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Not all days were made equal. You see, while sometimes everything falls according to plan, other days turn into 24-hour-long grueling benders that make you question why you even dared to get out of bed.

Blame it on bad luck, your daily horoscope, Mercury in retrograde, incantations, karma, or anything you want, but it doesn’t change the fact that misfortunes and fails do happen. Think of them as compulsory reality checks that remind us we are mere human beings with little to no control of greater things happening in this world. But philosophy aside, if we can’t change anything, at least we can have a good laugh at it.

Bored Panda has compiled this list of people having a worse day than you so you can feel slightly better today until your fail day comes, and when you’re done with this post, check out our previous features here, here and here with more failure.

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After A Grueling Day At Work Without Food Where I Had To Wait 4 Hours For A Sample To Arrive Which Got Canceled, I Come Home At 7PM To Find All My Stuff In Garbage Bags

After A Grueling Day At Work Without Food Where I Had To Wait 4 Hours For A Sample To Arrive Which Got Canceled, I Come Home At 7PM To Find All My Stuff In Garbage Bags

Turns out the cleaners my landlord sent cleared the wrong apartment.

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It’s only human that things sometimes fall out of our hands. It feels like the world is against you for some unreasonable reason and to call it irritating would be a hefty understatement. But if we can’t change a bad day, we can always change the way we look at it. And here we’re going to need some help from a professional. So to find out more about resilience and the power of positivity, we spoke with Susan Petang, a certified divorce coach and the creator of “The Quiet Zone Coaching,” who teaches people how to stop feeling overwhelmed and start waking up happy in the morning again.

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    In NSW Australia This Poor Woman's House Burnt Down In A Flood

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    The Only Path Back To My Room Blocked By Cute But Incredibly Angry Sea Lions

    The Only Path Back To My Room Blocked By Cute But Incredibly Angry Sea Lions

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    Welp, I Almost Fell Into A Sinkhole Under My Porch. I Caught Myself On The Edge Of The Hole, From My Chest Down Was Just Dangling Beneath Me

    Welp, I Almost Fell Into A Sinkhole Under My Porch. I Caught Myself On The Edge Of The Hole, From My Chest Down Was Just Dangling Beneath Me

    Below the opening, the hole is about 10’ wide and 15’ deep. Fun fact I watched the movie Journey to the Center of the Earth yesterday.

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    The first step towards building mental resilience is instead of viewing these unfortunate moments as "failures" or "misfortunes," view them as learning opportunities, Susan argues. She urges us to think of a couple of things: “What can we learn from this? How can we use this to become a better human being/worker/parent/partner?” and added that crucially, it's a matter of mindset.

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    Paramedics Be Like. Nope

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    Why Is My Watch Stopped? Oh

    Why Is My Watch Stopped? Oh

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    Someone Broke Into My Car To Steal 10 Dollars Worth Of Candy And Toys I Bought To Give To My 4-Year-Old Students

    Someone Broke Into My Car To Steal 10 Dollars Worth Of Candy And Toys I Bought To Give To My 4-Year-Old Students

    "To whoever broke into my car. You caused $400 worth of damage to steal $10 worth of candy and toys from the 4-year-olds I teach. BRUH"

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    It turns out that some people are more naturally resilient than others. “But it's because they learned to think positively at a young age,” Susan said. “Our attitude towards life - the good, the bad, and the ugly - is formed before we go to kindergarten. Positivity isn't about putting your head in the sand and singing 'lalalala' when bad things happen; it's actually just the knowledge that we'll be OK no matter what,” the life coach explained.

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    #8

    Moved To Australia And Was Warned About The Snakes And Spiders. I Give You A Single Ant Bite

    Moved To Australia And Was Warned About The Snakes And Spiders. I Give You A Single Ant Bite

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    #9

    Moving Across The Country In A Few Weeks, Invited My Friends To A Farewell BBQ. All Canceled Or Just Didn't Show

    Moving Across The Country In A Few Weeks, Invited My Friends To A Farewell BBQ. All Canceled Or Just Didn't Show

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    My Essay Got A 0 Because The Person Thought I Copied From The Internet. Turns Out It Was My Own Post Which I Posted Some Hours Later

    My Essay Got A 0 Because The Person Thought I Copied From The Internet. Turns Out It Was My Own Post Which I Posted Some Hours Later

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    According to Susan, positivity and resilience are very closely related. “Positivity is the understanding and belief that you'll be able to bounce back from anything; resilience is when you actually do it.”If your day is going against the plan and you feel like you could blow up anytime, Susan shared some very useful insights on how to put yourself together and get back on track.

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    “I teach my clients to use The Power Questions. It's a great way to interrupt the spiral of emotions when everything is hitting the fan!” They are as follows:

    “How important is this, really? Don't make mountains out of molehills.

    What is something positive and constructive I can do about this? Be solution-oriented instead of blame-oriented.

    What emotions am I feeling right now? By identifying and labeling them, we shrink their power over us."

    #11

    "Time To Go To Bed. What Are Those Dots On My Wall? Oh. Oh No"

    "Time To Go To Bed. What Are Those Dots On My Wall? Oh. Oh No"

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    #12

    Just Baked This Cake And Ate One Piece, Came Back And The Dog Licked The Icing Off As Far As She Could Reach

    Just Baked This Cake And Ate One Piece, Came Back And The Dog Licked The Icing Off As Far As She Could Reach

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    #13

    Bought A PS5 For My Son’s Birthday. Someone At UPS Swapped It Out With A Rock

    Bought A PS5 For My Son’s Birthday. Someone At UPS Swapped It Out With A Rock

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    Susan continued: "What would the person I want to be do right now? What would your hero do? How do you wish you could behave? Well, do that!

    How do I want to feel at the end of the day? Do you want to be embarrassed that you lost your s***, or proud that you did the best you could in a tough situation?

    How does this help me with my goal? What IS your goal right now, anyway? Revenge? To make someone feel bad? Or to solve a problem? Make sure your intention is positive, and do whatever moves you toward that.”

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    I Don’t Paint Often, So I Was Really Proud Of Myself For Remembering To Wear Gloves This Time

    I Don’t Paint Often, So I Was Really Proud Of Myself For Remembering To Wear Gloves This Time

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    #15

    I Was Babysitting My Cousin While Her Dad Was Away On Business. He Told Me Dinner Is In The Freezer. Yum, Battery And Broccoli. Just Like Mom Used To Make

    I Was Babysitting My Cousin While Her Dad Was Away On Business. He Told Me Dinner Is In The Freezer. Yum, Battery And Broccoli. Just Like Mom Used To Make

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    #16

    Someone Left Their Bike Under The Wrong Tree

    Someone Left Their Bike Under The Wrong Tree

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    Susan also reminds us to always ask ourselves what lessons we can learn from this. “Sometimes it might only be that you're a Battle-Tested Warrior and managed to survive, but there is always something. Search for those positives. Focus on those,” she concluded.

    #17

    When The Road Wants To Finish You

    When The Road Wants To Finish You

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    #18

    Had An Air Purifier Running For Over A Year With The Filter Covered In Plastic The Whole Time

    Had An Air Purifier Running For Over A Year With The Filter Covered In Plastic The Whole Time

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    #19

    Was Getting Ready For Bed, Walked Into My Bedroom To This

    Was Getting Ready For Bed, Walked Into My Bedroom To This

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    Japan’s “Killing Stone” Breaks In Half After 1,000 Years. Legend Has It That The Demonic Spirit Trapped Inside Is Now Free To Wreak Havoc On The Land

    Japan’s “Killing Stone” Breaks In Half After 1,000 Years. Legend Has It That The Demonic Spirit Trapped Inside Is Now Free To Wreak Havoc On The Land

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    #21

    Was Wondering How The Dog's Water Bowl Kept Getting Refilled… Welp

    Was Wondering How The Dog's Water Bowl Kept Getting Refilled… Welp

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    #22

    Drove Three Hours To Go To The Grand Canyon

    Drove Three Hours To Go To The Grand Canyon

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    #23

    My Puppy Ate My Passport

    My Puppy Ate My Passport

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    #24

    I’m A High School Teacher And My Apartment Window Just Got Egged. I Thought They Liked Me

    I’m A High School Teacher And My Apartment Window Just Got Egged. I Thought They Liked Me

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    #25

    What It Looks Like To Win A Standard Weekend Day

    What It Looks Like To Win A Standard Weekend Day

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    I've Been Looking For My Glasses For 3 Days. Found Them

    I've Been Looking For My Glasses For 3 Days. Found Them

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    Our Smoke Alarm Caught On First In The Middle Of The Night

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    This Dog Ate My Neighbor's Food Delivery

    This Dog Ate My Neighbor's Food Delivery

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    #29

    I Was Cruising About 50mph, Then The Plastic Snapped

    I Was Cruising About 50mph, Then The Plastic Snapped

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    #30

    Someone's Luggage Just Chilling On The Tarmac - DFW

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    Was Washing A (Very Sharp) Greasy Piping Tip At Work. Slipped Right Onto My Finger Before I Could Stop It

    Was Washing A (Very Sharp) Greasy Piping Tip At Work. Slipped Right Onto My Finger Before I Could Stop It

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    HelloFresh: “One Teaspoon Chili Flakes”

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    Owner Leaves Car Running To Defrost, Man Steals Car, Crashes It

    Owner Leaves Car Running To Defrost, Man Steals Car, Crashes It

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    There Was A Blizzard Last Night So We Decided To Check On Our Car

    There Was A Blizzard Last Night So We Decided To Check On Our Car

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    Do You Know When People Ironically Say They’re Allergic To Work? Apparently, I’m Allergic To My Own Sweat

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    Some Mondays Are Harder Than The Rest

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    What I Asked For vs. What I Got. $400 And I Feel Like An Idiot

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    Recently Tried An Expensive Rental Clothing Subscription. UPS Threw The p****** Of Clothes/Bags Into My Backyard. I Have Two Puppies

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    Left Our Totally Normal House To Run Errands. Came Back An Hour And A Half Later To This

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    Someone’s Laundry Day Was A Bummer

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    #41

    Man Gets Scalped In Broad Daylight

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    #42

    When The Boss Thinks He's A Comedian

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    Scaffolding Smashes Into Big Ben Just Days After £80 Million Makeover Was Revealed

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    The New Jar Of Nutella My Girlfriend Tried To Heat In The Microwave

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