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So many people pointing out being toxic but being toxic! Nonetheless, please share your thoughts!
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#1
Cars with with these new super bright LED lights - they may help you to see better but when you are behind my car I can't see a damn thing!
Final score:
60points
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
And the super bright bicycle lights also, m**********r trying to blind me going down the cycle path.
Johnny 4 years ago
Well aimed factory lights aren't a problem -- LED's have a very sharp cutoff that's supposed to be below the mirrors so they shouldn't be causing any glare. The lights in my car are self-leveling, so even if I have a big load in the back, the LED's still still well aimed. The worst thing are people that buy LED retrofit kits for their standard headlights that are just an LED bulb -- since the LED beam pattern doesn't match the incandescent, they are never well aimed and cause a lot of glare.
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#2
People driving close behind you. Absolutely pisses me off.
Final score:
36points
Terilee Bruyere 4 years ago
I'm assuming that they mean it seems okay to the person who is driving too close, not the person being tailgated.
Load More Replies... Johnny 4 years ago
I always slow down when someone is tailgating -- not to piss the other person off, but because now I have to allow stopping distance for both of us. Even if it's the other cars fault if he rear ends me and he has to pay for it, I don't want the hassle of getting my car repaired.
Freya the Wanderer 4 years ago
Tailgaters can be dangerous! They bring out the passive-aggressive in me.
#3
Mentioned in another thread, but oversharing personal stuff on social media, I honestly just don't see a point. I'm ok with occasional pictures but some people (whose job isn't social media) upload several or more times every day.
Final score:
33points
#4
When people hate on something you like. There are some things that are 'cool' to hate. For example a certain song or a band, a hobby. So if you like that, people just assume it's okay to laugh at it or point out how lame that is. Just wish everyone would appreciate the differences we have.
Final score:
32points
Kari Panda 4 years ago
I was bashed on BP a while back for liking ketchup. Yes, I get that you find it gross. I don‘t force you to eat it, so why not let me have what I like? :(
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
Yeah exactly. And the other way around, if you hate something everyone likes and people make fun of you for it.
Anonymousplease 4 years ago
I totally agree, we should all be able to like what we want and not get teased for it.
Elizabeth Molloy 4 years ago
I always appreciate others' interests. You never know what you may learn!
#5
Lately, using social media to showcase "charity". It's not charity if you have to broadcast it to the world...you're just doing that for the likes. Give because you want to give and because you genuinely wanted to help, as my mother always said, "no one needs to know".
Final score:
32points
Johnny 4 years ago
If someone wants to give to a charity and brag about it online, I don't have a problem with this, they are still doing good. Where it's more of a problem is when someone, say, films themselves giving food or clothing to a homeless person, putting that person's reaction online whether they want to or not.
Aahzmandus Pervect 4 years ago
If someone gives to charity, it is always good, no matter their reason.
Telmo Belo 4 years ago
It may inspire others. If someone gives something to a homeless, 1000 people see it, 500 will hate it, 400 will like it and 100 will do the same. I call it a win.
Jasmine Hufflepuff Henderson 4 years ago
If others see other people doing good, they are more likely to do good as well. Also spreading awareness is important as well because it shows more people the issue at hand and they will feel more inclined to help.
#6
Refusing to hear both sides of an argument/opinion. It’s great if you have opinions on things, your own beliefs, etc., but absolutely refusing to even listen to the other side or ridiculing someone who has a different opinion just makes you look like an uneducated ass. You don’t have to believe what they do, but you should listen at least.
Final score:
27points
Thorfin Wolfsbane 4 years ago
I'm sorry but I will not listen to someone's "opinion" about how great a man Hitler was...no thanks!
J. Ryan (Submission author) 4 years ago
Well that's the extreme side of things. That wasn't what I was going for, but I agree with you there. I'm talking arguments like politics, beliefs, religion, etc. I don't agree with a lot of things, but I will listen to someone's viewpoint without being insulting.
Load More Replies... InfectedVoice 4 years ago
Yes, this can be an issue for some people, especially when drunk, as I got older I have learnt to listen and not just wait for my turn to speak, it can take a minute to change a trait like that, regardless if you are dumb or smart.
#7
Reality TV shows. Particularly those that only use really pretty people.
Final score:
22points
Yvette 4 years ago
Funny story but I was once told by a producer of one of those shows that my real life story was "too real" for reality T.V. Just to clarify I wasn't trying out for one, it came up in conversation. A very very interesting conversation at that.
Alyssa Sweat 4 years ago
Yeah, it can be annoying. They do that to make T.V. moer interesting to watch. I LOVE drama. Like love triangle drama, or jealous ex drama.
GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago
Reality shows on The History Channel that have absolutely nothing to do with history. But some idiots are trying to erase history so perhaps The History Channel is ahead of its time.
#8
Being offended at everything and anything.
Final score:
19points
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
I find it's quite easy to pick holes in their arguments and find easy examples of them being massive hypocrites.
Missy Moo Moo 4 years ago
What... does that offend you?! So no one else should be offended except you?
#9
Motorcyclists or pedestrians who mistake 'right of way' with 'immortality'.
Final score:
19points
#10
Having to have the "correct thing" for some task. Like i have an old root beer can i'm using to water a plant in my bedroom. Get made fun of for it and told to get a real watering can. Why, exactly? How is a watering can better than what i have? if it were hard to reach and i needed the longer spout, ok, sure, but what i have works just fine, so why is it not ok?
Final score:
18points
Half-Jewish-Doggo 4 years ago
as long as you aren't giving the plants root beer, there is not a problem
#11
When people will call you a simp for liking something. For example, Minecraft and Minecraft youtubers.
Final score:
16points
Bean flavored Fujioshi 4 years ago (edited)
me who was literally fangirling over Georgenotfound meeting Tommy(i watched the vid ^^) during my lunch:😅 yep....I'm not a simp (;w; I'm just joking...i don't simp cause they are irl people and have boundaries ;-; please no hate)
#12
People who never take fault or blame and always find a way to make it your fault.
Final score:
16points
#13
Audible masticators
Final score:
15points
Jods 4 years ago
I don’t do it on purpose. Both sides of my jaw click when I chew. No wonder I live alone!
Thorfin Wolfsbane (Submission author) 4 years ago
I had a friend with a clicky jaw. He went to see a chiropractor who did a thing called Activator Method (activator.com - to find one). After one session he said it was the first time he opened his mouth without his jaw clicking in about 15 years. Who knows, maybe it'll work for you like it did for my friend?
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WhatEvenIsLife 4 years ago (edited)
This is my all-time biggest pet peeve. It baffles me how some people will loudly pop and smack their gum around other people, like how does it not even occur to you that it might be annoying for some people? I can't stand mouth noises.
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
Yeah noisy eaters are quite testing, my brother is one, he also breaths really heavily through his nose while eating loud, he's a nightmare.
Thorfin Wolfsbane (Submission author) 4 years ago
My sister is the reason I posted this, haha
Load More Replies... #14
People that think they are smarter than everybody else.
Final score:
15points
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
I don't think I'm smarter than everyone else. I know I'm smarter than everyone else. /s
#15
Rap music being played everywhere, all the time. Like excuse me, not everyone likes rap.
Final score:
14points
GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago
And played so loud from cars that it makes YOUR license plate vibrate.
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
Yeah I don't music being played anywhere at anytime, preferably something a bit heavier and angrier than rap music.
#16
Pointless debates over things like coca cola vs. pepsi honestly who cares.
Final score:
14points
Guido Pisano 4 years ago
you know that you're old when you don't like both of them (and all other sodas)
#17
when someone asks someone something when they are in a bad mood It feels like setting off a bomb.
Final score:
13points
GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago
Or telling you, "If you would just put where it belongs you would know where it is."
#18
People.
Final score:
13points
#19
Men commenting on women’s clothes being too revealing. Like don’t look, and if you can’t help yourself then YOU have a big problem
Final score:
13points
Linda Haney 4 years ago
Let's flip that. Women dressing provocatively and then being angry when men check them out.
#20
Man buns.
Final score:
12points
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
#3 was just talking about hating on something you don't like isn't cool and you should leave people alone, same applies here really, if a dude wants a man bun crack on pal.
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
Idk I think man buns are fine, if they make the guy feel comfortable then its fine
#21
People who start sentences off with "I'm not *insert phobia or racist* but..."
Final score:
11points
Tim Haight 4 years ago
They are trying to make it sound like they are not a bigoted assh**e, Then they spout off with their racist crap
#22
People with no manners. Listening to music full blast on their phone, no headphones. Talking on speakerphone. Ignoring someone who says hi. People who tailgate, those who refuse to use a blinker. If you’re in such a dang rush that you need to drive like a total jerk, try leaving the house earlier. Problem solved. Bottom line is have manners. Don’t be a jerk face. If you treat others the way you would want to be treated, the world would be much more enjoyable. And be patient for gosh sakes. No need to always be in an ultra hurry. It’s not good for you.
Final score:
11points
Sherrill Uliasz 4 years ago
I have to agree about manners. I was taught about manners in a VERY strict environment, yet I am forever grateful to have learned them and carried them throughout my entire adult life.
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
I talk on speakerphone because I can't hear the person talking otherwise, no matter how quiet it is around me. Sorry that annoys you.
#23
Pet names....ik most people want to be called baby or babe or babygirl or princess but that just makes me want to jump off a cliff like use the name that was given to me. I’m not a child so don’t call me one..
Final score:
10points
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
I completely agree. I used to have a partner who called me "babe" and I was really uncomfortable with it, but I was too socially awkward to say so. They asked me to call them babe or baby or something but I couldn't without dying inside.
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
I haven't called my wife by her first name for years, it's babe, hun, dude or stinky face.
Elaine N 4 years ago
I’m actually the opposite 😄I don’t like it when my boyfriend calls me by my first name... I cringe on that 😄
Jasmine Hufflepuff Henderson 4 years ago
Same here. The only time my partner has called me by my first name is if he's trying to get my attention when I space out or I can't hear him. He calls me by my first name and I immediately think he's either mad at me or I've done something wrong, but that stems from my family only calling me by my full name if they're mad at me. It's always nicknames in any other situation.
Load More Replies... #24
Small talk...like, "weather sure is nice!"
Final score:
10points
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
yes same, like just come up to me and tell me all your deepest traumas and why you like one parent more than the other, don't talk to me about the weather susan
InfectedVoice 4 years ago
As a Brit, this is in our DNA, we love to talk about the weather every single day.
#25
loud chewing and bad table manners. also hatimg certain things, just because everyone does that
Final score:
10points
#26
I can't stand when people insult tik tokers or tik tok in general. If you don't like people dancing or doing trends then just ignore it. Most people on it are teens that already have enough on their minds and they don't need a bunch on annoying people who have nothing to do with them put them down more. What have they done to you? Danced better than you? Looked better than you? Had fun without your consent? They aren't bothering you so back off.
Final score:
9points
AriMalari87 4 years ago
I haveno idea why you are being downvoted you're just talking about u hating people hating on tiktokers it is so foolish to be hated for hating something that people hate on, im so srry i said hate ALOT.
nope_not_today (Submission author) 4 years ago
True true, it can be bad sometimes but you can learn a lot of stuff there
Load More Replies... #27
the whole vibe of the r/i'm14andthisisdeep can't we just let kids be kids i think it's better that they express sadness through social media than being harmful to others in real life
Final score:
9points
Derwood 4 years ago
Sooo, are you 14 and this is you expressing your sadness through social media so that you won't be harmful to others?
Kaori Panda 4 years ago
A lot of the posts are kind of harmful- especially when talking about mental health. Besides, no one is bullying the kids, just the whole idea. I'm saying this as a teen myself.
#28
Jeans that ends above a bare ankle but fully clothes otherwise including hat.
Final score:
7points
Terilee Bruyere 4 years ago
Do you mean waders or capris or pants that are intended to actually be pant length but worn incorrectly?
Derwood 4 years ago
I don't know for certain, but I suspect they mean the 'look' of jeans that end above a bare ankle but are fully clothed otherwise including a hat regardless of whether they're waders or capris or pants that are intended to actually be pant length but worn incorrectly.
Load More Replies... #29
The Government
Final score:
7points
Thorfin Wolfsbane 4 years ago (edited)
so you're saying you hate the people of the united states!? (if referring to the US government, which is by and for the people...supposedly)
#30
When people whistle. I can not for the life of me figure out how to do it. People tell me how but its just confusing and I still can't do it. It just annoys me when people whistle around me because I can't do it myself.
Final score:
7points
HooowlAtTheMoon (Submission author) 4 years ago
Yeah same. Sometimes I make a random whistle, and I'm so surprised when I try to do it again, I can't.
Load More Replies... #31
People using "I'm perfect as I am" as an excuse for not working on their bad habits.
Final score:
7points
#32
Videos of people hurting themselves.
Final score:
6points
Sherrill Uliasz 4 years ago
On like "America's funniest videos," where they jump and fall through a trampoline and you can hear it hurt. Yet the audience is laughing about it and applauding.
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
I have never seen a video of someone hurting themselves, unless you mean accidentally? Like fail videos where people fall off bikes and stuff?
#33
People watching me draw over my shoulder, slow walkers, computers always dying, and people who think that they are way better than everyone else.
Final score:
6points
#34
Intolerance. And stupid people who don't realise how stupid they are.
Final score:
6points
#35
Experts and people in general hating on those who use essential oil diffusers. Not everyone who uses those are under the incorrect assumption that they will cure any disease and don't deserve to be treated as stupid for using something that can be calming. Think of a scent from a fond childhood memory. That scent is likely to bring back a warm fuzzy feeling. The same goes for certain oils, some are simply relaxing and THAT is why many people use them (yes, I understand there is a whole new age homeopathic society that refuses modern medicine, I'm not including them in the 'use oil for the smell' group).
Final score:
5points
Juleigha Mills 4 years ago
Cherry and lemon are my two favorite scents because my mother always smelled like cherry (she passed away when I was twelve) and she kept a beautiful crystal bowl filled with lemon drops on the dining room table
Lorelai Purvis 4 years ago
aww this is basically the same reason candy corn is my favorite halloween treat. my great-grandma always had a bowl of candy corn in her house... she passed when i was six. i loved her so much
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Maya Kuntz 4 years ago
Some scents can also distract you from nausea and things like that too.
Jasmine Hufflepuff Henderson 4 years ago
Agreed. I love scents. I have a wax burner, a diffuser, incense, and I love candles. It just calms me and makes my room smell good. Scents also help me stay focused.
Tim Haight 4 years ago
CBD supposedly has some health benefits. But some of the claims are dubious. One site said it cures acne.
GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago
I use them when trying to cover the smell of my medical Marijuana that my yoga instructor prescribed for me...
#36
Having a really big friend group. Personally, I just like having one really good friend and then some acquaintances, I guess. It is just less drama and you get to spend more time with your one friend.
Final score:
5points
angie but who cares 4 years ago
i have a best friend and her other friend that hangs out with us to
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
That's what I wanted, but then my friend got a bunch of other friends and we're all a 'friendgroup' but shes my best friend and i only have one other person in that friendgroup i really talk to at all but even though my first friend says I'm her bestie, she's been hanging out with that other friend more and more. Whenever I ask "wyd?" it's always "facetiming [her], doing homework with [her], talking to [her]" when she doesn't respond for hours it's "sorry i was at [her] softball game, sorry i was hanging out with [her]" ALWAYS. i am not a jealous person at all, but it makes me so jealous. she sends me text conversations from me and [her] that show how amazing their friendship is (probably better than me and my friend) and i fought through the lesbian awkwardness to tell my friend i love her (as a friend) for the first time ever, and what's the first thing she says? "me and [her] tell each other we love each other like 4 times a day" Anyways, sorry I just went on a rant. Didn't mean to.
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
Anyways. Good point froggy. I like this one. Wish I could upvote more than once.
Load More Replies... #37
The phrase “do your own research.” When it comes to air conditioners, knee surgery, or plumbing, people will only trust experts, but for some reason when it comes to astoundingly complex subjects like disease or climatology, then it’s time to cast them aside and look for the smoking gun in some dark corner of the web or on some dingbat’s YouTube channel to prove them all wrong.
Final score:
5points
#38
Snoring. I think it hurts me physically.
Final score:
4points
Terilee Bruyere 4 years ago
Seems good to others? I don't think it seems like a good idea to others, nor do most have a choice in the matter. Some medical conditions, illnesses, and physical defects can cause snoring.
#39
Greeting customers when they enter a store. Why would someone make it company policy for their employees to greet customers as if they genuinely cared - when they do not care and the customers are annoyed by the intrusion?
Final score:
4points
GenXandEarnedItAll 4 years ago
I kind of thought it was to deter stealing as in, "I see you so don't even think about it."
J. F. 4 years ago (edited)
Greeting customers create a positive impression right after entering the store. It's a bit like giving dogs treats when comming home. We are social animals and connect the positive feel of being greeted with entering the shop everytime we do it. Marketing 101. Less common in supermarkets here in Europe, but smaller stores do that
Walks around Mountains (Submission author) 4 years ago
I actually like it in places I frequent, where they actually remember you. But walking into a chain store, where a stressed cashier looks up with a fake smile to say their standard greeting phrase because that's corporate policy makes me cringe.
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Bettie-Jean Neal 4 years ago
I was told that it's done so that the customer is aware that the worker knows they're there - for loss prevention.
saturnslipper 4 years ago (edited)
*I'm uncomfortable with strangers asking me if I need help or giving me a fake greeting. Fakeness never got one extra dollar from me when shopping.
Walks around Mountains (Submission author) 4 years ago
on a bad day, it bothers me enough to leave the store again
Load More Replies... Tim Haight 4 years ago
Its called the 10 foot rule. Many companies require their sales people to do this.
#40
life
Final score:
4points
#41
1. People saying “no offence” and assuming I’m not going to be offended. 2. When people sing during musicals when you’re seeing it for the first time. Like, I asked you fifty times and I just want to enjoy it!
Final score:
4points
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
When people tell me "no offence" i just brace myself and get ready to get offended.
labaguette🥖️🥖️ (Submission author) 4 years ago
I know, they’re basically saying “Get ready, I’m gonna say something offensive”
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#42
Tapping can't stand the sound
Final score:
4points
Bettie-Jean Neal 4 years ago
As in tap-dancing or tapping a pen on a table or the tapping of feet on the floor?
#43
People who feel the need to post constantly on social media, I get it you like to go hiking Susan, a lot. Or constantly posting thirst trap selfies.
Final score:
4points
#44
People on speaker phones in stores... I don’t want to hear your conversations. Cops that park illegally just to go in a store or put lights on to go through a red light & turn off after so you know they didn’t have a call.
Final score:
4points
#46
Oscillating fans. "No, of course I don't want to be comfortable ALL the time. It's so much better to have a tiny sliver of comfort every once in a while, so the contrast makes me even more aware of the fact that the other 80% of the time I'm just as hot and miserable as if I hadn't turned on a fan in the first place!" I just don't get why this has to be the default setting on the majority of fans on the market.
Final score:
3points
#47
It annoys me that there are only three countries on the planet that use [ officially ] the Imperial system of measurement.
Final score:
2points
#48
people saying you cant say your age on social media I can say my age if I want
Final score:
2points
Terilee Bruyere 4 years ago
I think this is more of a safety thing for those who are underage.
HooowlAtTheMoon 4 years ago
I mean, if you're older than 18, sure. If you're like 12 and you tell people online, people might think you're easy to manipulate because you are so young.
Tim Haight 4 years ago
putting your birthday on social media is not a good thing. Scammers can use it with other publically available information to steal your identity
beavis (Submission author) 4 years ago
Well not my birthday just my age group sorta thing
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Drivers License being overplayed on K92
Final score:
2points
Tim Haight 4 years ago
Thats the biggest problem with radio stations. they play the same songs over and over again. And rules are relaxed on how many stations a corporation can own. Clearchannel owns 1225 stations in 300 cities and dominates the audience share in 100 of 112 major markets.
#50
When you're playing a game and your friends tell you that they actually want you to fail so that they can win.
Final score:
2points
#51
Wipers left in the middle of the windscreen when the engines off. Totally irresponsible.
Final score:
2points
#52
Children, I can't stand them. But some people adore them.
Final score:
2points
#54
How long, fake fingernails sound typing on a keyboard eeeeek
Final score:
2points
#56
Tryhards in gta online they are toxic they get mad at you for no reason and they are too scared that if they don’t have the highest kd in the server they will suck at gta online (which is not how being the best player in the server works)
Final score:
1point
#57
Boba fett. I'm ready for the downvotes hit me.
Final score:
1point
#59
Children
Final score:
0points
#60
people buying ALL the gluten free oreos. my fam is gluten-dairy free since november 2020 and oreo just released a gluten free kind. people buy them all. i bet like 80% of them aren't even gluten free, they just want the new oreos to look cool. now, we LOVE oreos, but since we went gluten free, we haven't been able to eat them. probably same goes for every gluten free person. now there's gluten free ones, and people are buying them up for no reason other than they're the new ones. it's annoying to the people that are gluten free and wanted to enjoy oreos again and quite rude. ok this has been my rant
Final score:
-1point
Alyssa Sweat 4 years ago
I hate it when girls say their fat, when they are actually really skinny.
What do you think ?
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