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Couple Decide To Destroy Their Embryos After Friends’ True Colors Come To Light
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Couple Decide To Destroy Their Embryos After Friends’ True Colors Come To Light

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Starting a family is something many people hope for. But for some, getting there isn’t an easy journey. That’s why one couple decided to do something generous: they planned to gift their frozen embryos to friends who needed them, and they were genuinely excited to help.

Then the truth came out. Behind their backs, those “friends” were insulting them, badmouthing them, and even saying they didn’t deserve their own child. Heartbroken by what they learned, the couple decided to have the embryos destroyed instead of handing them over.

And despite everything that was said, the friends are now trying to sue them for backing out of the offer. Read the full story below.

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    But after learning what those friends were saying behind their backs, they decided to have the embryos destroyed

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    Couple deciding to destroy their embryos after discovering unsettling truths about their friend’s behavior and character.

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    Many readers backed them up and said they did the right thing

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    Others, though, felt they handled it the wrong way

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    Oleksandra is an experienced copywriter from Ukraine with a master’s degree in International Communication. Having covered everything from education, finance, and marketing to art, pop culture, and memes, she now brings her storytelling skills to Bored Panda. For the past six years, she’s been living and working in Vilnius, Lithuania.

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Slightly unrelated but what is the stance towards frozen empryos in no abortion states? I mean, in their point of view those are children and this is m****r? Also will women eventually be forced to carry all embryos to term?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 hour ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it were mսrder, I would think IVF clinics couldn’t destroy them, right? I do, however, wonder whether this will change in the next three years. (At this point it wouldn’t surprised me if menstruation is outlawed, too, because “You bled a fetus out!”) (Seriously, a fertilized egg has some YTAs doing a Crystal about the embryos. I don’t see how an embryo in a pétri dish or test tube in deep freeze can be considered a “baby.” Wouldn’t the definition of a fetus include that it’s in a uterus? Until such time as it’s implanted and “takes,” it’s just a very, *very*, VERY small (and not refreshing) popsicle. PSA: Brace yourself for Crystal’s screeches about “babykillers”!

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    Gunný Petersen
    Community Member
    19 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg! The people who told them that they were the a******s are the most despicable people! You clearly can tell who is someone that doesn't respect " my body my choise" and are just as stupid to love that horrible orange garbage of a human like Trump! Anyone who still think he's God gift to us here on earth are delusional at best. I wish that some old people should die of old age as soon as possible so the rest of humaty can survive without the most despicable, evil, soulless, pshycopath, pedophile rapist that has ever walked the planet. Someone who wants to f**k his own daughter and compares every woman he f***s to her is not someone that I would not concider to be a role model for anyone. And having an IQ of 75 is considered to be r******d so that's not helping me understand people who look up to him. Sorry about the rant but I don't have anymore tolerance for people like that.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    49 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And those ytas are also maggots aren’t they 🤦‍♀️oh n destroying frozen embryos is not m u r d e r ffs , at that point they aren’t alive 🤦‍♀️idiots , op NTA Greg n Karen are deluded s c u m , us in uk can’t stand the orange lunatic either , he’s dangerous !but to rant at you for your view on him and threaten to call cps is delusional, you can’t demand kids are removed purely down to hating that thing they voted in 😂😂!! they’ve fed in to the maga cult up to their neck , they are also dangerous inhumans now’s, much like the ytas on this post are ,

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    Trillian
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Slightly unrelated but what is the stance towards frozen empryos in no abortion states? I mean, in their point of view those are children and this is m****r? Also will women eventually be forced to carry all embryos to term?

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    1 hour ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it were mսrder, I would think IVF clinics couldn’t destroy them, right? I do, however, wonder whether this will change in the next three years. (At this point it wouldn’t surprised me if menstruation is outlawed, too, because “You bled a fetus out!”) (Seriously, a fertilized egg has some YTAs doing a Crystal about the embryos. I don’t see how an embryo in a pétri dish or test tube in deep freeze can be considered a “baby.” Wouldn’t the definition of a fetus include that it’s in a uterus? Until such time as it’s implanted and “takes,” it’s just a very, *very*, VERY small (and not refreshing) popsicle. PSA: Brace yourself for Crystal’s screeches about “babykillers”!

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    Gunný Petersen
    Community Member
    19 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg! The people who told them that they were the a******s are the most despicable people! You clearly can tell who is someone that doesn't respect " my body my choise" and are just as stupid to love that horrible orange garbage of a human like Trump! Anyone who still think he's God gift to us here on earth are delusional at best. I wish that some old people should die of old age as soon as possible so the rest of humaty can survive without the most despicable, evil, soulless, pshycopath, pedophile rapist that has ever walked the planet. Someone who wants to f**k his own daughter and compares every woman he f***s to her is not someone that I would not concider to be a role model for anyone. And having an IQ of 75 is considered to be r******d so that's not helping me understand people who look up to him. Sorry about the rant but I don't have anymore tolerance for people like that.

    Crystalwitch60
    Community Member
    49 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And those ytas are also maggots aren’t they 🤦‍♀️oh n destroying frozen embryos is not m u r d e r ffs , at that point they aren’t alive 🤦‍♀️idiots , op NTA Greg n Karen are deluded s c u m , us in uk can’t stand the orange lunatic either , he’s dangerous !but to rant at you for your view on him and threaten to call cps is delusional, you can’t demand kids are removed purely down to hating that thing they voted in 😂😂!! they’ve fed in to the maga cult up to their neck , they are also dangerous inhumans now’s, much like the ytas on this post are ,

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