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Introverts go to extreme lengths when avoiding people but Carl King perfectly reminded us that there’s more than meets the eye. “The problem is that labeling someone as an introvert personality is a very shallow assessment,” he wrote. According to the composer and filmmaker, it’s more complex than that.
“I’ve written a lot of stupid blogs on a whim, and never expected that 10 Myths About Introverts thing to be read by so many people,” Carl told Bored Panda. “It was surreal to get emails from moms asking me for advice with their kids’ personality types (I have no clue because I don’t have kids). Then there was the backlash, with people saying it’s all B.S. It seems like a polarizing topic that everyone can argue about. I was only writing about my own experience with this urban legend on introverts and glad it helped some people who identified with it.” The last time he checked the stats, the article had already accumulated over 2 million views on his website.
King wrote the list after discovering a book called, The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World, by Marti Laney, Psy.D. “It felt like someone had written an encyclopedia entry on a rare race of people to which I belong. Not only had it explained many of my eccentricities, but it also helped me to redefine my entire life in a new and productive context.”
“This personality definition hit me very hard,” Carl added. “It was important for me to read because I was under a lot of pressure at the time to be an extrovert, and just felt like something was wrong with me. It was easy to blame myself because all the people around me in Los Angeles wanted non-stop stimulation and partying, always going out, or always having people over. I felt like they were always thinking, ‘What’s wrong with Carl?’ The truth is, I love socializing. But when I’ve had enough, I should feel OK about going home.”
Carl highlighted a section of Laney’s book that maps out the human brain and explains how neuro-transmitters follow various dominant paths in the nervous systems of different personalities like Introverts and Extroverts. “If the science behind the book is correct, it turns out that Introverts are people who are over-sensitive to Dopamine, so too much external stimulation overdoses and exhausts them. Conversely, Extroverts can’t get enough Dopamine, and they require Adrenaline for their brains to create it. Extroverts also have a shorter pathway and less blood-flow to the brain. The messages of an Extrovert’s nervous system mostly bypass the Broca’s area in the frontal lobe, which is where a large portion of contemplation takes place.”
The book states that only about 25% of people are Introverts. “There are even fewer that are as extreme as I am. This leads to a lot of misunderstandings.”
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Aaron Kara 7 years ago
I would say introversion is a large spectrum and hard to define, the same with extroversion, and they often overlap. Some introverts express themselves differently to the point that a casual observer may deem them very confident, and some extroverts have a susceptibility to direct their attention inwardly, seeming shy. Online articles often seem to polarize, explaining things as black or white, whereas often it comes down to shades of grey, especially when it relates to the human mind. Its always more complex than we give it credit for
Bored Office Girl 7 years ago
Very true. Many people at work think I'm shy and quiet (in their words). I met a lady at work who loves the Beatles like me though. And I just love to talk about it with her, and to ask/answer questions. A person walking by might take me for an extrovert.
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CrunChewy McSandybutt 7 years ago
I could add that many introverts need some notice before changing plans. I have the hardest time with spontaneous changes. Maybe it's just me, though. :)
Nitya Thirumalai 7 years ago
Another myth: introverts are just people suffering from depression and need therapy
Caroline Espenschied 7 years ago
There's nothing *wrong* with us, we don't need to be healed or fixed. We're perfectly fine just the way we are. Now, if only extroverts would let us be who we are in peace...
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Kenny Kulbiski 7 years ago
It's the extroverts that are screwed up. All that mindless yakking, needless socializing,etc. Plus all politicians are extroverts. Introverts need to organize. Except that would mean meetings and needless socializing. Never mind.
Rebecah Ozuna 7 years ago
And i agree! Extros are parasites of society. They feed on other people. Ha! Don't worry, Intros don't need meetings or 'organizing' as we're doing it right on BP and at the safety of our own home....very quietly.
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vanee eugenio 7 years ago
I get easily exhausted in parties. Talking with a lot of people and I hate staying long time in public places. I love going to the park and places with a lot of trees than a lot of people instead.
just a thought! 7 years ago
Me too...I just like looking at waves , feeling the wind and the sun. I go out like that all the time...I just stay away from huge crowds of unknown and unwanted people
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Daria Zotova 7 years ago
100% relatable! It feels weird how a stranger from another faraway country was able to sum up your personality in 10 short phrases... :O
Zanthe 7 years ago
That's so true. This is definitely how most extroverts see introverts. As an introvert, that's exactly why I hate how people say first impressions matter. Like, yeah, they do, but I need more time... ;-;
Daria B 7 years ago
That's how my first employers got disappointed in me. I was such a great actress at the interview.
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Master Markus 7 years ago
This is largely accurate for me. I also was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome so that might make it fit more than people who consider themselves introverts but don't think all of these are applicable to them.
Aaron Kara 7 years ago
I would say introversion is a large spectrum and hard to define, the same with extroversion, and they often overlap. Some introverts express themselves differently to the point that a casual observer may deem them very confident, and some extroverts have a susceptibility to direct their attention inwardly, seeming shy. Online articles often seem to polarize, explaining things as black or white, whereas often it comes down to shades of grey, especially when it relates to the human mind. Its always more complex than we give it credit for
Bored Office Girl 7 years ago
Very true. Many people at work think I'm shy and quiet (in their words). I met a lady at work who loves the Beatles like me though. And I just love to talk about it with her, and to ask/answer questions. A person walking by might take me for an extrovert.
Load More Replies... CrunChewy McSandybutt 7 years ago
I could add that many introverts need some notice before changing plans. I have the hardest time with spontaneous changes. Maybe it's just me, though. :)
Nitya Thirumalai 7 years ago
Another myth: introverts are just people suffering from depression and need therapy
Caroline Espenschied 7 years ago
There's nothing *wrong* with us, we don't need to be healed or fixed. We're perfectly fine just the way we are. Now, if only extroverts would let us be who we are in peace...
Load More Replies... Kenny Kulbiski 7 years ago
It's the extroverts that are screwed up. All that mindless yakking, needless socializing,etc. Plus all politicians are extroverts. Introverts need to organize. Except that would mean meetings and needless socializing. Never mind.
Rebecah Ozuna 7 years ago
And i agree! Extros are parasites of society. They feed on other people. Ha! Don't worry, Intros don't need meetings or 'organizing' as we're doing it right on BP and at the safety of our own home....very quietly.
Load More Replies... vanee eugenio 7 years ago
I get easily exhausted in parties. Talking with a lot of people and I hate staying long time in public places. I love going to the park and places with a lot of trees than a lot of people instead.
just a thought! 7 years ago
Me too...I just like looking at waves , feeling the wind and the sun. I go out like that all the time...I just stay away from huge crowds of unknown and unwanted people
Load More Replies... Daria Zotova 7 years ago
100% relatable! It feels weird how a stranger from another faraway country was able to sum up your personality in 10 short phrases... :O
Zanthe 7 years ago
That's so true. This is definitely how most extroverts see introverts. As an introvert, that's exactly why I hate how people say first impressions matter. Like, yeah, they do, but I need more time... ;-;
Daria B 7 years ago
That's how my first employers got disappointed in me. I was such a great actress at the interview.
Load More Replies... Master Markus 7 years ago
This is largely accurate for me. I also was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome so that might make it fit more than people who consider themselves introverts but don't think all of these are applicable to them.
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