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After Being Locked In Closet For 20 Years, Victim Of “Evil” Stepmom Case Speaks Out
After Being Locked In Closet For 20 Years, Victim Of “Evil” Stepmom Case Speaks Out

After Being Locked In Closet For 20 Years, Victim Of “Evil” Stepmom Case Speaks Out

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The 32-year-old man at the center of what’s been called Connecticut’s most chilling case is breaking his silence for the first time.

Identifying himself only as “S,” the man released a statement yesterday (April 15) through the Facebook page of the advocacy group Survivors Say, which aims to help survivors, victims, and their families have a say in how their stories are told.

Highlights
  • Man held captive for 20 years by stepmother breaks silence through advocacy group.
  • The man was confined in an 8-by-9-foot closet with no heat or ventilation for years.
  • Police found him severely malnourished, weighing just 68 pounds.
  • A fundraising campaign raised over $290,000 to support the victim and his recovery.
  • His stepmother claims innocence amid a legal battle, facing multiple felony charges.

The message comes days after Kimberly Sullivan—his 56-year-old stepmother charged with multiple felonies, including second-degree kidnapping and first-degree assault—claimed to be innocent and denied having trapped “S” in a small closet for 20 years.

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    Man trapped for 20 years in a closet breaks silence for the first time after stepmother’s arrest

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    “I am a survivor of more than 20 years of captivity and domestic ab*se,” the man wrote. 

    “I was held prisoner in my home from the time I was taken out of the fourth grade at age 11 until two months ago at age 31 when I purposely set the fire that helped set me free.”

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    Inside the house, officers found an 8-by-9-foot storage closet where the man said he had been confined for most of his life. The space, windowless and without heat or ventilation, was described as filthy and unsanitary and was reinforced with plywood and a slide lock.

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    As Bored Panda previously reported, official documents detailed how the man was kept in that closet for close to 24 hours a day, subsisting only just two sandwiches and two bottles of water daily—one for drinking and the other for bathing.

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    Adding to his torture, the victim was refused access to a bathroom and had to relieve himself using newspapers and the aforementioned water bottle, the result of which was apparent when police searched the area.

    “S” is now undergoing medical and psychological care after being found severely malnourished and weighing just 68 pounds.

    The man is being taken care of and celebrated his birthday for the first time

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    The man went on to clarify that “S” has nothing to do with his birth name and expressed his wish to legally change his name, adopting a new one as a symbol of freedom.

    “My name is my choice, and it is the first of many choices I will make for myself now that I am free,” he said.

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    In the weeks since his rescue on February 17, the man has experienced not only care and safety but also something deeply personal and long overdue—his first-ever birthday celebration.

    “In addition to all of your care, I appreciated the chance to have my first-ever birthday party to celebrate turning 32,” he shared.

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    “S” then expressed his heartfelt gratitude to emergency responders, health care workers, and the Safe Haven Waterbury, the organization now assisting him with basic needs, counseling, and support.

    Damaged room showing evidence of long-term captivity, with debris and burned items on the floor.

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    The organization was also responsible for setting up a successful fundraising campaign that has garnered over $290,000 out of a $300,000 goal to help cover his various necessities. These include medical and dental care, therapy, physical and emotional recovery, as well as housing and daily expenses.

    The funds will also be used to help “S” regain his independence and pursue justice against Kimberly Sullivan.

    “S” and his stepmother are in the middle of an ongoing legal battle

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    “I am much better and stronger than I was the day the first responders carried me out of my home. I am beyond grateful for the care I have received since then,” the man said before extending words of gratitude to his legal team.

    “I am grateful to the conservator and my attorney, who will help guide me through the legal process ahead. They have been invaluable to me, and I am grateful for their tireless support,” the man continued.

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    As Bored Panda previously reported, “S” and his stepmother are in the middle of a complex legal battle. Facing charges that include first-degree assault, second-degree kidnapping, and cruelty, prosecutors argue Sullivan poses a substantial flight risk and ordered her to wear a GPS ankle monitor.

    As the process continues, “S” and his team are taking careful steps to protect his identity.

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    “S is not interested in interviews right now and appreciates your efforts to protect his privacy,” David Guarino, president of Survivors Say and volunteer spokesperson for the victim, told Bored Panda.

    “Much has already been said that tells part of the story of the abuse I endured,” a statement shared by Guarino by S read. “Someday, perhaps my whole story will be told.”

    GoFundMe page for man held captive by stepmom, raising funds for rescue and support.

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    The decision, however, comes as a result of Sullivan’s controversial release after posting a $300,000 bond. Her legal team has argued against the monitoring, claiming that it was “unsupported by new evidence,” and is positioning Sullivan as the victim of a “disinformation campaign.”

    “Her face has been plastered all over the TV, the news, the internet, and social media. Her life has been turned upside down,” said her defense attorney, Ioannis Kaloidis.

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    Sullivan is due to appear in court once again on April 22.

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    Abel Musa Miño

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    Born in Santiago, Chile, with a background in communication and international relations, I bring a global perspective to entertainment reporting at Bored Panda. I cover celebrity news, Hollywood events, true crime, and viral stories that resonate across cultures. My reporting has been featured on Google News, connecting international audiences to the latest in entertainment. For me, journalism is about bridging local stories with global conversations, arming readers with the knowledge necessary to make up their own minds. Research is at the core of my work. I believe that well-sourced, factual storytelling is essential to building trust and driving meaningful engagement.

    What do you think ?
    zububonsai
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy: Lock her up for the next 20 years, in a 8 by 9 foot cell, with plywood in front of the windows, no heating and A/C, and some sandwiches and two bottles of water per day. And no bathroom, of course. I feel absolutely no remorse typing this.

    person (i think)
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is, since it is inhumane,, it wouldn’t be allowed

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    The 0roburos
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Diabolical. The level of inhumanity of simply locking up someone in a room/closet for a day is horrid.. To continue the level of inhumanity for YEARS on end is truly psychotic. D**n.. jusat hit us with the asteroid at this point .

    Carrie B
    Community Member
    Premium
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need an extinction event. Humans are awful.

    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thankfully this is news because it is rare (not unheard of, but rare). If most parents did it it would be a different story.

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    zububonsai
    Community Member
    7 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy: Lock her up for the next 20 years, in a 8 by 9 foot cell, with plywood in front of the windows, no heating and A/C, and some sandwiches and two bottles of water per day. And no bathroom, of course. I feel absolutely no remorse typing this.

    person (i think)
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem is, since it is inhumane,, it wouldn’t be allowed

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    The 0roburos
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Diabolical. The level of inhumanity of simply locking up someone in a room/closet for a day is horrid.. To continue the level of inhumanity for YEARS on end is truly psychotic. D**n.. jusat hit us with the asteroid at this point .

    Carrie B
    Community Member
    Premium
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We need an extinction event. Humans are awful.

    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    7 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thankfully this is news because it is rare (not unheard of, but rare). If most parents did it it would be a different story.

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