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Husband Lies About Inheritance, Wants To Leave Wife Who Takes Care Of Him With Nothing
Elderly woman with closed eyes holding her head in distress, reflecting betrayal over inheritance and care issues.

Husband Lies About Inheritance, Wants To Leave Wife Who Takes Care Of Him With Nothing

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Let’s face it, money changes people. It may also change the course of a relationship for the better or worse, but in many cases, the latter tends to happen. 

This couple is one of the many examples. Here, an ill-stricken man refused to include his wife in a hefty inheritance he received, much to her disappointment. However, the woman learned that while she and her son had been left out, her stepson had been included. 

She is now demanding to be added to his accounts, or she will file for divorce. 

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    A woman is threatening to divorce her husband, who left his son a hefty cut to his inheritance while excluding her

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    Image credits: Curated Lifestyle / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

    The woman shared an update, revealing their complicated family dynamics

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    Inheritances are a common cause of conflict among spouses

    As the woman mentioned, she has no right to her husband’s inheritance because it is separate property. As family lawyer Andrew Ayers clarified, a non-inheriting spouse also has no power to direct how the money is used. 

    For this reason, inheritances can cause a rift between married couples. In an article for the Wall Street Journal, business journalist Cheryl Winokour Munk writes that spouses, for instance, may question what happens to the money in the event of a divorce or their partner’s eventual demise. 

    This is one of the woman’s concerns, considering her husband was already in ill health. Her biggest fear was going bankrupt from taking care of his funeral expenses, which may leave her in a deep financial hole when she’s done. 

    So, how does the couple move forward? According to lawyer Jonathan Rosenfeld, the first step should be to understand the legal ramifications. Speaking with Yahoo! Finance, inheritance laws can vary from one place to another, which significantly impacts the division of assets between partners. 

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    But his most important piece of advice is to decide what’s best for the situation. 

    “Seeking guidance from financial advisors, estate planning professionals, and legal experts can help ensure that you make informed decisions that align with your values and goals,” Rosenfeld said. 

    It may be best for the couple to have a legal and financial advisor to help mediate their situation and provide sound advice on the best course of action. Because unless they take this step, the arguing likely won’t end.

    Many people sided with the woman and gave her advice, as she answered some reader questions

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    However, there were those who faulted her and everyone involved

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    Mindaugas Balčiauskas

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    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

    What do you think ?
    Somebodys grandmother
    Community Member
    28 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well he almost stole the money from another family in the first place... apparently

    Marno C.
    Community Member
    48 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the very least, she needs to have money of her own and explain to her husband that he cannot leave her destitute upon his death. He needs to be asked where are his funeral, medical, and end-of-life expenses going to come from. Guy is facing his mortality and is feeling some kind of way about his biological son (my legacy! Kind of thinking). In so doing, he has become complacent about his wife of three decades and her future. Estate planning is tough and this guy is not rational and only half-assing it. She needs to have a tough convo with him.

    Somebodys grandmother
    Community Member
    28 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well he almost stole the money from another family in the first place... apparently

    Marno C.
    Community Member
    48 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At the very least, she needs to have money of her own and explain to her husband that he cannot leave her destitute upon his death. He needs to be asked where are his funeral, medical, and end-of-life expenses going to come from. Guy is facing his mortality and is feeling some kind of way about his biological son (my legacy! Kind of thinking). In so doing, he has become complacent about his wife of three decades and her future. Estate planning is tough and this guy is not rational and only half-assing it. She needs to have a tough convo with him.

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