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“A Way To Control Her”: Guy Refuses To Propose To His Girlfriend After He Said He Would, Explains Why
Everyone has their own outlook on whether or not they plan to get married but one way or another, they should be in a relationship where both parties agree. Ultimatums might be a powerful negotiation tool, but they are not the bedrock of a lasting partnership.
A man asked the internet if he was wrong to tell his GF that he had no intention of proposing anymore after overhearing how she planned to manipulate him into it. We reached out to the netizen who made the post via private message and will update the article when he gets back to us.
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So one man decided to tell his GF that he wasn’t going to propose after overhearing her plan
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A few readers thought he had led her own
Some thought they both needed to communicate better
Others took his side
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Tamra 48 minutes ago
I wish more women felt empowered to forego the tradition of waiting for the man to propose. If you know what you want, just say it. Have a conversation and move forward. Don't leave the timeline of your life in someone else's hands, especially if you both aren't on the same page.
The_Nicest_Misanthrope 2 hours ago
Doesn't sound like either of them are mature enough for marriage
KatSaidThat 2 hours ago
ESH - you for stringing her along, her for trying to push it. Are either of you actually ready for marriage?
Tamra 48 minutes ago
I wish more women felt empowered to forego the tradition of waiting for the man to propose. If you know what you want, just say it. Have a conversation and move forward. Don't leave the timeline of your life in someone else's hands, especially if you both aren't on the same page.
The_Nicest_Misanthrope 2 hours ago
Doesn't sound like either of them are mature enough for marriage
KatSaidThat 2 hours ago
ESH - you for stringing her along, her for trying to push it. Are either of you actually ready for marriage?
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