30 Times Kids Had Had Enough Of Helicopter Parents And Shared Screenshots Online (New Pics)
Helicopter parenting (a parent's over-involvement in their child's life) can be driven by many factors, including societal pressure to ensure academic and extracurricular success, and the rapid evolution of technology that allows for non-stop monitoring and communication.
But it can backfire. In reality, the practice often limits the kid's opportunities to build resilience, learn problem-solving skills, and become independent, placing additional burdens on their shoulders to carry into the future.
To show you how all of this manifests, we put together a collection of posts about parents who can't stop micromanaging their children's lives. Continue scrolling to check them out and don't miss the chat we had with Bored Panda’s parenting expert and award-winning TV broadcaster and author, Vicki Broadbent.
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Man Elegantly Destroys Helicopter Parent
I don't see this one as helicopter parenting. My mom had sexual assault attempt (luckily she screamed and woke up the whole house) when she was a kid during a sleep overs at a friend's house. She got so traumatised that sleepovers were a big NO. I also complained a lot about it as a kid, but as an adult I don't see it as a big deal now. I understand my mother. She wasn't a helicopter parent btw. She always let me stayed until late at my friends but just never let me stay over. One of my parents always picked me up.
I Synced My Calendar With My Mum And Forgot I Have My Birth Control Implant Replacement Date Marked 3 Years From Now. She Saw It And Texted Me This While I Was At Work. I’m 20
There Is A Shooter Somewhere On Campus But My Mom Is More Concerned With Me Missing My Lab Practical
Ladies And Gentlemen, My Mother After I Disabled Tracking Location App On My Phone, I Am 21 Years Old
I’ve Been At College For One Day. He Dropped Me Off Yesterday. It’s Orientation Week
So Proud Of Myself
Idk If This Counts As Insane, But Still An Invasion Of Privacy (For Context I Hand My Phone In To My Mum At 8:30 And That Is Why She Had It)
My Mom Thinks If I Take My Dogs Outside To Pee When It’s Dark That I Will Die/Be Murdered/Abducted. 5 Mins Before Sunset I’m Perfectly Safe Though. Note To Add, I’m 25 And Have Lived 400 Miles From Home For 8 Years. Didn’t Take My Dogs Out Until 11:30 So Suck On That Mom
Granted that this is a bit much. You should check sometimes. It's a crazy world out there.
They Hid This To See What I Was Eating And Seeing If I Was Up Late. Im 19 Btw
My Sister's Twitter Account.... She's 23yo And My Mom Still Does This
says the mom who grew up in a time where having your phone always on you was not an option.
Getting Tracked At 20 By My Antivaxx Conspiracy Theory Mom. Finally Convinced Her To Delete The Tracking App Though
I Need More Opinions. I'm 22 F Living On My Own And My Parents Still Want To Have Control On What I Buy. It Is Not Making Me Any More Frugal When She Yells At Me For Spending Too Much
Nothing Major. She Just Wanted To Know Why I Didn’t Return Her Text That Was Sent 5 Minutes Before The First Call
I'm 18nb And My Mom Sent Me Out To Get A Table And Chairs For Her. I Was Gone For 20 Mins And Didn't Respond To Her Calls. This Is The Result. I Have To Laugh
I Pity Those With Helicopter Parents
The community college should have a rule that people who aren't enrolled there are not allowed on the premises. Just to prevent nutjob parents like that one from ruining their kids' lives anymore than they already have.
My Lovely Mother
Wth?! This is just plain insane, this woman needs some serious help. Poor kid(s) and the father
I'm 22
Two things: 1. What is taking them to church really gonna do? 2. What's this font text I want it
I’m Going To An Iron Maiden Concert. I’m Also Almost 30
Am I Crazy Or Is This Toxic !? I Am 18 In Highschool And My Mother Threatens Not Sending Me To College If I Don’t Spend Time With Her
I wish my adult daughter would spend more time with me. but I'm not about to extort her in any way, shape, or form for the privilege. Reading these posts just reminds me how amazing my parents were. I was extraordinarily lucky. And I work hard to make sure my daughter and now grandbabies always know they are loved. It saddens my heart to see how many people didn't/don't have that.
There’s A Word For Not Allowing Your Kids To Socialize Outside The Family. Starts With Letter G
Someone Who I Know Received This From Her Dad. Context In The Comments
She doesn't like being financially dependent on her parents at Uni and so wants to get a loan and a job and supply for herself. She is also about to visit her parents and wants to also see her boyfriend when she is down. They live 6 hours away and it costs £100 for the train and they are both so busy they've only seen eachother once since being at Uni. Her parents won't let her and say that she has to spend the entirety of her reading week with them and is disgusting for wanting to be away from them. This isn't the first time something like this has happened.
Whew, this made my skin crawl. They only want to “support” her so they can control her.
Girlfriend's Mother
The entitlement these people have to their children’s lives is flabbergasting. It’s like they see their children as extensions of themselves that they should have the right to control.
I’m A Turkey Because I Don’t Want To Download An App So My Mom Can Track Me
I Just Have No Words For How Bats**t This Lady Is
Yes Karen, You Are A Helicopter Mom
2nd Post From Karen Infiltration
Text That My Narcissistic Step-Dad Sent His 16 Year Old Daughter (My Sister) The Blanked Out Name Is Me. He Posted This Screenshot On Instagram Bragging About His Great “Parenting Skills”
We used to hang out with some of my wife's co-workers. One of them was a 22 year old female. He father would call every 30 min. for an update on where she is and who she is with with. She wasn't permitted to hang out with us any longer after I refused to take her phone and speak with her father for a third time. He would literally make her pass the phone to all that were with her to prove she wasn't lying. Side note...when she was at work he would drive following her and stay in his car until she went home. Guess who got married and severed all ties with her dad once she learned how odd he was.
Went To Visit My Boyfriend For The Weekend And My Mom Decided To Text Me This While I Was Sleeping, Im An Adult Btw
Ten minutes, TEN minutes. I could have just not had my phone with me while dealing with explosive diarrhea.
I Am 22 Years Old, Living On My Own With My Husband, And My Dad Still Trys To Control What I Do
This Is My Mother Who’s Gone Back To College
Her magic Book is full of all of that along with r@pe, incest, patricide, and a talking serpent.
Dawg What The F*ck I Feel So Bad For These Kids
Going Through Old Texts And Found These Gems
Its Pretty Small But Still Crazy. Finally Moved Out From My Helicopter Parents. Just Calling Them Stresses Me Out A Lot
Told My Mom I Was Going To Hang Out With My 2 Female Friends.... This Is What She Says. I’m 22 And Am On My 4th Year Of College Btw (And She Tracks My Location)
Homophobic Mom Threatens To Burn My Pride Flag
Im Nearly 40yo, I Got Arrested On A Petty Misdemeanor 3 Yrs Ago, Its Gone From Record & Still Get This
All I (19m) Told My Mom Was That Me And My Girlfriend Were Gonna Go Look At Apartments
whose the car registered under though? if it is you're mom, take the car, go park it in a no parking zone, let the tickets ramp up.
My Mom Found Out I (18m) Was Having Sex With A Girl For Over A Year
"We Don't Track You!" Uh Huh, Okay. 18 In University. These Were Followed By Call After Call After Call
I’m 22(F) And Moved Out. My Narcissistic Mom Insists We Meet Every Week For “Family Dinner”
The word you're looking for is boundaries. Time to put them in place and mean it.
I Don't Know If I'm The Problem Or She's Overreacting
Oooohhhh... Man, That Escalated Quickly, Please Read The Context, Cos This Is Quite Funny Actually
Worst mother of the year contender here. Telling your child (adult or young, it doesn't matter) they're dumb and won't be successful, that's abuse and just disgusting. Hope the kid blocked dear old mom
Found On A Fb Post Asking About The Privacy Of A 13 Year Old. Yikes!
I will probably get downvoted but do a 11 year old really need a mobile?
Cut Off Contact From My Dad And One Week In He Messaged My Friend(Lives In Us) From A Different Country, Im 25 And Live In The Us. No He Did Not Have My Friends Contact Information
idk if the last text has anything to do with the previous messages but good on the friend on being concerned
It Was My 21st Birthday And This Is All He Had To Say. I Live In Another State 10 Hours Away And They Track Me On Life360
Disable life360. Set boundaries. Go LC or NC if they're not being respected. Start acting like an adult and don't put up with the bs
Mom Thinks I’m Dead After Not Responding For 3 Hours And Admits To Opening My Mail. I Am 29 F Living Alone With Two Children. I Get Several Texts Every Single Day About Religion, Parenting, Or My Finances
Sorry, but get your mail sorted. If you live on your own and are 29, why on earth is your mail still arriving at your parents adress? I probably would accidentally open it, and only realizing after reading half of it that it was not meant for me. Also, from this text alone, I don't see it's as severe as others. Moms question about paying off the debt is a valid one. That she asks where you are after 3 hours can happen, she isn't nagging within a 10 minute timeframe although it is short, especially if the other person is 29 with 2 young children.
19m. My Parents Don't Like Me Walking Even Just A Mile By Myself
Quality “Advice” I Saw On Nextdoor About Raising Teenagers. Started Out Reasonable And Then Quickly Degrades Into Draconian Helicopter Parenting. 90% Of The Comments Were In Agreement That This Is The Only Way To Keep Teens Safe
Credit where it's due, the thing about kids going to adult sites to learn about sex is true. If sex education isn't accurate and adequate, then kids are going to try and educate themselves on the subject in a different way. If parents aren't going to teach it, and schools aren't allowed to, then the internet is where it is.
My Parents Will Lock My Phone And/Or My WiFi Via An App Called "Family Link" (They Can Also Track Me, Monitor My Screen Time+what Is Open)(Also I Need An Parent Password To Be Entered Whenever I Want To Login To Something)
These parents all seem to fall into one of a few categories: unmanaged anxiety disorder, narcissistic control freak, or hyper religious. Some are a fun combo of all of them. I was raised by a step father who was the trifecta. It was hell. While there are other more heinous circumstances that have resulted in me never speaking to him, even in the absence of those, his helicopter parenting would have made me go no contact. All of these parents are going to end up with children who hate their guts and want little or nothing to do with them.
I couldn't take it after like number 22... had to bail
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Feel sorry for all these people who have parents that act this way. The worst I had was when I passed my driving test was to call my parents to let them know I got to my destination safely. But I only did that for a couple of weeks if that.
Tbf that's pretty normal when someone is starting out driving. When I was in my 20s I travelled a lot and was on my own for a lot of it and my mom did ask me to shoot her a message when I'd arrived at my next destination so she wouldn't worry. Think that's fairly reasonable, id do the same in their shoes. I certainly never got any hounding messages like some of these poor guys are!
Load More Replies...These parents all seem to fall into one of a few categories: unmanaged anxiety disorder, narcissistic control freak, or hyper religious. Some are a fun combo of all of them. I was raised by a step father who was the trifecta. It was hell. While there are other more heinous circumstances that have resulted in me never speaking to him, even in the absence of those, his helicopter parenting would have made me go no contact. All of these parents are going to end up with children who hate their guts and want little or nothing to do with them.
I couldn't take it after like number 22... had to bail
Load More Replies...These are the parents who wind up asking, "Why don't my children ever call or visit?" with no sense of self-awareness AT ALL.
Feel sorry for all these people who have parents that act this way. The worst I had was when I passed my driving test was to call my parents to let them know I got to my destination safely. But I only did that for a couple of weeks if that.
Tbf that's pretty normal when someone is starting out driving. When I was in my 20s I travelled a lot and was on my own for a lot of it and my mom did ask me to shoot her a message when I'd arrived at my next destination so she wouldn't worry. Think that's fairly reasonable, id do the same in their shoes. I certainly never got any hounding messages like some of these poor guys are!
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