Somyojit
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Somyojit • upvoted 36 items 3 years ago
Hey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
There will ALWAYS be something you hate about yourself. Who knows maybe if it were to go it would cause a butterfly effect (if thats what its called) and before long you are a different person. I'd try to accept it. It will be hard work but it will be worth itHey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
There will ALWAYS be something you hate about yourself. Who knows maybe if it were to go it would cause a butterfly effect (if thats what its called) and before long you are a different person. I'd try to accept it. It will be hard work but it will be worth itHey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
Come to terms with it You need to realize that there will always be parts of you that you won't like, and you can't change that. Another way is to embrace itHey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
You must have the patience to change the things you can and accept the things you cannot. Also start with something small. For example your house is disorganized and it drives you nuts. Start by organizing a single drawer. Decide exactly what belongs in that drawer. Once decide on a home for an object its easier to keep putting it there.Hey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
Well, you have to be more specific. If you were a surgeon, you wouldn't operate without knowing what you're operating. I think the more you resist "that part," the more obsessive you become about it. I also believe that you can live with it, no matter what it is. You can also learn to stand it. If it's destructive, you really have to go deep into yourself and try to pinpoint what's destructive about it and learn to control the "bad part" of it. Just don't deny that you have these qualities, and learn to love them and accept them. Remember, everything is harmful in excess, even "good qualities." Too kind? You'll suffer personally. Too giving? You'll lose things. Etc., etc. I don't know, giving specific advice to a loosely described problem seems inaccurate, in any case.
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Hey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
There will ALWAYS be something you hate about yourself. Who knows maybe if it were to go it would cause a butterfly effect (if thats what its called) and before long you are a different person. I'd try to accept it. It will be hard work but it will be worth itHey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
Come to terms with it You need to realize that there will always be parts of you that you won't like, and you can't change that. Another way is to embrace itHey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
You must have the patience to change the things you can and accept the things you cannot. Also start with something small. For example your house is disorganized and it drives you nuts. Start by organizing a single drawer. Decide exactly what belongs in that drawer. Once decide on a home for an object its easier to keep putting it there.Hey Pandas, How Do I Make Peace With The Part Of Me Which I Can't Stand Or Live With?
Well, you have to be more specific. If you were a surgeon, you wouldn't operate without knowing what you're operating. I think the more you resist "that part," the more obsessive you become about it. I also believe that you can live with it, no matter what it is. You can also learn to stand it. If it's destructive, you really have to go deep into yourself and try to pinpoint what's destructive about it and learn to control the "bad part" of it. Just don't deny that you have these qualities, and learn to love them and accept them. Remember, everything is harmful in excess, even "good qualities." Too kind? You'll suffer personally. Too giving? You'll lose things. Etc., etc. I don't know, giving specific advice to a loosely described problem seems inaccurate, in any case.
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