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Weddings are meant to be the best days of people’s lives. But so many things can go wrong that it’s making us anxious even now. The happy couple can reveal their inner toxicity and entitlement. The guests, vendors, and officiants might find creative ways to wreck the ceremony. And you’re probably standing in the corner somewhere, eating bite-sized snacks, documenting everything.

It is cathartic to embrace what happened. The very worst moments get shared on the ‘Wedding Shaming’ community, which is dedicated to calling out the most epic fails. We’ve collected the crème de la crème of awfulness, and if you’re into drama, well, you’re going to love these posts.

#1

I Can’t Believe This Guest Wore White To My Wedding

I Can’t Believe This Guest Wore White To My Wedding

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Roman Arendt
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2 weeks ago

But do we know this isn't the bride, though?

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    #2

    The Dress My Ex’s Mom Sent Me To Wear To His Upcoming Wedding

    The Dress My Ex’s Mom Sent Me To Wear To His Upcoming Wedding

    For context: my ex cheated on me some time ago with his now fiancé. His mom really liked me and sent me this dress after inviting me to his upcoming wedding. I have since respectfully declined the invitation and the dress.

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    Roxy222uk
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Is it just me or does that dress look cheap? Not metaphorically.

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    #3

    This Guest Also Wore White To My Wedding, And Stepped All Over My Dress & Didn’t Even Apologize!!

    This Guest Also Wore White To My Wedding, And Stepped All Over My Dress & Didn’t Even Apologize!!

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    Henrik Knudsen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Good boi

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    #4

    A Bridesmaid Posted This In My Local Mums Lounge-

    A Bridesmaid Posted This In My Local Mums Lounge-

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    How about go f yourself?

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    #5

    My Sister And I Were The Flower Girls. We Celebrated By Dragging My Sister Around On The Dance Floor By Her Pantyhose…

    My Sister And I Were The Flower Girls. We Celebrated By Dragging My Sister Around On The Dance Floor By Her Pantyhose…

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    LSD
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    This is hilarious, and also a good reason to have a child free wedding.

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    #6

    Bride Asks For Donations | In The Town Group Page

    Bride Asks For Donations | In The Town Group Page

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    visacrum
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Sure, I'd donate $1. I pick 1!

    #7

    Mob Is First A Mother Of A Dead Daughter (On Her Other Daughter's Wedding Day)

    Mob Is First A Mother Of A Dead Daughter (On Her Other Daughter's Wedding Day)

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    Someone on Reddit said they found some details: Connie (the MOB) had a daughter named Sabrina, who díed in 2022 at the age of 21. Connie's other daughter, Christina (Sabrina's sister), got married, and at her wedding, Connie "went unhinged and 1.made the day about her d**d daughter, not her living one, 2. apparently got super wasted, 3. asked people to send her money via PáyPál, and 4. ruined her youngest daughter's special day". In subsequent replies to Connie's post above, the groom, family, and friends ripped Connie to shreds. IMO it's an absolute tragedy that Sabrina díed young, but Christina also lost a sister. And on Christina's wedding day, it IS about her and not about her deád sister. I'm sure Christina would have wanted her sister to be present at her wedding, but not like THIS.

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    #8

    Guest Wore White To My Wedding LOL……

    Guest Wore White To My Wedding LOL……

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    It's not only white, it's hideous af, no matter the colour.

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    #9

    The Wedding Reception Centerpieces Featured Betta Fish. The Bride And Groom Planned To Flush Them Alive

    The Wedding Reception Centerpieces Featured Betta Fish. The Bride And Groom Planned To Flush Them Alive

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Animal cruelty, how decorative and romantic...😡😡😡😡😡😡

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    #10

    I'm A Wedding Photographer And Just Wanted To Shame This Wedding Guest

    I'm A Wedding Photographer And Just Wanted To Shame This Wedding Guest

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    Greenkitty
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I have no idea what is going on here

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    #11

    A Historic Spanish Courtyard Wedding With An Inflatable "Art" Altar

    A Historic Spanish Courtyard Wedding With An Inflatable "Art" Altar

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    sturmwesen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    needs a round balloon on top

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    #12

    Eight Years Ago Today, My Mil Wore This To My Wedding

    Eight Years Ago Today, My Mil Wore This To My Wedding

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    OneHappyPuppy
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Gorgeous wedding dress. Wait, what??

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    #13

    Most Infuriating Guest Pulls Out Insta 360 During Dip Kiss

    Most Infuriating Guest Pulls Out Insta 360 During Dip Kiss

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I didn't throw the javelin in high school, but it's never too late to learn.

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    #14

    Finally Witnessed A Guest Wear White In Real Life!

    Finally Witnessed A Guest Wear White In Real Life!

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    And halter neck on that. Get that baby out of the path of my incoming red wine accident.

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    #15

    Stepmom Wore White To My Wedding After Being Told Not To

    Stepmom Wore White To My Wedding After Being Told Not To

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    "But it's cream/eggshell/ecru! Not white!!!" -Stepmom, probably

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    #16

    I’ve Literally Never Felt More Hurt In My Life

    I’ve Literally Never Felt More Hurt In My Life

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    Vatafeo
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago (edited)

    I really hope they send back something along the lines of "Dont worry about buying a dress, you're no longer welcome"

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    #17

    "Come Shoot For Me, Unpaid, This Saturday!"

    "Come Shoot For Me, Unpaid, This Saturday!"

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    If they need a second shooter, they should check all the local grassy knolls.

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    #18

    No Actual Invites. What Could Go Wrong

    No Actual Invites. What Could Go Wrong

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    *s***s in a massive breath* - would like to see how this went.

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    #19

    $700+ Destination Bride Woes! + Kickbacks

    $700+ Destination Bride Woes! + Kickbacks

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    R Dennis
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    My stepdaughter wanted a destination wedding that would have been about $5k/person (flights, hotels, etc.). I asked her who would be going? Most of her friends, her mom's family, my family, and her dad's family couldn't/wouldn't be able to afford it.... SHE couldn't even afford it! So, I asked what was more important the destination wedding or having friends and family there? She had a local wedding with everyone there and gifted them the down-payment on a home. (Which wouldn't have happened the other way.)

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    #20

    On My Upcoming Cruise. They Got A Wedding Planned And Are Asking Others Not To Wear White On The White Night, Which Is A Theme Night Announced Months In Advance

    On My Upcoming Cruise. They Got A Wedding Planned And Are Asking Others Not To Wear White On The White Night, Which Is A Theme Night Announced Months In Advance

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    This is insane.

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    #21

    Bride Wants All Of The Bridesmaids To Be The Same Height, Whatever It Takes…

    Bride Wants All Of The Bridesmaids To Be The Same Height, Whatever It Takes…

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    YakFactory
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    So all the bridesmaids can arrive at the wedding on crutches, having broken their ankles practising walking on their platforms.

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    #22

    But The Child Will Steal My Spotlight!!

    But The Child Will Steal My Spotlight!!

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    Lee Gilliland
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    2 weeks ago

    Lady, nobody's gonna mistake her for thebride, promise.

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    #23

    She’s Dragging Him Away From Hunting Animals For Marriage, I Guess

    She’s Dragging Him Away From Hunting Animals For Marriage, I Guess

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    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Those bride dragging groom things are so tacky and cringey.

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    #24

    What In The 1980s (Cigarette Wedding Favours)

    What In The 1980s (Cigarette Wedding Favours)

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    wayne whitson
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I See "Tobacco Farmer" Wedding.

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    #25

    I Hope This Post In The Wedding Sub Is A Troll Post…

    I Hope This Post In The Wedding Sub Is A Troll Post…

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    Henrik Knudsen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Sure, give it a try. See how it goes ... idjut

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    #26

    Asking A Bar For Wedding Donations Is Wild

    Asking A Bar For Wedding Donations Is Wild

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    Lily bloom
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Support the local shop by purchasing their wares for your gift baskets. Ask for a business card to include in hopes the recipient also makes a purchase to support the small business. Expect nothing in return.

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    #27

    Guest In White Lace With Matching Headress

    Guest In White Lace With Matching Headress

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    It is believed that Jesus turned water into wine at that wedding specifically to deal with such a case.

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    #28

    Just Admit You Can’t Afford Your Wedding Lmaoooo

    Just Admit You Can’t Afford Your Wedding Lmaoooo

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    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    If you can't afford it, lower your expectations.

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    #29

    I’m Against Kids At Weddings, But Dang This Is Harsh

    I’m Against Kids At Weddings, But Dang This Is Harsh

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    Henrik Knudsen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Celebrate yourself A-H

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    #30

    Finally Somewhere I Can Shame My Officiant

    Finally Somewhere I Can Shame My Officiant

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    From OP: "My husband and I live in a small town and our municipal office does civil marriages. We got married on our property, just us two, our 6 month old and we had the required 2 witnesses, one of which was the photographer. We wanted nice photos to be able to at least share with all the people we didn't invite. The paperwork asks if there would be a photographer and we checked off yes. The day of our officiant (who works at our municipal office) shows up and I am floored by the outfit she chose. A blue ocean themed dress with starfish all over it (we are getting married basically in a forest) and to top it off she's wearing a hot pink bra with the straps completely visible. So yeah all our ceremony photos were absolutely ruined because she sticks out like a sore thumb. I was under the impression that officiants dressed neutral like pants and a button up or something but this woman looked like our wedding was a stop on her way to the beach."

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    #31

    Wedding Raffle Board For Sale On Marketplace

    Wedding Raffle Board For Sale On Marketplace

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    Kathy Not Karen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I think that is a fun way to contribute. Have you seen people put Venmo codes on theie cars hoping strangers will randomly give them money? This is a much better and classier way to allow people to donate.

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    #32

    Bride's Bil Ruined Photos By Making Stupid Faces

    Bride's Bil Ruined Photos By Making Stupid Faces

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    LSD
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    The faces are childish and he didn’t even dress appropriately. He’s a d****e.

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    #33

    5 Years Ago, Mil Wore This To My Wedding

    5 Years Ago, Mil Wore This To My Wedding

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    A girl
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Dog knows what's what

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    #34

    “Influencer” Bride Wants Free Wedding In Exchange For “Exposure”

    “Influencer” Bride Wants Free Wedding In Exchange For “Exposure”

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I stopped at "NY content creator".

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    #35

    Win For Worst Moh Dress I’ve Ever Seen

    Win For Worst Moh Dress I’ve Ever Seen

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    It's a maxi (pad) dress!

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    #36

    When The Bride Asked On The Website, On The Day-Before Text Blast, Had The Emcee Announce Twice For A ‘No Device Ceremony’ And The Aisle Photos Still Turn Out Like This

    When The Bride Asked On The Website, On The Day-Before Text Blast, Had The Emcee Announce Twice For A ‘No Device Ceremony’ And The Aisle Photos Still Turn Out Like This

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    Henrik Knudsen
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    That hurt reading this caption. Still don't know what it's trying to tell me.

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    #37

    Someone Either Eloped Or Proposed On A Famous Lake Superior Beach, Just To Leave Their Plastic Trash Behind

    Someone Either Eloped Or Proposed On A Famous Lake Superior Beach, Just To Leave Their Plastic Trash Behind

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    Dragon mama
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Looks like gender reveal nonsense.

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    #38

    No Rain Plan For 200 Guests 3 Days Out

    No Rain Plan For 200 Guests 3 Days Out

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    DooDah Man
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Help yourself.

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    #39

    This Was Posted April 29, About Three Weeks Before The Wedding

    This Was Posted April 29, About Three Weeks Before The Wedding

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    Joanne Earle
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    1500 guests? I'm 62 and don't think I've ever known 1500 people, nevermind 1500 friends/family close enough to me that I'd invite to my wedding.

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    #40

    I've Personally Never Seen A 4 Year Old Eat

    I've Personally Never Seen A 4 Year Old Eat

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    Iffydust
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    As someone that works in service industry. Yes, a child still counts as human and how many the facility may hold. They still need chairs. If you expect a group of 4 of people at restaurant, and show up with 3 unexpected children the table for 4 you made ready is not big enough. Always make sure the children is accounted for.

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    #41

    My Husband’s Step Sister Wore White To Our Wedding

    My Husband’s Step Sister Wore White To Our Wedding

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    LSD
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    She’s not going to pull focus. If it was a dress it would be a different story

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    #42

    Influencer Bride Thinks She’s Entitled To A Free Artwork

    Influencer Bride Thinks She’s Entitled To A Free Artwork

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    Michael Largey
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    How about a cute little sketch of two vultures?

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    #43

    I Hope She Doesn't Know The Rest Of The Lyrics 😬

    I Hope She Doesn't Know The Rest Of The Lyrics 😬

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I don't get it?

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    #44

    Nextdoor Post Requesting Correctly Dressed Volunteers

    Nextdoor Post Requesting Correctly Dressed Volunteers

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    Natalia Jahooblies
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    For the love of Christ why have people started spelling "paid" wrong left, right, and centre?

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    #45

    $250 Per Person. With People I Don’t Know. In This Economy

    $250 Per Person. With People I Don’t Know. In This Economy

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    Demdumpin
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Is that RSVP date deliberate?

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    #46

    Spotted On Vinted While Wedding Dress Shopping

    Spotted On Vinted While Wedding Dress Shopping

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    KatSaidThat
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Not surprised it needs buyer protection.

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    #47

    Are Registries Just A Cash Grab Now

    Are Registries Just A Cash Grab Now

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    driedgrapes
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Your... wedding debt? 🤔

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    #48

    I’m All About Comfort, But This Is A No From Me Dawg

    I’m All About Comfort, But This Is A No From Me Dawg

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    2 weeks ago

    I'll d*e on the hill that Crocs have their uses, like when Stilgar was a puppy and very sick with distemper and I had to run outside with him in my arms at a moment's notice XD It was nice having a pair of very-washable slip-on style shoes sitting next to the sliding door that I could just jam my feet into even as I was rushing outside with a puking and/or pööping puppy XD That being said, I would d*e on that same hill before I wore these bedazzled Crocs!

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    #49

    Bride Wants People To Travel And Cook For Her Wedding In 3 Months Bc They "Can't Afford It"

    Bride Wants People To Travel And Cook For Her Wedding In 3 Months Bc They "Can't Afford It"

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    Papa
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago (edited)

    If fiancee's family said no to the pot luck then tell them you're doing it anyway, or they can pay for the food.

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    #50

    Parents Want To Take First Dance Slot

    Parents Want To Take First Dance Slot

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    Anne Edwards
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    Correct response is no, just no. Be helpful to have something happen to their song choice.

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    #51

    Asking For A Fragrance Free Wedding Doesn’t Seem Too Bad Until You Start Reading The Comments

    Asking For A Fragrance Free Wedding Doesn’t Seem Too Bad Until You Start Reading The Comments

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    Nicely
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    What comments? I had a ff wedding too due to my allergy, it's not that weird.

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    #52

    It's A Job Well Done, But What An Interesting Choice Of Cake For Your Wedding!

    It's A Job Well Done, But What An Interesting Choice Of Cake For Your Wedding!

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
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    2 weeks ago

    Maybe they both like rats. Rats are cute. They make awesome pets. They're rad! I'd have wanted a wolf cake. Or maybe a dragon cake. Or maybe a dragonwolf cake XD

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    #53

    Influencer Engagement Party Rules

    Influencer Engagement Party Rules

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    Roman Arendt
    Community Member
    2 weeks ago

    I don't see a problem if invitees can decline without being shamed. The only expectations are the dress code and punctuality. Or am I missing something?

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