Hey Pandas, What Was The Worst Thing A Parent Or A Guardian Has Said To You (Closed)
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I'll likely get downvoted, but Asian parents are known to mercilessly criticize their kids. It's toxic af and needs to stop.
youre not gay , youre confused
"No one likes a depressed person."
My sister thought it would be smart to tell my whole family what kind of boys I like (black or light-skin) and I don’t like to admit it but my dad is kinda racist and he said that i can’t ever date a person that’s not white. That doesn’t mean I won’t though. I still will date a person like that.
Your parents are sick! Do you not understand I'm a black person and most of these people on this platform is black!? Your parents is just racist as hell... My apologies if this might offend you but I don't appreciate your parents telling you that you can't date a black person! That's very disrespectful to my people and community
If you had to be born, you could at least have been a boy. My mother when I was about 12 years old.
That there are only two genders. You're a girl, and u must marry a man. Boy's can't wear women clothes but women can wear men's clothes.
16 Years old and first boyfriend. His Birthday. I bought him an inexpensive gold chain. I came home and showed the chain to my Mother. She thought I bought it for myself. She was so happy and told me how nice it was. No, I said " It is for Johns Birthday. WOW, she flipped out and yelled at me and called me a sucker for buying it. Then she said that I was stupid and that if I thought he really liked me I was wrong. I was a sucker and making a fool out of myself for wasting money on him. All because I bought my first boyfriend a cheep 10 carrot gold chain for his birthday. This was a theme with her. She repeatedly told me that my sister and her husband did not want me near them when as an adult I decided to move to their small town. My Mother destroyed my self esteem and it has destroyed my relationships and job prospects.
"your only depressed because you think you are.", "your not gay and neither is your sister, she thinks she is and you just wanna follow in her footsteps.", "you really are a mean little girl" (said by stepmom beause i accidentally said something about her adopted son when i was like 7)
My parents would never say anything like them to me, me friend had a situation where she had a rude stepmom but she’s moved to indianna
My boyfriend always comes first so if I have to choose I’ll choose him. My mum when I was 7 or 8
i have Asian parents and its all grades. when i was signing up for my 8th grade courses the only reason they signed me up for health is for high school credits. I took a course in 7th grade that is required for yearbook staff. and now they want high school credits over a year of training for yearbook.
"Why are you crying?!"
"I wish i would have stayed at home the day i met your father because then I would have you"
it's been a looong road recovering
Mom has called me many names over the years. None of them good.
I remember getting sick in high school. A lot. She took me to the docs to get a pregnancy test. I’d never had sex with anyone.
All my life, she told us not to drink or smoke. So it blew my mind when I was 12 and caught her stressed out and smoking out front (she bummed a cig from someone).
When I was 19 my biological mother told me I hope you die of aids.
She can rot in hell for that! Why would she say that to you
ur nothing, stupid, useless, a waist of space on earth, u should have never been born i told them ¨i never asked to be born¨
I asked her if she would stop smoking. She said "I'm really trying bub, I know I need to stop." I fast forward five years later. My baby brother is born. She goes out to smoke for forty minutes. I ask why she was out so long. "I'm trying to smoke myself asleep" she says. She tried to OD to the point she passess out. She needs help.
i'm so sorry you are going through this i know just how you feel (i won't say why because i don't want to take attention away from you because this post is about you not some random girl on the internet) no one should ever have to feel the weight of their parents lives..maybe try calling a suicide hotline if you are able to if not i would talk to a trusted adult. i just want you to know you are loved, heard, and appreciated
I don't want to make my mom seem like a bad person or anything, she just has a short temper, so she's called me things like "You f*cking a**hole" or things like that. When I was little I didn't know what it meant, but now I do. I really think she needs help, because she has so much stress.
"You know, your idea of not having children...... in hindsight, maybe that's not such a bad idea...."
Jee, Thanks mom..... (but to be honest, my mom is actually ok, when we argue, things do heat up from both sides though, leading to gems like these)
Why won't you just calm down? -my mom while I'm having a panic attack
Lemme guess the panic attack stoped immediately and you said "thanks mum I didn't think of that" then you hugged 🙄
My mom called me a hoe because I had a boyfriend...
She also said she wanted to have abortion
She said she was sorry... Just had to put that just to let y'all know
Once my mom misunderstood what I said and yelled at me; "You have a filthy attitude". I didn't tell her what I actually said, because my mind just tells my mouth to shut up when I'm getting yelled at.
The last bit happenes to me. I can't talk when my mum shouts at me
i kinda feel weird for upvoting these *hugs everyone*
i kinda feel weird for upvoting these *hugs everyone*