I’ve been struggling and i figured since this happens to everyone how are you guys doing and any advice?
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I'm doing good. Whenever I see them in my highschool I wanna punch them cuz they broke up with me on my birthday. For advice, don't move on so quickly. You're gonna cry and hate them and wish you never even met them what I did to get it over it is point out all the bad things in the relationship. Like so(this is the real things I hate about my ex):
1) polyamorous. IN F*****G HIGHSCHOOL
2) never answered me
3) had like 3 other girlfriends
4) a b***h
5) this goes with 4 but a MANIPULATIVE b***h
6) literally dated everyone/pretty much everyone in my friend group in the span of one school year
7) not being out to their parents was a little rough on me. (Not judging or anything but it's hard on the person you're dating just so you know)
8) got mad at me when I was really worried about them because they didn't answer me for week
9) didn't answer me for a week because they were in a MENTAL HOSPITAL
10) took drugs and went to the hospital because they almost over dosed on Motrin. Like a full bottle
11) the fact they had the AUDACITY to break up with me ON MY BIRTHDAY and let me read the text then send a happy birthday text to me.
What I'm saying is make a list and wonder why you ever even dated them in the first place. Look at all the bad stuff about them and be HAPPY you are no longer in a relationship with them. And you can still be sad after or even during. That's what's supposed to happen when someone breaks up with you.
Oh my goodness I’m so sorry that’s way worse than what happened to me. I was dating my best friend basically. For a year we were always there for each other. He was always telling me he would never ever leave me because he loved me so much. He re@Lily tried to be nice about the breakup but ended up being mean. He said he had a surprise for me (which was supposedly the milkshake he made and brought me) then took me to the place we’d always go to make out and a bunch of other things to make me excited and then broke up with me and started crying. So now i just miss my best friend, my lover, my everything. It’s been months and i still can’t stop loving him. He went from caring so deeply about me to being mean to me and getting mad at me. Im sorry about what happened to you. Thank you so much for the advice.
No one can tell you how to feel. Own your feelings- they are yours. Grieve the way you need to. But realize you are the better person and don’t need them anymore.
