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Boyfriend Roasts Woman At Work Christmas Dinner, Ends Up Burning His Relationship Instead
Boyfriend Roasts Woman At Work Christmas Dinner, Ends Up Burning His Relationship Instead
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Boyfriend Roasts Woman At Work Christmas Dinner, Ends Up Burning His Relationship Instead

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Let’s be honest, office Christmas parties can sometimes get pretty awkward.

But this Redditor’s experience went beyond anything she could have imagined. Attending as her boyfriend’s plus one, she expected a fun evening of mingling—not a series of tasteless jokes at her expense. As the night went on, her boyfriend’s comments became increasingly hurtful, and after one too many, she decided to walk out.

Now, however, she’s left wondering if leaving was the right thing to do.

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    After her boyfriend publicly embarrassed her at the office Christmas party, the woman decided to walk out

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    Now, she’s wondering if leaving was the right thing to do

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    87% of workers prefer a bonus or gift card over an office Christmas party

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    For many, office Christmas parties are less of a treat and more of a chore. A survey conducted by UK gifting and reward company Love2shop found that a staggering 87% of workers would prefer a bonus or a gift card instead of attending such an event. Additionally, 63% of employees admitted they’d prefer to skip workplace celebrations entirely.

    Awkward small talk topped the list of complaints this year, with half of respondents saying it was what they disliked most about office Christmas parties. Another 36% pointed to dealing with drunken coworkers as their second-biggest annoyance, a recurring issue since 80% of workplace celebrations include alcohol.

    “Last year we saw the decline in popularity of workplace Christmas parties,” said Frank Creighton, Director of Business Development at Love2shop. “The truth is they briefly bounced back after Covid but people’s attitudes are rapidly changing. The cost-of-living challenges facing everyone are a big part of that, but also people have become more protective of their time.”

    Creighton noted that many employees would rather celebrate the holidays with family and close friends than with coworkers they don’t see often. “If employers give something, it needs to be something meaningful,” he explained. “Gift cards and bonuses help people to make their own Christmas special and ease their worries about paying for the festive season.”

    “A gesture like that will earn employers a lot more loyalty and positivity from their staff than laying on a Christmas party they don’t really want that adds extra cost at an expensive time of year,” Creighton concluded.

    Prompted by the replies, the woman began to question whether she should break up with her boyfriend

    Many readers empathized with her situation and defended her response

    Others, however, argued she should have ended the relationship right there and then

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    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Oleksandra Kyryliuk

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past five years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    SKaye
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leave. As in, leave the relationship. This isn't lighthearted teasing, it's deliberate disrespect, dishonor, disregard. Don't ever stay in a relationship with someone who publicly or privately demeans and humiliates you and your accomplishments. This man is a POS. Flush him.

    Tams21
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The horrible jokes(that are terrible themselves) aside, he knew the that story would humiliate her, he told it anyway and now he thinks she's in the wrong for leaving the party. I would be packing my bags the same day.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first joke I would be willing to let slide... Begrudgingly. If it was followed by compliments and more positive jokes then it is all good... That second one... Yeh a line was crossed... Truly showed his intentions. HE WANTED to belittle her... As for the reasons why... My guess is he is insecure. She probably makes more than him XD Manlet behavior. ps: I know some groups like me and the lads that like to get into roast sessions where we utterly demolish each other... BUT EVERYONE knew beforehand... There was a declaration. Everyone gets roasted! Plus when one crosses the line the group let's them know... It was a form of bonding. The reason why I don't think this is such a case is simply because he did not inform her and his reaction afterward. If you cross a line you apologize... You don't gaslight and say you were embarrassed... Disgusting.

    Bec
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It sounds like a shrewd coworker even tried to give him/them an out by asking about her favorite event but he just doubled down. He's just made himself look really bad.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Belittling a partner, especially in public is a good predictor of abuse in the future. Run.

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How l'd like an update on this. The update being that she leaves the finance bro

    Trillian
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting people down is NEVER "in good fun". Poke fun at your own job.

    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are those who say that most financial folks don’t contribute much to society and that they do none of the heavy lifting. I don’t 100% agree with those ideas, but enough it is true to be skeptical that they ‘make the real money’. The days when financiers carefully researched companies and ideas and guided prudent investments are long gone. They do generate profits, but largely through beating the odds with more powerful technology that only a small % of us can access. Sure we can invest, but what we earn is little compared to the’ vigorish’ financiers command

    Chickie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run. I mean it. Get out of the relationship. If you stay, you are giving him permisson to belittle you and think that you are less then he is. Absolutely no respect from him. If you stay, you do not respect yourself. Run.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up with a narcissistic father, so I learned a load of great comebacks that would shut him up when he was trying to embarrass me, as the hallmark of a narcissist is having to make someone else look inferior so they can look superior. Yeah, my father did this to his own wife and kids. What a guy, huh? Anyway, a comeback that OP could use in the future (but not with this a*****e) would be, “Well then, if Professional Event Planning isn’t an import job, how well do you think this Company Christmas Party would be going right now? Because without an Event Planner, none of this would’ve come together so seamlessly.”

    G A
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boyfs a merchant banker (rhyming slang for non UK pandas). Get rid.

    Abraxas59
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% that ! I’m in uk lol and I know what it means lol city dudes mostly are like him stuck up bankers lol

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    SKaye
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Leave. As in, leave the relationship. This isn't lighthearted teasing, it's deliberate disrespect, dishonor, disregard. Don't ever stay in a relationship with someone who publicly or privately demeans and humiliates you and your accomplishments. This man is a POS. Flush him.

    Tams21
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The horrible jokes(that are terrible themselves) aside, he knew the that story would humiliate her, he told it anyway and now he thinks she's in the wrong for leaving the party. I would be packing my bags the same day.

    Ben Aziza
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The first joke I would be willing to let slide... Begrudgingly. If it was followed by compliments and more positive jokes then it is all good... That second one... Yeh a line was crossed... Truly showed his intentions. HE WANTED to belittle her... As for the reasons why... My guess is he is insecure. She probably makes more than him XD Manlet behavior. ps: I know some groups like me and the lads that like to get into roast sessions where we utterly demolish each other... BUT EVERYONE knew beforehand... There was a declaration. Everyone gets roasted! Plus when one crosses the line the group let's them know... It was a form of bonding. The reason why I don't think this is such a case is simply because he did not inform her and his reaction afterward. If you cross a line you apologize... You don't gaslight and say you were embarrassed... Disgusting.

    Bec
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It sounds like a shrewd coworker even tried to give him/them an out by asking about her favorite event but he just doubled down. He's just made himself look really bad.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Belittling a partner, especially in public is a good predictor of abuse in the future. Run.

    Pittsburgh rare
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How l'd like an update on this. The update being that she leaves the finance bro

    Trillian
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Putting people down is NEVER "in good fun". Poke fun at your own job.

    Nils Skirnir
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are those who say that most financial folks don’t contribute much to society and that they do none of the heavy lifting. I don’t 100% agree with those ideas, but enough it is true to be skeptical that they ‘make the real money’. The days when financiers carefully researched companies and ideas and guided prudent investments are long gone. They do generate profits, but largely through beating the odds with more powerful technology that only a small % of us can access. Sure we can invest, but what we earn is little compared to the’ vigorish’ financiers command

    Chickie
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Run. I mean it. Get out of the relationship. If you stay, you are giving him permisson to belittle you and think that you are less then he is. Absolutely no respect from him. If you stay, you do not respect yourself. Run.

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    11 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I grew up with a narcissistic father, so I learned a load of great comebacks that would shut him up when he was trying to embarrass me, as the hallmark of a narcissist is having to make someone else look inferior so they can look superior. Yeah, my father did this to his own wife and kids. What a guy, huh? Anyway, a comeback that OP could use in the future (but not with this a*****e) would be, “Well then, if Professional Event Planning isn’t an import job, how well do you think this Company Christmas Party would be going right now? Because without an Event Planner, none of this would’ve come together so seamlessly.”

    G A
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Boyfs a merchant banker (rhyming slang for non UK pandas). Get rid.

    Abraxas59
    Community Member
    11 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% that ! I’m in uk lol and I know what it means lol city dudes mostly are like him stuck up bankers lol

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