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Dad Furious As Ex Lets Their Child Get Sunburned Over Her Partner’s Bizarre Sunscreen Conspiracy
Dad Furious As Ex Lets Their Child Get Sunburned Over Her Partner’s Bizarre Sunscreen Conspiracy
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Dad Furious As Ex Lets Their Child Get Sunburned Over Her Partner’s Bizarre Sunscreen Conspiracy

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Some parents have interesting beliefs, don’t they? You know the type – the ones who swear by crystal healing or think 5G is out to get them. No judgment; you do you! Because most of the time, these quirky ideas are harmless. But when they cross the line into a dangerous territory, it’s a different story.

Like one Redditor’s ex who decided modern medicine is a scam, saying sunscreen is more dangerous than the actual sun. Because nothing says good parenting like letting your kid slow-roast in the great Australian outdoors, where even the kangaroos are sweating.

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    Man in sunglasses pondering near the waterfront under a sunny blue sky, emphasizing concerns about sunscreen and cancer.

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    One frustrated dad asks for advice online as his ex-wife refuses to allow their 7-year-old daughter to wear sunscreen, as she believes it causes cancer

    Text about sunscreen debate in Australia, mother claims sunscreen causes cancer, affecting daughter's sun exposure.

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    Text discussing opinions on sunscreen and sun tanning, mentioning beach proximity and influence from a partner.

    Family sunbathing on the beach, children and woman in swimsuits without sunscreen under the bright sun.

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    The woman took the kid to a water park but didn’t allow her to use sunscreen, so the 7-year-old got severe burns

    Text exchange discussing sunscreen cancer claims, daughter sunburn, and beach precautions.

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    Text discussing concerns over sunscreen and cancer, with daughter sunburned at water park.

    Back of a woman with sunburn lines, suggesting exposure under the Aussie sun without sunscreen.

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    The dad has explained to his daughter why wearing sunscreen is important and she wants to wear it, so she asked to sneak a roll-on in her backpack, and hide it from her mom

    Text conversation about sunscreen, cancer concerns, and tanning choices discussed.

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    Text discussing sunscreen use and safety concerns for a daughter under the Australian sun.

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    Text on image expressing concern over daughter's well-being and stress from sunscreen beliefs.

    Text reading "Reddit, please help me. What can I do?

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    The man is worried about his daughter’s mental and physical well-being as the child is constantly stressed at home and afraid of her mom

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    The OP (original poster) is a 38-year-old dad, frustrated over his ex’s anti-sunscreen stance. According to her, sunscreen causes cancer, and she has banned their 7-year-old daughter from using it. Which means their little one should always wear long sleeves and a hat, or at least stay in the shade.

    Now, any rational person would tell you that Aussie summers are brutal. The UV index is so intense that standing outside unprotected is basically a one-way ticket to Sunburn City. Unfortunately, this poor kid learned that the hard way after a trip to a water park left her with blistering burns on her shoulders, neck, and back. It was so bad that even the grandparents were threatening to call child services.

    And what did mom have to say about it? “I told you to stay in the shade.” Because, you know, 7-year-olds are so good at remembering to dodge the sun while running around a water park. I don’t know about you, but I’d be furious at this point. And so was our dad.

    Not only was his daughter suffering, but she was also so anxious about the no-sunscreen rule that she was considering sneaking a roll-on sunscreen into her backpack like she was part of some undercover mission. When your kid is plotting like they’re in a spy movie just to protect their own skin, you know something’s seriously wrong.

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    Let’s get one thing straight—sunscreen is not the enemy here. The real villain? UV rays that don’t give a damn about your mom’s conspiracy theories. Experts confirm that unprotected sun exposure is a leading cause of skin cancer, and sunscreen is one of the best ways to prevent it.

    The trick is using a broad-spectrum SPF 30 or higher, applying it generously, and reapplying every two hours (or more if you’re swimming or sweating). Hats and shade help, sure, but they’re not a magic force field. If you don’t want to spend your later years dealing with sunspots, wrinkles, or worse, then sunscreen is your best friend. Science has spoken.

    So, what’s a concerned parent to do when their co-parent refuses to believe in basic science? Co-parenting isn’t for the weak, and it doesn’t mean you have to be besties with your ex, but it can at least be civil. The trick? Communication, consistency, and picking your battles wisely.

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    Set clear agreements about routines, rules, and important issues (like, you know, basic safety), and if disagreements arise, let a neutral third party, like a pediatrician or lawyer, help navigate them. And, you know, keeping the focus on the child instead of past drama would be a good idea.

    So, what’s next for our dad? Well, right now, his best bet is to keep educating his daughter, secretly stash sunscreen in her bag, and continue documenting incidents in case legal action becomes necessary. The sun doesn’t play around, and neither should parents when it comes to protecting their kids.

    What do you think of this story? Have you ever dealt with a co-parent with unusual beliefs? Drop your thoughts below!

    Netizens advise the man to take his ex to court since she is putting their daughter in danger

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    Monica Selvi

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    Hi! I'm Moni. I’m a globetrotting creative with a camera in one hand and a notebook in the other. I’ve lived in 4 different countries, an visited 17, soaking up inspiration wherever I go. A marketer by trade but a writer at heart, I’ve been crafting stories, poems, and songs, and creating quirky characters since I was 7.

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    I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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    Monika Pašukonytė

    Monika Pašukonytė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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    Kate Johnson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, I'd be taking her to court and trying to get full custody with supervised visitation. She's obviously a dimwitted whack job without the capacity to parent.

    Petra Peitsch
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. The answer for OP's "What can I do," question is: First and above of at all, notice the aussie equivalent of the CPS. Second, with the CPS-report go directly to court to claim full custody.

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    PeTeH
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conspiracy theorists love themselves and their beliefs more than they love their children.

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    Janelle Collard
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the "Call your lawyer" comments. Also, OP should contact daughter's pediatrician + get it *in writing* that daughter needs to wear sunscreen + give it to whack-job ex. May not make a difference to the whack-job, but OP can prove in court he tried to protect his child.

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    Kate Johnson
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry, I'd be taking her to court and trying to get full custody with supervised visitation. She's obviously a dimwitted whack job without the capacity to parent.

    Petra Peitsch
    Community Member
    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. The answer for OP's "What can I do," question is: First and above of at all, notice the aussie equivalent of the CPS. Second, with the CPS-report go directly to court to claim full custody.

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    PeTeH
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Conspiracy theorists love themselves and their beliefs more than they love their children.

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    Janelle Collard
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    9 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with the "Call your lawyer" comments. Also, OP should contact daughter's pediatrician + get it *in writing* that daughter needs to wear sunscreen + give it to whack-job ex. May not make a difference to the whack-job, but OP can prove in court he tried to protect his child.

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