So my gf has gone through multiple relationships in the past year and I am scared that I will be the next one in the gutter. Please help me on what I should do?
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There is nothing you can do other than be who you are. You cannot make your girlfriend like you. And if she decides it is over then that is what is meant to be.
Be kind and considerate. Don't be clingy, don't pressure her.
Do what is best for you and what you feel is the right and honorable thing to do. If she chooses to break up with you, than probably the problem is not you. The problem is her lack of commitment.
I would try and be open with her about it. Tell her how you feel and maybe you can talk things thorough?
I leaned a long time ago that there is nothing you can do to make someone stay with you. Love is a game of chance. Don’t let this fear control you. Just be yourself and appreciate every day you spend together. Ask her what she is looking for out of a relationship. What are her expectations of you and of herself. Maybe that will help you with knowing what the future holds as well as helping her to know what she wants for her future.
Sometimes people get into relationships because they simply don’t want to be alone rather than them trying to find their special someone.
