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50 Women Who Were Called Out Online For Their Delusional Behavior (New Pics)
Emotional intelligence is underrated. Behaving like an entitled, toxic, hypocritical, immature, and manipulative human being is something that doesn’t give a damn about gender. In pop culture, so-called ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ are folks who pretend to be kind, only to show their true colors the moment things don’t go their way. They can’t take ‘no’ for an answer, say, when they get rejected by their romantic interests.
The ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is a popular online forum where people share some of the worst examples of people being disingenuous for the sake of approval and love. Scroll down to check out how these individuals communicate online so that you know what red flags to look out for. Oh, and keep in mind that this is all about calling out toxic behavior. There’s no room for sexism here.
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#1
Nice Girl Found In The Wild
The bad news is that emotional intelligence (abbreviated as EQ or EI) doesn’t come naturally to all people. The good news? Like any other skill, you can learn and develop it.
The Harvard Business Review explains that there are 4 main components of EQ. These are:
- Self-awareness: identifying your emotions and how they affect other people
- Self-regulation: managing your emotions and behaviors to control your disruptive impulses
- Social awareness: being empathetic and understanding the emotions of others
- Social skills: the ability to build and maintain healthy relationships through teamwork, inspiration, influence, conflict management, etc.
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#2
This Person Broke Up With Me For Breaking Up With Them
#3
We Had One Date. All Of This Was Texted Over A Span Of A Couple Of Days
HBR notes that individuals who have high emotional intelligence understand the links between their emotions and behavior. They also handle stress well, remaining calm, cool, and collected when things get tense. Meanwhile, they’re able to effectively use diplomacy and tact to handle difficult people.
On the other side of the scale, people with low EQ:
- Get upset very easily
- Get overwhelmed by their emotions
- Often feel misunderstood
- Have problems being assertive
#4
Unreal, I Can't Escape Them
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Hey guys, can I have £20 to feed my three chipmunks? Alvin, Simon and Jeremy? (Theodore died. The neighbours cat got him.)
#5
Started Talking For About A Month
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I've seen more realistic demands from gunmen with hostages stuck in a house surrounded by cops.
#6
Whole Grown Beautiful Woman Demands Dinner
“We are all having emotions all the time. The question is whether you are aware of these emotions and the impact they have on your behavior—and other people,” Margaret Andrews, the instructor of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership, former associate dean at Harvard University’s Division of Continuing Education, and executive director at the MIT Sloan School of Management, told Harvard Business Review.
Andrews added that people with strong self-regulation can take a deep breath during stressful situations, remain calm, and think before speaking or acting. On the other hand, individuals with low EQ, who can’t contain their impulses and negative emotions, “often set off a chain reaction of negative emotions in others.”
#7
Back Story: We Talked A Few Years Ago. Never Dated, Because Of The “The World Is Always Against Me” Behavior You’ll See Below
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Jesus, some people! Where anyone meet this kind? Asking for myself to avoid ...
#8
I’m Legitimately Curious Could I Have Handled This Better?
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Predators learn to isolate their prey. Separate them from the herd.
#9
Thought This Brief Exchange Was Amusing
Nils Skirnir 3 months ago
Transactional s*x = p**********n. Nothing against s*x work, but there are more efficient ways to procuring than dating apps
Broadly speaking, ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ are incredibly insecure. So, they resort to manipulation and pretence to get what they want.
Usually, they pretend to be nice (hence the name), kind, caring, and empathetic to create the illusion that they could be great people to date. When, in reality, they don’t have confidence, emotional intelligence, or genuine respect for others’ boundaries. In short, getting into a relationship with them would be a major mistake.
#10
Sorry For Asking About Your Interests I Guess?
#11
After Opening With Saying Her Greatest Strength Was Kindness, Then Saying My Flannel Shirt Was The Ugliest Outfit She’d Ever Seen, She Hit Me With This
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Why the "haha"? Why not the Oxford Dictionary link, which explains the mean of kindness?
#12
Wanted Me To Be Obsessed After 2 Dates…
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
All you had to do was tell me you were going out, where you were going, the exact time, also full contact details of your friends and their known associates.
It’s not always obvious that someone’s only pretending to be the caring, mature, ‘genuine’ person they appear to be. Sometimes, you don’t pick up on the (not-so) subtle red flags. Other times, you want to believe someone’s better than they really are.
Red-flag behaviors that indicate that you might be stuck in a toxic relationship include things like your partner not supporting you, hostile communication, extreme selfishness, not caring about your needs, and a constant environment of hostility, envy, and jealousy.
#13
"Long Time Listener, First Time Caller"
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Can you pass my test though? What… is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?
#14
Does This Qualify?
#15
I Thought I Blocked Her…
According to Healthline, toxic partners are very controlling, dishonest, disrespectful, and pile on physical and mental stress.
They drain you, cut you off from your other social relationships, and make you feel as though you’re walking on eggshells.
Something’s very wrong if you feel like you can’t talk about serious issues with your significant other in an open, honest, healthy way.
#16
She Seems Pretty Nice
#17
Am I Crazy?
Jeremy James 3 months ago
Do we have a paleoanthopologist or a prehistoric archeologist in the house who would like to weigh in on this?
#18
Michelin Stars Only
Michael Largey 3 months ago (edited)
Her first dates are at restaurants rated with at least five red flags.
As per Verywell Mind, toxic significant others deplete your energy and make you feel devalued. These individuals blame you, disrespect your boundaries, and undermine your confidence.
You feel like you always have to cheer them up. Meanwhile, you’re constantly exhausted, angry, tired, and depressed. If you’re chronically unhappy after spending time with your romantic partner, you are not in a healthy relationship.
#19
“I Make A Lot Of Money More Than Others.” So That Gives The Right To Ask A Rude Question
#20
Glad I Dodged A Bullet
#21
Bpd “E-Girl” Update
michael Chock 3 months ago
Bekah needs a live feed of your life to be comfortable in a relationship.
The ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is incredibly well-known. Created in the autumn of 2011, over the years, it has amassed a following of 1.2 million members.
The moderators stress the fact that you should never include anyone’s personal information in the posts you share on the sub. What’s more, there’s absolutely no space for sexism, racism, or any kind of intolerance.
#22
An Interaction I Had With A Girl One Time…
#23
She Already Knew I Was Going To Be Watching A Movie
#24
All Men Suck
According to the moderators keeping the community running smoothly, so-called ‘nice girls’ are women who complain that men are supposedly shallow while hypocritically focusing on their looks themselves.
They are also women who “hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves.”
#25
Can Anybody Make Sense Of This?
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
She is just your basic idiot. Bored, thinking can bring someone down to her level.
#26
A Nice Girl
#27
One Of The Worst Profiles I've Seen
Who are some of the worst ‘nice guys’ and ‘nice girls’ that you’ve ever interacted with, Pandas? How did they try to manipulate? How did they react when you rejected them? Were there any subtle red flags that showed their true colors? What do you think could help them become more self-aware, emotionally intelligent individuals?
If you feel like sharing your thoughts on this sensitive topic, you can do so in the comments at the very bottom of this post. See you there.
#28
Apparently Wanting Someone With Substance Is "Too Much"
#29
She Wasn’t Feeling It Because I Didn’t Pay For Her Shopping Spree
#30
Crazy Ex Regularly Hits Me Up With Life Updates
#31
Seemed To Take Rejection Well, Till She Posted Me On “Are We Dating The Same Guy”
#32
What Is She On Tinder For Then
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
The grammar hurts more. I would have been failed at my English-class on grade 4 with this "performance" ....
#33
So Her Value Is At $15?
michael Chock 3 months ago
Why would she WANT her value to be a dollar amount? If anyone wants to date me, first date can be free, I'm priceless.
#34
Food Stamps Apparently
#35
Girlfriend Loses Her Mind Because I Didn’t Get Her Food That She Specifically Told Me Not To Get
Petra Peitsch 3 months ago
Bro, you'd be better paying 50 bucks for a pro every time, you need a quickie, than dealing with her sh.it.
#36
Green Bubble Hate Is Real
#37
Tried Getting Me To Pay For Her Broken Nail After Hookup
#38
Interesting Start To The Weekend
#39
This Chick Went From 0-100 Over A Misinterpreted Phrase
#40
We Knew Each Other For 2 Days…
#42
I Think I Dodged A Bullet
Emilu 3 months ago (edited)
Again, you need to go read the full story for this one. It's too long for me to type out/I'm lazy but general gist is grey text bubble's dog died and she blew up on green text bubble and ghosted him. Grey text bubble was "so nice" to green text bubble, and so she wanted another chance. And you can see how it ends above. 😆
#43
Imagine What Life Is Like With This Level Of Entitlement?
Emilu 3 months ago (edited)
Okay, this needs both pictures for context. Her greeting is (quote) "Your cute. But young though. Would you be willing to relocate in the future?" He responds with "that's a pretty serious expectation for a literal introduction, don't you think?" Her response that isn't shown in the above picture is "Babe I'm close to 40, this biological clock might wxpire, might already be expired. I ain't got time to f**k around. Just spent 4 days in an rv with a dude to tell me he doesn't..." and the rest is in the screenshot.
#44
Am I Crazy? I'm 37, She's 33. I Feel Like I'm Crazy
#45
Is This A Nice Girl
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
It's not baldness, it's a solar panel for a s*x machine.
#46
We Talked For A Few Days And Then The Mood Changed Very Quickly
#47
Probably The Most Down Bad I've Ever Seen A Girl
#48
Apparently Communication Is Racist
#49
I've Known This One My Entire Life
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
My sister - who will be 50 this year - cannot fathom that sometimes I put my phone down on the table and do other stuff in my house without checking my phone every 5 seconds. She literally argues with me about me leaving my phone on silent most of the time - she's like "What if there's an emergency??" - we live NEXT DOOR to each other; if there was truly an emergency it'd actually be faster to run over to my house (there's no backyard wall between the houses, they're on one big lot now) and if there was an emergency, why would she call ME and not 911/the police?! She's exactly like this person - goes into a rage (or a passive-aggressive snit) if you don't respond to her texts within 3 minutes. She literally will copy-paste "HELLO???" or just "???" and send it 20 times in a row like a p!ssy teenager if you don't text her back immediately. I actually grew up more "techy" than she did, and I'm STILL not glued to my phone 24/7 XD I don't get it!
#50
Nice Girl Implying I'm A Moron Apparently
#51
Think I Found One
#52
Posted This On R/Tinder, Felt That It Fit Here Too
#53
Is It Just Me Who Immediately Swipes Left When Someone Uses These Prompts?
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I am not sure about these heights, how many bananas is 6 foot?
#54
Said We Shouldn’t Be Friends Anymore Because I Opened Up That I Felt Left Out During A Gathering
#56
Dodged A Bullet On This One… Went On Two Dates And Told Her I’d Text Her The Next Morning… Started A New Job That Morning And Forgot. Tried To Own It
#57
We Went On Two Dates A Few Years Ago
#58
I Just Wanted To Know If I Was Getting My Money Back…
#59
Matched With A Girl Yesterday. I Told Her I Had A Cat. She Asked Me To Get Rid Of It. I Don’t Even Know Her And Never Met Her
tresgatos72 3 months ago
Ok, anybody who wishes harm on innocent animals deserves the biggest whammy Karma is capable of! 😡
#61
Profile Said She Was Afraid Of Elevators And Nothing Else
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
Imagine showing an interest in a woman! That is so outdated!
#62
Weird Girl Matches With Me, Gets Mad When I Compliment Her, Then Says She Wasn't Into Me Because I'm White. (Nothing In Her Bio Saying She Didn't Like White Guys.)
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
I'd be over the moon with "I think you're kinda cute", seeing as I have a low self-image and my ex used to tell me I physically disgusted him XD
#64
My Ex Was The Ultimate Nice Girl, This Was Her Last Messages Before I Blocked Her
#65
Thought This Went Here
#66
Saw Some Unhinged Dating App Conversations And Thought I Would Share…
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 3 months ago
I also bless the homeless when I pass them and they are grateful, also my farts smell of roses.
#67
"Your Not 6'8 Prove It"
#68
Update To (Am I Crazy?)
#69
Ftp Here. Got This One Yesterday. Didn't Even Bother To Answer My Questions
#70
From A Friend In A Small Town
#72
This Is The First Time I’ve Seen This Sentiment Coming From A Woman And Not A Nice Guy
Michael Largey 3 months ago
I consider myself to be a 10. A binary one, granted, but still a 10.
#73
I Don't Think The Person (My GF) Who Sent Me This Is Bad But I Sense Immaturity And Not Niceness. Am I Reading Wrong?
#74
When You Don’t Meet Someone’s Hidden Expectations…
Went out with a girl from Bumble. The plan was to meet in the afternoon at a cafe and then go for a walk along the river park. We did exactly that but also extended the date into getting boba and then after some dinner. Went to Chinese restaurant she picked out because it looked very traditional in her opinion. After we got the food she pulls the waiter over and talks somewhat aggressively with him in mandarin. I ask her if everything is okay and she goes "Oh yeah I had just had to tell them that this food is not real Chinese food" lol.
After dinner I tell her well it was nice meeting you, I gotta go home and get to some work that needs to be done, and suddenly her whole mood changes. While walking to the train station she says nothing but suddenly pulls me aside and goes "I want you to know I'm very angry with you. How could you just abandon me for the evening and leave me to suddenly have to make my own plans, it's very rude and you ruined my evening now". I apologize and tell her I haven't experienced this situation before and that since we hanged for over 4hrs and more than what we originally planned I thought this was a good time to end it, but maybe it's some cultural difference or something.
Anyways I get home and she suddenly sends me this angry text lol!
#75
I Was Dreamin Good Too
#76
The Dating Pool Is Filled With Piss
tresgatos72 3 months ago
Must have a pet dragon or unicorn and be able to change water to wine. 🙄 Sheesh.
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Gavin Johnson 3 months ago
Met my partner via PoF, I got very lucky, she was the first message I received through the app, we chatted, met, it worked, six years on, love her to bits. I look at these people and count my blessings again, there are some real fruit loops out in the big wide world of online dating and they’ll rip you to pieces if you don’t play the game the exact way they want to. Good luck out there daters!
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
For every people moaning again and again about the lack of women-bashing posts compared to the men-bashing posts, this is for you ! Enjoy <3
Uncle Panda 3 months ago (edited)
In either case, I always feel like I need a shower. This edge of humanity is just so bleak.
Load More Replies... Uncle Panda 3 months ago
It's just so 'cking sad, and somehow even sadder when it's a woman. Part of me marvels that we continue to exist as a species while the rest of me wonders if we should.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
This is why I am a wolf :p ((note: no, I'm obviously NOT a wolf, nor am I so delusional that I believe I am; I don't even pretend to be one IRL or wear ears and a tail ... well, unless it's an event or Halloween ;p But I "cosplay" as a literal wolf online because sometimes humanity and humans make me ashamed to actually be one myself.))
Load More Replies... Gavin Johnson 3 months ago
Met my partner via PoF, I got very lucky, she was the first message I received through the app, we chatted, met, it worked, six years on, love her to bits. I look at these people and count my blessings again, there are some real fruit loops out in the big wide world of online dating and they’ll rip you to pieces if you don’t play the game the exact way they want to. Good luck out there daters!
Ellinor she/they/elle 3 months ago
For every people moaning again and again about the lack of women-bashing posts compared to the men-bashing posts, this is for you ! Enjoy <3
Uncle Panda 3 months ago (edited)
In either case, I always feel like I need a shower. This edge of humanity is just so bleak.
Load More Replies... Uncle Panda 3 months ago
It's just so 'cking sad, and somehow even sadder when it's a woman. Part of me marvels that we continue to exist as a species while the rest of me wonders if we should.
LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago
This is why I am a wolf :p ((note: no, I'm obviously NOT a wolf, nor am I so delusional that I believe I am; I don't even pretend to be one IRL or wear ears and a tail ... well, unless it's an event or Halloween ;p But I "cosplay" as a literal wolf online because sometimes humanity and humans make me ashamed to actually be one myself.))
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