Hey Pandas, What Is One Thing You Knowingly Did, To Which You Knew There Was No Going Back? (Closed)
In life, we have to make decisions. What are some decisions you made to which you knew that there was no going back?
It can be anything from getting out of bed to leaving a toxic job.
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The moral of the story is hope is never to be surrendered. Many years ago (a lifetime) I sent my son to live with his father (so I could get sober) He was 4 at the time. I was effectively left on my own and forbidden to see him again. Flash forward 15 years and 3 weeks, I got a text message. (I had been toyed with by someone off and on for years, so I was skeptical). Then the phone rang. We spoke for 9 hours, and to each race around to find plugs for our cell phones *L*. 2 month later I was racing around the kitchen as he was coming for a visit. I turned around and there he was. I didn’t know what to say, so I asked if it were a dream, because I had those all the time, and then hugged him and begged his forgiveness. It was in that moment he said “there’s nothing to forgive”. After his visit, every other weekend, rain, shine, and one wild snow storm, I found myself driving to Colorado where we was stationed. We drive each other crazy sometimes, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. PS: I’ve been clean and sober for 20+ years.
Nice! It takes determination, I'm proud of you! (edit: hold up there's a random dude who keeps downvoting me :/)
Thank you. I’m not proud of what I did by any stretch, I can only hope that I can stop someone from making my mistakes. And accept that there isn’t always forgiveness. I still have a long journey but win or lose, it’s my path. But thank you again.
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It's backwards: 'I CHOSE TO COME TO THIS REALITY IN THIS EXISTENCE AND STEAL YOUR SOULS!'
Load More Replies...I CHOSE TO COME TO THIS REALITY IN THIS EXISTENCE AND STEAL YOUR SOULS
I'm still not falling for it! I know full well there are no statute of limitations in UK law! You will not get me to confess!
I see a round of Good Panda, Bad Panda coming on. Confess or we are gonna throw the pop-up book at you.
Breaking up with my now ex bf. We had been dating for a while, I really like him, he seemed so nice. But then I found out he had been cheating, and so I broke up with him. He tried telling me that it was all my fault, everything he did to me after we broke up, but I'm not going to listen to him and I'm staying away from him. I may have loved him, but I don't now and I don't regret breaking up with him.
meant, "really liked him" Not "really like him" I definitely don't like him now
I came out. I couldn’t go back or else I’d have to say it was a joke, I’d be bullied if I said it was a joke, because my grade is mostly queer. Once you’re out you can’t go back in.
that! [you came out to your whole grade? or did you tell your parents and they told everyone]
In French we had an assignment where we had to put our gender in a slide about us. I decided to put omnigender and let it be there,
Load More Replies...I am sure you’ve heard this before but living your own truth isn’t always an easy path. It isn’t always meant to be smooth sailing. If it were you wouldn’t be given the opportunities to learn about yourself. I don’t know if this helps at all. But I believe in you,, and am here if you need anything. Bullies don’t dislike you, they dislike themselves. They lack in so many areas of their lives they are lazy. Rather than work to elevate and free themselves, they have to lower people to their level.
Telling family and friends we were in a polyamorous relationship. His wife may have left us 8 years ago, but the drama lives on.
When I told 2 of my best friends my crush (I NEVER tell anybody anything) and well guess what....they told my crush, like straight up lost my trust even though I only told them 3 hours ago.....But now I know not to trust them AT ALL (My crush texted me and asked if this was true, everything seems normal ig) hoping this goes well....Ill update soon...
Have not looked at my texts yet but his ring tone tells me he sent a few
Load More Replies...I killed my best friend in the dnd campaign that we had going for a year.
Just kidding. This post is something i did knowingly and i know there was no going back.
DND is fun. But bro you can just revive him with a revive scroll and then heal wounds him
Load More Replies...For me, it was getting out of the shower today. I knew there was no going back to starting today, so I worked hard to be better today than I was yesterday :)
The internet lol. I can’t picture myself leaving at this point
Drinking. At this point I’m okay with dying from it. Also marrying my husband, my family needs him to run their business.
Thanks guy. I know I need to go. I want to. Hubby got upset last time I said I was going, I started packing already. I’m not going without a dog. I could have taken one with me at the time to lighten the load from hubby, kids & parents, but the one I really need to take with me isn’t old enough until April 9th. The place is 20 minutes away. I hope to get enough courage to just leave one day.
Load More Replies...watched a video of a guy getting dismembered, couldn't stop watching for some reason (btw pls downvote dis im tryna become the most downvoted person on BP)
