Hey Pandas, How To Get Rid Of Abusive Parents As A 13-Year-Old If There Is No Adult To Talk To? (Closed)
Please share ways, tips, and tricks on how to get rid of abusive parents as a child if there is no trusted adult to talk to.
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I think the only way is to talk to CPS (Crime Prosecution Service) o Any child support agency (governmental services would be better) without the parents knowing. I am guessing that you have abusive parents (sorry if I am wrong) and really hope you are doing well and will get rid of them soon. :)
Try any adults. Not only relatives, like good teachers, schools guidance counselor, maybe friends' parents. If there are no adults you can trust, then the only way is the authorities.
Stay strong!
Let me tell you a...Theoretical story. Once upon a time there was a little boy who had abusive parents (more like Parent) who sucked one parent into a void of drugs. This parent would slap the little boy and his brothers senseless whenever he felt like, and had been to jail several times. One day, a mysterious lady came to ask about his bruises and cuts (he had no idea how she knew they existed, but continued to show the lady a whole array of bruises he had earned from punishments. Later that year, the parents moved away with the children to run away from the police, and the cycle resumed. Then, one, miraculously happy day, another lady came and took them to their relatives house.
Later, this child learned of ‘child protective services’ (CPS) who had been involved by a loving teacher.
This little boy grew to be the one writing this advice, and I have one thing to say to you: Ask a teacher, a mentor, or another trusted adult (NOT ANOTHER CHILD) and ask them about the.CPS. Tell them your situation, and ask if they could help you call. If everything goes right, the CPS will soon learn of your abusive conditions, and rush you away to adoption or send you to a relative who wants you, and is proven to be safe (after about 2-3 years of investigation).
If your parents attempt to put on a smile and lather you in love during the investigative period, you can talk to your agent on any phone you can reach (Yes, you will be assigned an agent) and tell them the truth the parents are trying to hide. I feel for you deeply, and I hope you can follow this advice.
(Note: the 2-3 years of investigation will happen during your time living there. Investigation will also be done a short period of time before you are taken. Your parents are not alerted of your taking, I think, and are only alerted after you have been taken into custody.)
Hey, I understand what you are going through. It's tough being abused especially your parents. As other people said above me, please contact the child abuse hotline. Or, call police. Your parents main priority is to become the best you can be, and then to love you. I bet you suffer terrible anxiety and depression every day because of your parents. Good luck my fellow panda. 🐼
If there aren't any adults, you should call a child abuse center or the police.
you should talk to someone at your school. you need to get out of this relationship immediately. it isn't healthy for you or anyone else. if things get serious, call child protection services or the police. abuse is not ok, physical or verbal.
I would say tell the cops but even that can be hard, If you don't have an adult to talk to you can contact childline they might help. If you can't maybe talk to a really good friend. I hope you get out of this situation, Keep strong.
I mean idk, I had to live with my friend because her dad was the only one who believed me ( her mom didn't though) so I stayed there till I got dorms but I was 10 so ofc no one believed me I was a CHILD
I hate it when that happens. No one believes you JUST because your a child. Kids don't lie about something like that. Also the assistant principle at school might not listen because they don't want to get involved into family business.
Talk to people at your school. Schools have resources they can connect you with to help you get out of a situation. If you talk to a teacher or someone like that that you trust, they will most likely have to report it to a counselor or social worker and they can help you get further help. :) If you ever feel unsafe or fear for your life, call 911 and try your best to get out of the situation and go far away. I hope you're safe for the time being. :)
I knew of a friend of a friend who had an unhappy homelife. It eventually came out in the wash and his friends Mom took him down to the minister of their church to get advice. They contacted child welfare, and he was able to stay there for a few weeks while a foster home was found. Years later he went back to the minister to thank him for his help, and is now an active member in the church community, and has started a group for people who were in a similar situation as him.
I knew of a friend of a friend who had an unhappy homelife. It eventually came out in the wash and his friends Mom took him down to the minister of their church to get advice. They contacted child welfare, and he was able to stay there for a few weeks while a foster home was found. Years later he went back to the minister to thank him for his help, and is now an active member in the church community, and has started a group for people who were in a similar situation as him.
