Things some of us enjoy more than anything else might sound like a total headache to others, often because of our personality type. It's especially common when it comes to extraverts and introverts. These terms, introduced by Carl Jung in the early 1920s, separate people who use socializing like a flower uses sunlight from those who need peace and quiet to recharge their batteries.
Today we’re focusing on the latter. Introverts are the perfect counterweight to all the social butterflies, but they might face difficulties interacting with them. These and similar issues are covered by the Facebook page 'Introvert Problems'. Their often amusing and oh-so-relatable content has already attracted over 3.5 million followers, and taken so many introverted people down the memory lane of such situations they’ve encountered themselves. Scroll down for some of their best examples.
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Some are like popups that no blocker can block and you cannot delete. They hog every conversation at a party.
Yes, yes, yes!!! I can talk the hind leg off a donkey to people I know, yet some people never hear me speak
Yep, or worse you get told you are boring or repetitive or digress too much or whatever, then you realise you are surrounded by narcissists and it's not worth bothering.
This. This is why I don't sleep sometimes. The silence is so pure, so deep and clear. I'm finally at peace.
I do this. I wait until 2:15ish so I can eat my lunch in peace, or I go to my car
"I already know an awful lot of people, and until one of them dies I couldn't possibly meet anyone else.". -- Audrey Hepburn in Charade.
I could look at that all day... I can look out my bedroom window at nothing for literally hours
Verrry rookie numbers. But I probably wouldn't have said that out loud, just in my head
They call it an exciting idea. I call it a frightening one. Maybe that would work for a family or friend group. It's a gigantic nope for me.
Absofrikinlutely. Why should I sound shaky and stupid on the phone when I can spend 10 minutes composing a decent email?
I went out of town nearly three weeks ago for a weekend and STILL feel like I'm recovering.
Even worse when they ask about neighbours, their names, their kids etc. I just live here, i don't keep track of everyone else in the street. I hardly keep track of myself most of the time.
Yes, this is a single occupancy zone. Please leave. For double occupancy please see our policy on friendship tiers....you need at least a level 10 to have access.
I really appreciate when people do this. It's like hey we haven't seen each other in years, lets continue to do that, cool? cool.
It’s so comforting to stay home in this weather drinking something warm and eating pakoras while reading a book
But sometimes it's really sad u know when no one cares or even thinks about us introverts.
How have they not noticed yet? Is it socially acceptable yet to just walk away from a conversation like this?
When I was in therapy and said "But enough about me let's hear about you!" right after a trauma monologue-
Going through those years and this makes me feel that my peak was when I was between 3 to 5 years old.
With new people, with old people, with middle-aged people, same difference every time.
Man, I was like that since I was a toddler. Can't stand any kind of noise.
Them: politely asks the standard "How are you". Me: launch into details of how COVID has ruined your pelvic floor control after your prostate operation. Has worked the last 5 or 6 times I've tried this. I have a backup plan based on complaining about inflation pushing the price of incontinence pads.
Don't be. Over share once and they'll never talk to you again. Works all the time. Specifically go into your mental issues. You can see their face change from "let's be friends" to "I will cross the street and turn the other way if we see each other again"
I have 2 people. They are my people. One is an extrovert who adopted me and has spent the last 6 months trying to assimilate me into her friend group. The other is a super chill dude I've known literally forever and could tell literally anything to.
THought about being an uber driver. The introvert in me convinced me very strongly to do otherwise.
So I can spend the next 8 hours doing nothing, watching films and scrolling on BP
Them: "What's your favorite color?" Me: "The oldest living goldfish was 43 years old."
My late grandfather, a war veteran, watching me google an unknown phone number instead of answering the call.
I don't hide it well at all. In fact, my face sometimes just looks like that for no reason.
I hate the good mornings/hello every single day. Like come on! You just saw me and said that yesterday
Again, a post where "introvert" gets mixed up with anxiety, being shy, having no social skills, etc.. Being introvert does not necessarily mean that you have problems interacting with people. It just means you do not enjoy it all the time or as much as others might.
Word. Introversion doesn't mean I can't socialize -- socializing is a learned skill, not an innate ability you're born with -- it means that I just need a moment alone to decompress every once in while when I'm with other people.
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Again, a post where "introvert" gets mixed up with anxiety, being shy, having no social skills, etc.. Being introvert does not necessarily mean that you have problems interacting with people. It just means you do not enjoy it all the time or as much as others might.
Word. Introversion doesn't mean I can't socialize -- socializing is a learned skill, not an innate ability you're born with -- it means that I just need a moment alone to decompress every once in while when I'm with other people.
Load More Replies...Bored Panda Bingo - Now I just need an article about Malicious Compliance at work, something comparing the US to the rest of the world, and someone's "quirky" cartoons about life!!
You forgot quirky real estate as found on some other website!!
Load More Replies...Extrovert bashing seems to be Bored Panda's favourite national sport, right after American bashing.
