Woman Informs Her Boss That Her Sister Is Dying And She Won’t Come To Work, She Responds With Passive-Aggressive Messages
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We hear about toxic workplaces every day. But this story from digital creator Hillary Zinks has shown just how truly rotten they can be. It all started when Hillary was out working on a set when she got a call that her sister had been declared brain dead. “She was completely unresponsive and the nurses were looking for next of kin to make decisions on her behalf if need be. I was broken-hearted, frozen. I didn’t even have time to register all of this before deciding to leave to be with her,” Hillary told the press.
Hillary immediately informed the department head of the TV series about her situation, who was completely understanding. The other boss from her second job, however, seemed to be less than impressed when Hillary told her she was not able to show up to work due to this terrible medical emergency her sister was having.
So she shared a series of screenshots from the chat with her boss in a TikTok video, and they created a real stir on the platform. You can’t help but wonder how on earth this has become normal for employers to put money first and never stop thinking of themselves in situations where real lives are in danger. Scroll down through the whole story right below and be sure to share your thoughts in the comment section.
Recently, Hillary shared an eye-opening story about how her boss got upset over her not being able to come to work because her sister was dying
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Hillary works between two jobs, and the boss in the first job couldn’t have been more supportive upon hearing the tragic news
However, the boss in Hillary’s second job, where she worked as a server, had a very different reaction
Bored Panda reached out to Hillary Zinks, a makeup and effects artist whose story has recently gone viral. We spoke with her to find out more about this whole situation she shared on TikTok. When asked whether her boss’ reaction to Hillary not being able to come to work due to her sister dying in the hospital was surprising, she said it definitely was.
The author also shared a couple of screenshots from the chat with her boss
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“I actually really liked that supervisor prior to all of this. She was the only one who had interest in my outside life and would ask questions about my other career and my studio and my likes and interests. I’m really sad how it all went down,” Hillary said and added that she didn’t expect her to say that at all. “I thought she would be very empathetic and understanding.”
Understandably, Hillary was pretty shocked to see how upset her boss was because she was not able to show up for work
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As Hillary was still driving to the hospital, she said she was still fuming from their interaction. “I came up with the plan before I got to the hospital and then I was smiling because I know my sister would have gotten such a kick out of how I was going to quit!”
“She was crazy, possibly even crazier than me,” Hillary said about her sister who sadly passed away that weekend.
So when Hillary got to the hospital, she decided to do what would make her sister proud and this is the brilliant response she sent the boss as she quit
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Meanwhile, Hillary said her manager was way more empathetic. “He not only understood why I quit when I told him, but he even invited me to come back to work because that supervisor was forced to quit after all that,” she said.
Here is the full video of Hillary’s story that she shared on TikTok
@hillary.zinksthis gets good. Wait until the end.♬ original sound – Hillary Zinks
In a follow-up video, Hillary shared her boss’ response
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“I do think it’s common and it’s just sad,” Hillary said, referring to toxic supervisors like hers. “Jobs really think we are put on this earth to make them money and well, news flash, we aren’t. I’ve had a similar experience to this when I myself needed to go to the emergency room during a shift,” she concluded.
The same day Hillary quit, she also gave a ‘0 weeks notice’ to her higher manager and found out that that the boss who got upset over her not coming to work a busy shift no longer works for the restaurant
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Hillary concluded by saying she decided to share this story so that her old boss and any other manager could take a step back and learn a lesson on how to treat their employees right
@hillary.zinksReply to @djsbeercave go watch part one FIRST♬ original sound – Hillary Zinks
And this is how people reacted to the whole incident
Encouraged by Hillary sharing her story, more people stood up to share their own experiences
OK, chiming in from a medical perspective. 1. Grief make s us crazy. 2. Do not use sick people as puppets. WTF. 3. If a business can't cope without one person, then it probably needs to hire *three*. 4. Your medical emergency (be it personal or a loved one's) *always* means you ditch work. People die b/c they don't. End of message. Peace be your day.
It's good that she didn't let her boss step over her but I find it tacky how she used her DYING sister's hand just to make a point. She could have let that part out tbh.
Depends on the person to be honest. My mother would have found it hilarious (when she was dying) she would've appreciated it more if I made her middle finger stand up. However, I have other relatives who wouldn't have approved if done with them. So long as you stick with who the person is, I think you're ok.
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I didn't like the bit where she used her sisters hand to flip someone off. Not good.
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OK, chiming in from a medical perspective. 1. Grief make s us crazy. 2. Do not use sick people as puppets. WTF. 3. If a business can't cope without one person, then it probably needs to hire *three*. 4. Your medical emergency (be it personal or a loved one's) *always* means you ditch work. People die b/c they don't. End of message. Peace be your day.
It's good that she didn't let her boss step over her but I find it tacky how she used her DYING sister's hand just to make a point. She could have let that part out tbh.
Depends on the person to be honest. My mother would have found it hilarious (when she was dying) she would've appreciated it more if I made her middle finger stand up. However, I have other relatives who wouldn't have approved if done with them. So long as you stick with who the person is, I think you're ok.
Load More Replies... I didn't like the bit where she used her sisters hand to flip someone off. Not good.
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