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Brutally Honest Post Explains How Girls Are Abusing Their Boyfriends, Check If You’re Not Doing It Too
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Brutally Honest Post Explains How Girls Are Abusing Their Boyfriends, Check If You’re Not Doing It Too

We usually think of abusive relationships as black eyes and broken noses, but bad relationships aren’t limited to physical traumas. Psychological scars can be just as – if not more – painful and, sadly, any relationship can inflict them, even if your jealous girlfriend is just a teen.

Signs of an abusive relationship, however, is sometimes hard to spot even for the victims. Especially if they’re madly in love and held firmly under control by the subject. That’s why someone posted a brutally honest message on Tumblr, which should help identify if a teen girl is abusing her partner. The post quickly gained attention, and so far, it has amassed almost 290k notes. People are even reblogging it in spite of losing followers. Scroll down to read the brilliant text covering abusively strict rules and behavior some girls inflict on their boyfriends and let’s hope more people will openly discuss this uncomfortable yet very important topic.

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Michel M. Prins
Community Member
5 years ago

That whole post is a massive thumbs up. Thank you kindly for the support, ladies!

lemontzz aide
Community Member
5 years ago

If abuse isn't right for girls - it isn't right for boys. Abuse isn't right for ANYONE! Those cops need SERIOUS training!! Those boys may have fear issues from toddler stage which is impactful for life ... Maybe the abused boys were brought up to respect girls. Maybe those girls have anger issues from dad? And ALL else!! (way too much to get into!) - all abusers have self esteem issues & subsequently unacceptable behaviour toward the abused. We cannot 'double-standard' this one ... sorry. Gender has no place here - the issue is ABUSE! Period.

frederic eeckman
Community Member
5 years ago

Like they said : "If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abouse but since it's the other way around it's considered normal". Of course abuse is the issue, but in that cas it's the fact that the abuse is someone perceived as normal because it comes from the girls, so it IS a gender issue in that aspect...

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Captain Planet
Community Member
5 years ago

This is kind of a rare thing too see. A post about fighting for mens right on boredpanda haha. But I applaud. I hope to see more of this to get a more neutral Boredpanda.

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Michel M. Prins
Community Member
5 years ago

That whole post is a massive thumbs up. Thank you kindly for the support, ladies!

lemontzz aide
Community Member
5 years ago

If abuse isn't right for girls - it isn't right for boys. Abuse isn't right for ANYONE! Those cops need SERIOUS training!! Those boys may have fear issues from toddler stage which is impactful for life ... Maybe the abused boys were brought up to respect girls. Maybe those girls have anger issues from dad? And ALL else!! (way too much to get into!) - all abusers have self esteem issues & subsequently unacceptable behaviour toward the abused. We cannot 'double-standard' this one ... sorry. Gender has no place here - the issue is ABUSE! Period.

frederic eeckman
Community Member
5 years ago

Like they said : "If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abouse but since it's the other way around it's considered normal". Of course abuse is the issue, but in that cas it's the fact that the abuse is someone perceived as normal because it comes from the girls, so it IS a gender issue in that aspect...

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Captain Planet
Community Member
5 years ago

This is kind of a rare thing too see. A post about fighting for mens right on boredpanda haha. But I applaud. I hope to see more of this to get a more neutral Boredpanda.

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