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30 People Share The Unexpected Ways They Found Out Their Partner Was Cheating
Learning about a partner’s infidelity can feel like a kick to the gut. It can take the wind out of you, leaving you unable to process what happened for a few minutes. Some describe it as the “deepest pain” they’ve ever felt.
How you find out is another story, and it can either be an added insult to injury or momentary comic relief because of how stupidly laughable it is. As these TikTok users have shared, it can be a bit of both.
You’re about to read anecdotes about cheating discoveries through emojis, revelations from the affair partners, and while looking through a food delivery app. Hopefully, you’ve never gone through such traumatic experiences, but if you have, feel free to share them in the comments.
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#1
He brought her to our house and my toddler snitched, and my toddler even took a photo on his tablet 😭😭😭 now he resents our kid
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#2
WHILE ON FaceTime with him, I received a “hey girl I know you don’t know me but” dm from the girl, her and I both dumped him and are friends to this day 🫶🏻
#3
The husband of the woman he cheated on me with pulled up in front of my house with a jansport bookbag FULL of proof. Told me I was too pretty to be getting played.
#4
His little sister gave me his Apple Watch & told me his password (I didn’t even know it) bc it kept going off & I found everything 🥲 ( she was 6 at the time 😭) shoutout to her 🙏
KatSaidWhat 3 weeks ago
Ben Aziza could use some fresh air and a cold bucket of water - if anyone comes across as being brainwashed, it's you mate.
#5
A girl I went to high school with was M*rdered, read her obituary and found out her “ significant other” was MY boyfriend 🥲
#6
He left his phone at her house. SHE went thru HIS phone, saw our messages and called ME !! She knew his password but i didnt
#7
I was watching the Knicks game and the camera panned on him lol
#8
She posted their pregnancy announcement.
#10
he was cheating with my best friend, who would brag to her ex bf about it. her ex called me and told me. then i dated her ex. he was lovely!
#11
some random instagram account followed me and their bio was “bailey, he is cheating on you”
#12
He left his phone in the car while he was out getting gas. I locked all the doors and went thru his phone while he watched thru the window lol
#13
girly pop literally commented on his ig post “how handsome, it doesn’t even look like you’re cheating on your gf” 🙈
#14
he posted her sitting on his lap on his story and blocked me from seeing it but forgot to block my best friend from seeing it 💀
#15
He kept his organized bang list inside an animorphs book. I saw it and got excited because I love animorphs. the list fell out
#16
He told me he was sick so I went to drop off comfort food. The girl opened the door.
#17
He charged tinder gold to my credit card 🤡
#18
His other girl viewed my tik tok profile LMAOO I love you Aileen you saved my life girl
#20
he randomly changed his passcode one day so I waited til he fell asleep & shined my phone flashlight angling the side of the screen and could see his fingerprints & got the code on the 1st try :)
#21
She left her toothbrush. So I used it to clean the toilet and left. ✌🏼
#22
He blocked me from seeing his stories on snap while he was in LA, but his best friend was in love with me so he showed me 💆🏽♀️💆🏽♀️was it petty to start dating his bestie? Yes, yes it was.
Charles McChristy 3 weeks ago
As long as the bestie was okay with it and you weren't just messing with his head.
#23
We used locket and he sent a pic with sunglasses on and she was in the reflection taking the picture
#24
I had a gut feeling and he called me crazy so I said “screenshots don’t lie” and he broke down crying and apologizing
Snazzy Smurf 3 weeks ago
Gas lighting in effect.. That is before the receipts have been provided.
#25
Google photos made a collage of the photos he had saved in his phone
#26
Erm my little sisters classmate asked her if I was still dating him and when she said yes he hit her with “that’s weird bc he’s dating my cousin”💀
#27
his son called me on his phone and asked why i made his mommy cry. my ex told me they both died in a car crash . 😀
#28
I went thru his notes app and there was a list of girls he slept with chronologically WITH A RATING out of 10 next to it. There was my name with about 8 girls after me 🤩
#29
he was asleep with his phone under his pillow, i heard a notif sound i had never heard before, spent 20 minutes carefully inching my hand under the pillow to grab the phone without waking him up. it was grindr.
#30
i had a dream about it, the next day he walked into my apartment and i said “so what’s her name” he said “jennifer”, trust ur instinct babes
liam newton-harding 3 weeks ago
Dreams…We’re honestly counting dreams as, “evidence”…this is so cliche.
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Pittsburgh rare 3 weeks ago
Shout-out to all those women who could work for the CIA with those investigating skills 😂👏 I don't and never will feel any sorry for cheaters so out them, expose them and dump'em
Fellfromthemoon 3 weeks ago
About those "hey, girlie" messages: my grandma received a similar call. The woman on the other end told her that she was having a good time with my grandpa (during the call, she meant.) My grandma only asked the woman that what she thought, who was the man beside her? (My grandpa was at home at the time of the call.) Another fiend of mine also received a dm about her husband being unfaithful from a woman. The story didn't hold water. Hubby was pretty much at a different place at the time, when he supposedly romanced the other woman. Very much verifiably. So, these messages on their own aren't reliable.
Jac Carr 3 weeks ago
Apparently, most of the people who send these fake messages are men pretending to be women. Can't say I'm shocked
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Danger Muppet 3 weeks ago
While I was reading this a pop-up for a local divorce lawyer kept popping up.
Pittsburgh rare 3 weeks ago
Shout-out to all those women who could work for the CIA with those investigating skills 😂👏 I don't and never will feel any sorry for cheaters so out them, expose them and dump'em
Fellfromthemoon 3 weeks ago
About those "hey, girlie" messages: my grandma received a similar call. The woman on the other end told her that she was having a good time with my grandpa (during the call, she meant.) My grandma only asked the woman that what she thought, who was the man beside her? (My grandpa was at home at the time of the call.) Another fiend of mine also received a dm about her husband being unfaithful from a woman. The story didn't hold water. Hubby was pretty much at a different place at the time, when he supposedly romanced the other woman. Very much verifiably. So, these messages on their own aren't reliable.
Jac Carr 3 weeks ago
Apparently, most of the people who send these fake messages are men pretending to be women. Can't say I'm shocked
Load More Replies... Danger Muppet 3 weeks ago
While I was reading this a pop-up for a local divorce lawyer kept popping up.
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