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Nurse Dismisses 19YO’s Symptoms And Sends Her Home, A Week Later, She Has Golf Ball-Sized Lump
Every doctor swears an oath to do their best for their patients and to ensure they provide the best care. Despite this, some medical professionals don’t seem to recall the promise they’ve made and instead dismiss people’s concerns.
This is what a mom faced when she took her daughter to get a lump checked out, only for the nurse to ignore it and diagnose it as something completely different. This turned into a serious issue after the daughter’s lump swelled up to the size of a golf ball.
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It can sometimes be a struggle for women to be taken seriously by medical professionals, even if their symptoms are severe
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The poster shared that her daughter had been dealing with a painful lump, but when they visited the doctor, she dismissed it and diagnosed it as a lymph node issue
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Since the 19-year-old’s lump only got worse over the next week, the poster took her to the doctor again, and they actually treated the issue properly this time
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The poster realized that the nurse who had ignored her daughter’s concerns was medically negligent, so she wondered about filing a complaint against her
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The woman also mentioned that she found out that the nurse who had incorrectly diagnosed the lump had not even made a note of it in her appointment information
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Since the daughter’s lump had been treated properly the second time, the poster felt a bit relieved and was monitoring it, while also figuring out how to hold the nurse accountable
It’s clear that the woman’s daughter was in quite a lot of pain when she came to her mom with concerns about a lump near her private area. That’s why the poster decided to accompany her to urgent care, and that’s where a nurse ignored her symptoms and said that she probably just had a swollen lymph node.
In situations like this, patients might feel angry about being dismissed by their medical professional, but experts state that there can be two sides to the story. First, people may have unfounded concerns about their health, which is why a physician might need to put them at ease. Or, second, their worries might be real, and their doctor is not taking the time to hear them out.
In this case, it seems like the nurse did just that, because after she sent the sick 19-year-old back, the daughter’s lump just kept on growing. What’s even more worrying is that it eventually began bleeding, which scared the lady, and she quickly reached out to her mom for help.
According to lawyers, when a medical professional has dismissed your concerns or diagnosed your condition wrongly, it’s important to seek a second opinion immediately. This can help you get appropriate care soon and also serve as a reality check on the first doctor’s competence.
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Luckily, the daughter was able to get medical support quickly, and the emergency room doctor who cared for her made sure she was okay. Unfortunately, this entire incident angered the poster, who felt that she had to take action against the nurse who had not given her kid the proper care.
A few things people can do if they want to go up against a negligent doctor include keeping a detailed record of their interactions. Even legal professionals explain that this can help form a case against the medical professional and ultimately be strong evidence that can even be used in court.
Since the woman didn’t want to sue the registered nurse, she decided that the other woman should at least be held accountable for her actions. That’s why the poster made sure to get the nurse’s appointment notes to see whether she had even mentioned the lump.
Along with this and comments made by the second doctor whom they consulted, the poster had enough information to build a case against the incompetent nurse. Hopefully, she doesn’t hesitate to teach the woman a lesson, as this can probably help make things easier for other patients in the future.
What do you think you would have done if you were in the same situation as the poster? We’d love to hear your thoughts on this complicated situation.
People were shocked by the nurse’s negligence and urged the mom to always trust her gut in such situations
What do you think ?
Bigmomma 11 hours ago
When my dd was 3 week old i rang doctors to get her an appointment They dis a phone appointment instead of checking her out that was on tbe monday on tbe wed i was at clinic with my 3yr old who was having chemo and i Asked his dr if we could hurry to hook him up so i can take babi down stairs to A&E as didnt like how she looked he took one look at her took her to his room as getting through door took her out did code blue in another room with her he saved her life that day she had bronchilitis was in intensive care for a week whilst her brother was on another ward i was flitting between both wards and home to spend time with my other 2 children all if which could hav been avojded had the dr on the monday looked at her i put in a complaint never heard anything back and no claims lawer wanted to take on the drs
Stephanie Did It 4 hours ago
I'm so glad your baby girl received the help she needed and recovered. I hope the same is true for your child on chemo. It sounds like as a mom of 4 you did a great job of holding it together for them all.
Load More Replies... Stephanie Did It 4 hours ago
I'm wondering if OP's daughter had a Bartholin's cyst. The Bartholomew gland is located in the area vaguely described by OP and can become naturally blocked, leading to swelling, pain and possible access (speaking from experience here).
Bigmomma 11 hours ago
When my dd was 3 week old i rang doctors to get her an appointment They dis a phone appointment instead of checking her out that was on tbe monday on tbe wed i was at clinic with my 3yr old who was having chemo and i Asked his dr if we could hurry to hook him up so i can take babi down stairs to A&E as didnt like how she looked he took one look at her took her to his room as getting through door took her out did code blue in another room with her he saved her life that day she had bronchilitis was in intensive care for a week whilst her brother was on another ward i was flitting between both wards and home to spend time with my other 2 children all if which could hav been avojded had the dr on the monday looked at her i put in a complaint never heard anything back and no claims lawer wanted to take on the drs
Stephanie Did It 4 hours ago
I'm so glad your baby girl received the help she needed and recovered. I hope the same is true for your child on chemo. It sounds like as a mom of 4 you did a great job of holding it together for them all.
Load More Replies... Stephanie Did It 4 hours ago
I'm wondering if OP's daughter had a Bartholin's cyst. The Bartholomew gland is located in the area vaguely described by OP and can become naturally blocked, leading to swelling, pain and possible access (speaking from experience here).
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