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Woman Gets Banned From BF’s Brother’s House After Breaking Their Rule And Sending His Wife To ER
While it can be hard to comprehend for someone who has never encountered it, allergies are not something to be taken lightly. While for some, certain products might just produce an errant sneeze, others can end up in the ER just from mild exposure. So ignoring someone’s allergies is very much a horrible thing to do.
A woman with a severe dairy allergy wondered if she was wrong to insist on checking her BIL’s and his GF’s bags after they repeatedly brought dairy into her house. She also shared some pretty sizable updates about the story. We reached out to the woman who shared the story via private message and will update the article when she gets back to us.
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If someone puts you in the ER because they didn’t listen, you’d be wise to take precautions
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So one woman started demanding to see what her BIL and his GF brought into her house
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Allergies can range from annoying and unpleasant to downright life threatening
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While most empathetic and reasonable people understand that if someone says they have an allergy to something, it should be taken seriously, they tend to not actually understand how it works. After all, part of being supportive is actually taking the time to learn what affects other folk’s lives. It’s not just basic etiquette, it can be life saving.
So, a severe dairy allergy is an immune system overreaction to proteins found in cow’s milk (and often other animal milks as well). When someone with this allergy consumes milk proteins like casein or whey, their body treats them as harmful invaders and launches a defense by releasing antibodies and histamines. This can lead to symptoms ranging from hives and stomach upset to full‑blown anaphylaxis, a potentially life‑threatening reaction involving difficulty breathing, swelling of the throat, and a dangerous drop in blood pressure.
Symptoms of a milk allergy can appear within minutes to a few hours after exposure. Mild reactions might include itching around the mouth or skin rashes, while more severe cases can trigger vomiting, bloody stools (especially in infants), or respiratory distress such as wheezing and persistent coughing. In its worst form, anaphylaxis can cause dizziness, collapse, and even loss of consciousness, requiring immediate administration of epinephrine. As the woman in this story stated, she very literally had to visit the emergency room.
Despite these risks, some folks just don’t take them seriously
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Despite the seriousness, many people lump dairy allergies together with lactose intolerance, a digestive issue caused by a lack of the enzyme lactase. Lactose intolerance leads to gas, bloating, and diarrhea but does not involve the immune system or pose a risk of anaphylaxis. Misunderstanding these as the same condition leads some to dismiss dairy allergies as mere stomach trouble rather than recognizing them as potentially fatal autoimmune responses. Similarly, some folks with very, very mild allergies can underestimate how an item can make someone feel.
This conflation fuels a dangerous attitude: “It’s just dairy, how bad can it be?” When society treats gluten‑free and dairy‑free diets as health fads, the real medical needs of allergy sufferers get trivialized. Casual remarks like “Just have a little milk; it won’t hurt you” ignore the fact that even trace amounts of milk protein can trigger a severe reaction. Underestimating the risk often results in delayed treatment and poorer outcomes for allergy sufferers. It doesn’t help that some folks labor under the assumption that you have to literally drink milk to have an allergic reaction.
Because accidental exposure can escalate rapidly, those with milk allergies must be vigilant. Carrying epinephrine auto‑injectors and reading labels religiously are essential safety measures. Friends, family, and foodservice workers also need better education to prevent cross‑contamination and ensure prompt response when a reaction occurs. Without widespread understanding and respect for the severity of dairy allergies, individuals remain vulnerable to life‑threatening emergencies that could have been avoided with proper awareness and preparedness.
This is probably why so many commenters were quick to call out the woman for even giving the couple a “second chance,” since they knowingly put her at risk beforehand. Searching their bags was, realistically, the only way to make it work given the fact that she literally put her host in the emergency room. If you wanted to know what happened next, you are in luck, as she shared a pretty sizable update later.
Readers thought the GF and her BF really overstepped themselves
She later shared the first of two updates
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In the final update, she shared all the ensuing relationship drama
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People shared their thoughts in the comments
What do you think ?
Inservio Smurf 7 months ago
There needs to be a narcissist register. We register s*x offenders and they do damage on exponentially fewer occasions than manipulative narcissists do. This woman needs to be tracked so her next victim is forewarned.
Lyone Fein 7 months ago
That ex girlfriend is a pure narcissist. Selfish and unconcerned about others even when she causes them life threatening problems. Once discovered, such people are best as ex.
kissmychakram 7 months ago
NTA, severe allergies are nothing to trifle with. Off topic: anyone else being continually asked by BP for their marketing preferences? I'm asked every time I open a new page. I'm beginning to think they don't like my "reject all".
heather jamieson 6 months ago
Wtf is wrong with people who don't take other people's medical problems seriously? I'd love to sic anaphylaxis on every one of them and watch them enjoy feeling their throat swelling so badly they can't beathe and then enjoy the hours of panic inducing racing hearts from the epinephrine given to open airways.
thecellardooropens 7 months ago
To whomever needs to hear this. You have the right to feel safe in your own home. NTA.
Crystalwitch60 7 months ago
Thank god she’s the EX she’s one nasty evil selfish pos !! and bloody dangerous with it !!! n your bil deserves far better , I’m so glad you are ok and u all talked it thru , blessed be lovelies x
Michelle C 7 months ago
This is why I reject all house guest...except my daughter...I have never had someone stay with me who didn't try to take advantage of the fact that we were friends or family and didn't break one if not all the ground rules set.
Charlotte 6 months ago
Probably not. I worked with someone who insisted on eating peanut butter at work every morning even though it meant a coworker with allergies was at risk. And I do mean INSISTED
Load More Replies... Inservio Smurf 7 months ago
There needs to be a narcissist register. We register s*x offenders and they do damage on exponentially fewer occasions than manipulative narcissists do. This woman needs to be tracked so her next victim is forewarned.
Lyone Fein 7 months ago
That ex girlfriend is a pure narcissist. Selfish and unconcerned about others even when she causes them life threatening problems. Once discovered, such people are best as ex.
kissmychakram 7 months ago
NTA, severe allergies are nothing to trifle with. Off topic: anyone else being continually asked by BP for their marketing preferences? I'm asked every time I open a new page. I'm beginning to think they don't like my "reject all".
heather jamieson 6 months ago
Wtf is wrong with people who don't take other people's medical problems seriously? I'd love to sic anaphylaxis on every one of them and watch them enjoy feeling their throat swelling so badly they can't beathe and then enjoy the hours of panic inducing racing hearts from the epinephrine given to open airways.
thecellardooropens 7 months ago
To whomever needs to hear this. You have the right to feel safe in your own home. NTA.
Crystalwitch60 7 months ago
Thank god she’s the EX she’s one nasty evil selfish pos !! and bloody dangerous with it !!! n your bil deserves far better , I’m so glad you are ok and u all talked it thru , blessed be lovelies x
Michelle C 7 months ago
This is why I reject all house guest...except my daughter...I have never had someone stay with me who didn't try to take advantage of the fact that we were friends or family and didn't break one if not all the ground rules set.
Charlotte 6 months ago
Probably not. I worked with someone who insisted on eating peanut butter at work every morning even though it meant a coworker with allergies was at risk. And I do mean INSISTED
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