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“The Ickiest Ick”: 30 Male Behaviors That Instantly Ruin Their Chances At Romance
Everyone has their own set of dating standards. There are specific traits and behaviors that we classify as major turn-ons. On the flip side, we have a list of “ick” factors that instantly incinerate the slightest chance of a budding romance.
Today, we’re focusing on the women and the actions men showed that they were immediately repulsed by. While most of these are shallow, laughable, and bordered on downright weird, some were valid enough and worthy of online attention.
These are responses we’ve collected from a recent TikTok post. Ladies, feel free to share your experiences in the comments below!
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#1
he voted for trump 💔💔💔
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#2
He said “that’s not how my mom does it”, when I was simply cutting up a bell pepper. GO GET YOUR MOMMY TO CUT IT UP THEN 🤯
#3
saying he didn’t like black people
#4
he told me I couldn't use tampons because it was like I was cheating
Kristin 7 months ago
Wtf?! My ex husband only 3 years thank God but I had my daughter with him and he told my daughter she couldn't use tampons (she's 15) cause it would make her not a vigin anymore smdh then said he didn't want her on birth control (me and my daughter decided on it cause her periods are horrible and would help her) he said it stunts their growth and brain development 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
#5
ate an apple at 11 pm and he said “you’re still eating???” Blocked him the next day
#7
he told me being on my period was gross and would ignore me or say "don't talk to me until you're done bleeding"
Nathan Lewis 7 months ago
just nick your finger whenever he tries to talk to you. "sorry babe, can't talk, I'm bleeding"
#8
he seriously showed me a youtube video explaining how the earth was flat….
#9
He decided to wear slides no socks first time we hung out alone and he had yellow nails that CURLED OVER THE CHANCLAS BRO
#11
he did baby talk constantly. especially when i was mad at him. “you’re mads at mes :(“ yes dude you just told me you hope my dog dies
JayhawkJoey 7 months ago
I'm going with saying he hoped your dog dies as ickier, although both are 🤮
#12
he faked jumping out his window. his “mom” texted me from his phone saying he was being rushed to the er and was going into surgery. he kept this act on for so long. he lives in a ONE STORY HOUSE
#13
he got so mad he ripped his car bumper off mid tantrum over me not wanting to hangout with his (toxic) friends 💀
#14
“I want you to act, submit, and dress like my mom. I feel like we wouldn’t be fighting as much.” Like WHAT.
#15
he started crying because i didn’t let him go through my phone ON THE FIRST DATE 😭
#16
when my dad died he told me that he could fill that role bruh💔🥀
#17
1st date with a guy who had his own makeup removers and proceeded to wipe off my makeup without consent at a public restaurant.. he liked his girls “natural”
#18
He mansplained mansplaining.
#19
SOBBED in my lap after I found out he got another girl pregnant (with twins) saying “this is what I’ve been dealing with all summer”.. meanwhile.. I was going through chemotherapy lol 🥲👩🏼🦲
Kristin 7 months ago
Ok, why do guys say that bs?! "Dealing with this" it's like a bother. You chose to lay down with that person and don't use protection but when she comes back pregnant, they are always sorry or the "this is too much" wasn't too much when you laid down with them!!! To OP bless her heart, i hope she is in remission and left that d****e bag.
#20
Told me he’s married, but they’re not serious.
Dragon mama 7 months ago
Of course not, how obtuse of you to think that this legally binding relationship is anything more than a fling 🙄
#21
he said the wanted to "change me" while i was on my period and tried to force me to call him dad
#22
he said “i’ve been a bad bad boy” whenever i confronted him for cheating on me 💜
#23
Pouting. He literally put his hands behind his back bent his knees and puckered his lips and fr pouted saying I’m sowwy. He wasn’t joking either.
#26
Called his mum mid date to ask for money
#27
I complimented his mom and he looked at me weird and said „do you want me or my mom?“ bro can’t I compliment ur mom????
#28
"You are tired after 6 hours of sleep. My mom sleeps 3 and she is always energetic. You must have health issues." "We are not splitting the tip because I don't wanna give them a tip, so it's on you."
#29
when we were eating a pizza at a restaurant he pulled out a hair and used it as dental floss.
#30
he smeared his boogers on the backside of his bed. i found out by accidentally touching it.
#32
he peed in my sink.HE PEED IN MY SINK.
#34
He asked me questions abt my period, but then when i answered them, he said i was wrong?? 😭
#35
his mom cut his steak for him while we were at dinner
#37
When he stopped looking at the road while driving and said he wouldn’t look back at the road until he kissed me
#39
Asked to do father x daughter roleplay.
#40
He was mean to a chipotle worker☹️
#41
In a snap he unironically typed out and sent *sighs cutely*.
#46
he would pick his nose and put his boogers ON ME. 😀
#47
“ur mine, only mine” then he cheated
#48
He called me momma. here is a direct quote. “you are so momma. Can i see a picture momma?”
#50
sing “sorry”by justin bieber to apologize after cheating on me
MicrowaveGoddess 7 months ago
if this happened to me, i would have the most justified crashout
#52
“Turn ur camera on so I can see my beautiful wife” GET OUT OF MY SKINNN (I was 13 at the time 💔)
MicrowaveGoddess 7 months ago
"age is just a number!" Well, prison is just a place, and you have no return ticket.
#56
stomping away in a pair of flip flops
#57
He didn’t want to pay for my food so he said “I’m just a baby… I can pay you in blocks🥺”
#59
made me split the cost of a baja blast.
#61
He said he was a mystery lone wolf.
#62
He spoke in the third person and said “*his name* OUT” to end an argument
#63
When I told my ex my dog just passed away, I just had her put down. I was crying, and heartbroken. He then sent me a picture of his dog and said “my dog is out playing he’s so happy” 🙃
#64
i catched him eating boogers, said to him that it was disgusting and he didn’t even bother and then continues doing it
#68
“im just fighting demons madeleine, you opened pandora’s box and you’re the only one who can close it now.”
MicrowaveGoddess 7 months ago (edited)
get in the box...i definitely won't bury it 6 feet under..
#70
He was playing COD and said “if I scream dw, I just have ptsd.” And proceeded to scream as loud as he could while side eyeing me to see if I was paying attention😃
#71
Storming off in a sully costume on Halloween and watching the tail wag
#73
he got mad i was closer to my bsf of 9 years than him (we dated for 3 months) and said it seemed like i wanted to date her more than him
#74
he went into a depressive episode for 3 days because billie eilish didn’t get a grammy
#75
After he came he said “hot diggity dog!”😭
#77
He showed up to my house in flip flops and then said “sorry kitty my feet stink” to my cat
#78
he laughed and an ungodly amount of boogers came out
#79
he said he dedicated a bruno mars song to me and started singing it. i started laughing and he thought i was giggling out of nervousness. and he said “damn i got u giggling”
#83
He wore the things in your shoes to make you taller
#84
I started a new school I was really nice to this one boy, I gave him bracelets complimented him stuff like that. and he decided compared me to Rasputia from Norbit... 💀
#86
unironically sent me a capcut edit of himself 💔💔
Becky Samuel 7 months ago
Am I just old or is this meaningless? Normally I can't stand grammar and spelling pedants, but why is it so hard to use a capital letter at the start of a sentence? Or a period? Not a fan of the emojis either.
#87
he ordered Victoria secret thongs... for himself
#88
i catched him eating boogers, said to him that it was disgusting and he didn’t even bother and then continues doing it
#89
he called me baby and we were talking for only a week 😭
#91
Uhm he asked my favorite song and then played it on the guitar and sung and it was so bad
Joanna Hayes 7 months ago
Ew. I had one who used to be like, "I'm going to bring my guitar" to MY family functions. He was HORRIBLE and it was super embarrassing.
#92
he refused to open the door for me because “why would he do that” 🤨
#93
he UNIRONICALLY asked me for a Duke Dennis hug.
#94
He wore the sleeves on his hoodie like Ariana grande…and I stayed for 2 years.
#97
he said "please i know you have it in you to give me another chance" and i immediately lost all feelings for him. i could not stop laughing
Lady Eowyn 7 months ago
Capital letters, people. At the start of a sentence. The word "I" should always be capitalized.
#98
he gave me a charlie kirk smile after kissing me
#99
i saw him running in flip flops and his toes were gripping the fronts of the flip flops. i irish goodbyed that one
#101
he wore a night gown to bed.
#102
He had Disney knees when helping me pick up a box from the ground
#104
He wore a fedora unironically
Lost Panda 7 months ago
Um... It's a hat... Maybe he didn't care for your unironic use of a over the shoulder purse
#105
He brought his own bowling ball and shoes to bowling on the first date. I beat him with a score of 85 🙃
#107
ansel elgort shoulder length hair
#108
when he wrote me a song and he can’t sing
What do you think ?
Daniel Atkins 7 months ago
Some were legit reasons but man some made me think good that guy deserves better.
Dragon mama 7 months ago
I can't believe how many times I saw baby talk to baby-like behavior on this list. WT actual F
Dog Mom to Zoe 7 months ago
I had to Google so many of these. Agree, that these requests involving doing things like their mom is off putting and creepy.
SkippityBoppityBoo 7 months ago
My violent ex used to leave his dirty underwear in random places. Like on top of my kitchen counters or under the coffee table. That was bad enough but he also expected me to wash them too!... Erm, dude, nope. I ain't your Momma... If you can't pick up your own grundies then you know where the door is 😘😘😘
Lost Panda 7 months ago
It wasn't until the poll that I realized these were supposed to be shallow. Makes a little more sense on some of them now, but yeah...
Boris Long-Johnson 7 months ago
Anyone got the BP link for “110 things women did that was a turn off” I can’t seem to find it!
Daniel Atkins 7 months ago
Some were legit reasons but man some made me think good that guy deserves better.
Dragon mama 7 months ago
I can't believe how many times I saw baby talk to baby-like behavior on this list. WT actual F
Dog Mom to Zoe 7 months ago
I had to Google so many of these. Agree, that these requests involving doing things like their mom is off putting and creepy.
SkippityBoppityBoo 7 months ago
My violent ex used to leave his dirty underwear in random places. Like on top of my kitchen counters or under the coffee table. That was bad enough but he also expected me to wash them too!... Erm, dude, nope. I ain't your Momma... If you can't pick up your own grundies then you know where the door is 😘😘😘
Lost Panda 7 months ago
It wasn't until the poll that I realized these were supposed to be shallow. Makes a little more sense on some of them now, but yeah...
Boris Long-Johnson 7 months ago
Anyone got the BP link for “110 things women did that was a turn off” I can’t seem to find it!
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