Man Fat-Shames 13YO Daughter Who Is Reduced To Tears, Stunned Wife Calls Him Out

Puberty is both a fun and draining life stage we all get to experience. While it’s fun to grow up, it also comes with various, let’s say, side effects like weight gain. And while that’s usually a completely normal thing to happen, it doesn’t mean that everyone in a child’s life will take it lightly. After all, you are probably aware of the weight stigma in our society, aren’t you?

In today’s story, a 13-year-old girl started gaining weight, possibly due to the aforementioned puberty along with the struggles she had at school. Yet, her dad didn’t let it slip and decided to make a rather nasty comment, which not only devastated the girl but also enraged her mom.

More info: Reddit

If being a teenager by yourself isn’t already hard enough, sometimes it seems that some people around you are there to make it even harder

Woman confronting husband about fat-shaming 13-year-old daughter while seated at outdoor dinner table.

Image credits: Julia M Cameron / Pexels (not the actual photo)

One day, during a family dinner, a girl got up from her seat to get a plate from a high counter, and when she couldn’t reach it, she asked for help

Text post describing a furious lady calling out husband for fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter during dinner.

Woman confronts husband for fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter, he accuses her of coddling the teen.

Man and woman having a tense conversation at table, illustrating fat-shaming and coddling conflict related to a teenager.

Image credits: Vitaly Gariev / Pexels (not the actual photo)

Instead of helping her, her dad decided to make a comment about how she was getting fat, thus shorter

Text excerpt showing a heated argument with fat-shaming remarks about a 13-year-old daughter’s weight.

Alt text: Angry mother confronts husband over fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter causing family conflict and accusations of coddling.

Teen girl sitting on floor looking distressed, highlighting issues of fat-shaming and family conflict over coddling.

Image credits: RDNE Stock project / Pexels (not the actual photo)

This upset the girl and enraged her mother, as she couldn’t believe her husband would spill such hurtful nonsense

Text expressing anger over husband fat-shaming 13-year-old daughter, impacting her self-esteem and causing tears.

Text message discussing a mother's response to husband fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter and school issues.

Text on white background stating a woman calling out husband for fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter.

Image credits: throwra3232656

Then, when a fight between them turned out to be fruitless, she turned to complain about it to people online

One day, when the OP and her family were eating dinner, her 13-year-old daughter got up from the table to go get a plate. Since the plate was placed on one of the top cabinets, the girl couldn’t reach it. The average 13-year-old girl is, quite obviously, not that tall, so it’s no wonder she needed help getting something from high up. 

So, the girl asked for help. Instead of providing it, her dad decided to do something rather sinister—fat shame her. He said, “Well, you couldn’t reach the cabinet because you’re fat!”

That stunned both the daughter and her mom. For the girl, it was the fact that her dad so openly shamed her for her appearance. For the mom, it was the way he said it so carelessly. 

The thing is, the mom also noticed her daughter’s weight gain but never made any straightforward fat-shaming comments like that. Ultimately, the girl might simply be going through puberty, which is normal at her age—13 years old. For some, this important development stage manifests in natural weight gain. Plus, the mom mentioned that the weight gain in this case might be due to the issues she’s having at school. 

Yet, the first phrase wasn’t even the whole extent of his fat-shaming agenda. When asked to explain his comment, he added, “The fatter you are the shorter you get!” along with openly telling her to worry about her weight “before it’s too late.” 

Teen daughter looking upset as furious lady calls out husband for fat-shaming, couple arguing in the background.

Image credits: cottonbro studio / Pexels (not the actual photo)

This enraged the girl’s mom—how could he say such things to their daughter’s face, seeing how upset it made her? In fact, the girl rushed out before finishing her dinner, which he assumed meant she took his advice about cutting down on food. Diabolical, isn’t it? 

After this, the couple had a huge fight over it. The woman accused the man of being insensitive, while he accused her of overly coddling the girl. The whole thing ended in even more tears and no less anger than it had initially. In fact, the anger levels likely increased. 

Essentially, the woman couldn’t wrap her head around the fact that her husband would so brazenly put their daughter down, knowing that it might hurt her self-esteem big time. After all, teenagers are already known for having poor self-esteem—and it is also known that their parents’ words can make it even worse. So, basically, the plot of this exact situation. 

People online had pretty similar views on this whole thing to the girl’s mom. They pointed out that the way the man acted was how various eating disorders start. And these are despicable mental illnesses that can even threaten a person’s life. So, that was not a good choice of action from Dad’s side. 

Even if it doesn’t stir up an ED in the girl, it will definitely stay with her as a negative core memory of her dad’s harsh words. And that’s something no girl deserves to have as a memory.

They understood where she was coming from and shamed the man for being such a jerk

Comment on forum about eating disorders, addressing fat-shaming and coddling of teenage daughter.

Text comment on white background discussing memory, related to furious lady calling out husband for fat-shaming 13-year-old daughter.

Alt text: Screenshot of a comment criticizing a husband for fat-shaming his 13-year-old daughter and calling it unhealthy behavior.

Screenshot of a social media comment discussing a husband fat-shaming his 13-year-old daughter and a furious lady's response.

Screenshot of a forum comment discussing a husband fat-shaming his 13-year-old daughter and accusations of coddling.

Screenshot of a comment criticizing a father for fat-shaming his 13-year-old daughter and the impact of such language.

Comment discussing the issue of fat-shaming a 13-year-old daughter and parental protection concerns.

Comment highlighting the lasting impact of fat-shaming on a 13-year-old girl and family conflict over parenting choices.

Screenshot of an online comment reading what an absolute piece of s**t in response to fat-shaming discussion.

Commenter discussing husband fat-shaming their 13-year-old daughter and concerns about child obesity.

Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing!

Follow Bored Panda on Google News!

Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda!