“He Became Single For Christmas”: 40 Of The Worst Xmas Gifts These People Have Ever Received
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Ho, ho, ho, pandas, what did Santa leave for you under the Christmas tree this year? Was it the present that you wanted? Or maybe it was Krampus who visited you and left you with a big pile of disappointment?
In that case, don't be too sad knowing you're in good company. These people from the r/AskReddit community have found some duds under the Christmas Tree too. The user SwirlyStarrs asked netizens to share what's the worst gift they received and the answers ranged from cringy to downright offensive. Perhaps Krampus possesses some people to gift empty boxes and library books that are soon to be due?
We were lucky enough to be able to chat with the person who posted this question on r/AskReddit. SwirlyStarrs agreed to have a brief chat with Bored Panda and tell us more about her reasons for posting this question.
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My ex got me, a 6’3” guy, a women’s medium white hoodie. I was so mad about it. She has a habit of getting others gifts that are really for her. I wore the s**t out of that hoodie. Time to mow the grass, time for the white hoodie. Need to fix the car, yep time for the white hoodie. She was so mad. Glad she’s an ex.
We were pretty poor growing up and my dad got injured on the job. It was the first Xmas since the injury settlement and my parents were having a new two story house built with a chunk of the money. I was twelve at the time and all I wanted and asked for was a guitar. I knew guitars were exspensive so I asked it to be my only gift. Christmas morning my little brother and sister start opening gifts, nice toys, games ect. My first gift was a single wash cloth. Second gift was a single towel. Next was a shower curtin... My mom had used Christmas to redecorate the bathroom for the new home and wrapped each item and just put my name on it. After the third wash cloth I stopped opening gifts and asked if they got me a guitar. They said "no because you'll just get bored of it". I asked if I could exchange the bathroom stuff to buy myself some games of something. I was called ungrateful and hard to shop for. I ended up using my college money to buy a guitar a few months later and my parents refuse to buy me any more gifts for birthdays or xmas because of the inccident so they just give me a card or cash. This was 30 years ago and they still refuse to buy me gifts. I now teach guitar to kids for free and have made a lot of friends playing in bands.
One particularly tough year, many years ago, I was battling cancer, (all good now) hubby worked part time to look after me and the kids so money was super tight.
Hubby and I decided not to do gifts for each other, every thing we saved for Christmas went to the kids and to the meal, there wasn’t much of ‘everything’ to be honest, but we made it work. Kids were young, young kids don’t need much to feel special, so we had that in our favour.
A few weeks before Christmas, We went to a charity dinner for people doing it tough and were all given Christmas gifts. Most people unwrapped it then and there, but we took the gifts home to put under the tree as there wasn’t much of anything under our tree. We waited for Christmas Day, saying it’ll be extra special to wait. It made it look at lot more festive to have more gifts under the tree.
I was delighted to have something wrapped under the tree for us parents, I felt sad that I couldn’t gift hubby anything so this was the next best thing given the circumstances. We didn’t expect much but the mystery and excitement of what they could be added a little Christmas magic for us.
The gift for hubby and I from the charity was our only gifts that year. The day finally came, it was time to unwrap!!!! Hubby got a men’s toiletry set. I got a little pamper set …. Wellllll the packaging said it was filled with bath salts and lotions - but it was empty, yup an empty box.
Someone had either donated it to charity empty, or a volunteer took the products out. Either way, the charity didn’t check to see if the stuff they wrapped actually were ok.
I was so absolutely devastated but faked delight for the kids about the pretty box it came in. I didn’t expect much, but that was nasty! What a way to kick a family when they’re down!!!
The Reddit user SwirlyStarrs tells Bored Panda why she asked other people about their worst Christmas presents. "To be honest, I was inspired by having trouble getting a gift for my grandma. She's so difficult," the Redditor says.
The amount of answers involving horses surprised the author of the post. She even left a comment under one of the posts: "A surprising amount of these stories include horses/ponies." SwirlyStarrs tells Bored Panda that she was somewhat shocked by how many answers there were about horses.
I was the adopted kid so I always lowkey got the bad end of the stick but Christmas 9 years ago was the worst.
My grandparents were loaded, my parents, not so much. My parents told me they couldn’t afford to keep me on a phone plan and come to find out it was because they were on my grandparents phone plan. I really wanted an iPhone 6 so I would finally have a reliable phone when I was working, driving ect, and I was willing to pay my part of the monthly bill, I just needed someone to buy it for me because at 16 I couldn’t get it on my own.
So Christmas comes around and I got a small box wrapped up and it was an iPhone6 box and I was so excited I started screaming and hugging my grandparents, so I ripped it open and inside was a note that said “never judge a book by it’s cover”. I didn’t cry that day but I cried for weeks following. My grandpa recorded it and posted it on Facebook and still, 9 years later, shares it every Christmas for people to laugh at. I don’t remember anything else I got for that Christmas but I do remember my cousins getting a lot of really great stuff from their list that year. It still upsets me, but that’s ok.
Someone in the extended family repeatedly gave me alcohol and shot glasses when it was well known I’d quit drinking. They did it maliciously thinking I’d fall off the wagon. What they didn’t understand was that I quit drinking because it was giving me anaphylaxis. If I started drinking again, it’s not like I’d relapse; I’d die. That s**t gets worse each time.
First Christmas with my dad, his new wife, and her kids. They opened designer handbags, DVD box sets (this was almost 20 years ago), electronics, etc.
I got: a bottle of Herbal Essences shampoo. No matching conditioner.
My sister got: A Hanes 5 pack of granny panties.
My stepmother is…not a nice lady.
Some people feel a lot of pressure during the Christmas season because they feel they have to get the right gift for everyone. The Redditor says that ideally, giving gifts shouldn't be this way.
"I don’t think gifting in and of itself should be a lot of pressure, but it just is sometimes," she admits. "I think it's worth it if the person likes the gift that you spent so much time on." SwirlyStarrs also says she believes she's a good gift-giver. "I love getting people gifts, and I feel like I’m decent at it."
A gift certificate from the spa hotel he was at on Christmas Eve with another woman. I found out because he took me there for breakfast Christmas morning and surprised me saying he had rented us a room so we could enjoy the hot mineral water . When we got to the room it wasn't made up yet so I went to the front desk to let them know. That was when I was informed that they didn't service rooms that were carried over for another day. Yeah, the same room and the same bed he had f****d that wh*re in just hours before. Sick a*****e.
My husband is a guitar player. He gives me music equipment that I don't know the purpose of. Of course it's for him. So since I'm an avid gardener I give him gardening tools for Christmas.
Nothing. One year, we were pretty poor due to my mother's insane spending habits. But she managed to scrounge up enough cash to get my little sisters and little brother a few things. I however, had nothing under the tree. And nothing in the stocking. My mom just acted like it wasn't a big deal, and I should be happy I still had a roof over my head. I was 12. At the family dinner later my mother had a new one ripped in to her by my grandmother when I was asked what I got. So maybe I did get a little something...
Let's face it, when it comes to Christmas presents, we've all received a stinker or two. I, personally, never know how to react without offending the giver. True, in some cases the gift might be so offensive and cruel that you might want the culprit to get some of their own medicine. But what about cases when the person didn't mean to offend and just missed the mark?
My ex husband got me Pyrex portable dishes. Seemed fine. Until the day after Christmas when I went to the bank and discovered those were the free gift when you opened a checking account. Turns out he opened a secret account, too! Wasn’t that sly…
My ex husband was 15 and went for his first Christmas with his s****y father, new stepmother, and her two sons. His dad says, (speaking to the three boys), “Come out to the garage for your big Christmas present!” And there were TWO off-road motorcycles. One for each of HER boys but nothing for him. This pattern repeated throughout the years. I hated his father from day one and if he’s still alive I hope he’s dying slowly of painful cancer.
My husband is an incredible human and talented at many things - but he gave me a truly hilarious gift once! For our very first Christmas together, 2004, we were young and broke (22, in grad school). He was so excited to give me my gift and he presented it proudly in front of my family. He got me a mini sampler of perfumes, a book, and a box of high-end chocolates. These are all great gifts on their own, but ironically, 1.) I’m allergic to most perfumes/colognes, 2.) he had already given me the exact same book a few months earlier for my birthday, and 3.) I’m lactose intolerant.
I was honestly touched by the thought, but the irony was too much - my sister burst out laughing. It’s still a joke in our family, but we were all so charmed by the fact that he’d gone to multiple stores and was so proud. Poor, sweet guy. We’re happily married now…but he definitely knows to avoid chocolate and perfume!
These were good presents from a thoughtful person, only totally unsuitable for you. I'm sure he was mortified, poor thing!
Diane Gottsman, an etiquette expert and founder of the Protocol School of Texas told CNBC that adults should accept unwanted gifts with grace and class. She claims that we're not thanking the person for the item itself. "You’re thanking them for the effort. The gift is secondary. It's the thought and the effort and the love that counts."
I had an ex take me to the mall and dismally demand I “pick something because he didn’t feel like trying to guess what I’d like. We’d been together for seven years. I didn’t pick anything, and a few days later he became single for Christmas.
A one person tent and lantern from my MIL, we were struggling to pay the bills back then and she said, in front of of everyone, "this is in case you guys get evicted". We had 3 kids at the time.
I dated a guy in college for almost six months who was really into civil war history. I bought an old Confederate dollar bill on eBay, went to Michael’s for some cheap fabric backing and a frame, framed it myself. Wrapped it and tied a ribbon around to make a bow.
He gave me a seashell from his family beach trip over the summer. From before we had met, so it wasn’t like “oh, I found this seashell and thought of you” - it was just something he already had knocking about in the back of his closet. Dude was from a wealthy family and he threw money around like it was nothing, but he couldn’t even be bothered to put the seashell in a gift bag.
I broke up with him the next day.
How to react face-to-face depends on your relationship with the giver. If it's not a family member, a simple "thank you" is enough, even if you don't plan on using the gift. If it's someone close to you, you might want to let them know politely.
If it's an item of clothing that doesn't fit, ask them if you can switch it for the right size. Gottsman says you wouldn't be out of line when asking someone you're relatively familiar with.
A taxidermy cat. I was like 9.
I had a grandma who was notorious for giving the worst possible gifts you can think of. So on Christmas Day I go to open the one from her and it’s literally a taxidermy cat. Now, me as a child, I specifically was horrified by taxidermy, I love animals and didn’t understand the whole reasoning behind it. Long story short I opened it up and immediately burst into tears, I was completely traumatized and my parents were so confused on why she would give me that.
Bonus points if it was one of those horrible taxidermies that look like something out of the Pet Sematary
When I was about 10, all I wanted was a VCR. Asked for it all year. My hateful grandmother who raised me put a bedspread in a VCR box. I’m 47 now but I’ll never forget it
What even is the POINT of that? What kind of miserable, sociopathic freak do you have to be to actively enjoy causing happiness and then extinguishing it moments later?
Gottsman also told CNBC that you should write a thank-you note to the person who gave you the gift. Doesn't matter if you think it's useless or bad – you should still thank them for thinking of you and putting in the effort.
After that, etiquette dictates that the item is yours to do with as you please. You can either donate it or re-gift it. Be careful not to hurt anyone's feelings with re-gifting, though. Gottsman has a saying for these instances: "I always say, regift in another city."
Bottle of wine from a friend who knows 100% I don't drink alcohol, especially wine.
On Reddit Secret Santa I spent time and quite a bit of money selecting and sending something cool for my secret Santa.
The person who got me sent a dirty sticker and a ripped piece of paper saying “sorry I forgot to get something and I don’t have money anyway so here’s a sticker don’t be mad”.
Like cool dude - you could’ve backed out and I would’ve been assigned to someone else. I just thought it was kinda inconsiderate and mean.
That IS mean. There are people who offer to step up if someone has to drop out. Although, my first Christmas exchange on Reddit, my original "santa" flaked and so did the replacement santa. On the other hand, I only did the exchanges because it's fun to shop for strangers so I wasn't too bothered.
I was in debate my freshman year, it was a blended grade class. The teacher arranged an optional secret santa for the class. One of the seniors got my name.
Exchange day comes around and I get a $20 gift card to Starbucks. Cool, he didn't know me that well so a gift card was fine.
At the time I'd never had Starbucks so I was happy to try it. Went to get something and found out there was $2.73 left on the card... he literally just gave me his used gift card. D**k.
I got perfume samples, the kind you find embedded in the pages of magazines, and two 99c cans of shaving cream. My stepmonster was irritated I wasn't more appreciative of her "practical" gifts.
My stepsister got a horse.
A set of used, mismatched, still dirty kitchen knives in the box for a nice set of knives from my MIL.
What do you even say to that?
A Christmas card that said "roses are red, violets are blue, youre a jew, so no Christmas for you." Grade 4 truly was a special time.
A kitten. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my cat and I'm so happy I have her. But when my mom got her for me it was a poorly thought-out surprise. It was even a surprise to my grandparents, who I live with, and had no idea they'd be getting a cat in their house. She also didn't provide a litter tray or litter, or cat food. So my Christmas became a fetch quest of trying to get together everything the kitten needed, with all the shops closed.
A blouse my MIL pulled out of her closet. I made her squirm by asking for the receipt so I could exchange it for a different size. She said she must’ve misplaced it. B***h.
Earrings from my boyfriend... when I didn't have pierced ears. And when I saw the box, I thought it was a ring and he was proposing. AND when I reminded him I didn't have pierced ears, he returned them and kept the money.
To be fair, people can be dumb like that. My fiance once guessed my eye color wrong whilst looking at my face, it was a pretty funny brain fart moment.
An empty box, apparently the look on my face as a kid was the present my family needed.
Got a crucifix one year from my grandmother. The same year I told my family I was atheist.
Not me, but my cousins (sisters, aged about 5 and 8) got a small bottle of Johnson's Baby Powder. As a JOINT gift from their great-aunt. SMH. It just smacks of "She's old, Rusty, she and Uncle Louis don't have a lot of money so she takes things from around the house and wraps them up."
A huge bag of disposable pink razors paired with thick off brand pads to open in front of my entire extended family.
A gift card with nothing on it.
Apparently there a huge problem with people stealing gift cards, redirecting the amount on them, and then replacing them on the rack at the store. But it somehow only works once somebody else buys and activates the card. I don’t entirely understand it, but the thread over on reddit is full of other instances.
If this happens to anyone and they believe the person giving the gift is usually a considerate, normal, person than please let the gift giver know. There have been a lot of stories on the news about gift cards being read by skimming machines then put back in the rack. I would want to know if I mistakenly gave any empty card to someone. And if the gift giver is a jerk this still gives the recipient a chance to shame them, "Oh, I've seen those news stories and I thought you would want to know the card you gave me was empty".
Also read the damn instructions! I worked for the service line of an online warehouse. The amount of people calling and complaining that their gift cards didn't work were astonishing and in many cases, you have to activate it before it works. Especially when bought online, the gift code often has to be redeemed for the actual card so the cards can't be skimmed or stolen. Also if you buy a reloadable card it can take several days till the banks process the transfer. So many cards have the explicit instructions that you have to wait a certain time until they're active. At the online shop I was working for the process was 48 hours if paid with bank transfer and 24 hours for credit card.
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Happened to my son - when he was about 10, he got a GC to GameStop as a birthday gift. I swear the parents did it on purpose bc they were jerks. Anyway, he picked out the items at GameStop and when we realized there was nothing on the card, we covered it without our son knowing and had our son send a thank you note anyway.
At least you confused them with the thank you note. :D
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Once saw a twitter post where a guy received a Texas Roadhouse $25 gift card from an enemy of his, he spent $25 at the restaurant and there was only $1 on it.
Gave a gift card with some money on it to the grandson of my late husband. The DIL called a couple days later wanting us to reload it since she used it to buy herself a new pair of shoes to wear to a party. We asked why did she need to use the grandson's gift since we sent her a nice gift card with as much on it, only to find out that she used that up already and it would be nice if we put more money on that one too. We hung up and got the grandson an online gift card and only sent it to him.
A German, meat based cookbook from my now ex mother in law. She knew I had become vegetarian and disapproved. The thing was, I dropped it at Goodwill the following week and a couple weeks after that she asked if she could borrow it.
A ziploc bag of muddy buddies, with fruit flies all over them.
A bag of tortilla chips, they were stale.
Another ziploc bag filled with nail polishes, all old and separating.
Those were all the same person.
A GF at the time was yelling at me about giving her a stupid and thoughtless gift, before tossing their gift at me and stomping away. They gave me a book. A beaten-up, used book. I know it was used because I was the original owner of the book, and had lent it to her months before.
That would be the pair of Christmas socks where they claimed "one sock was for Christmas, and one for my birthday" while laughing hysterically. My birthday is the 24th. A runner up to worst gift was a rubber band ball (i was 16) and it wasn't a gag gift.. tied in place with the book I gave my mom - 2 years later, regifted to me, as she said she didn't want it, and if I didn't either to just throw it away. It was a memory book. I canceled my birthday and only started recently doing holidays again for my kid.
I have a friend whose birthday was on Christmas. People would give her gifts and say ‘this is for Christmas and your birthday’ since she was a kid. Never had the luxury of two gifts a year. I always gave her more stuff.
Not me, but my MIL gifted someone a library book that had to be returned in a week.
Okay SO. I used to work in a library, and someone came to the door JUST as we closed on Christmas Eve and she was frantic, so I opened the door and she said she just had to pick up her holds (reservations). I said "Well we're technically closed, but if you're quick..." so she grabbed her holds, and said "Thanks so much, now I just have to get these wrapped for tomorrow" and yes indeed gentlefolk, she was going to give them as gifts and was NOT happy when I pointed out they were due back in three weeks.
My dad got me a snow shovel and even wrapped it and when I opened it up, he told me to go use it on the driveway.
A half used bottle of bubble bath. Used I know because it had ran down the sides of the bottle and dried.
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My MIL has always been a stingy, miserable person. The Christmas after her mother went into a dementia unit, she wrapped as gifts for everyone items from her mother’s house (glass dishes, ornaments, stuff like that ). She didn’t provide any other gifts (they weren’t hard up for money) which might have made it a BIT more acceptable, but the worst part was the old lady was there. Already a little confused (she had just started with dementia) and not really understanding why she couldn’t “go home “, she was visibly perplexed at seeing people open presents that contained items she knew were her things, from her house. One of the many things for which I have never forgiven my MIL.
My mom and my brother visited me in the early 2000s. She was his favorite, I was anything but. I could tell my mom the sky was blue and she'd tell me I was wrong. Fun life, right? Going out with my brother one night he asked to borrow cologne. I told him that I didn't have any because I hate cologne. My mother accused me of lying because I didn't want to share with him. I invited her to search my bathroom and my bedroom. That Christmas my gift was a really expensive bottle of cologne. Like wtf? I gave it away. People suck when they use gifts to be passive aggressive.
Didn‘t you realise ? You got that, so there would be some for your brother, if he ever visited again! Jokes aside, I‘m sorry you had such a bad Mom. Are you no contact now?
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My husband is a great gift giver, but one year one if my presents was tent stakes. I just laughed and my daughter and I still joke about it. It was really cute though. They were on my wish list, but I use my wish list for stuff I want to buy also, but wouldn't necessarily be good gifts. The worst thing was what my dad did this year though. He bought my nephews something really cool, put a ton of effort into an activity to do with them, and also added another $50 in cash. My daughter got about $20 worth of craft supplies that he texted me about 3 days before. Zero thought. They are all close in age, teenagers or close to. My daughter didn't say anything about it, but it made me really sad.
Boys vs girl? Maybe your Dad did not know what to do with a girl? You know your Dad. Might it have been that? If so, you could just talk to him and tell him what she would have liked
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My step family. They always gave all the kids literally a trash bag full of presents to each kid. There was like 10 kids. I got a baby toy. That's it. I wasn't "family"
Four boxes of chocolates(cheap store ones....not the issue), two exactly the same - one of the others stale. Turned out they were all Christmas presents from people he worked with. Thanks son x
my great aunt gifted my brother the family bible which had been in our family for generations and had a page for recording births and deaths. my gift was Christmas ornaments in a small gift bag that had a dead cockroach in the bottom of the bag. took everything in me not to scream.
The worst Christmas present that I ever GAVE was a used thrift store 3D floral swimming cap from the 50s. I gave it to an ex GF as an insult. I had moved out 10 days after my 18th birthday. My mom immediately asked a girl, that I only dated for 1 month because she cheated on me, to move into my old room. She lived there rent-free for 3 years and even had a baby. I had to see her way too often. My crazy mom was the reason that I moved out ASAP.
My cousin once gifted me a stack of lottery tickets he'd already scratched and didn't have any winnings.
I understand the disappointment as a kid or teen over a bad/wrong gift. Or about no gift at all. As a grown up though we stopped giving gifts to each other in the closest family. The money we save we use e.g. to invite each other for a good dinner out (or a nice home-cooked meal with some good wine) on a regular weekend. Making a normal day special. Or my wife last year surprised me with a city trip to Paris, from the saved money over the past few years. I on the other hand will see that we can have a nice vacation in Italy in spring 2024. We're not Grinches or the Kranks. We have a good meal on Xmas, watch a nice movie. Got some decorations. We just use the saved money for other nice things for each other. No wrong or bad gifts no more. No more stressful shopping. No disappointments.
Yeah. My older sister always got nice brand new stuff from relatives. I got used second hand stuff. At least my mom cared about me. Other relatives couldn't remember that I even existed. I mean that literally.
My ex MIL hated me and my kids, her step-grandchildren. She bought brand new video games for her biological grandchildren, and used tag sale clothing for my kids.
I asked my BIL if his 8 years old daughter had pierced ears, since im thinking of getting her something that's a keepsake. My BIL said they are not from Alabama? Huh? So she's not getting the valuable stuff from good dad's response. Might you, he took ALL of my late MIL's jewelleries including reasons for her daughter. EVERYTHING
The only Christmas I got in 15 yrs with my ex was a pair of work gloves. I did get another random gift once. After a visit to my folks house, he gifted me with a winter hat. MY MOM'S HAT.
There are common threads running through these stories. Stingyness, carelessness and maliciousness.
My husband and I were separated but thinking about getting back together one Christmas. He gave me a very small package and I could feel something shaped like a ring through the paper. I thought maybe he bought me a getting-back-together ring and I couldn't wait to open the gift. Turns out it was an air-freshener shaped like a bear, holding a little plastic ring to hang it from. Not only that, but he left the price tag on it - 10 cents. Believe it or not, this was one of the best Christmas gifts he'd ever given me. I usually got nothing. To say the least, we never did get back together and that was the best gift of all!
My ex was the best gift giver. Once he gave me a box, as well as other things including a mini break to Rome, with a toy car, a letter O sparkly keyring (not my initial), 2 teabags & a tin of peas. I was confused, as you would be and he said, if you put it altogether, it's us as a couple because we go together like peas & carrots (car-O-ts). Bless him, lol.
My MIL has always been a stingy, miserable person. The Christmas after her mother went into a dementia unit, she wrapped as gifts for everyone items from her mother’s house (glass dishes, ornaments, stuff like that ). She didn’t provide any other gifts (they weren’t hard up for money) which might have made it a BIT more acceptable, but the worst part was the old lady was there. Already a little confused (she had just started with dementia) and not really understanding why she couldn’t “go home “, she was visibly perplexed at seeing people open presents that contained items she knew were her things, from her house. One of the many things for which I have never forgiven my MIL.
My mom and my brother visited me in the early 2000s. She was his favorite, I was anything but. I could tell my mom the sky was blue and she'd tell me I was wrong. Fun life, right? Going out with my brother one night he asked to borrow cologne. I told him that I didn't have any because I hate cologne. My mother accused me of lying because I didn't want to share with him. I invited her to search my bathroom and my bedroom. That Christmas my gift was a really expensive bottle of cologne. Like wtf? I gave it away. People suck when they use gifts to be passive aggressive.
Didn‘t you realise ? You got that, so there would be some for your brother, if he ever visited again! Jokes aside, I‘m sorry you had such a bad Mom. Are you no contact now?
Load More Replies... My husband is a great gift giver, but one year one if my presents was tent stakes. I just laughed and my daughter and I still joke about it. It was really cute though. They were on my wish list, but I use my wish list for stuff I want to buy also, but wouldn't necessarily be good gifts. The worst thing was what my dad did this year though. He bought my nephews something really cool, put a ton of effort into an activity to do with them, and also added another $50 in cash. My daughter got about $20 worth of craft supplies that he texted me about 3 days before. Zero thought. They are all close in age, teenagers or close to. My daughter didn't say anything about it, but it made me really sad.
Boys vs girl? Maybe your Dad did not know what to do with a girl? You know your Dad. Might it have been that? If so, you could just talk to him and tell him what she would have liked
Load More Replies... My step family. They always gave all the kids literally a trash bag full of presents to each kid. There was like 10 kids. I got a baby toy. That's it. I wasn't "family"
Four boxes of chocolates(cheap store ones....not the issue), two exactly the same - one of the others stale. Turned out they were all Christmas presents from people he worked with. Thanks son x
my great aunt gifted my brother the family bible which had been in our family for generations and had a page for recording births and deaths. my gift was Christmas ornaments in a small gift bag that had a dead cockroach in the bottom of the bag. took everything in me not to scream.
The worst Christmas present that I ever GAVE was a used thrift store 3D floral swimming cap from the 50s. I gave it to an ex GF as an insult. I had moved out 10 days after my 18th birthday. My mom immediately asked a girl, that I only dated for 1 month because she cheated on me, to move into my old room. She lived there rent-free for 3 years and even had a baby. I had to see her way too often. My crazy mom was the reason that I moved out ASAP.
My cousin once gifted me a stack of lottery tickets he'd already scratched and didn't have any winnings.
I understand the disappointment as a kid or teen over a bad/wrong gift. Or about no gift at all. As a grown up though we stopped giving gifts to each other in the closest family. The money we save we use e.g. to invite each other for a good dinner out (or a nice home-cooked meal with some good wine) on a regular weekend. Making a normal day special. Or my wife last year surprised me with a city trip to Paris, from the saved money over the past few years. I on the other hand will see that we can have a nice vacation in Italy in spring 2024. We're not Grinches or the Kranks. We have a good meal on Xmas, watch a nice movie. Got some decorations. We just use the saved money for other nice things for each other. No wrong or bad gifts no more. No more stressful shopping. No disappointments.
Yeah. My older sister always got nice brand new stuff from relatives. I got used second hand stuff. At least my mom cared about me. Other relatives couldn't remember that I even existed. I mean that literally.
My ex MIL hated me and my kids, her step-grandchildren. She bought brand new video games for her biological grandchildren, and used tag sale clothing for my kids.
I asked my BIL if his 8 years old daughter had pierced ears, since im thinking of getting her something that's a keepsake. My BIL said they are not from Alabama? Huh? So she's not getting the valuable stuff from good dad's response. Might you, he took ALL of my late MIL's jewelleries including reasons for her daughter. EVERYTHING
The only Christmas I got in 15 yrs with my ex was a pair of work gloves. I did get another random gift once. After a visit to my folks house, he gifted me with a winter hat. MY MOM'S HAT.
There are common threads running through these stories. Stingyness, carelessness and maliciousness.
My husband and I were separated but thinking about getting back together one Christmas. He gave me a very small package and I could feel something shaped like a ring through the paper. I thought maybe he bought me a getting-back-together ring and I couldn't wait to open the gift. Turns out it was an air-freshener shaped like a bear, holding a little plastic ring to hang it from. Not only that, but he left the price tag on it - 10 cents. Believe it or not, this was one of the best Christmas gifts he'd ever given me. I usually got nothing. To say the least, we never did get back together and that was the best gift of all!
My ex was the best gift giver. Once he gave me a box, as well as other things including a mini break to Rome, with a toy car, a letter O sparkly keyring (not my initial), 2 teabags & a tin of peas. I was confused, as you would be and he said, if you put it altogether, it's us as a couple because we go together like peas & carrots (car-O-ts). Bless him, lol.
