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In today's world, the phrase 'my therapist said' is a pretty strong one. With more and more people deciding to attend therapy, we're hopefully entering a world with improved mental health.

There's an Instagram account called 'My Therapist Says' and it's full of catchy, thoughtful and funny posts all related to daily struggles and folks being a bit of a mess. Whether you're a mental health professional or just a person enjoying deeper thoughts, you might find some cool stuff there. We've handpicked our favorite posts from the account, so don't hold back and scroll on!

It all started with two young women sharing funny memes on Instagram. Now, with a whopping 8.2 million followers, Lola Tash and Nicole Argiris can easily be called internet meme queens. Although the name of the account is about a therapist saying something, it is mostly about young folks sharing anxious thoughts and, well... being a bit of a mess.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No i refuse to lower my snackspectations so I just close the fridge and then go back an hour later when I’m so hungry I can’t function and expect there to be different items in the fridge this time.

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Alexej Dvorak
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm absolutely gonna adopt snackspectations into my vocabulary.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Always have some pickles. Not the world's greatest snack but cheap and long lasting. Generally, don't binge eat a jar of pickles.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do, I like pickles so I usually eat a whole jar because I like them so much. I don't need to watch anything, just give me my pickles!

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve actually had this as a snack before 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love a pinch of parmesan cheese! Sometimes a pickle or pickled jalapeno

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always have good snacks cuz I’m rich. My butler fills up the fridge trice a day and readies my space ship so I can fly to sun every night with my good old friend Elvis.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes I don’t even have cheese and the dog is looking at me and saying WTH, those are my snacks. Not when I’m out of cheese, they’re not.

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Janet Howe
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But I keep going back to the same refrigerator every hour, just to see if anything has changed in there. Like maybe some chocolate cake just happened to drop out of the sky, in the last 45 minutes.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, and as of this point on, i decal are that snackspectations is officially a word

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A slice of sandwich meat with mustard on it. Started that habit over 10 years ago and going strong. 😂

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

or suddenly you are cooking that single-mug thing you saw on a reel and you end up eating a charred "brownie" that tastes like salt and burnt toast.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I try to always have Pink Lady apples and precut cheddar in my fridge at all time. My dog goes crazy because she knows the sound of cheese!

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Alex Smith
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of the time those are specifically the snacks I am looking for (for me tho that's likely because I'm autistic and eating random comfort foods is soothing).

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Sonja
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. I desperately eat everything in sight, trying to satisfy the unidentifiable craving, then repeat because it didn’t work the first time. Which reminds me. I want a snack.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a spoonful of apple butter yesterday for a snack. Figured it was lower calorie to skip the bread....

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Last week I microwaved a tin of sweetcorn (in a mug, not a tin) with the intent of adding the last of the cheese, but the last of the cheese turned out to have been the previous days snacky snack

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wanna hear a super sad story? I grew believing that adults were perfect and never made mistakes because that's who my mother was. Little did I know that she was a liar, mean, manipulative, negative and so on. 38 years old now, still can't seem to undo the damage she caused me. I still believe that adults should be good people. Every day I'm humbled and reminded otherwise every day. Thanks mom for the permanent disappointment.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Snackspectations" wherein Pip, a young man of humble beginnings eats the crumbs of ancient wedding cake because there were no cheese slices and not a random grape nor any kind of small soft fruit to be found.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me eating three crackers and a banana because we had no snacks at home.

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David Martin
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not in the last two hours. I made some popcorn so I'm chill for now...

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mike_87
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Croutons.... the go to snack when there is nothing good left

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cheese + whatever hot sauce is close enough and able to hit me with an endorphin rush.

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Shane Hussel
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have this thing I don't go for a snack unless I know exactly what I am going for.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cheese and mayonnaise on white bread is my go-to. Or mayonnaise and saltine crackers.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not quite the same but, I just ate the radishes and chips/crisps left over from my lunch from several hours ago that were still on the side table because I'm that lazy.

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Megan Posa
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Throw some cashews in the mix and that's my dinner most nights!

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Occasionally I will take a slice of bread, spread some mayo on it, then put a slice of cheese on it and eat for a snack.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tillamook sharp white cheddar in presliced individual packs. My go to.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One I really hate is when you go for a bowl of cereal. Then there is either no milk or no cereal.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my diabetes eval, my endocrinologist asked if my evening snacking was hunger or boredom. Nailed it.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cheese and grapes? That's high living over there.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Since when is cheese not snackworthy? Caro Caro you've been away too long!

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A slice of cheese and a grape are perfect snack, and not the result of lower expectations.

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Lola and Nicole told Cosmopolitan magazine that the account is “one of the fastest-growing aggregate Instagram accounts in history, climbing to 500,000 followers in its first six months and now surpassing 2 million since they started it in July 2015." The account is also one of the biggest meme places on the internet and has been run anonymously up until now.

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The two women met twelve years ago in their hometown Toronto and have been friends ever since. After high school Lola moved to L.A. trying to pursue a career in acting, while Nicole was studying psychology at the University of Western Ontario Living such different lives, they kept in touch and were exchanging funny memes every day.

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Both women attend therapy due to some personal issues. Lola says: "Every time I would talk to Nicole, I was like, ‘My therapist said this,’ and she’d say, "No, I said that.' And I'm like, ‘Well, you are basically my therapist, so.'"

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Thus the inspiration for the "My Therapist Says" Instagram account was born. It reflects their daily lives, struggles and complaints they shared with each other and now do with the internet. "I’m not sure I see memes about mental health issues … or anything that really reflects what I, as a therapist, say to my clients,” says Dr. Jaclyn Cravens-Pickens, a licensed marriage and family therapy associate who does not know Lola or Nicole, while scrolling through the account.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I’m just as cranky the next day if I stay up later than that.

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Although Lola and Nicole wouldn't share how much money they've made from the account, they get sponsorships, wrote several books and now are starting a self-produced podcast. Cosmopolitan wrote that, "They reinvest most of their meme income into podcast production, they say, and have donated some of it to mental health and animal charities."

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The account is a huge success; in fact, it will be made into a whole TV series. The two founders, along with Kenan Thompson and John Ryan Jr., will be executive producers of the show. Kenan told Glamour magazine: "Lola and Nicole have a unique and hilarious perspective that has resonated with people all over the world. I'm so excited to welcome our funny sisters to the AFA fam!"

John Ryan Jr said: "Kenan and I were big fans and followers of My Therapist Says before even meeting Lola. My Therapist Says are the pop culture tastemakers and the class clowns that we all need right now. We look forward to bringing this incredible and influential brand to television audiences."

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you don't show up with a gift, you are toast...I mean she just told you how much she loves you and so...

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's what best friends are for and also getting you home safe after you've had a few

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Keep scrolling for a laugh and some wholesome times reading through these 'My Therapist Says' memes. Upvote the ones you related to the most and find some more content on the topic in our previous edition on the viral Instagram account.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When Joh Bjelke-Peterson used his catchphrase "don't you worry about that", he was giving himself advice.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When people ask me if I have plans for the weekend. You tell me first and then I'll decide if I have plans. Maybe my plan is to just sit with my cat and do nothing

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll go to sleep as soon as I'm done with this episode/level/chapter... will I have to watch/play/read the next cuz I can't sleep not knowing

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Winter it is too cold and miserable to go out. Summer it is too sunny and sun is bad for my youthful skin

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It hits hard when you have to pick your birth year from a scroll list.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thankfully I'm as far in my profession as I want to go so I can go eat Pizza in the woods

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