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Entitled Lady Tries To Snatch Woman’s Collector Barbie, Irked When She Gets Caught In Her Room
Toys don’t really disappear when you grow up, they just level up. Gone are the squeaky rubber duckies, and in come collectible figurines, LEGO sets that cost more than rent, and dolls that are strictly for admiring.
When you’ve worked hard to keep your treasures pristine, the last thing you want is sticky fingers touching them. Because nothing makes an adult clutch their pearls faster than someone mistaking their beloved collectibles for a toy.
One Redditor recently shared a story about a home visit gone wrong, starring her cherished Barbies, an overconfident guest, and one very determined 5-year-old.
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One woman installs a lock on her bedroom door after her mom’s friend sneaks in and tries to take her collectible doll for her granddaughter
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The woman has a collection of box-fresh, collector barbies and dolls that her dad bought her when she was a kid
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The woman lives in a small apartment, so she keeps her doll collection in her childhood bedroom at her parents’ house
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When visiting her parents, the woman catches her mom’s friend in her closets, asking her to give one of her collector Barbies to her granddaughter
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The woman refuses to give away any of her dolls, and together with her mom, they install a lock on the bedroom door
The OP (original poster) lives in a small condo, so she still has her childhood bedroom intact at her parents’ house. The place is filled with memories of growing up with a dad who worked abroad to bring home special gifts. Among the treasures? About 10 collector edition Barbies and dolls, perfectly preserved in their boxes.
This peaceful little museum, however, didn’t stay undisturbed for long. Over the weekend, the OP went home to visit, and her mom invited friends over. One of those, Jane, had brought her 5-year-old granddaughter along. But the OP had a “no kids in her bedroom” rule, because last time a child wandered in, some cherished belongings didn’t survive the encounter.
By the time the OP went up, Jane was in full exploration mode, rummaging through her closet like she was on some treasure hunt. Her eyes landed on the collector dolls, and before the OP could blink, Jane had one in hand, presenting it like a royal gift to her granddaughter. And, of course, the kid’s eyes sparkled and Jane expected the OP to just hand it over.
But the OP’s polite “no” was met with irritation. Jane handed the box back with a huff, and the kid started wailing for the “princess doll,” not impressed by the OP’s old, well-loved dolls. Nothing but the pristine, boxed beauty would do. Luckily, the visit ended without broken dolls, and by the next morning, the OP and her mom had installed a lock on the door.
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For the OP, the dolls aren’t just potential investments, they’re memories, a connection to a dad who worked miles away and showed his love through every carefully chosen toy. Plus, collecting dolls isn’t just for kids or quirky aunts, it’s actually a legit hobby with surprising benefits. For many adults, doll collecting is a form of stress relief, a creative outlet, and even therapy.
The pros say that hobbies like collecting can lower anxiety, boost focus, and spark joy. Displaying, organizing, and caring for dolls taps into the same satisfaction we get from completing puzzles or tending plants. And for some, these dolls are self-therapy, a way of healing from unresolved issues within their lives.
So, when the OP said “no” to handing over her toys, it wasn’t just a kid she was turning down, it was anyone trying to mess with years of memories, comfort, and emotional investment. Psychologists even have a fancy name for this: the endowment effect – a fancy psychology term for “we love our stuff just because it’s ours.”
Basically, once something belongs to you, your brain decides its value is higher just because you own it, even if it’s just a $3 coffee mug or that creepy Furby you’ve had since childhood. Suddenly, your stuff feels like a piece of your soul, which explains why the idea of selling it – or worse, giving it away – feels like a personal insult.
What’s your take on this story? Was the poster wrong for not giving her beloved doll to a child? Let us know in the comments below!
Netizens side with the woman, saying she was right to not give her dolls to her mom’s friend
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SheamusFanFrom1987 4 months ago
Oh, I can relate. Not sure about it being just an Asian thing (I'm a South-East Asian Man-da btw) but I had a cousin (estranged but by no fault of my immediate family's side) that just loved raiding my toy closet and generally taking some stuff home without permission or by pretty much having her parents pester my parents or grandparents. As Asians, obviously we couldn't say no out of respect your elders and they would technically use the term "If you didn't buy it, it technically isn't yours" and my parents kept the peace by just obliging. Guess what happened when she tried to snag a toy that I bought myself. Seeing as I was 16-17 at the time and already working part-time with my own money to boot, a certain few family members got a shellacking when they tried to help themselves to a toy I purchased on my own (by then grandparents had nothing to say as they knew it was MY own money that bought it). Overall, I sympathize with OP but at least she had her mother on her side.
UpupaEpops 4 months ago (edited)
It's a thing in Eastern Europe as well. I can't even count how many of my belongings got destroyed/stolen this way. The entitlement is unreal. I had one particularly darling cousin who would lose her s**t because of the things I had. She once took a vintage book I got from my Grandfather, that I was in the middle of restoring and threw it out of my room, saying that it wasn't on the required list for reading. I was a bookworm, meanwhile she hated reading. I may or may not have grabbed her by the shirt and thrown her out of my room. I think that was the last time she set foot in it. Luckily, my mother knew how many hours I've been spending on that book and didn't punish me.
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JayWantsACat 4 months ago
I'm Japanese and this would be unthinkable for me, my Japanese mom, and our Japanese friends.
Tabitha 4 months ago (edited)
TBH, this isn’t a cultural thing at all. It’s just an a*****e thing. It happens to ALL kinds of people, regardless of their background. I am white, and have had it happen to me with other kids grabbing my toys and their parents just letting them. Hell, as an adult at work, I’ve had to put my stuff away in a locked drawer in my desk before I went home everyday, because I was fed up with having to walk around the whole office gathering MY stuff that I bought with my own money, not stuff from the supply closet, off of other people’s desks because they didn’t have the decency to put it back where it belonged. Hell, they didn’t have the decency to ask before borrowing it, and some of them tore my stuff up when they were using it (misusing it, actually). Ever lend someone your pen, and they returned it with their teeth marks on it? Gross. If it’s not yours, look but do touch. If you have permission to touch it, treat it with kid gloves, be incredibly mindful about it and careful with it, and put it back oh so gently when you’re done.
JayWantsACat 4 months ago
"TBH, this isn’t a cultural thing at all. It’s just an a*****e thing." Really, it's not "a cultural thing AT ALL?" It can obviously be both or are you the arbiter of all cultures? Besides are you really telling a SE Asian, explaining her own culture, that she's wrong?
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BrownEyedPanda 3 months ago
As a fellow Barbie collector, I wouldn't be keen on someone assuming that their child's entitlement takes precedence over my boundaries. Sure, I have Barbies to play with (don't judge), but I also have collectibles that are meant to be displayed. Fortunately for me, I live in an apartment where I have the last word on who comes and goes to my unit. One strike, and you don't come back.
SheamusFanFrom1987 4 months ago
Oh, I can relate. Not sure about it being just an Asian thing (I'm a South-East Asian Man-da btw) but I had a cousin (estranged but by no fault of my immediate family's side) that just loved raiding my toy closet and generally taking some stuff home without permission or by pretty much having her parents pester my parents or grandparents. As Asians, obviously we couldn't say no out of respect your elders and they would technically use the term "If you didn't buy it, it technically isn't yours" and my parents kept the peace by just obliging. Guess what happened when she tried to snag a toy that I bought myself. Seeing as I was 16-17 at the time and already working part-time with my own money to boot, a certain few family members got a shellacking when they tried to help themselves to a toy I purchased on my own (by then grandparents had nothing to say as they knew it was MY own money that bought it). Overall, I sympathize with OP but at least she had her mother on her side.
UpupaEpops 4 months ago (edited)
It's a thing in Eastern Europe as well. I can't even count how many of my belongings got destroyed/stolen this way. The entitlement is unreal. I had one particularly darling cousin who would lose her s**t because of the things I had. She once took a vintage book I got from my Grandfather, that I was in the middle of restoring and threw it out of my room, saying that it wasn't on the required list for reading. I was a bookworm, meanwhile she hated reading. I may or may not have grabbed her by the shirt and thrown her out of my room. I think that was the last time she set foot in it. Luckily, my mother knew how many hours I've been spending on that book and didn't punish me.
Load More Replies... JayWantsACat 4 months ago
I'm Japanese and this would be unthinkable for me, my Japanese mom, and our Japanese friends.
Tabitha 4 months ago (edited)
TBH, this isn’t a cultural thing at all. It’s just an a*****e thing. It happens to ALL kinds of people, regardless of their background. I am white, and have had it happen to me with other kids grabbing my toys and their parents just letting them. Hell, as an adult at work, I’ve had to put my stuff away in a locked drawer in my desk before I went home everyday, because I was fed up with having to walk around the whole office gathering MY stuff that I bought with my own money, not stuff from the supply closet, off of other people’s desks because they didn’t have the decency to put it back where it belonged. Hell, they didn’t have the decency to ask before borrowing it, and some of them tore my stuff up when they were using it (misusing it, actually). Ever lend someone your pen, and they returned it with their teeth marks on it? Gross. If it’s not yours, look but do touch. If you have permission to touch it, treat it with kid gloves, be incredibly mindful about it and careful with it, and put it back oh so gently when you’re done.
JayWantsACat 4 months ago
"TBH, this isn’t a cultural thing at all. It’s just an a*****e thing." Really, it's not "a cultural thing AT ALL?" It can obviously be both or are you the arbiter of all cultures? Besides are you really telling a SE Asian, explaining her own culture, that she's wrong?
Load More Replies... BrownEyedPanda 3 months ago
As a fellow Barbie collector, I wouldn't be keen on someone assuming that their child's entitlement takes precedence over my boundaries. Sure, I have Barbies to play with (don't judge), but I also have collectibles that are meant to be displayed. Fortunately for me, I live in an apartment where I have the last word on who comes and goes to my unit. One strike, and you don't come back.
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