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“All Color Left Their Faces”: Woman Claps Back At Teens Laughing Because She Was Buying Candy
“All Color Left Their Faces”: Woman Claps Back At Teens Laughing Because She Was Buying Candy“All Color Left Their Faces”: Woman Claps Back At Teens Laughing Because She Was Buying Candy
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“All Color Left Their Faces”: Woman Claps Back At Teens Laughing Because She Was Buying Candy

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Adult obesity has more than doubled since 1990, while adolescent obesity has quadrupled. The World Health Organization revealed that around 2.5 billion adults were overweight globally in 2022. 890 million of them were considered obese. Obesity is considered a disease. And in America, around 40% of  adults are living with it.

One of them shared how they suffer from chronic depression, and sometimes turn to food for comfort. When a group of mean teenage boys recently laughed at them for buying a bunch of sweets at the supermarket, the overweight shopper refused to take it lightly. They clapped back with a clever comment that gave the kids food for thought, and left them more than a little shocked. Hopefully, it’s also taught them a lesson in why it’s better to be kind than cruel.

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    When an overweight shopper was taunted by a bunch of mean teens, they decided to teach the boys a lesson

    Text exchange about teens laughing at a woman buying candy.

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    Text discussing eating habits and coping mechanisms, acknowledging a BMI of 30 and working on improvement.

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    “Obesity is a disease, not a behavioral choice”: an expert explains

    Body Mass Index or BMI is a measure of someone’s body fat based on their height and weight. Your BMI tells you whether you are at what’s considered a healthy weight or not. To calculate it, you take your weight in kilograms, divide it by your height in meters squared, and round it off to one decimal place.

    You’ll fall into one of five categories. Anything under 18.5 is underweight, while normal weight is 18.5–24.9. If your BMI is 25–29.9, you’re considered overweight. And if it’s above 30, you fall into the obesity category. A BMI of 40 or more means you have severe obesity.

    The World Health Organization notes that obesity is “a chronic complex disease defined by excessive fat deposits that can impair health.” The organization adds that obesity can cause a range of other health issues like increased risk of type 2 diabetes, heart disease, certain cancers, decreased bone health and reproduction.

    Obesity also affects the daily lives of those living with it. Sleeping, and even moving around, can become a burden. But experts say people don’t just wake up one day and decide to be overweight or have obesity.

    Dr. Ania Jastreboff from Yale has been studying obesity extensively, and is an international leader in the field. She says obesity is a disease, and not a behavioral choice.

    Jastreboff believes people with obesity have not been treated properly in the past. “If a patient has diabetes or hypertension, we provide them with treatment options, including medications, and recommend lifestyle changes,” said the expert. “But for individuals with obesity, for years we’ve been saying to eat less and exercise more, without giving patients the tools to target the pathophysiology of their disease.”

    She adds that doctors need to treat patients with obesity the same way they treat patients with any other chronic disease. “We need to provide patients with options and treatment tools that target the biology of obesity while serving as guides on their health journey.”

    The expert is optimistic that times are changing when it comes to obesity treatments. “Many developments are underway, including medications that can decrease fat mass while preserving or maybe even increasing lean mass,” said Jastreboff. “By treating one disease, obesity, we can treat or prevent 200 others, and, in so doing, transform the health and lives of our patients.”

    “Not all heroes wear capes. Some buy lots of candy”: netizens praised the shopper for the way they handled the situation

    Reddit thread discussing a woman clapping back at teens, mentioning a cancer diagnosis scenario.

    Comments supporting a woman's clap back at teens with candy purchase.

    Discussion about favorite candy with a focus on dark chocolate and sweet tart ropes.

    Comments reacting to a woman clapping back at teens for mocking her candy purchase.

    Online users discuss hurt caused by making fun of others, highlighting emotional impact and empathy.

    Comments discussing experiences at the gym, highlighting issues with rude individuals.

    Reddit discussion about a woman buying candy, addressing teens laughing at her purchase.

    Reddit comments about overcoming depression and dealing with jerks, related to buying candy as a coping mechanism.

    Discussion about depression and its perception, highlighting its impact on the brain and body.

    Comment exchange about sweet revenge and eating chocolate while procrastinating.

    Text exchange discussing a woman clapping back at teens, mentioning winter and health.

    Reddit comments discussing teens learning a lesson about sensitivity towards serious illnesses.

    Reddit exchange about cancer, showing a conversation on empathy and sickness.

    Reddit comments discussing a woman's response to teens laughing at her for buying candy.

    Reddit conversation about depression snacking and therapy, mentioning diabetes and psychiatric care.

    Reddit comments discussing buying and eating chocolate candy.

    Reddit comment discussing depression as cancer, mentioning kids, cruelty, and judging strangers.

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    Susical
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had my 1st depressive episode at age 11. I find that most people who say, "Just do this... just do that..." are trying to share what worked for them in a SITUATIONAL depression. What these people don't realize is that CLINICAL DEPRESSION is a whole other animal. Telling someone in a deep, clinical depression to "just go take a walk" is like putting a band-aid on a gunshot wound.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have tinnitus which is mostly easy to ignore but it was really bad a year or so ago and someone told me just to go for a walk to help relax. Right, because I can just leave the screeching siren sound in my ears at home, why didn’t I think of that before?? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I applaud OP putting those little a**h**les in their places. We have NO idea what other people are dealing with. What if those teens harass someone who's at the end of their rope? What if the person has a gun? Would those be "funny" enough to rag on someone? #TikTokBrainRot

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    Hilzillah
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don’t need to tell a fat person they are fat… They know… they are fat, not stupid.

    James King
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of them are really stupid, too. Law of averages and such.

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    Lailu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m all for clapping back at fat-shaming but I dunno, falsely claiming cancer seems a bit tacky to me personally. I’d stick with the “I can lose weight, but you’ll still be a s****y person” line myself.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to get bullied in school and would hit them with the "I can change, you're an a**hole" line often, all it did was make them laugh more at me. It's arguably the high road as far as clapbacks go but not very effective.

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    rqg4nndwsj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obesity caused by compulsive, emotional eating is as much a disease as alcoholism and d**g addiction. The difference is you can't quit eating like you can quit drinking or doing d***s.

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago

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    The thing about all three of those is how much you have.

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    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know people who enjoy commenting rudely about another person's food especially if they are outside of the body norm. It's like "mind your own business". Simple.

    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone with a mother and a sister with body image disorders and watched them go through that and still deal with it, I get really upset when someone comments on anyone's food, food choices, or the way they eat (unless they're displaying horrible table manners). I had a couple of friends who would aways comment on what I ordered, how I ate, and how fast/slow I ate. it was a constant commentary on my meal. I made the mistake of taking my sister with me one time, and she got really upset because it triggered her body image disorder, and she never wanted to go out with them again. That was it for me. I don't let anyone make comments like that. No one should comment on what others do unless it's supportive and positive, and even then, not everything requires a comment. Most things don't.

    Ash
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recently had to change my PCP because even after I told him I did not want to discuss diet or weight, he kept mentioning it at EVERY APPOINTMENT.... 🤦‍♀️ Like, I come to the doctor to get healthier, not more neurotic.

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    Ron Man
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not really sure what happened here or why any of it was worth mentioning. So the OP was buying a lot of candy and some teens were laughing about it, and she decided to tell them they were going to buy candy when they found out they had cancer? This whole thing is odd.

    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s rude in a way to make up a cancer story because they were too embarrassed to tell the truth or ignore the children

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    n75mk9nk2n
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has nothing to do with them being teens. 'Some PEOPLE have the tendency to be nasty and think little of the impact of their words or actions' regardless of their age. And those people need to be immediately shut down.

    Cora Van der Gaag
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don’t think about it because they don’t care. It is not important to them.

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    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those entitled tw@ts will shrug off their embarrassment as soon as they leave the scene... Teenagers are renowned for their inflated egos, low impulse control and mistaken self-concept of invincibility.

    Pamacious
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh. If you hadn't specified teenagers, I'd have thought you were talking about men. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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    Susical
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had my 1st depressive episode at age 11. I find that most people who say, "Just do this... just do that..." are trying to share what worked for them in a SITUATIONAL depression. What these people don't realize is that CLINICAL DEPRESSION is a whole other animal. Telling someone in a deep, clinical depression to "just go take a walk" is like putting a band-aid on a gunshot wound.

    CanadianDimes
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have tinnitus which is mostly easy to ignore but it was really bad a year or so ago and someone told me just to go for a walk to help relax. Right, because I can just leave the screeching siren sound in my ears at home, why didn’t I think of that before?? 🤦🏻‍♀️

    Load More Replies...
    Janelle Collard
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I applaud OP putting those little a**h**les in their places. We have NO idea what other people are dealing with. What if those teens harass someone who's at the end of their rope? What if the person has a gun? Would those be "funny" enough to rag on someone? #TikTokBrainRot

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    Hilzillah
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You don’t need to tell a fat person they are fat… They know… they are fat, not stupid.

    James King
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of them are really stupid, too. Law of averages and such.

    Load More Replies...
    Lailu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m all for clapping back at fat-shaming but I dunno, falsely claiming cancer seems a bit tacky to me personally. I’d stick with the “I can lose weight, but you’ll still be a s****y person” line myself.

    Angie May
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to get bullied in school and would hit them with the "I can change, you're an a**hole" line often, all it did was make them laugh more at me. It's arguably the high road as far as clapbacks go but not very effective.

    Load More Replies...
    rqg4nndwsj
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Obesity caused by compulsive, emotional eating is as much a disease as alcoholism and d**g addiction. The difference is you can't quit eating like you can quit drinking or doing d***s.

    Nikole
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    The thing about all three of those is how much you have.

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    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know people who enjoy commenting rudely about another person's food especially if they are outside of the body norm. It's like "mind your own business". Simple.

    Mark Childers
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone with a mother and a sister with body image disorders and watched them go through that and still deal with it, I get really upset when someone comments on anyone's food, food choices, or the way they eat (unless they're displaying horrible table manners). I had a couple of friends who would aways comment on what I ordered, how I ate, and how fast/slow I ate. it was a constant commentary on my meal. I made the mistake of taking my sister with me one time, and she got really upset because it triggered her body image disorder, and she never wanted to go out with them again. That was it for me. I don't let anyone make comments like that. No one should comment on what others do unless it's supportive and positive, and even then, not everything requires a comment. Most things don't.

    Ash
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I recently had to change my PCP because even after I told him I did not want to discuss diet or weight, he kept mentioning it at EVERY APPOINTMENT.... 🤦‍♀️ Like, I come to the doctor to get healthier, not more neurotic.

    Load More Replies...
    Ron Man
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not really sure what happened here or why any of it was worth mentioning. So the OP was buying a lot of candy and some teens were laughing about it, and she decided to tell them they were going to buy candy when they found out they had cancer? This whole thing is odd.

    PeepPeep the duck
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it’s rude in a way to make up a cancer story because they were too embarrassed to tell the truth or ignore the children

    Load More Replies...
    n75mk9nk2n
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has nothing to do with them being teens. 'Some PEOPLE have the tendency to be nasty and think little of the impact of their words or actions' regardless of their age. And those people need to be immediately shut down.

    Cora Van der Gaag
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They don’t think about it because they don’t care. It is not important to them.

    Load More Replies...
    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those entitled tw@ts will shrug off their embarrassment as soon as they leave the scene... Teenagers are renowned for their inflated egos, low impulse control and mistaken self-concept of invincibility.

    Pamacious
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Huh. If you hadn't specified teenagers, I'd have thought you were talking about men. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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