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As creatures with the ability to recognize patterns, it should not come as a surprise that most of us start to piece together things that work and things that don’t. In common parlance, things that absolutely do not work are often called “red flags,” some sort of behavior or action that suggests that this person is likely to be unpleasant, immature or unlikeable.

Someone asked “26-30 year old's: What lifestyle choice is an instant red flag?” and netizens shared their examples. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorite examples and add your own thoughts in the comments below.

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#1

5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” A victim mentality. Everything is always someone else’s fault, and they never take accountability for anything.

urgeminimom26 , Curated Lifestyle / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #2

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Anti-Vaxxers, people who refuse to spay/neuter their pets, Back Yard Breeders, only reading/listening to one sided new sources, people who believe there is only one true religion.

    mackenzie._.spence , Roberto Nickson / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #3

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Friends who cheat on their partner.

    tapinwithted , Lia Bekyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #4

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Anyone that makes their political views their whole personality.

    User , Clem Onojeghuo / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #5

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” - Constantly involving other people in things that should be kept personal.
    - Airing dirty laundry on social media. It’s embarrassing 🤡
    I could go on for hours..

    maddylippmann , Marten Bjork / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #6

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Thinking you're a superior human being because you exercise daily; eat healthy; don't watch TV; have a clean house; pursue expensive hobbies; don't drink or do dr**s; have a college degree; have a savings account; have zero debt....... Basically, garnering your self esteem through comparison to others 🚩

    User , Anastase Maragos / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #7

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Anyone involved in a Pyramid Scheme.

    river.rose.o , Alexander Grey / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #8

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Unemployment when you’re perfectly capable of finding a job.

    User , Sandra Seitamaa / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #9

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Nails (this one a bit less), lash extensions, fillers, Botox, bbl etc.

    User , Levi Meir Clancy / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #10

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” I’m a 31F. For me it was a 🚩when the 27y old guy I was dating told me that his breakfast every day was a Monster can. Every.Single.Day.

    sanji.a.hewson , Erik Mclean / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #11

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Carnivore diets. Anyone who tries to tell you that fruit is unhealthy is lying to you (exceptions for diabetics because they need to monitor all sugar intake)

    itselliebb , Markus Spiske / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #12

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” People who judge based off looks only. i have heard every excuse, but have seen people fall victim or become bullies to what they see, and they are happy with not gathering evidence before they come to a conclusion. THIS makes me wonder who is actually trying to be an adult in those situations?

    User , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #13

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Smoking cigarettes, being sedentary most days, not eating fruits and vegetables and drinking alcohol frequently.

    bemmy_fit , Javad Esmaeili / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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    #15

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Depend on someone for your happiness.

    _faithnace_ , Meg Aghamyan / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #16

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” I'm 27. The biggest red flag to me is when someone tries to live a life they cannot afford on their income.

    thekingdouglas223 , Musa Ortaç / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #17

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Overworking to the point of burnout.

    User , Olena Kamenetska / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #18

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” - When you still go out to party and "get wasted" more than 2x a week.
    - When you have abandoned a child and pretends you're a bachelor, single & free.
    - When you don't have savings and is still in between jobs or can't stay in a company/employer longer than 3 months
    - Can't clean or practice proper hygiene
    - Dr**s & Gambling
    - Likes to date 18 year olds because they're "fun"

    katerandio , Wesley Tingey / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #19

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Having kids and only seeing them on holidays.

    girlsloveamanda , Irena Carpaccio / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #20

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Thirsting heavily over random people, making crude sexual comments about appearances. Signifies a lack of self control.

    katc.johnson , Devin Nelson / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #21

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” I’m too young for this but: any significant purposeful investment in any kind of “alternative medicine.” even chiropractic, to a degree. anyone who buys into it is either willfully ignorant to a disturbing degree or just genuinely unable to think for themselves.

    User , Getty Images / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #22

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Being obsessed with dating instead of chilling out and letting things happen naturally.

    bob_basile , Molly the Cat / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #23

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Starting a business with zero thought or plan 💯💯

    mykacrain , Samuel Sianipar / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #24

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” You don’t eat vegetables or fruit, you don’t drink water and you don’t exercise. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 just waiting to die ain’t it?

    totesjas , Jordan González / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #25

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” People who can’t keep their house / apartment clean.

    User , Jason Leung / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #26

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Still being in college... and has been since he was 18, full-time without any semesters off, and hasn't finished a single degree yet.

    koja.kalos , Philippe Bout / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #27

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Constantly putting everything on credit.

    tasha_briglio , Nathana Rebouças / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    #28

    5 Years Of My Life Down The Drain: Lifestyle Choices That Scream “Red Flag” Ever engaged in hook up culture/ lack of commitment to anything but themselves.

    itsdee_303 , Simon Kessler / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report