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Generally speaking, it’s quite pleasant to spill the tea about stars. It’s something to bond over with others.

Not only that, but celebs might secretly be grateful that you’re talking about them and keeping them in the spotlight.

According to recent research, people enjoy gossiping about their favorite celebrities because it leads to more excitement and less guilt than gossiping about people you know, say, your friends, acquaintances, etc.

Furthermore, the researchers found that celebrity gossip actually increases consumers’ willingness to pay for celebrity-related products.

People’s relationships with stars can be wildly different.

On one end of the scale, you have fans. Just regular fans. They enjoy media and entertainment, but refrain from following every aspect of stars’ lives.

In short, fans are there to witness all the talented things that stars can do.

On the other end of the scale are people who develop parasocial relationships with celebrities and fictional characters. They have deep emotional bonds with stars who don’t even know them.

This can be unhealthy when taken to the extreme.

To put it simply, parasocial relationships refer to one-sided relationships. They involve individuals who develop a particularly strong sense of intimacy, connection, and familiarity with people they do not know.

These can be celebrities or media personalities. However, they can also be entirely fictional characters from movies, shows, cartoons, books, video games, etc.

“These relationships exist only in the mind of the individual, who experiences a bond despite the lack of reciprocity,” Psychology Today explains.

“Although parasocial relationships are inherently imaginary, they can feel real for the person experiencing them. An individual may see in, or project onto, a celebrity a range of emotions that mirror their feelings and challenges.”

Human beings are hard-wired to be social. So, when we spend so much time in front of screens, we start developing feelings for the people we constantly see on our TVs, computer screens, and phones.

Another potential explanation for parasocial relationships is that lonely individuals are more at risk of developing them. They crave social connection. So, they connect with who they see on their screens.

However, loneliness doesn’t explain the phenomenon entirely. For example, highly social individuals tend to form more real-life friendships and parasocial relationships, too.

According to Psychology Today, parasocial relationships are viewed by some as less demanding and more fun than real-life relationships.

“There are no conflicts with a person we don’t know, no favors or maintenance that need attention; plus, the subjects of parasocial relationships are typically talented, beautiful, or funny.”

Most parasocial relationships are quite common and relatively harmless. You get a sense of companionship for very little effort. However, they start becoming unhealthy when they consume large parts of the person’s life.

A good rule of thumb to keep in mind is to check how much these parasocial relationships influence your daily life. Are you losing touch with reality?

If you’re having trouble functioning, sleeping, eating, going to work, studying, doing chores, parenting, etc., it’s time to be concerned.

Left unchecked, you can end up harming your personal growth and emotional fulfilment. Not to mention all the very real daily responsibilities that you’ve been ignoring will continue to be ignored.

We want to hear from you, Pandas!

What is your relationship with pop culture, celebrities, media, and the entertainment industry like? What news and updates do you follow with the most enthusiasm?

What are the best movies and TV shows you’ve recently seen that you’d love to recommend? Who are your favorite stars?

Would you say you’re more of a celebrity fan, or do you have parasocial relationships with stars?

Tell us all about it! Join the conversation in the comments at the bottom of this post.