Man Throws A Tantrum After His Own Parrot Chooses His Sibling, Refuses To Admit He’s The Problem

Owning a pet is kind of like signing up for a life-long unpaid internship where your boss is a tiny, demanding dictator with feathers, fur, or scales. They need food, entertainment, and attention 24/7, and if you mess up, they will make sure you know it. Yet somehow, people still underestimate just how much work goes into keeping these little creatures happy.

For one Redditor’s brother, owning a highly intelligent African Grey parrot meant skipping out on the basics, like toys or entertainment. And when the bird inevitably bonded with someone who did provide those things, the drama took flight.

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Pet ownership isn’t just for cute Instagram moments; it’s a full-time job with a tiny but demanding boss

Parrot perched indoors, illustrating pet parent dynamics.

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One man asked his sibling to watch his pet parrot for 1 month while he was on his honeymoon, but got mad when the bird liked his sibling more

Text conversation about a parrot preferring one sibling over the other, highlighting pet parenting issues.

Text about a man not buying toys for his parrot, considering it a waste of money, highlighting being a bad pet parent.

A playful parrot interacts with rings, showcasing its preference in this pet parent scenario.

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The man thought bird toys were a waste of money, so he didn’t have any, but the sibling bought some and played with the bird, which made her like them a lot

Text about a person's efforts to improve bond with a parrot using toys from a pet shop.

Text detailing a man upset about his parrot preferring his sibling due to toys and affection strategies.

Text reads someone's realization of being mean to a sibling over a parrot preference.

Man smiling with a parrot on his shoulder, indoor lighting, addressing pet parenting.

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The man was upset with his sibling because the bird ended up preferring them over him, saying they “bribed” the bird with toys

Text discussing African Greys needing stimulation to avoid boredom and depression, surprising a pet owner.

Text expressing feelings about becoming a parrot owner after sibling drama.

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The man understood he was not able to properly care for such a pet, so he decided to give the parrot to his sibling

Our poster’s brother went off on his honeymoon, leaving his beloved parrot in the care of his sibling for a month. The OP (original poster), being a reasonable human, asked the very valid question: “Where are her toys?” To which the brother casually replied that toys are a waste of money, so the bird didn’t have any.

Now, anyone who knows anything about African Greys knows they’re basically tiny feathery geniuses with attitude. They need constant mental stimulation, or they’ll start turning their frustration into destruction or, in some cases, develop a habit of cursing like a sailor.

Probably one of the smartest birds in the world, African Greys are capable of learning over 1000 words and even speaking sentences in the correct context. Well, that’s better than some folks I know.

These birdies require constant mental stimulation, like puzzle toys, foraging games, and plenty of human interaction. Without these, they can get bored and start plucking their feathers or mimicking the most unfortunate phrases they overhear. Treat them well, and they might just love you back… or at least tolerate you.

Our OP, sensing the bird’s boredom, did the logical thing – went to a pet store and bought some fun enrichment toys. And wouldn’t you know it? The parrot started warming up to the OP, even allowing some rare cuddles. When the brother returned home, he was expecting his parrot to greet him like a long-lost love. But instead, the bird decided that the OP was the superior human.

Man at a bar looking frustrated while talking to another, upset about being a bad pet parent.

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Brother dearest was not pleased. In fact, he was downright salty, accusing the OP of bribing the parrot with toys. The OP, in an unfiltered moment of truth, basically told him that maybe if he had bought her some toys, she’d actually like him. Effective? Yes. A little harsh? Also yes.

After the OP showed their brother some articles about the importance of enrichment, a light bulb finally went off in his head. Realizing he was totally unprepared for the high-maintenance needs of an African Grey, he decided to hand over the bird to the OP permanently. And just like that, the OP went from temporary bird-sitter to full-time parrot parent. At least they did their research and knew what pet ownership meant.

I get it, having a pet is a lot of fun, but before you impulsively bring home a pet because it looks cute, take a moment to think, and I mean really think. Pets aren’t decorative throw pillows; they’re living, breathing creatures that need proper care.

The pros suggest researching the species you’re interested in. Know their diet, space requirements, and any quirks they might have, like whether they’ll scream at you for attention.

But never assume a pet will fit your lifestyle just because it’s small. A parrot might be tinier than a dog, but it comes with the personality of a diva and the lifespan of a grandparent. And most importantly, don’t neglect their emotional needs—because trust me, a neglected pet will find a way to make you regret it.

So, pet lovers, what do you think of this story? Share your thoughts and fun pet stories in the comments below!

Netizens side with the sibling, saying they are not a jerk for buying toys for the bird, making the pet like them more

Comment criticizing pet parent for not enriching parrot's environment.

Comment discussing parrot preferring sibling over owner due to attention and care.

Reddit comment discussing pet parent being unkind to a parrot preferring a sibling, mentioning bribery with toys and being nice.

Comment discussing that parrots prefer attentive pet parents, mentioning African grey parrots' need for stimulation.

Reddit comment discussing responsible pet parenting regarding parrot care and stimulation.

Reddit comment discussing parrot affection and questioning pet care.

Text from a forum discussing a man's issues as a bad pet parent.

User comment discussing neglectful parrot pet parent and advice on bird care.

Reddit comment about parrot care and pet parenting advice.

Reddit comment about African grey parrots, mentioning their intelligence and criticizing poor pet care.

Reddit comment discussing keeping a parrot and criticizing a pet parent's attitude towards toys.

Comment questioning the care and interaction of a pet bird by a sibling, implying they are a bad pet parent.

Text discusses African Greys choosing favorite humans, causing frustration for a pet owner.

Comment discussing parrots as intelligent pets with mention of toys and financial responsibility.

Comment about a pet parrot emphasizing it's a living creature, not a decoration.

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