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#1

Stupid pig and Stupid bastard. I'll likely get downvoted, but Asian parents are known to mercilessly criticize their kids. It's toxic af and needs to stop.

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Trinity
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow now that’s just something

CATMONSTER2018
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

just fyi... ik ill probly get downvotes for this... but i dont care, i just want to clarify... Chinese characters dont directly translate to english... chinese is my second language btw. 笨猪 = "dumb pig" when translated by google. but it really means that they are calling you lazy...(atleast from what my mom told me)... although its STILL pretty vile because "Stupid Bastard" is the direct translation :(

ainsley
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i feel so sorry for you, no one deserves to be treated like that

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    #2

    youre not gay , youre confused

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    Mae (just add water)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think that THEY were just confused and overwhelmed

    ainsley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they're not mean, theyre fukin stupid aholes

    Xxnevaeh_faithxX
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's exactly what my parents said to me! Except switch gay to bisexual.

    D e p r e s s e d
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm actually bisexual and my parents still respect me no matter what! Now I'm starting to think these parents just don't know any better

    #3

    "No one likes a depressed person."

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    Trinity
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow..... now thats just....

    Ravenwolf
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And this is why depression hasn't decreased!

    ainsley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my aunt said that to me when i was diagnosed with depression at like 7

    #4

    My sister thought it would be smart to tell my whole family what kind of boys I like (black or light-skin) and I don’t like to admit it but my dad is kinda racist and he said that i can’t ever date a person that’s not white. That doesn’t mean I won’t though. I still will date a person like that.

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    D e p r e s s e d
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your parents are sick! Do you not understand I'm a black person and most of these people on this platform is black!? Your parents is just racist as hell... My apologies if this might offend you but I don't appreciate your parents telling you that you can't date a black person! That's very disrespectful to my people and community

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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    its only my dad first of all and second its because in his childhood he didn't have good experiences with black people so now he kinda idk. But i see why you are so upset

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    ainsley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    thats not fair, its your love life not his you can like whoever tf you want

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know and now that I think about it and I regret what I said but he told me when you get older you can’t ever smoke (which I agree with) and you can’t ever date a black guy and I said I know I don’t even like them (I was 5) but now I completely regret it

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    #5

    If you had to be born, you could at least have been a boy. My mother when I was about 12 years old.

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    Kateryna
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And if you decided to give birth, you should have at least realized how nobody gets to choose the gender of a child, it's not their fault, and no gender is "better"; and if you can't grasp that concept, then you lack common sense to have a child.

    #6

    That there are only two genders. You're a girl, and u must marry a man. Boy's can't wear women clothes but women can wear men's clothes.

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    Zucchini
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do people still think this? I mean, really. Don't listen to them!!!

    Ravenwolf
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so confused. Why can't men wear womans clothes? Why can't a girl choose who she wants to marry? Really, people?

    D e p r e s s e d
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is your parents against gay!? Because if they are don't listen to them

    Charlie Anderson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This parents need to know that I wear 'boy clothes' every day. I just want to be Comfortable.

    #7

    16 Years old and first boyfriend. His Birthday. I bought him an inexpensive gold chain. I came home and showed the chain to my Mother. She thought I bought it for myself. She was so happy and told me how nice it was. No, I said " It is for Johns Birthday. WOW, she flipped out and yelled at me and called me a sucker for buying it. Then she said that I was stupid and that if I thought he really liked me I was wrong. I was a sucker and making a fool out of myself for wasting money on him. All because I bought my first boyfriend a cheep 10 carrot gold chain for his birthday. This was a theme with her. She repeatedly told me that my sister and her husband did not want me near them when as an adult I decided to move to their small town. My Mother destroyed my self esteem and it has destroyed my relationships and job prospects.

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    #8

    "your only depressed because you think you are.", "your not gay and neither is your sister, she thinks she is and you just wanna follow in her footsteps.", "you really are a mean little girl" (said by stepmom beause i accidentally said something about her adopted son when i was like 7)

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    Mustn’t eat the mango 🥭
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents would never say anything like them to me, me friend had a situation where she had a rude stepmom but she’s moved to indianna

    #9

    My boyfriend always comes first so if I have to choose I’ll choose him. My mum when I was 7 or 8

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    Trinity
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So she would go to her bf is he just wants to hang out over if you were dying cuz if so then something f upped

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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She kicked my sister out because he couldn't deal with her. The oldest one when't to a home for children that are trouble my second sister also older had the same coming. My youngest sister stopt going other mom when she was 16 she is 29 still hates her. I have contact with her but 9 years ago I had a really bad accident I should have been death she never visited ever. So yes. When I was 12 we were alone all the time if we would have an accident she wouldn't know because she was drinking

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I can write a book a very big one with al the stuff that happend when we were kids

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    #10

    i have Asian parents and its all grades. when i was signing up for my 8th grade courses the only reason they signed me up for health is for high school credits. I took a course in 7th grade that is required for yearbook staff. and now they want high school credits over a year of training for yearbook.

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    #11

    "Why are you crying?!"

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    Ravenwolf
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, I've gotten this one before.

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    #12

    "I wish i would have stayed at home the day i met your father because then I would have you" it's been a looong road recovering

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    Trinity
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wow how mad does someone have to be to completely ruin someones childhood

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i was a bit of a rebbelious and demanding teen... my mom just got divorced a few years prior so she was a single mom with three kids.. i had a hard time accepting my stepfather.. we did not get alonhge very well sometime and my mom tried her best to change that... i don't blame her anymore.. i now she said it because she was desperate...we all made mistakes and said things we regret.. i love her no matter what, though... because she always was there for us when our father wasn't.. and so what my stepfather despite all fighting

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    #13

    Mom has called me many names over the years. None of them good. I remember getting sick in high school. A lot. She took me to the docs to get a pregnancy test. I’d never had sex with anyone. All my life, she told us not to drink or smoke. So it blew my mind when I was 12 and caught her stressed out and smoking out front (she bummed a cig from someone).

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    #14

    When I was 19 my biological mother told me I hope you die of aids.

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    D e p r e s s e d
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She can rot in hell for that! Why would she say that to you

    D e p r e s s e d
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother told me something similar but still that's just wrong

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    Charlie Anderson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would run away and never talk to her again. That is horrible.

    #15

    ur nothing, stupid, useless, a waist of space on earth, u should have never been born i told them ¨i never asked to be born¨

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    Trinity
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    wow why did they even say that to you? did you get on their nerves?

    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i did nothing to them they always been like this they still say im useless

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    #16

    I don't want to make my mom seem like a bad person or anything, she just has a short temper, so she's called me things like "You f*cking a**hole" or things like that. When I was little I didn't know what it meant, but now I do. I really think she needs help, because she has so much stress.

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    #17

    "You know, your idea of not having children...... in hindsight, maybe that's not such a bad idea...." Jee, Thanks mom..... (but to be honest, my mom is actually ok, when we argue, things do heat up from both sides though, leading to gems like these)

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    #18

    Why won't you just calm down? -my mom while I'm having a panic attack

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    Aroace tiger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lemme guess the panic attack stoped immediately and you said "thanks mum I didn't think of that" then you hugged 🙄

    #19

    My mom called me a hoe because I had a boyfriend... She also said she wanted to have abortion

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    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She said she was sorry... Just had to put that just to let y'all know

    #20

    Once my mom misunderstood what I said and yelled at me; "You have a filthy attitude". I didn't tell her what I actually said, because my mind just tells my mouth to shut up when I'm getting yelled at.

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    Aroace tiger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The last bit happenes to me. I can't talk when my mum shouts at me