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Having kids taken away from their parents is a tragedy that many families hope never happens to them. However, sometimes parents are truly unfit to provide care, and CPS stepping in is the only option. When that happens, other family members are the first in line to take them in.
But not all family members are willing — like the grandparents in this story, who refused to take in their grandchildren and expected a cousin to do it. The request left the Navy officer speechless: she hadn’t been close with her cousin for a long time, and had to be deployed overseas for 7 months.
So, she asked for advice online about whether she was being heartless or her aunt and uncle were just trying to guilt-trip her into taking in someone else’s kids.
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A woman faced pressure from family members to take in her cousin’s children after a CPS arrest
“The people-pleasing would have led to a lot more problems,” commenters noted and supported OP’s decision
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Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated in both social studies and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online. (and sometimes in real life too) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.
Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated in both social studies and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online. (and sometimes in real life too) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.
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