My name is Siyu. I was born and raised in Beijing, and I've spent the last ten years traveling, studying, and working abroad in the US, UK, and France. Many people that I met were curious about Chinese culture, but their impressions of China would end up with words like 'communist,' 'pollution' and 'no Facebook.' While many facts are true, the contemporary, living, and multifaceted Chinese way of life is rarely heard of.

I started "tiny eyes" webcomics a year ago in the hope of sharing cultural differences through everyday life. To me, learning about western culture has always been a fun experience, and I want to pass this feeling to people who are curious about China. In lots of my cartoon drawings, I compare Chinese culture to other cultures. Through comparison, we realize how differently we act in front of the same situation and how we tend to think in a certain way instead of another. In the end, every culture is "weird" in its way, but it's also the weirdness that makes it interesting.

I post these funny comics regularly every week, and I share slices of my personal life and experience through Instagram. I hope you enjoy it!

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Brontosonto
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do you cut a beefsteak with chopsticks?

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varwenea
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My friends that come to my house and watch me cook is often surprised and how I use chopsticks in so many ways throughout the process. This image is missing the Chinese spoon though.

Master Markus
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A snail fork is very specific. Isn't that like calling a fondue fork a normal piece of cutlery? Also, you're missing spoons, like for soups on both sides.

Romane Rose
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish fondue forks were normal pieces of cutlery...

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Zenozenobee
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In french gastronomic restaurant only. I swear to God no one in France use all these cutlery. My mother's generation (she was born in 1957) used to receive all this stuff for wedding and it never went off the box. One fork, one knife, one spoon and basta. Occasionnaly some pike to eat snail or shell. this kind of cutlery is usually in silver so you can forget the dishwasher, which is probably why we do not use it :p

Abigail Chung
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait except soup. We have soup spoon for soup

Aaron Ling
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah spoons are overrated. Just tip the bowl and slurp ;)

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Kou Sun
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Chinese people also use scoop

Hippoey Bippoey
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ladle-luke spoons are used often in China for soups

Lord Sumane
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where i came from, we only use our right hand

Hari Onago
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7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This would have been a life saver for Julia Robert's character in 'Pretty Woman'. All that damn time learning about cutlery just to end up getting escargots!

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    earringnut
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    americans get misspelled chinese tattoos. chinese get misspelled english tee shirts. all in all it's still better to have a weird shirt than a bad tattoo.

    Tanya Kuntz
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did see a picture of an Korean person getting a English tattoo once, lol. and it was somehow just as cringey and funny the way around too.

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    Sarah Figini
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I saw a kid in Shanghai wearing a tshirt that said "SUCK YA MUDDAS PUSSY" i was dying

    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes there are all kinds of T-shirts with horrible English phrases ...

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    VeryDarkMatter
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But Mommy's "chicken soup" IS love and peace :D

    Banana Chan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe you should get a person to tatto it that ACTUALLY knows Chinese?

    Linda Gulley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Better yet, don't get a tattoo you can't read! Best, don't get any tattoo.

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    Kathy Jasper
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always insisted that you don't really know that your chinese tattoo doesn't say "stupid tourist"

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a good blog about this sort of thing. http://hanzismatter.blogspot.ca/ People send him their tattoos to see if it's accurate or not. There's a whole made up "cipher" of various (sometimes nonexistent) characters-to-latin-alphabet made up for dishonest tattooers trying to make a buck off of ignorant tourists who think they can get their names in "Chinese characters".

    Taryn Wallace
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I would be ok with it saying chicken soup.... way more original than like strength, love, peace, water, etc

    Cyndi H
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh My Gosh... I am the chicken soup tattoo girl! I got a Chinese tattoo when I was 16 by what I can only say is not the most credible artist. He assured me that it meant wicked when it actually meant chicken soup! I have pics to prove it! Had it covered last year after walking around with that c**p for the last decade!

    Ladislav Pollo
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You should tell them is ,,chicken soup" even it isnt :D just for fun...

    Debbie Andersson
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe we should only allow native chinese and japanese to make such tattoos, westerners just mess it up, who wants "chicken soup" tattooed on them.

    Linda Gulley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Make or wear. If you can't read it, don't get it.

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    Scrappy
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People only want what they don't have

    Banana Chan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True. I’m a curly hair person and I want straight hair. My bro has straight hair and he wants curly hair. I wonder about wavy hair tho...

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    邱崔巍
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just want to note that contrary to what a lot of westerns think, Asians' inclination towards pale skin is not because they want to emulate Caucasian skin tones. Pale skin has been a sought-after trait long before we even knew other races existed. The same thing goes for large eyes and small faces.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I believe it's the same as how it used to be in the west in historic times: Being pale implied that you were wealthy enough to not have to work outside. White lead make-up was insanely popular for royalty in Europe, especially noticeable on women in the 18th century. (One thing I'm not sure of is where it originates in India, where skin lightening is frighteningly popular. It might be a similar idea but since people in that region often naturally have darker skin tones regardless of exposure I don't know exactly what the ideal is based on.)

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    nanashi
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's all in the beauty aesthetics to appear 'wealthy'. most Asian (esp. East side) prefers to appear fairer bc fair=you can afford not working under the sun.

    Beth Arriaga
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is true for many cultures. My Alabama grandmother used to scream at me for wanting a tan because when she picked cotton, they covered themselves from head to toe to stay pale. My husband's Mexican grandmother did the same thing picking grapes. Economic reasons

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    Darrien Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why Asians don't age, bc they don't go out and ruin their skin in the sun lmao

    RaroaRaroa
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This could partly explain the difference in wrinkle-rate.

    Sarah Figini
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a supermarket in Shanghai, I was asked if i would like to try their whitening cream. Had me giggling for a while

    Tom Ryugo
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, it turns out that staying out of the sun is a good idea!

    Edwin Lesperance
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only one race, the human race. All idiots.

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    Kalikiano Kalei
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wonderfully amusing, but a large degree of apparent truth to this! Chinese_ag...903eaa.jpg Chinese_aging_process-1-5a5e299903eaa.jpg

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember seeing a similar sort of comic, but it was pointing out that a lot of East Asians look young for a long time, but then get really old looking SUDDENLY. I must say, while there are a lot of East Asians I have seen who age really well, it's definitely not as consistent as the stereotype, in my experience.

    Donny Cromwell
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have 3 sisters that some teenagers where trying to pick up on not realizing that my sisters were in there thirty's.

    Jacob Ross
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not til 70. Then they shrink six inches.

    Samuel Zhao
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Asian women look 20 until they’re 40. By then thy look 50

    Allana Rose
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They never seem to age but when the reach a sudden age, they age very quickly! Usually takes until they are 90 tho *L*

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    Vlad Horobet
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Romania for example we have salt pepper oil and vinegar.

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    Hari Onago
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This version of the 'West' is very limited. Where I come from it would be 'olive oil x vinegar'.

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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it is limited. It's mainly based on experience of the US, UK, and France. Where are you from?

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    Charm
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    same here in the philippines lol...

    Jose Liu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh i have to say that it depends on different regions in China. North Chinese like vinegar while sugar is more common on the south. China is a large country right? Anyway, in my hometown, a inland province on south China, vinegar is not common but soy sauce and salt are actually best friends.

    Tom Ryugo
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You forgot the red chilli and black bean sauce!

    Desiré Yen
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    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Chinese and have never seen soy sauce and vinegar on a table before!!

    Mike Chin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    cantonese restaurants tend have soy, sriracha type hot sauce, chili oil, hoisin. Vinegar must be more of a north thing

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    I’ve experienced student dormitories in three countries: In the U.K. I have my own private room with shared public space; In the U.S. I shared my dorm with one roommate; In China, I used to live with 5 girls in the same room. This lack of privacy must be shocking for some of you, but in a country with 1.3 billion population, space is always a problem. While there are many inconvenience not having enough private space, on the bright side, sharing a room with someone also makes you learn quite a deal about communication, responsibilities and tolerance.

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    Sherry Soobotin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm with the Brit. I need my alone time to think and just be! I shared a bedroom with my sister; that was enough to last a lifetime. And I love my sister! :)

    Miss MonMon
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would kill the other roommates. I love my space & privacy.

    moli.2
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I tried dormitories in 2 countries. In Slovakia I shared the room with other 2 girls for almost 5 years. We had our own bathroom with toilet, it was big enough and also the room was spacious with thick walls and the best views from the 8th floor (60 euro per month). Some dorms have many students in the room and bathroom per floor. I thought I was lucky to get that dorm and the highest floor. In Slovenia we were for a month and I shared the room with 1 girl. Room was very tiny, it looked more like just for sleeping, bathroom was shared with floor and walls very thin. Thanks God, it was just a month, even though Slovenia is a nice place to visit :)

    moli.2
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I am from Slovakia too :) but now I live in UK

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    Benjamin Habié
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lol, so, talking about a lack of space in China ? UK density : 270/km², China density : 145/km². In average there are twice as much people in a given area in UK than in China. Stop spreading false rumors, China is not overly populated. The problem is that people in China are concentrated like factory farming animal in restricted places, but you've got plenty of space in China...

    Wei Xu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    universities are all in the cities where the population is highly concentrated while you are talking about space on average.

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    Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never even lived in a dorm when I was at uni, I always had my own appartment :P But we have more space in Finland

    Rafaella Bueno
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Brazil there are generally no student dorms. How many people you'll share your room with depends on how much you can and/or are willing to pay for in nearby apartments.

    Karen Keenan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You are really clever! I love all of your comics - nice work - I'd really like to use some for talking about with students

    tsuki nercua
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha same here in Philippines

    Michèle Gyselinck
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true. When I lived in a dorm I had a single room (Canada), but younger students often had to share a room with another student.

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    Maybe you have heard that Chinese eat cats. A few horrible people in some obscure places maybe, but the majority, NO!!

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    Molly Tallmadge
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a chinese friend. She loves cats. She owns 5 cats. She has never even harmed one.

    Alia
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Taiwan has, so much that they have now officially made it illegal to eat cats and dog. Better late than never I guess. Read a little bit about chines food markets, it's scary what's going on. They skin rabbits alive there.

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    Vicky Zar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And cows are holy in India. So.... what are you saying? If other countries shouldnt eat cats because yours prefers them as cats, than your country shouldnt eat cows because they are holy in another country. Or are Indias customs irrelevant to you? Then other countries have the right to say that your countries oppinions are irrelevant to them!

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    Meowton Mewsk
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Difference between cats and chickens when it comes to killing them is what exactly?

    Matthew Hyder
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm kind of tempted to eat just about any animal just once. :p And while I wouldnt call them sacred, I feel like the practicality or hospitality of some aninals like cows and even horses have a nobility to it that makes me understand why indians would think cows are holy. :p An animal is still kind of just an animal to me though.

    Daniel Losinger
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “horrible people”? Are you a vegetarian or just a hypocrite?

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't like to eat cute things. I guess a lot of farm animals are on the border there, but... when I look at a dog or cat I just don't think of them as "meaty". ALSO, I tend to think in terms of utilitarianism: cats and dogs are most useful as companions. In a similar way, I think that horses are / have been historically more useful for working and sport (as well as companions, but I'm speaking very "practically" here), so I'm less interested in eating them.

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    Jacquelyn Killick
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yu Lin dog eating festival springs to mind .... cant you get them to stop? breaks my heart

    Sky
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about dogs? There's a dog mean festival in China. Pets are friends not food!

    Elizabeth Gillespie
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I visited China, there were cats and dogs for sale at the market. This was in Guangzhou (formerly Canton). In other parts of China, people made fun of them, saying "People there eat EVERYTHING." I'm vegetarian and it was hard to get food in some places. I'd order soup without meat, and the waiter would serve it saying, "See? Skin soup! No meat!" Or sliced hooves or whatever.

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    Eldon Tyrell
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France 99% of Sushi restaurant are run by Chinese people and most sells Chinese stuff too like noddles (not Japanese ramen) or even nem (that are not Chinese...) so you can't tell it's a problem of education, all is mixed (and for westerner taste). In fact most of Chinese restaurant turns to sushi in the last decade because sushi are supposed more heathy (and some bad press about lack of cleaning in some places).

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    Sherry Soobotin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think people are learning. It's ignorance, not malice.

    Daria B
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And vice versa. Don't know about China, but in Korea, Europeans face the same problem. Although, I noticed in Seoul people seem to care a little more about cultures in comparison to the smaller cities nearby.

    bob
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, after living for a year and a half in Korea, my problem was not identifying proper korean food but rather how to avoid it. ;)

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    Wanda Queen
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, ok I'm out. These have been fun generalizations of the least educated, most crass among us, but they certainly don't describe me or anyone I know.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was going to say, I don't know anyone around my generation who doesn't know sushi is Japanese. I could imagine my grandmother not knowing, but there wasn't a whole lot of that kind of cultural intermingling in the 40s and 50s.

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    Kalikiano Kalei
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely anecdote and a humorous indictment of the general lack of awareness that most Americans possess about all things Asian. This remains one of the biggest problems with America: that we never make much effort to truly inform ourselves about the 'rest of the world' and never seem to bother learning about other nations and their regional characteristics, customs and history. If we did, perhaps we wouldn't be quite so eager to go off to war so often in foreign lands, eh? Thanks for the chuckles!

    Bunnies are better!!
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    by using that logic, we can say that poutine is mexican or that camembert is british....

    Peter Utman
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everyone in the West is this ignorant of the difference between Chinese and other Asian national cuisines. Conversely during my time in China I met many Chinese who assumed all I ate in the US was hamburgers.

    mdjcsmith
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And that Italian food and German sausage platters are all "Western Food"

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    Lydia Holloway
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    99% of the food served in American "Chinese" restaurants is about as authentic Chinese as the sushi rolls. I know better than to think my experience at the Jade Palace Buffet is legit Chinese food. XD

    Xu-Fei Jin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sushi originated from china! Even Japanese text books teach that. Its made famous by Japan

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    In China, people don't say anything after someone sneezes.

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    slywlf
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This silly social custom - based on faulty understanding of the human body - is so ingrained that even knowing it is silly it is hard to stop responding to the sound of a sneeze LOL

    Hannah Ingram
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and then when people don't respond to your sneezes you feel slightly rejected for some reason

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    Maria Ofar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i will only say "bless you" for three sneezes. after that, i call an exorcist ;)

    Crocodile
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I usually say "Salud" which is Spanish for health. Cool picture by the way.

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    RaroaRaroa
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always understood this response came from the era of the black plague. If you sneezed, you probably had it and "bless you" was kind of liking saying "sorry, you're gonna die".

    Kikari Grace
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently, one of my old teachers once had to deeply disappoint a group of German tourists he met on vacation because they were convinced he spoke German after he said gesundheit! It was such a random single word for him to know, you see.

    Jill Rhoads
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hehe...I’m an American living abroad and everytime I say gesundheit to someone, they don’t get that is what we say in some parts of the States.

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    Nga Kieu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So is Vietnam.. We don't say anything.

    Adriana
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Portugal we have at least three ways. We say (or yell): "Santinho!" / "Santinha!" (male and female form) which means "little saint". It was believed in the Middle Ages a sneeze meant the Devil was coming out of you so saying "Santinho" was to keep the demon away. The other explanation is that people believed that one person stops breathing while sneezing, so this interjection is also calling the person a "little saint" because they came back to life. That's why we say Santinho or Santinha according to the people's gender. It is also common saying "Saúde!" ("Health!") and "Viva!" which is literally "Live!", "Be alive!" and less used "God bless you." And they all allude to the Middle Ages, religion and the plague.

    SophieMae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another common explanation hearkens back to the time of dire diseases, such as the bubonic plague. It was believed that an infected person’s sneeze was a sure sign he’d soon be shuffling off this mortal coil, and the “Bless you!” was intended as a benediction; a way of commending his soul to the care of God now that he was beyond the help of anything on Earth. :)

    MysticalMan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's an opportunity to bless somebody and really, how many opportunities do you get.

    Zen QD
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in philippines, you sneeze everyone would say "i too a bath" :D lol

    Bored Fox
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    here in Finland we say 'Terveydeksi' which means 'For the health'.

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    slywlf
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL - I never had to deal with this at home, but it was always my own response. Once I took a difficult test - got the best score in class, but immediately asked the teacher where I had gone wrong on the 2 out of 100 questions ;-)

    Thundor Fox
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Relatable, I always get one of the top scores in the class but I miss one mark. So annoying!

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    Glynis Lailann
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its called the Curse of The Tiger Mother. I was also subjected to that and find it personally find it soul destroying.

    Sherry Soobotin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! This is so familiar to anyone who is first- or even second-generation-born in a "New World" country! Not confined to Asians, LOL!

    Cat person
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with Eastern European parents...

    Mary O'Sullivan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My family is Irish-American (my father was born there) and this was a typical reaction.

    sweet candy
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a stupid thing that everyone should stop doing to their child. They can grow fear inside every time they have a test. I've seen kids ending their life because of those tests. Parents should encourage their children (by explaining they did everything they could, their best), not punish them or scream.

    Lynn Lee
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had this happen to me so many times.

    Efron_Addiction
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In India sometimes it's basically the same

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    #11

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    It’s hard for Chinese to directly express their love to their families and friends. Instead of saying love, we show care to the health of people we love, ask them if everything goes well, and buy nice things to make their life more comfortable. In history, Confucius enforced social orders by putting people in different relations/obligations, but the expression of personal feelings was never encouraged. Emotions need to be under control.
    How do you show people that you care about them?

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    Mama Panda
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally, I like to make sure that the people I care about are taken care of in all aspects of life. I also will express my love/like for them verbally, emotionally and physically (within reason!). I make sure that I am a great listener as well.

    nanashi
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've lived for 30+ years and never once I said "I love you" to any one of my family. I am jealous of ppl who can say them so easily. it's very difficult to me.

    just a thought !
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't say it too... And then there's my best friend telling "love you" every minute ...

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    Rafaella Bueno
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm half-Japanese and I'm like that too. My mom kind of passed that trait on to me even if it's not the norm where I live. I show that I care by doing things to help people. I'll hardly ever say that I like you, but I'll go out of my way to do whatever I can to help you even if you don't ask.

    Joy Chen
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I guess this is true for most families, but I'm Chinese and my family's incredibly open with feelings; we say I love you at least 5 times a day, both joking and not.

    Sherry Soobotin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is also not just an Asian thing. I can't remember if I ever heard the actual words, "I love you" from any grandparent, but it was never something I doubted by the way they cared for me. Grandmothers, especially, were all about staying warm, staying dry, drinking (ugh!) cod liver oil to prevent cold/flu in winter. I'm betting Chinese-Americans of a third-generation are like the American here, not the Chinese.

    A S Koziol
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This reminds me of the line from the movie Moonstruck where Cher's character is talking on the phone to her mother. Right before she hangs up, in the part of the conversation I would end with "love you", she says "uhh, where a hat in the sun". And it was so out of place in the whole conversation, not to mention that it the movie was set in winter. My family uses this line as another way to say "Love you" at the end of phone calls since we saw that movie. And actions speak louder than words, so I do appreciate that it shows love to take care of others.

    Kikari Grace
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Touch, mostly. I come from a very physically demonstrative family--lots of hugs and cuddles. (I also, personally, make a point of explicitly telling people how much I appreciate the things they do for me, and when I'm home I do most of the cooking, but that's just me.)

    Mónica Elisabeth Sacco
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, an Italian mom will tell you she loves you like an American mom, after giving you the same recomendations a Chinese mom does!

    Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure about other Finnish people but I never say "I love you" to my parents. Instead, I show my emotions in other ways.

    Queen Nehelenia
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ha! I am Chinese and I event didn't know!

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    #12

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

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    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    COME ON! Nobody has thought of Asians = buck teeth for DECADES now. (At least I haven't seen the stereotype since ... god, even Breakfast at Tiffany's didn't have THAT particular bit of racism...) Also, I don't think most people associate those hats with any modern Chinese people who aren't farmers. Basically, this whole situation feels highly unlikely. Down to someone saying "you don't look Chinese enough". Not saying it couldn't happen, there are a lot of idiots, but that's hardly something that the vast majority of people would say.

    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are not all farmers, dude

    Kelly Zhang
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do people in the comment realize they're insulting me and my culture???

    Đọc Sách Thánh
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm Vietnamese. Your imaginary image of Asians is more like a Vietnamese than a Chinese

    bob
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have never met anyone who pictured chinese people this way... The author must be quite sensitive. Or slightly racist.

    Jenn
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    get this all the time 'but you dont look indian..........'

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    #13

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    It takes me sometime to get used to making constant eye contact when talking to people. Traditionally, Chinese people tend to avoid direct eye contact when talking to each other, which is a way to show respect and obedience, but in lots of western cultures, especially in English-speaking countries, avoiding eye contact signifies hesitation and dishonesty. (Correct me if I’m wrong.)

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    Mama Panda
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We also see it as being shy

    Pamula Furness
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or on the autistic spectrum..................,

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    earringnut
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it also represents not listening/caring

    Coffee
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Nigeria, when an elderly person is reprimanding you, it's disrespectful to look them in the eye. On the other hand, if they're having a normal conversation with you, it's disrespectful not to look at them. It shows you're distracted 😕

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's pretty similar to how it is in North America / Europe. Looking at someone reprimanding you like that is usually taken as a challenge.

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    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've usually had people see it as shyness, maybe a lack of attention, though it still should be fine as long as you're not looking AWAY from the person. I was diagnosed with Aspergers (considering the vagueness of the Autism spectrum and how in people like me it manifests more in "personality quirks" than full-fledged disabilities, it feels untrue to outright say "I'm Autistic"), so I sometimes have trouble keeping eye contact with some people, but it's less because of any fear of social cues as much as it is that when I do I worry that the person is going to feel uncomfortable as I stare right at them.

    Maria Ofar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i did not know that about the Chinese, thank you :D will definitely bear that in mind

    Fiona Messenger
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes it does. And it's especially difficult if you have ADHD where you avoid making eye contact anyway.

    Pragya Fating
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I m always anxious when talking to most ppl. So my eyes r wandering every where bt on there face.

    Debbie Andersson
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a westerner I still don´t understand eyecontact, makes me feel a bit threatened and to kep a straight face through a whole conversation while looking into their eyes? Yikes.

    Kwaku
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same applies to my country Ghana, look an adult in the eye when talking and you're seen as challenging authority.

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    #14

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

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    Mama Panda
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah that freaked me out the first time it happened to me. I wasn't ready for that sort of behavior. Now I am all about the kissing on the cheek!

    Matthew Hyder
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont think this usually happens in America either so you arent alone. XD

    Ntosh
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At least it is kissing on the cheek. Where I come from, people kiss on the lips. It freaks me out and makes me want to avoid greeting people, especially those I haven't seen in a long time. I am socially awkward as is, it is made worse with the kissing and hugging, especially the kissing. I don't know who came up with this culture and why

    Carolien Bpunkt
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get it that people become freaked out by it. Actually how I experienced it in the Netherlands and France is nearly never a real kiss, just a short touching of cheeks, most of the time barely touching and just amking a kissing noise really. I still find it still very non-intimate, so I prefer hugging. In the Netherlands if you dont want to, you can just stick out your hand and shake hands. In France the "kissing" is even more common. I can understand people feeling awkward about it when not used to it. But personally I think every culture has its own greeting rituals.

    Luisa Vasconcelos
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Portugal it's 2 kisses in the cheek.A hug is special, long and with feeling, not so common. in Germany is a hand shack. I always think how long the person didn't wash the hands and if went to toilet. 🙈

    Άρης Παπαδόπουλος
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly the same in Greece. Hug (could be combined with kisses) only for loved ones, 2 kisses to friends, handshake to total strangers

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    Isla Keenan
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm from the west and that creeps me out, it rarely happens here anymore, but when I does I feel like running away. Why would you kiss me.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the kissing in some European cultures. I mean, if you do it with friends, fine, it's like a hug, but STRANGERS? That's too much touching too early in the relationship.

    lisa H
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Discomfort with touching is a common issue for those of us on the spectrum.

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    Kikari Grace
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeeeah, that's a thing--I don't do the cheek-kissing much (except with family and close friends), but hugging? Absolutely. I joke that I have a "personal space vacuum," because it eats other people's personal space bubbles. I'm...working on it...

    Kay Fey
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! When cultural mannerisms clash. I love it.

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    #15

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    We also have spoons, people!

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    Vlad Horobet
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In some youtube street food videos i often see people eating the solid food with chopsticks than drinking the soup from the bowl. Uneducated or common?

    David Thalenberg
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My late father always wondered why no one in China ever thought about using hollow bamboo for chopsticks. Or drilled a hole down the length. Straws! And chopsticks! One utensil for everything!

    Z Allen
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    5 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people already like the hot soup, so it doesnt make sense to use the straws

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    Dan Heffley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or as Jacky Chan said, "Throw away chopsticks !" lol

    Anne Glassman
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you ask my kids, soup isn't food, so technically the flatware/chopstick graphic wasn't wrong....?

    Ladislav Pollo
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I didnt know that :D I thought that you just drink it....

    Daniel Losinger
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “We also have spoons, people!” So then how do you explain your other cartoon that shows only chopsticks on the Chinese side? Apparently you lied in that one.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Noticeably, the Western side didn't have spoon for soup in that bit either (just a dessert one), so maybe it was just a matter of only counting ones used for solids?

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    Samuel Zhao
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Me who just pours it into my mouth

    Luna Moonwatcher
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a question to people who mainly use chopsticks. How, feeling wise, does using a fork feel different than chopsticks?

    IheartMinecraft
    Community Member
    6 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "How do you eat soup with chopsticks?!" You don't... that isn't possible...

    Peter Utman
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously not everyone in the West was this ignorant.

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    #16

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Beauty = Thin. “Gaining weight” brings absolute horror for many Chinese girls, even though most of them are already considered thin in other cultures. I’ve seen girls who eat only one apple a day and who drink special tea (which makes you go to toilet 20 times a day) in order to lose weight in a very short time. Movie stars and super models are pushing this aesthetic to its extreme through mass media. When will we be able to simple enjoy being who we are?

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    Mama Panda
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sooo where can one buy this special tea?

    Daria B
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just get a laxative if you wanna poo so much. ♥

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    Sherry Soobotin
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one sad nearly-universal statement about how women are viewed and how we see ourselves. Especially sad when you said how much the Chinese people love to eat. So many cultures do. So many rituals are food-based. But shame on you if your body SHOWS your love of food. You must be gluttonous or lazy or both. Refuse foods and you're rude or a snob.

    Francisco Montoya
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an "I Love Bacon" shirt. Thats all I got. Sorry. Carry on.

    Joseph Wagnon
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I date one gal, real sweet. She told me that she was too fat. I was looking at her and scratching my head. I asked her "Umm, what?" She replied "I weight 103lbs! Ew, I need to get back to 99lbs." I was simply confused.

    Debbie Andersson
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At my past job a chinese family came in, the kids wanted some cookies ( cause it was a cafe sort of ) and the mom asked for glasses of water for them before they ate one, ONE cookie each, the kids were so thin it actually made me a bit worried...Maybe I should have given them a few free cookies?

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this sort of thing. I still don't get it. And I don't understand why people are like "Oh, super models and famous people are thin! So we also must be thin!"

    Peter Utman
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pretty sure Western people are body conscious too.

    Kevin Harding
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nowhere near to the same degree (I'm a Brit having lived in China for the past 21 years). Just a quick walk around most Euro-American cities is enough to tell you that. Or at least even though they may think it they don't actually do enough to control their weight. Lack of control and an excess of fattening foods.

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    Glenna Wheatley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Try Smooth Moves. Very effective. 😊

    moonsong23
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm pretty sure in America that'd be considered anorexic... and bulimic...

    Aila Dionisio
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like I would be really pretty in China because my friends call me a "stick".

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    #17

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Chinese people love their food, they spend lots of time savouring and enjoying their meals. Food is not just “fuel” for the body, but a pleasure, an art, and a way of socialising. If you want to make friends, go eat. If you want to close a business deal, go eat. If you want to pursue a romantic relationship, go eat.
    Since ancient times, food has been considered priority in Chinese culture. The government’s goal was to make sure that each person is taken care of and "has enough to eat”. From another angle, it also suggests the realistic character of Chinese: food goes before ideas, and this life is more important than after life.

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    Anna Herrington
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So many Americans would never eat junk food !! or live to eat..... but that is certainly the stereotype and truth for far too many, here.

    Analyn Lahr
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But there is a lot of junk food so readily available and inexpensive. Most other Americans I know do eat junk food. Granted, mainly because it's all they can afford. Though some are happy about it.

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    Kyla Jones
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's it! I'm Chinese! I don't look it but this sounds like my ideal.

    pusheen buttercup
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes at a really physically taxing job, you will get hungry more often, but the breaks are not very long within four hour shifts. It would be nice to slow down and eat but we aren't supposed to go over our break time, and you could duck out to have a small energy bar but it feels kind of awkward and embarrassing, meanwhile you're gone for two seconds and the store has gotten into a complete mess.

    Panda
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is true for many European countries as well, especially the southern and eastern parts.

    Lia Stella
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So much in common with Italians about food !

    Luisa Vasconcelos
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's my kind of country. I like to eat and enjoy food. Nothing better than eat together.

    Benjamin Peters
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy .. the whole jokes wouldn't work without prejudices .. and often they are very close to reality ;)

    Jay Kay
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and this is how it should be.

    Robert Self
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! When I used to do business in China, I had to learn to live with 3 hour dinners with my Chinese customers. I am not a very patient person regarding time, but I simply had to stop thinking of something I would rather be doing. My customers would order ridiculously unnecessary plate after plate, drink after drink, and constantly banter with the restaurant staff about each plate of food. Chinese people care greatly about each and every plate.

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    #18

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Chinese have trouble taking compliments from other people, because they are raised to be humble, to be self-reflective, and to not stand out from the crowd. So when someone notices you and makes a compliment, you tend to lose the inner balance and get nervous very quickly.

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    Pamula Furness
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did not know this, thank you

    Ged Maybury
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This could be a good thing for some Americans to learn. (Apparently, in Japan, Americans/Westerners come across as arrogant and egotistical because they soak up the compliments. They don't know the custom of *rejecting* compliments!)

    Godessy
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time ppl compliment me for something I immediately do the thing worse:)

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    Kikari Grace
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think a lot of american girls have this problem too--I still have problems taking compliments, my knee-jerk reaction is to deny it.

    Sofia Bellavista
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not a problem, humbleness is a virtue and a sign of wisdom when it doesn't come from shyness only.

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    Kay Fey
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've gotten similar reactions from American Chinese peers.

    Celina
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do too. Its hard to take compliments if you don't know how to take them...Or if they are just lying...

    Ka eS (Obiektyw-NIEJ)
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Poland it is also considered polite to react modestly to compliments. When somebody says you have a nice shirt, the answer is 'it's an old shirt actually'. Underestimation is part of our culture. :/

    Glynis Lailann
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "That's a beautiful dress you have on." "What, this old thing? "

    Paris Alagic
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how to take compliments. "that dress looks gorgeous on you" " aha um yah CHICKEN NUGGETS"

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    #19

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Can you name a classic Chinese design or a brand? Probably difficult. But have you bought anything “Made in China”? Very likely yes. Chinese products are often associated with the word “cheap” and not high quality, sadly. Many aspiring local designers have been trying to create original and valuable products, but problem such as the lack of copyright protection has complicated the process. Still a long way to go.

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    Miguel Angel Irisson
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One day i hear in a movie that "The american dream is made in China"

    Ama-nee
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Xiaomi. Their tech absolutely rocks.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Can you name a classic Chinese design or a brand?" -> uhm... Huawei? No, but in Europe, I used to hear a lot about valuable chinese porcelain and vases. But I get your point, and it's very true.

    Laura Rudgers
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I think of a classic Chinese design, I think of the gorgeous silk embroidered Cheongsam - the dresses!

    Anna Thouvenin
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can name so many, Feiyue, Shulong, FION (which is hilarious because in French it literally means a*****e), Huawei, ZTE, etc.

    Queen Nehelenia
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can! Xiaomi! One of best brand. I know also Lenovo, Heier (but only thanks to mineral water from Lithuania), Huawei, Aliexpress (love it) and...that's it.

    Karolína T.
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Of course, have RedMi and Mindray... :-)

    Ka eS (Obiektyw-NIEJ)
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    China (plates, cups) is made in China :) And this is positive.

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    #20

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

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    Bonnie Russell
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's an old American saying in the style of a bad poem: Forget your acid indigestion/"How are you"'s a greeting, not a question.

    Maria Ofar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yes, it has definitely become a way of addressing people rather than actually expressing interest in someone's wellbeing. which can be confusing and unhealthy

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    Queen Nehelenia
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Polish: It's horrible! Listen...(and now you are listening a list of problems) :D :D :D:D

    SuperTango
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Russian too! How are you? Well, I've got this and that, and...

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    Adi Capdefier
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Not too bad" in Britain is just the standard reply to "how are you?" to progress the conversation. I don't think it's related to pessimism, realism or optimism.

    Heather Kelley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Britain, we like to be very quiet. Even if we are doing great, we cannot express our feelings towards others. It is seen impolite if you say that you're doing great or 'better than ever.' "How are you" is seen as a direct question, and there is only a few answers, "I'm fine, not bad, or well." At least for me.

    Alessandra Jimenez
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And in Mexico it's "Muy bien, gracias a Dios" which means "Very good, thanks to God"

    Mick Gi
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    France is off-the-chart pessimist lmao

    Idan ben-ari
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Israelis tend to answer that way too. We have the word "beseder" which means "in order". No matter how bad you feel, if someone asks, you are usually "in order". One of the biggest lies.. Haha

    Blue Banana
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    British have a tendency to understatement. If an English person was to answer this question with "Bloody Marvellous", listen to the tone of their voice. They probably are not having a good time.

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    #21

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    In China, it’s not rare to see young people choosing to live with their parents after getting out of college. For one thing, it’s more economical than renting a house on your own. And for another, Chinese are very family oriented, so getting support from your family it’s expected in the social norm. In the the United States, however, people value independence so much that it’s embarrassing to have things given to you while you have the ability to live on your own.

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    earringnut
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    actually living with parents is becoming more and more normal in the states for much the same reasons.

    Margaret Harper
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same. I'm 19 and still with my parents, and my own Dad didn't leave home until he was 24 with a degree.

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    Alexandre Torres
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Mexico that's normal as well. Except my city and it irks me... I'm 30 still living with my parents because money reasons, and people are all "You should move out already, you know??" Like I was already living out, but things happened and I needed to come back, am I not allowed to take my parents' words at heart and be able to rely on them when things get bad?!

    Μαριάννα Μπέλλου
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    and in Greece : - Can I live with u ? Well we do not say that.. cause we always go back home after studies :P that's the rule :P

    Srd Tuladhar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    moron western ideology, humans ought to live with family. humans are social beings

    Kaelyn
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not everyone wants to.. my family is so stressful and negative and I like being alone.

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    Rafaella Bueno
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here it's more of a "to each their own". Most people won't care if you live with your parents, but most people still want to live by themselves if they can. It's not that common for a lot of relatives to live in the same house, but it's very common for them to live in connected (in the same property) or very close houses. Depending on where they live, people will often build another smaller house in the back or top of the main one for their children and their families.

    Pamula Furness
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love having my children living at home. I only have my daughter here now, but I Looooooooove It!

    Heather K.
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My oldest son had a rough year in his 2nd year at high school, so I gave him the "if you don't get your act together you'll never get a job that affords you the life you want." His response: "like you'd mind if I lived with you forever?" Now he's 25, living on the other side of the state, making 2x what I do, and I secretly wish he hadn't listened because I miss him!!!

    Mónica Elisabeth Sacco
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm beginning to find Chinese more and more similar to Italians!

    pootato_draws
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I have to comment "Same for Filipinos" on most of these.

    Tomek Sztuk
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "it’s embarrassing to have things given to you while you have the ability to live on your own." - well, it should be. That's what an adult is supposed to do, live on one's own, not cling to your mommy's skirt!

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    #22

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    eople have less trouble naming Chinese political figures than naming great Chinese artists and scientists, who have also played a great role in shaping Chinese culture. Why? They don't learn much about it in school; they don't see them in the media often; and in China we lack initiatives and channels to communicate to the outside word.

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    Rafael Tiba
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bruce Lee, Jet Lee, Jackie Chan. Nobody cares about Mao and Confucius.

    Sofia Bellavista
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope, only the ignorants and the unintelligent don't care about Mao and Confucius. Others, those who pursue an education and make a difference in society, do.

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    Mick Fowler
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lao Tze's writings helped me to find calm at a troubling time in my life. Highly recommend.

    Dan Heffley
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Xi Shi, W**g Zhaojun, Diaochan, and Yang Guifei :-)

    Kay Fey
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, this is why I watch a lot of overseas news, documentaries, and foreign cinema. Then I learn who these important people are because my U.S. public school system sure wasn't going to teach me.

    Ravioli
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    6 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's just so much info that can be crammed in the school years, and an infinite amount of general knowledge

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    Elise Mon
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    are you forget JACKIE CHAN? BRUCE LEE?

    Chess Wizard
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Neither are political figures, artist, or scientist though, which is what the artist is talking about.

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    #23

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    There’s a Chinese saying “三思而后行”, which means to think twice before taking actions. In history, Chinese value highly reflection and past experience, but acting cautious and staying wise didn’t save the people from the arrival of the early western explorers who sailed into the unknown and took chances at the risk of their lives. China was forced to take actions in its modern history, often times too fast in exchange for development.

    While too much reflection on the past slows down the process of change and innovation, too much action without thinking results in waste of resources and irreversible consequences. It’s time for thinkers and doers to meet and learn from each other in this increasingly connected world. It’s happening.

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    moli.2
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dva krát meraj a raz rež (Measure twice before you cut) is a Slovak saying.

    Victoria Dreyer
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have that saying in English, too! "Measure twice, cut once." It's good advice. :D

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    Iveta Andrejeva
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can't beet Latvians with 'measure 7 times before cutting' :D

    Monika
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    we can, Lithuanian saying is measure 9 times before cutting, maybe this is why neither Lithuania or Latvia gets anything done. Joke. well, kinda joke.

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    Šimon Špaček
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, but you should think only twice. If you will just think and think you might have perfect plan but it is useless because somebody who didn't think that much started already and is successful.

    Tony Moon
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because a thing can be done, does not mean it must be done. This is an American trait that I think we need to curb.

    Niall Mac Iomera
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look before you leap. Etc. This not a concept unique to china.

    Peter Utman
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Does the author think Westerners are all impulsive and incapable of planning or considering what they are going to do or how they might best execute their ideas?

    David Liou
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you mean think thrice. Anyway, there's also a saying in English "think before you leap".

    Ian MacFarlane
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it says "Think three times..."

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    #24

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

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    Bunny goddess
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's true, I am Chinese myself and have been to a school like that. The uniforms were pretty much the same but in a darker blue color.

    Sansa Blacktyde
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's very common to wear uniforms in UK schools. It's only when you go to post 16 education that there is no uniforms.

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    Vicky Zar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think school uniforms are a good thing

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone who went to a school with uniforms, they're a pain in the a*s because you have to wash them all the time, and/or buy a bunch of clothes that are usually too ugly or uncomfortably cheap to wear anywhere else.

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    Gemala Hapsari
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Indonesians wear uniforms too until highschool. I thought it is quite common for Asian countries?

    Alin Bora
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Freedom of attitude - why do Chinese students have that? All humans should express their individuality, we are not ants...

    Ntosh
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think there are many ways for one to express his/her individuality regardless of having to wear uniform. One should not be limited by the clothes on their body.

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    Rafael Tiba
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, we all know who's going to become #1 economy in the world.

    bob
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    French high school students don't dress that smart.

    Jose Liu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha i am a student from China and i have to say the uniform of my high school is as bad as you imagine. But it is an important thing in my wardrobe, as a souvenir. Interesting

    Alex Newell
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    School was originally designed to promote uniformity, because it was to train for factory work. This is no longer the case.

    Barbara Ilma Eva Westwood
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So that was the why factory workers wore straw boaters, they were straight out of Eton of course!

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    Kerri Russ
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm an American only child (2nd generation with a 3rd generation only child) and I have gotten these same questions my entire life. My parents made the choice, not me. How can I miss having siblings if I've never had them? That question has always baffled me.

    Hannah Ingram
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    a better question would be have you ever wanted a sibling or something

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    Alexandre Torres
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In the case of my parents, the choice was made for them because my mum couldn't have more children. And I HATE it when people say I'm spoiled. Like, yes, my parents had good economy when I was growing up and being only one gave me the advantage of having many things kids with siblings didn't, but that doesn't mean I'm spoiled. I know how to share, I care more about my family (that includes friends) than I do about me, my clothes are always as good as new and I use them till I can't use they anymore or if they don't fit anymore I give them to someone who needs them more... My cousin has a sister, but if you ask him for a pencil to borrow he will give you the deathstare. It depends on how you bring up your kid, not if they have siblings or not.

    SophieMae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a sibling, and I have never understood these types of questions to only children. Why should being an only child (and enjoying being an only child) make someone narcissistic and spoiled? Also, I've seen kids *with* sibs who are narcissistic, spoiled, or both.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've known some only children (I have one brother so I don't have personal experience) who WERE spoiled, but it's because the PARENTS spoiled them, not because the kids actually gained a narcissistic attitude and wanted everything.

    Karolína T.
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am the only child... and my parents raised me as in the military college, managing to avoid any indulgence. They trespassed their endeavours, I felt then deprived for a ling time. Despite of, I hear such comments about being spoiled during entire childhood. Yeap, suspicious are attached very hard in human brains...

    Christian Sunde
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This has nothing to do with where you are from, but rather how people see you as an only child.

    DaisyAppreciation
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i love the frolicking children in the first panel

    Ian Hollis
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Little Emperor Syndrome" Look it up.

    Petya
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am an only child, so I heard the same a lot, actually most from people my own age that have siblings. And correct me if I am wrong, but wasn't there a law in China that says people should have only 1 child and there are huge fines to pay in case they have more (except for twins/triplets, etc., I think), so most people actually comply with it. I may be wrong and maybe there is no such law anymore, but I think there was at some point.

    Jose Liu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Recently years the Chinese government has replaced the one-child policy with two-children policy. And the government even encourages us to raise a second one. But actually the figure, born rate,didn't boom for the last two years as youngers are not willing to raise even one child, especially the people with high education and living in central cities. So i think that it would finally become the same as western world, raising one or more children is the freedom of people

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    Sal Altschul
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Swap? I have a brother, two half-sisters and two step-sisters. I'm eternally grateful that we didn't live all together. Someone would've ended up dead, I'm sure of it.

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    Mama Panda
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The expectation is to open in front of the giver so that they will see your reaction, whether or not you liked it. Plus people are nosey lol

    moli.2
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, when I give someone a present, I want go see their reaction. And I would like to show my true reaction\gratidute to the giver. Now I am trying to be more honest whether I like the presents to receive what I might like\really use next time. I just don't want to collect all the unnecessary stuff or I give it away to get tid of it. I gather too many stuff and at some point when I am moving I need to leave it behind me anyway.

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    Hari Onago
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did not know about this until a few years ago: a Japanese friend gave me a present and because of all the cultural differences I was in doubt, so I enthusiastically asked her: 'should I open it now or later?' and she was like 'OH, NO, NO, NO… LATER. *whispering* It's better if you open it later on…'. I though it was a bomb. I guess it is embarrassing for the gift giver or something?

    Glynis Lailann
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The notion of not opening your gifts in front of the giver is that if you do, you will appear to be greedy. So you accept the gift graciously and humble and put it away to be opened later. Years ago my parents went to visit some friends of theirs and they arrived bearing a home-made cake - my mom is an excellent baker. The hostess promptly put the cake on the top shelf of the kitchen cupboard and proceeded to open a packet of biscuits to have with their tea. My mom was so cross!

    kamil
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet she was! I guess the notion about greediness would apply outside of China to receiving cash in an envelope.

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    Coffee
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah... As a Nigerian, that shocks me every time I see it in a movie. We normally open our gifts in private

    Heather Shanks
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, I hate this custom in America. I hate opening presents in front of everyone. Especially for a birthday. My hubbys mom likes to take pictures of everything someone opens. It embarrasses me so bad!

    Aslı Liman
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's considered rude in our counrty if you do not open the present in front of the giver

    Bored Fox
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Finland both things can happen. Some people like to open the gifts as fast as possible in front of everyone and some people want to save gifts later to open them at their own home/room.

    Ged Maybury
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Siyu Tinyeyes, could you please give us more context to this cultural difference.Thank you.

    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Traditionally, Chinese don't open gifts immediately in front of the people who offered them. They'll open them afterwards by themselves.

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    Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I prefer opening gifts on my own too

    H4unt3dF0r3sts
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never really liked opening things in front of other people, but it's not like I ever really had a choice in the matter without seeming rude.

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    Daria B
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, you know what they say... Men and women speak separate languages anyway, so it doesn't really matter. ^_-

    Anna Wu
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Actually, I find it works really well. We take what we like about each other's native cultures and teach our kids.

    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It shouldn't be difficult anyway! Having different cultures, sure that has the potential to require getting used to, but an "interracial relationship"? Race in of itself is realistically a non-issue!

    Tony Moon
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My wife and I both speak the same languages and we still don't always understand each other. Love is able to break barriers that no education ever could.

    Tavia Thiessen
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This type of question always baffles me like.. just cause we are two different colors doesn't mean our relationship is any different. The only differences are the same other couples face like personality, how people eat, how they clean etc. but race doesn't have anything to do with it. I watched my parents get the same question, and a a biracial kid I'd get " how was it growing up in a mixed race household?" And I'd say " well... what was it like growing up in your household ? " 😂😊

    Allana Rose
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL Maybe I need to find a Chinese BF so we never fight!

    Jorge da Silva
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    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I often think that this is a good alternative for a long relationship.

    bob
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ahah so naive... My wife is japanese and I get my a*s kicked often. Same for a friend whose wife is chinese. They never show it in public, but he told me that she can be quite fearsome when she wants to.

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    #28

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    In Chinese schools, smoking is strictly prohibited and any student who smoke is considered “bad”. It’s not just in the sense of “bad for health”, but also considered a symbol for moral degradation. In France, I notice that there are lots of teenagers who smoke, and it’s actually considered “cool” among their friends. There’s even peer pressure to learn how to smoke. Smoking is also a normal way of socializing so there isn’t any negative moral aspect associated with it.

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    Tess
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is a good mentality - I lived in Montreal for a bit and got excluded a lot because I didn't smoke. People their also always blew smoke in your face because they didn't see it as a bad thing. So odd!

    Pamula Furness
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When my boyfriend and I used to go to pubs with a non-smoking area, smokers would stand at the edge and deliberately exhale clouds of smoke into our faces, or carry on smoking as they made their way through us to the toilets, (yes, the non-smoking area was usually next to the lavatories).

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    Anita Marx
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Germany people smoke less and less. It's expensive and there are warnings on the packages, in luding pictures of typical smoker- deseases. Nowadays in most clubs, restaurants, bars smoking inside is not allowed. I know many people, who smokes at home in the backyard or on balconies.

    Hayley Lightcap
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whenever I see kids smoking it's more like holy c**p how does he afford that

    PsychoPrincess
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    His bad parents who also smoke. Thats how i got mine in highschool...

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    Bored Fox
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Usually the smokers think that smokers are cool and the non-smokers think that smokers are losers.

    Darrien Mae
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the non smokers are usually alcoholics judging someone else's addiction while having their own. (Not really, that's just the first thing I thought of) My point is that every single person has done/is doing/will do something that is bad for them or others around them so idk I guess people should lighten up about smoking. Of course I'm respectful of nonsmokers and 2nd band smoke, but we all have our vices in some way or another (smoking, drugs, alcohol [which is a drug], food, Internet, television...) something, someday, is going to kill us, so the f**k if I'm gonna miss out doing something I like to do!

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    Master Markus
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe that high schoolers in my generation still thought smoking was cool, especially given how we're constantly shown stuff like dead, blackened lungs on most cigarette packs (I'm Canadian, it's the law here). Pretty much everyone seems to regret it after high school anyway! Generally we thought of the kids who smoked as the "bad kids" though.

    Alex Pun
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you have just answer your own question... "Badass" packaging + "bad kids" = cool. Don't worry they'll all eventually figure out how much they stink. When they are all grown up and addicted.

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    Lynn Lee
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents have trained me to think of smokers as bad people, and not to walk near them, inhale fumes, and to never give in to peer pressure.

    Matthew Hyder
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It night be bad to exclude people too much just for this bt using common sense and prioritizing health woukd be nice, especially not having to deal with oeer pressure tryung out something that can hurt you. :(

    Lynn Cai
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In America, depending on the school you go to, smoking is usually considered as bad and not cool. In most cases, you'll get expelled if you're caught with a cigarette.

    Pragya Fating
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hahaha! A bad student. If we got caught smoking in school grounds, we would get expelled,or at least suspended nd yes eventually for a 2nd time, definitely expelled.

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    #29

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    In a Chinese family, a child usually takes the central position and gets all the love and attention from their parents, which could also lead to ignorance and lack of communication between the couple.

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    Maria Ofar
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    absolutely what has happened with my family. order of care now goes: Baby - totally incapable of taking care of self, too immature to understand matters Cats - partly incapable of taking care of selves, understand what they need to do (be patient, finish their dinner etc) Boyfriend - "you've got hands, don't you?"

    Sherry Soobotin
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this happens to almost every mother who's ever given birth since time began, at least for a while, as a way to protect the helpless infant and ensure survival of the species. Not a personal thing, but a species thing. :)

    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No no no, In my family, The cat's the boss

    Meowton Mewsk
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel sorry for people like that. How horrible.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have the kind of personality wherein I literally cannot see how people shower babies with attention. When they're very young, they gross me out, especially given their propensity to pooping and vomiting without warning. I pretty much treat babies like people treated unusual boats during the Golden Age of Piracy - with a wide berth.

    Mae
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same! Babies are poop and vomit machines, obviously some people want to have them, I don't

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    Lee from Phoenix
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Chinese don't have an exclusive on that behavior. Was the same with my ex-wife and me and we are just plain American.

    Redjac Arbez
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    False parents dump the kid on the grandparents because they are too busy to raise the spoiled little kid alone as they should.

    Joyce Berman
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For many people, it's the same in western countries.

    Tony Moon
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this occurs everywhere. It always depends on the family and the dynamics.

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    #30

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    "Beijing Bikini" is a term used by non-Chinese to describe grownup man who roll up their shirt and reveal their bellies in summer. (warning: what you see is usually bulging tummies instead of six-pack. ) Even though it's frowned upon by many people, these man are not ashamed of it at all. For them, it's just a practical way to get cooler when you don't have air conditioning, so what's the big deal?

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    DarkLumiya
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i think the only people who freak out are those who have never lived in a hot country. Where i'm from, during the summer, most men are shirtless regardless of age or size

    Flare
    Community Member
    5 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That actually makes a lot of sense.

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    Beth
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I bet the men would have an issue if women with big huge bellies did the same.

    Claire Holten
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Soooo women have to obess over being thin (seen in a previous comic) but men can flaunt their pot bellies? Double Standards are disgusting.

    Blue Banana
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see both fat blobs, both male and female, dressed in next to nothing in hot weather and frequently wish it would cool down and rain.

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    Janice
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, this is so true. Walk anywhere in China and you can't avoid seeing countless potbellies. Oh well. It's completely normal over there so deal with it y'all XD

    Erisa Desu
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let me tell you that the Beijing Bikini, has been reaching the shores of Greece...Big cities in Greece to be more accurate :P lol

    Jose Liu
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh that's because the weather is so hot. If the house has an air-conditioner, no one will be willing to go out for a while.

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HAHAHAHA! I never knew the rural tradition of rolling a shirt up was also chinese.

    Z
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But why is it named that? Is this something that occurs a lot in Beijing?

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    #31

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    What really matters is not the format, but the content. In France, reading is a habit. There are bookshops everywhere, people take books with them on vacations and give each other as gifts. There’s a great variety of popular books: fiction, science-fiction, history, art, philosophy, comics…
    In China, what people read mostly are news, practical books related to their professions, or “How to become the next Steve Jobs”. Of course there are also people who read extensively, but in general, reading hasn’t become a habit.

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    Pamula Furness
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We still give books as gifts in my (English), house, I'm very proud to say......................

    Cerys Dunbar
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my family if someone doesnt know what to get me they grab me a book. I normally get 1 or 2 books every year because im always reading

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Korean subway: everyone's asleep. (Well, that was my first impression years ago, now it no longer looks like this)

    Alexandru Bucur
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friends and I are all voracious readers, but, because in recent years we've moved on to reading digital books on our mobiles instead of carting around the physical copy (much better, especially if you're standing, you can hold the device and advance the page with one hand), some older folks are always commenting about "young people nowadays, always on social media, never reading a book, no wonder the world has gone to rot"... Oh, if they only knew...

    Etienne Lellouche-Noeuvéglise
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's wrong, I'm from Paris in France, and out of 10 people only 2 actually read books in the subway ...

    Lynn Lee
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I'm Chinese and I love to read!

    Matthew Hyder
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like reading. :? But Im a techie too probably morw. ^^;

    Jill Rhoads
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Interesting...in Japan from what I’ve seen they are sort of split. While most people are on their phones on the subway, lots but of people still actively read. Unlike Europe, book stores are still doing well. A large chain of second hand book stores called “Book Off” is everywhere.

    Godessy
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also add the amount of ppl standing

    Barbara Velasquez
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    mmm I live in paris and ...sorry but not true ...in 2018 you see more phones than books in the parisian subway

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    #32

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    ne time a friend asked me, “Do you pass a lot of time writing your name? Chinese characters looks so complicated!” This made me giggle, but in a way it’s true because each Chinese character is a structure on its own and does not follow a linear movement as the alphabet.

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    Maria Ofar
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    my full name often wouldn't fit in the allocated space :'( and i'm australian

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guessing your real name isn't Maria, then?

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    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank god my dad give me a easy name

    Kelly Zhang
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank god my mom immigrated or else I would have that problem and not just Kelly Zhang

    Blue Banana
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whenever I see a form with the little boxes, I groan, not because my name is too long, but because I can't write that damn small!

    Henry Crank
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm American (German descent) and my last name rarely fit in the allotted space.

    Joyce Berman
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm trying to learn Korean, and haven't even gotten close to learning their equivalent of our alphabet yet!

    Vijay Duggirala
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    uvuvwevwevwe onyetenyevwe ugwemubwem ossas

    Risa Lovee
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate, my full name has 37 letters in it...

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    #33

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    When asked this question, some of the Chinese moms tell their little kids that they were born from their armpits, or even worse, picked up from a trash can.

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    Mama Panda
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Americans sometimes say the cabbage patch or the stork. My favorite that I used to tell my little sister (10 years apart) is that she was hatched lol

    Hollywood
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My parents always told me they found me growing in a potato patch in the middle of the woods and raised me to become human-like.

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    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'll have kids, I plan to show them an illustrated biology book and explain it scientifically when they ask "the dreaded question". No need to keep the stigma and kids are smart already.

    ADHORTATOR
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's what we did with our children. It was no big deal.

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    Helen Coyle
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In any culture when this is asked tell the truth,kids can take it

    Melissa Nunya
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My American father liked to make up similar stories. He told me I was found under a rock lmao

    Star
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "What, do you live under a rock, or something?"

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    Peach Blossom
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    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an older brother by 11 years and our mother always reminded me boys were better. I was told My father found me in a garbage can and each time my father said it wasn't true. When I learned to read at 6 years old I came across my birth certificate and found out my parents were my parents. I was so sad to think that my mother was so hurtful so SAY all that and had me believe it all that time. Even though she clothed me, fed me and looked after me I could not understand why she wanted to torture me with that claim.

    Kim Kennedy
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom swears I was found under a rock on the side of the road.

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we NOT lie to kids? I mean, I guess I have a fairly liberal view of sex in general, but they're going to find out eventually!

    Vicky Zar
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why the trash? That sounds insulting...

    William Leong
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it sounds funny when spoken out in words in Chinese... it's pretty common, we (kids) don't bother about it.

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    Indy Rose
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The best I've seen in from the Calvin and Hobbes cartoon -- they bought the kit from Sears... or an almost-as-good K-Mart special kit...

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    #34

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    You don't want to drive in big cities like Beijing.

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    Adam Hart-Dyke
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you should ride a pig, right? Small, fast, economical, sounds like a win to me!

    VeryDarkMatter
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    aww the cat in the car is amazing :D

    Mixedupste
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Come to England! Every city is like that at rush hour!! I live in Leeds and it takes me 45 mins to go 5 miles!!

    E.j. Booth
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Omg, that piggie drawing is just wonderful! (I know this has nothing to do with the conceptual content of this series of illustrations, but...PIGGY!!)

    Suzy Garrison
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are cities in the US that is true. I live in Kissimmee, Florida. There are only two ways in and out and they are constantly under construction even though I seldom see any workers.

    Davin Wong
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    LOL! this would be applicable to most major cities in the world with poor public transportation systems. Jakarta, Kuala Lumpur, Sydnet and even Singapore on some days :-)

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    #35

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Chinese rely heavily on their network in the society(what we call "关系"). The first thing you do in a foreign place is to connect with your people so that you could “take care” of each other and get necessary help. Of course it also makes you feel more comfortable. On the other hand, the general lack of adventurous spirit (lack of individualism) results in an attitude that’s more reserved in a foreign environment. While some Chinese may not be comfortable enough to “mingle”, most of them are generally kind and tolerate towards foreign cultures.

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    Beth
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every culture does this. That's why there are whole enclaves of Kiwis and Australians in London!

    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here I'd like to add an observation of mine. Back in Croatia, the Chinese people living there seemed very reserved and shy. Here in Korea, the Chinese people living here are so relaxed, friendly, open to everyone, lots of humour... My first friends at the language course (before university) were Chinese.

    Sherry Soobotin
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any theories as to why that might be? Was it a generational difference? Could the Chinese in Korea have felt less conspicuous than in Croatia?

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    bob
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like every foreigners in every countries really.

    Jamie Hayashi
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In mainland China they say: 没关系就有关系。 有关系就没关系。 It switches only two words in each sentence; it means No network, then there’s an issue. Have network, then no problem.

    liza smirn
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my school, my friends and I sometimes call our friend group the "Russians and Asians" because everyone there is either somewhat Russian, completely Russian, or Chinese, except for one girl who is American.

    Jenny King
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But in the States, if whites do this, we are called racist.

    William Leong
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    China Town is (nearly) in every country in the world.

    Rachel Li
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friendship group in my school is pretty much all asian and for some reason we have 1000000x less drama then those other groups.

    Joyce Berman
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That was true in my high school in San Francisco many decades ago. I hope it's changing.

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    #36

    I Made These Comics To Compare Chinese Culture With Western Culture Through Everyday Life

    Chinese tend to wait for their turn to speak, although in a foreign culture, that turn may never come because it requires taking initiatives. From an early age, we are told to be humble, to think about others first(our position in a relationship) and hide our own opinions. (It doesn’t mean that we don’t have opinions.) That’s one of the reasons we appear to be timid in a group discussion, and are generally not good at public speaking or debate. However, this situation has also changed gradually as society put less constrains on young generations and more chance for them to communicate with the world.

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    Kerri Russ
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love how the Chinese student has his materials all lined up and neat while the other desks are less organized, shall we say.

    Daria B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was always the one waiting for my turn to speak too. As a result, people would think I'm just "the quiet one". Later I grew up and I learnt how to gain me my own turn without being too aggressive. Still I have problems, sometimes, some people interrupt me, or speak over, as if I were not speaking... Ugh! So frustrating.

    Avash Das
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am not Chinese but there are so many things in this post which I can identify myself with!! Being born and brought up in India and living in US, I have identified many times with several of these traits which Americans will never do!! Had tons of fun reading the post!! Keep it up!! :)

    Matthew Hyder
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, that seems almost too humble though. :( Good thing you're saying others do see this as a oroblem and have taken steps to fix it. :)

    Master Markus
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If EVERYONE is supposed to think about others first and hide their opinions, how does anything get done?

    Blue Banana
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to be a teacher. If I asked a question, I very rarely saw a hand go up. I used to tell them that I knew they were still alive, I could here them breathing.

    Maria Hung
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I was young, teachers would scold you stupid in front of the class when you got the answer wrong. It was most discouraging thing for students to be initiated in class participation’s.

    Samuel Zhao
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In China, it’s listen more, talk less

    Freda Gross
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for giving us.this light hearted and enlightening view of how Chinese society works. 😊

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