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Your wedding day is meant to be one of the happiest days of your life.
But for this woman, 15 months of planning nearly fell apart just an hour before the ceremony. That’s when she found out the caterers had the wrong date and weren’t coming. No chairs. No tables. No food. Nothing.
It could have been a complete disaster. Instead, with the help of her family and friends, she turned chaos into a day she’d never forget.
Read on to see how they pulled it off.
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So much goes into preparing a dream wedding: the outfits, the music, the location, the food, the entertainment, the aesthetic of it all.
And in the whirlwind of stress on the day itself, it’s honestly a wonder if everything goes according to plan.
In fact, according to one UK survey, 30% of married couples said something went wrong on their wedding day.
Though, chances are, they didn’t face a disaster like the bride at the center of this story—props to her for handling it all like a pro.
You can’t predict what forces of the universe might try to trip you up, but you can try to minimize potential damage. Here’s how, according to experts.
Wedding photographer Tori Parker says to first accept that your wedding will most likely be chaotic.
Instead of stressing over every little detail, try to embrace the chaos and remember why you’re getting married. That mindset will take off some of the pressure to be perfect.
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Singapore Brides recommends planning for unforeseen circumstances as much as possible ahead of time.
This includes using checklists to stay organized and on track with tasks and deadlines.
“Don’t forget to create a detailed timeline of your wedding day, from setup to ceremony and reception, with names and contact details of the vendors required, and share this with the key parties involved in overseeing the coordination on the day of,” they say.
Parker also recommends having backup plans for things outside your control.
For example, weather is one of the biggest variables. You might book your venue a year or more in advance, but you can’t guarantee sunshine.
“Talk to your vendors ahead of time about plans so you’re prepared for any curveballs that come your way,” she says.
If there’s anything the bride in this story taught us, it’s the power of flexibility.
Parker agrees it’s one of the most important parts of your wedding day.
“Things may not go exactly as planned, but being able to adapt and go with the flow will make the day much more enjoyable. It’s all about attitude—if you approach the unexpected with a positive mindset, it’ll be much easier to handle,” she says.
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They arguably provided at least 25% of service, HOWEVER, OP should also get reimbursement from expenses caused by their error- such as the extra money for the violinist to stay longer, the liquor store run, etc.
Simple answer really. The catering company likely didn't just handle food or the dinner, but other aspects of the dinner. If the bride tries to sue, then in court she's going to have to quantify to a judge every single dime, and any lawyer worth their pay is going to quickly shoot down her arguments, because she's going to have to prove that everything was wrong and nothing pleased her. However, if they can demonstrate photos and proof that the bride looked happy on the day, they can easily argue that she doesn't deserve a full refund, and honestly? A judge would side against her.
The catering company made a simple, but huge mistake. It sounds like they did everything they could when they learned of the mistake. Well done to them for doing their best to fix it. And exceptionally well done to everyone who rallied round and made sure the wedding was a success. Hope the marriage is as successful.
They arguably provided at least 25% of service, HOWEVER, OP should also get reimbursement from expenses caused by their error- such as the extra money for the violinist to stay longer, the liquor store run, etc.
Simple answer really. The catering company likely didn't just handle food or the dinner, but other aspects of the dinner. If the bride tries to sue, then in court she's going to have to quantify to a judge every single dime, and any lawyer worth their pay is going to quickly shoot down her arguments, because she's going to have to prove that everything was wrong and nothing pleased her. However, if they can demonstrate photos and proof that the bride looked happy on the day, they can easily argue that she doesn't deserve a full refund, and honestly? A judge would side against her.
The catering company made a simple, but huge mistake. It sounds like they did everything they could when they learned of the mistake. Well done to them for doing their best to fix it. And exceptionally well done to everyone who rallied round and made sure the wedding was a success. Hope the marriage is as successful.
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