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Woman Exacts Secretive Petty Revenge On “Spiritually Dry,” Overly-Religious Aunt
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Woman Exacts Secretive Petty Revenge On “Spiritually Dry,” Overly-Religious Aunt

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Much like politics, religion can be divisive enough to tear even the closest people apart. It typically happens when someone imposes their own beliefs while stubbornly rejecting those of others. 

A woman had this problem with her self-righteous aunt, who threw bible verses whenever someone brought up the idea of going to therapy for mental help. After tolerating it for long enough, she finally exacted the perfect underhanded petty revenge

She now shares her story with the Reddit community, proving that retaliation can be sweeter when the other person is unaware of it. 

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    A woman had been tolerating her bible-thumping aunt until one day, when she secretly exacted petty revenge 

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    Self-righteousness can be a defense mechanism

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    We’ve all been around that one person who believes their beliefs are infallible. They are the ones who will impose these dogmas on others, even with the risk of coming off as nonsensical. 

    They will likely be dismissive of everything outside of their belief system, much like the aunt in the story. And according to licensed psychologist Dr. Bill Crawford, such self-righteousness is a defense mechanism. 

    In an article for his website, Dr. Crawford pointed out that people with a holier-than-thou attitude act the way they do to protect themselves from being perceived as “wrong.” 

    This defensive behavior is driven by the lower 20% of the brain, and, as such, is more of a reaction than a purposefully chosen response,” he wrote. 

    Some experts connect self-righteousness with a possible narcissistic personality. As psychoanalyst Dr. Roberta Satow points out, these people may have a “clear sense of right and wrong,” but they are rigid in their beliefs and typically judge others who aren’t “on par with their standards.”

    Trying to argue with a self-righteous person is a losing battle. This is why Dr. Crawford recommends either excusing yourself from any interactions or showing empathy, recognizing that this individual is likely not thinking clearly. 

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    However, the author’s response, albeit a bit mischievous, wasn’t that bad, either. At least it gave her a sense of self-satisfaction, knowing she wasn’t tolerating such sanctimonious behavior.  

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    I'm a Visual Editor for Bored Panda. I’m also an analog collage artist. My love for images and experience in layering goes well with both creating collages by hand and working with digital images as an Editor. When I’m not using my kitchen area as an art studio I also do various experiments making my own cosmetics or brewing kombucha. When I’m not at home you would most definitely find me attending a concert or walking my dog.

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    Rafael
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    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kind of brough some memories back. I used to be religious, long time ago, was an evangelical Christian in Brazil, during the 90's and 2000's. It is s funny to notice how religion itself changed, how it moved around me, and if I wasn't paying attention, it would've dragged me too. I remember that back in my day (sorry) it had something to do with self improvement, if you knew where to look. There were denominations more concerned with social service than doctrine, and this is what won me over. But now that's a dying breed. Today the discourse of "spiritual warfare" made religion (mine at least) go hard on conservatism, exceptionalism and taboo-making. Bashing others to "elevate" your group is the norm, hence the rise in bigotry. I still feel the same way about my faith, but I don't recognize the religion anymore. Better be on my own now.

    bodhisayumi
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a lot of religious people who do not need therapy because the Bible helps them throughout their lives. But nobody should ever judge another because they need therapy. What helps one may not help another. The TRUE meaning of Christianity is to love and help everyone.

    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who thinks they'll find meaning in the writings of Bedouin tribes thousands of years ago needs therapy.

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    DH41144
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    John 3:16...Austin 3:16 says I just whipped your a*s.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Steve would have been a much better disciple

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    Rafael
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This kind of brough some memories back. I used to be religious, long time ago, was an evangelical Christian in Brazil, during the 90's and 2000's. It is s funny to notice how religion itself changed, how it moved around me, and if I wasn't paying attention, it would've dragged me too. I remember that back in my day (sorry) it had something to do with self improvement, if you knew where to look. There were denominations more concerned with social service than doctrine, and this is what won me over. But now that's a dying breed. Today the discourse of "spiritual warfare" made religion (mine at least) go hard on conservatism, exceptionalism and taboo-making. Bashing others to "elevate" your group is the norm, hence the rise in bigotry. I still feel the same way about my faith, but I don't recognize the religion anymore. Better be on my own now.

    bodhisayumi
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a lot of religious people who do not need therapy because the Bible helps them throughout their lives. But nobody should ever judge another because they need therapy. What helps one may not help another. The TRUE meaning of Christianity is to love and help everyone.

    SkyBlueandBlack
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone who thinks they'll find meaning in the writings of Bedouin tribes thousands of years ago needs therapy.

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    DH41144
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    John 3:16...Austin 3:16 says I just whipped your a*s.

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    6 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Steve would have been a much better disciple

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