Guy Edits His Girl’s Forehead To Look Bigger In Pics When She Makes Him Mad And It Goes Viral
All’s fair in love and war – we all have different techniques that get us through fights with our significant others and for one Twitter user his is photo editing. Instead of shouting, storming out or saying mean things user @Tgflx1 takes a more humorous approach when he gets mad. He Photoshops either a big forehead or a huge one on his girlfriend depending on the level of mad she’s in. It’s also a good thing that she herself finds these funny pictures with her huge forehead even more hilarious.
In a thread, he shared multiple before and after photos, he had edited and uploaded when he was mad at his partner – and the results are truly hilarious jokes (hopefully to her as well). Renowned relationship psychologist John Gottman says that couples who use humor during a conflict are often more successful in the long run than couples who don’t. Judging on this funny boyfriend’s fighting tactics we think they might be able to stand the test of time.
Twitter user shared that when his girlfriend makes him mad he edits her photos
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Researchers found that those couples who tease each other and make good-natured funny jokes about each other have the strongest relationships. It was discovered over the course of 39 studies that involved over 15,000 people and lasted for more than 30 years. But there are two things to keep in mind when applying this strategy, or else miscommunication could occur. The first is that it is important that the couple has a shared sense of humor. One of the researchers, Hall, noted that humor is a wide concept, so not everyone has the same idea of what is funny.
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Couples with a shared sense of humor have stronger relationships. The second thing is that humor should “provide life to a relationship, inspire laughter, and lighten problems.” Going too far to the point of mean jokes about one another using sarcasm, repetition, or mocking, is unhealthy. “Having an aggressive sense of humor is a bad sign for the relationship,” stated Hall.
Turns out he wasn’t the only person who had fun with their significant other’s photos
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People in the comments found the edits thoroughly amusing
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Translation: Whenever I get mad at my significant other I do something childish and petty.
I find this kind of toxic. Humiliating someone because of anger is not okay.
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Anyone imagines the analogy to doing this in the pre-Web era? Printing manipulated photos and handing them to strangers in a mall. Then drive top the next mall and repeat. Sounds stupid? Yes, it is stupid to ridicule a loved one in front of the whole world, even if the joke is innocent.
Yes, humiliate your girlfriend. That'll show her. You've totally won.
I don't think this qulifies as a couple using humour to deal with relationship issues. The dude is publicly humiliating his girlfriend every time he's mad at her, he's just punishing her. Using humour in a conflict is more like using jokes to softly deliver constructive critisism to your partner without hurting their feelings (at least it is for me and my husband). There's no harm in laughing at each other, as long as you're not intentionally hitting sore spots. It wouldn't be as much of an issue if this was a private joke and he wasn't uploading the pics, but what this guy is doing doesn't seem healthy to me at all.
My dad had a desktop background picture of 'seven of nine' from voyager (Jeri Ryan), and i would hide the original image file and leave a photoshopped one in its place, and each time he found the original id just do it again lol. But that was an image of a person in character, and not broadcast to the world. I like the premise of the humour, but if my so didn't find it funny I wouldn't post it.
The moment he posted it online is where it became unfunny and a way to publicly make fun of her. If it makes you feel better making these photoshop images, by all means do it, print it out and give it to her to show, in a childish way, that you're upset, but don't share it with the world. It's just cruel.
Forehead shaming is never ok! Tens of people are stuck in relationships where their SO edits their forehead to be slightly bigger and posts then online. This is never ok!
I have to say, I don't understand this. It seems like such a minor thing. On the woman's side he only slightly changed the pic. On the man's side, he only made a slight effort. It just seems so minor that it doesn't make sense to even do it.
Whenever I get mad at my significant other... ...oh wait, I don't have one. And never want one again. Because f**k people.
Just remember that Photoshop isn't hard to learn and she probably owns a computer. It's on now unless you are on your best behaviour.
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This just makes her look even smarter than he than she actually is.
This one was actually one of the funniest things I've ever seen. This guy trolled another guy on fb by ever so slightly altering his face and the guy started really freaking out over it. I crack up every time I see this. http://weknowmemes.com/2011/10/the-ultimate-facebook-troll/
Well, I have an awesome group photo with my two bestie and sadly, my ex. I photoshopped him "pedobear" and now I love the pic again :3
Sometimes you ladies throw around words like 'stalker', 'rapist ', and 'pedophile', as if they don't carry any real weight. I mean, these words aren't just adjectives and they have real world meanings that are more than just calling someone a 'jerk'. They carry legal connotations and it always offends me when I see people use them so cavelierly. It's bad enough that all these replies about this guy's silly attempt to diffuse a tense situation assume he was passive agressively trying to take shot at her after the fact, and that he was victimising her, but you are all over looking the fact that in context, she isn't upset about it! In order to really make sense of this, we need to consider her side of the story, and she's not presenting herself as a victim, so that tells me, in addition to taking his word at face value that he was trying to be funny, her response should solidify all our opinions that he was being silly... Damn, you girls are just too accusatory.
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I've never been treated like that by any man and my husband is a fabulous person who wouldn't dream of doing something like this to anyone, so your assumption is wrong. This does make me think that this man has an unhealthy idea of what's okay to do to 'lighten' things with someone you supposedly love. It IS passive aggressive. Or just plain and simply an unpleasant thing to even consider if you love someone and she's taking it on the chin rather than remonstate and make things worse between them. My husband has taken the odd photo of me where I'm pulling some weird face and I've found it hilarious but that was by accident. If you can't see this as passive aggression then maybe you don't understand what that actually means or maybe you thinking this is okay is a failure on your part - or are you too arrogant to consider that possibility? No, must be ALL the WOMEN responding here... Are they ALL women?
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Translation: Whenever I get mad at my significant other I do something childish and petty.
I find this kind of toxic. Humiliating someone because of anger is not okay.
Load More Replies... Anyone imagines the analogy to doing this in the pre-Web era? Printing manipulated photos and handing them to strangers in a mall. Then drive top the next mall and repeat. Sounds stupid? Yes, it is stupid to ridicule a loved one in front of the whole world, even if the joke is innocent.
Yes, humiliate your girlfriend. That'll show her. You've totally won.
I don't think this qulifies as a couple using humour to deal with relationship issues. The dude is publicly humiliating his girlfriend every time he's mad at her, he's just punishing her. Using humour in a conflict is more like using jokes to softly deliver constructive critisism to your partner without hurting their feelings (at least it is for me and my husband). There's no harm in laughing at each other, as long as you're not intentionally hitting sore spots. It wouldn't be as much of an issue if this was a private joke and he wasn't uploading the pics, but what this guy is doing doesn't seem healthy to me at all.
My dad had a desktop background picture of 'seven of nine' from voyager (Jeri Ryan), and i would hide the original image file and leave a photoshopped one in its place, and each time he found the original id just do it again lol. But that was an image of a person in character, and not broadcast to the world. I like the premise of the humour, but if my so didn't find it funny I wouldn't post it.
The moment he posted it online is where it became unfunny and a way to publicly make fun of her. If it makes you feel better making these photoshop images, by all means do it, print it out and give it to her to show, in a childish way, that you're upset, but don't share it with the world. It's just cruel.
Forehead shaming is never ok! Tens of people are stuck in relationships where their SO edits their forehead to be slightly bigger and posts then online. This is never ok!
I have to say, I don't understand this. It seems like such a minor thing. On the woman's side he only slightly changed the pic. On the man's side, he only made a slight effort. It just seems so minor that it doesn't make sense to even do it.
Whenever I get mad at my significant other... ...oh wait, I don't have one. And never want one again. Because f**k people.
Just remember that Photoshop isn't hard to learn and she probably owns a computer. It's on now unless you are on your best behaviour.
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Load More Replies... This just makes her look even smarter than he than she actually is.
This one was actually one of the funniest things I've ever seen. This guy trolled another guy on fb by ever so slightly altering his face and the guy started really freaking out over it. I crack up every time I see this. http://weknowmemes.com/2011/10/the-ultimate-facebook-troll/
Well, I have an awesome group photo with my two bestie and sadly, my ex. I photoshopped him "pedobear" and now I love the pic again :3
Sometimes you ladies throw around words like 'stalker', 'rapist ', and 'pedophile', as if they don't carry any real weight. I mean, these words aren't just adjectives and they have real world meanings that are more than just calling someone a 'jerk'. They carry legal connotations and it always offends me when I see people use them so cavelierly. It's bad enough that all these replies about this guy's silly attempt to diffuse a tense situation assume he was passive agressively trying to take shot at her after the fact, and that he was victimising her, but you are all over looking the fact that in context, she isn't upset about it! In order to really make sense of this, we need to consider her side of the story, and she's not presenting herself as a victim, so that tells me, in addition to taking his word at face value that he was trying to be funny, her response should solidify all our opinions that he was being silly... Damn, you girls are just too accusatory.
Load More Replies... I've never been treated like that by any man and my husband is a fabulous person who wouldn't dream of doing something like this to anyone, so your assumption is wrong. This does make me think that this man has an unhealthy idea of what's okay to do to 'lighten' things with someone you supposedly love. It IS passive aggressive. Or just plain and simply an unpleasant thing to even consider if you love someone and she's taking it on the chin rather than remonstate and make things worse between them. My husband has taken the odd photo of me where I'm pulling some weird face and I've found it hilarious but that was by accident. If you can't see this as passive aggression then maybe you don't understand what that actually means or maybe you thinking this is okay is a failure on your part - or are you too arrogant to consider that possibility? No, must be ALL the WOMEN responding here... Are they ALL women?
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