I used to think that entering your thirties would be like putting one foot in the grave. However, after crossing the bridge, the only thing that's changed is I finally feel like an adult. Kinda.
The clichés your relatives have been saying on your birthdays like "you make your own choices" and "be who you want to be" start setting in. You realize the weight of these once empty phrases.
I finally understand that my life is my responsibility, and am making more long-term commitments whether it's my relationships, health, money, or other important things I care about. I'm not saying that I suddenly "got" life. But I actually feel like I'm getting closer to it.
After all, there are still plenty of things in the way. The lack of sleep and stress haven't disappeared. Plus, there are a lot of new ones that weren't here ten years ago too, for example, a mortgage.
Wait, this isn't my diary. For a second there, I forgot I'm writing for Bored Panda. Enough confessions. Let's take a look at "30 And Tired" instead. This meme page captures the decade I'm talking about in a way funnier manner.
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It’s Actually Two Spatulas
I laughed way too hard at this and my laughter turned into tears. This is my life summed up in a nutshell
Might Watch It All In One Sitting Too
That's the gateway drug to binge-watching every season of a whole series in any available free-time for a week and a half solid.
We got in touch with the person behind this hugely successful account (as of this article, "30 And Tired" has over 225k followers), Tyler Mann, and he agreed to tell us more about what goes into managing it, which has become pretty much second nature to him.
"When it comes to finding a meme or an image, it could be from anywhere," Tyler explained to Bored Panda. "Some sources that stand out would be Imgur, Reddit, and other meme accounts that I've communicated with. I'll also think of memes while watching a show or movie or just walking around Target."
This Is Great
Pick One Or The Other Or Neither Preferably
Who Are All You People!?
Raise your hand if you say: 'who the f**k is this?!' with every other contact.
Tyler said that there aren't any fixed criteria that determine if a picture is worthy of a feature; if it makes him laugh or he finds it super relatable to his own life, he'll just post it on the page.
In fact, his personal experiences also make it into the page's feed. "I also use my life and random thoughts or scenarios that pop into my head to create memes and tweets that others might relate to," he said. "I have a pretty sarcastic personality so it makes it pretty easy to find the humor in most situations. Memes have just become the way to express that humor for me."
Massive* Poofy* Paws
Aleve* But Yeah I Took It
It’s Gettin A Little Too Low
It feels as if it would be easier to scroll up from 1900 rather than scrolling down from the current year.
Since the source of the content can be virtually anything, the subject matter is also loose.
"Honestly, the posts about the everyday stress or exhaustion of getting older and dealing with life or a [lousy] job probably get the most traction because we're all experiencing some form of it, especially in our thirties."
"Our thirties are funny, because we join this strange club where no one knows what is going on and we're all trying to figure out how to be adults all while clinging onto the youth of our twenties and I like to find the humor in all of it. Which it turns out, so do a lot of other people!" Tyler said.
Can’t Argue With Science
Our washing baskets go on rotation a lot of the time. Clean clothes in one basket, dirty in the other. You get what you want to wear out of the clean basket and when dirty, put in dirty basket. Wash dirty basket of clothes then put in clean clothes basket and the cycle just continues lol.
*promptly Deletes My Own Cancellation Of Plans Text*
Oh damn, I was really looking forward to going out tonight...no no no don't ask if she can reschedule. We'll just do it another time I suppose. *hangs up*happy dance* oh crap my back!
Yaaaaaaas
Yes! I always feel super anxious right before a thunderstorm and when it's finally happening it feels a lot better. Like your mind is charging up with the weather too. Weird.
Tyler really enjoys when people connect to each other through his content; his favorite comments are of the "I feel seen!" type.
"It's almost like these relatable posts have become a form of therapy or self-validation for all of us."
"Nostalgia posts are also a hit. Anything and everything '90s or early 2000s. Nostalgia posts are probably the most fun because I get a lot of interaction from people in the comments talking about whatever it is I posted and how they shared the same thoughts about it that I had."
Eating More Pizza Is Always Good Advice Though
*Agonize over that one time you said that one stupid thing to that one person who probably doesn"t even know your name lol
You Can Go Buy All The Snacks Right Now And No One Can Stop You
I bought loads of snacks yesterday and then decided to go on a diet… am I adulting right?
Make It Two
Looking at student debts and real estate prices, it's tempting to think that millennials are leading a life nothing like the generations that came before but Tyler thinks deep down we're all the same.
"I only know what being a 30-something is like in present times, but if I had to guess, I would say that all generations have their differences and their similarities."
"I think in your 30s, you're still figuring life out. You still ask yourself so many questions. Should you have gone to college? If you did, did you pick the right major? Did you pick the right career? Is it too late to change careers? Why does my knee always hurt? Do I want kids? And if you have kids, you're trying to figure out what does it mean to be a parent and how to be a good one. Some people are married. Some aren't. If you aren't, maybe you love it. Maybe you think it's too late, and on and on and on it goes," he said.
Go On.. Get
Me touchig the door k**b and hearing a noice in the staircase: I wish they would hurry up so that I can leave too.
Where Are My Bob Saget Ogs
Yet Here You Are
In a previous interview for our list of hilariously true adulting memes, Diana Divecha, Ph.D., who is a Berkeley-based developmental psychologist, focusing on the science of how children, teens, and families grow and develop, told Bored Panda that "developmental scientists consider adulthood to begin when the prefrontal cortex, the front-most region of the brain, finishes developing, at around 25 years of age."
Dr. Divecha pointed out that in WEIRD societies (Western, Educated, Industrial, Rich, Democratic), the on-ramp to adulthood has become very long—a period of about 10 to 15 years. She thinks of 'entering adulthood' as having three phases.
Where Is It All Coming From??????
Okay But Hear Me Out, I’m Not Very Good At Listening To Myself
Me: I'm gonna get up early to work out. Also me: we both know that's a lie.
You Know What I Mean?
I want the comfort of the ocean with the serenity of the forest with the open space of the countryside and the convenience of the city.
"The first phase begins with puberty, when the sex hormones begin their real job, to remodel the brain in order to prepare for adulthood. This is a time when respect from the peer group takes on new importance as nature prepares young people to eventually leave the nest and form new social groups."
"But this can be a bumpy period at first, so it’s helpful for teens to stay open and optimistic, and to have a few different peer groups. It’s also easy to be impulsive in this phase, so cultivating discernment (wise decision-making and action), and taking a moment to think before acting can be helpful, and at times, even life-saving," Dr. Divecha said.
Odd, at 69 I find it a bit difficult to work up any sympathy for thirty-somethings whining about being "old."
Odd, at 69 I find it a bit difficult to work up any sympathy for thirty-somethings whining about being "old."