaries of their land plot began and ended. The OP tried to contact the HOA president to stop this wave of emails, however, they just never got back to them.

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    The homeowner ended up crashing the HOA meeting with all the papers claiming that their plot is not a part of the community

    So after receiving yet another outrageous request, the OP just crashed the last meeting they had and explained that their house wasn’t part of the neighborhood and therefore not part of the HOA. After seeing the papers, the HOA board slowed down a bit, but said that since the OP’s house is so close, they still have to abide by their rules. To this, the OP simply showed an official response from the development company, confirming the boundaries of their plot.

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    Image credits: denisbin (not the actual photo)

    Interestingly, after this very confrontation, the OP unexpectedly received an email from the HOA president, who demanded that the vegetable garden be torn down and the house repainted because it supposedly looked “rustic” and, in the president’s terminology, “was bringing property values ​​down”. Of course, the OP did not comply with these requirements, although they did not want to negatively affect others, especially considering the current market.

    People in the comments encouraged the author, stating that they’ve done everything right and giving their own examples of entitled HOA

    However, the commenters were quick to dispel the Original Poster’s doubts, arguing that even if their house was in complete disarray, this does not give the HOA representatives absolutely any right to dictate any orders and make demands of them. “What if I said, hey your car is parked close to mine so therefore your car is my car?” aptly notes one of the people in the comments.

    It must be admitted that such arbitrariness on the part of the HOA, alas, takes place literally everywhere. For example, one commenter described how a friend of theirs not only faced HOA demands from new neighbors about the appearance of their own house and car, but they even called the police several times.

    It all ended, as the commenter recalls, when their friend simply put Halloween and Christmas decorations up in the middle of summer and would park his old beat-up truck front and center. Great way to deal with such an entitled bureaucracy, by the way!

    To go on with the subject, here is another story about how entitled neighbors tried to force this homeowner to build a new, bigger house on their plot. And besides, as always, we look forward to your comments on this tale, as well as stories about your own history of dealing with overly annoying HOA.

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    BoredPandaSucks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i don't care what the circumstance or the story is but if it involves any HOA, THEY are the A*holes! HOAs are BullSh!t

    tHeBoRdEsTpAnDa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IKR. I saw the title 'AITA for not being in a HOA' and immediately I was like 'Nope'. HOAs suck

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    Beck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love these about HOA's. For some reason it makes me extremely happy when i read that people put up christmas lights in summer and pink flamingos everywhere! Suck it, HOA!😎

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    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From what I have read about HOAs, it's a default NTA

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of all, there is a precedent set that says if you lived in your home before the HOA existed, then you have no obligation to join the HOA even if you are smack dab in the middle of it. Joining is voluntary. Secondly, Call the police on the HOA and press charges for HOA Harassment (yes, it is a thing). We had someone try to start a HOA where I live (I live in the Midlands, UK) and EVERYONE, using very colourful language, said no and some threatened to kick the living excrement out of them. Some, including myself, explained that this is not America and most of the houses are owned by a government 'HOA' called The Local Council, and they would prosecute anyone trying to override tenancy agreements with their own rules. They backed off. It was an American family and the mother was a traditional Karen. More stereotyped than 2 computer keyboards side by side

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why didn't she just stay in the U.S.A.? You go to another country, don't be an a*s.

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    Jen Hart
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Their fence ends a few yards away but isn't completely closed." Sounds like HOA could apply some of their collected fees and close off their fence... make an obvious separation between their "property values" and his.

    Ryan-James O'Driscoll
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOAs have the potential to be good for everyone involved in them, where they are relatively benign. Everybody chipping in for communal maintainence and facilities, etc. I can even understand some rules in some communities to prevent extremes of neglect that can genuinely affect the neighbourhood. The problem is that they do often get controlled by busybodies who want to transform the HOA into their personal vision of stepford wives style utopia. They begin creating rules against stuff that doesn't affect anyone adversely, disproportionately targeting vulnerable people in the process. They restrict people's enjoyment of their own homes in the name of "property values" when often the thing that they are wailing about has no impact on values at all. They turn into little dictators, all backed up by bylaws that given them an obscene about of power over other people.

    Mad McQueen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serve them a restraining order. Have the zoning posted in a front window. Decorate and paint crazy. Enjoy your new home. I'm sure no one in that HOA gives a poo about you because you're outside of it. It's one mean dude being a c word. And make every holiday over the top. And fence in your property.

    Sean Matherne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The response to "AITA for not listening to the HOA?" is always "no." Details don't matter.

    Max
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Three words: plastic lawn flamingos.

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    BoredPandaSucks
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i don't care what the circumstance or the story is but if it involves any HOA, THEY are the A*holes! HOAs are BullSh!t

    tHeBoRdEsTpAnDa
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IKR. I saw the title 'AITA for not being in a HOA' and immediately I was like 'Nope'. HOAs suck

    Load More Replies...
    Beck
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love these about HOA's. For some reason it makes me extremely happy when i read that people put up christmas lights in summer and pink flamingos everywhere! Suck it, HOA!😎

    ADVERTISEMENT
    James016
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    From what I have read about HOAs, it's a default NTA

    Cyber Returns
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First of all, there is a precedent set that says if you lived in your home before the HOA existed, then you have no obligation to join the HOA even if you are smack dab in the middle of it. Joining is voluntary. Secondly, Call the police on the HOA and press charges for HOA Harassment (yes, it is a thing). We had someone try to start a HOA where I live (I live in the Midlands, UK) and EVERYONE, using very colourful language, said no and some threatened to kick the living excrement out of them. Some, including myself, explained that this is not America and most of the houses are owned by a government 'HOA' called The Local Council, and they would prosecute anyone trying to override tenancy agreements with their own rules. They backed off. It was an American family and the mother was a traditional Karen. More stereotyped than 2 computer keyboards side by side

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why didn't she just stay in the U.S.A.? You go to another country, don't be an a*s.

    Load More Replies...
    Jen Hart
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Their fence ends a few yards away but isn't completely closed." Sounds like HOA could apply some of their collected fees and close off their fence... make an obvious separation between their "property values" and his.

    Ryan-James O'Driscoll
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HOAs have the potential to be good for everyone involved in them, where they are relatively benign. Everybody chipping in for communal maintainence and facilities, etc. I can even understand some rules in some communities to prevent extremes of neglect that can genuinely affect the neighbourhood. The problem is that they do often get controlled by busybodies who want to transform the HOA into their personal vision of stepford wives style utopia. They begin creating rules against stuff that doesn't affect anyone adversely, disproportionately targeting vulnerable people in the process. They restrict people's enjoyment of their own homes in the name of "property values" when often the thing that they are wailing about has no impact on values at all. They turn into little dictators, all backed up by bylaws that given them an obscene about of power over other people.

    Mad McQueen
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Serve them a restraining order. Have the zoning posted in a front window. Decorate and paint crazy. Enjoy your new home. I'm sure no one in that HOA gives a poo about you because you're outside of it. It's one mean dude being a c word. And make every holiday over the top. And fence in your property.

    Sean Matherne
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The response to "AITA for not listening to the HOA?" is always "no." Details don't matter.

    Max
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Three words: plastic lawn flamingos.

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